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I am going to the deepweb, I know to use VPNs and ToR but what should I expect and look out for while there?
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I went on and I spent 1 hours to find a working link
> fuck off this boring shit
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>>17449520
> what should I expect?
Child Porn, Viruses, FBI, drugs, sex trafficking, hitman services, NSA, and finally a pair of handcuffs.
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>>17449520
Everytime someone asks me about visiting the deep Web I tell them this:
> Don't go on there unless you intend on contributing to the scene or unless you are gonna use it for business purposes.
> Don't lurk like an kid in Victoria's secret and just ogle all the shit that is out there.
> there are to many honeypots and to much federal attention for the risk to be worth it
> unless you have a "map" or a specific place you want to go/item you want to get, it's better if you stay away.
> unless you're into buying drugs in bulk, CP , fake documents/credentials, hacking/malware coding, or other ultra shady shit, then don't go on.
It's really not worth it if ur a normie .

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Tonight my girlfriend and I fought over something stupid. We were planning on seeing Bad Moms, which I wasn't super excited to go see, but I decided we would go later this week and so we decided to see Nerve today. A coworker asks me why I didn't want to see Bad Moms with my girlfriend (my girlfriend was obviously texting her about it) and was going on about how she'll take my girlfriend to the movies. Mind you, they talk a lot, they're both bi, and this other girl is struggling in her relationship. I told her no, I was going to take her to see it, and then she walks off saying, "I'll take your girlfriend."

Anyway, I get a text from my girlfriend saying that they're going to go see the movie and I completely flip my shit. Firstly, I didn't like how we had agreed to see the movie together (she's sat through enough of my movies that she didn't want to see so I wanted to spend time with her seeing a movie that I didn't necessarily want to see because it's fair, and I figured that it doesn't look half bad and I might enjoy it). I'm also mad because this girl, who I told not to ask my girlfriend, goes and completely disregards the fact that I told her we were going to see it.

Anyway, my girlfriend didn't understand why I was angry over the situation and eventually it got to the point where I exploded and started saying some pretty ruthless shit to her. This is the first time it had happened, but my girlfriend has seen me explode on other people for reasons that actually matter.

Anyway, I'm not sure there's anything I can say to her that would make her feel better. I realize it was a dick thing to do, regardless if I was right or wrong, and saying the shit I said isn't stuff you should say to your significant other. What should I at least try to do to make the situation better? She was breaking down in the movie she's seeing with her sister right now and I feel pretty awful.
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Stop being such a controlling prick. How old are you? Adults don't argue over shit like this because it's pointless to fucking argue about.
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You apologise for being such an asshole. You also need to be aware of the possibility that things might never be the same between you again though. She's seen you lose your shit at her and now she might fear for her safety in the future, and I don't blame her to be honest
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yeah my bf and I have gotten into some pretty bad fights, heres how to fix it; make sure both of you are calmed down, talk about it and make a sincere apology, and then have some nice makeup sex

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when ur coworker thinks u have autism becuase she asked if you watched the rio olympics and u reply when is that because u dont want to talk to her and then her mouth drops at you.
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>>17449443
i wasnt gonna say no thats boring as shit fuck off
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>Asking a question that would get a response when you don't want to talk anymore
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>>17449461
shorter response tho

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I've spent most of my time in my room and have been trying to change that in uni. For the past three years I've: gone out more with friends, started volunteering, and got an internship. I'm a senior now and none of that stuff fulfilled me at all and I'm still looking constantly for something I enjoy. It's now even getting to the point where my hobbies are starting to feel like a chore. Sleep is about the only thing I enjoy now. I'm 21 now and I don't feel like I could go through life so passionate. Any advice from any one else just coasting through life or advice from people who have found their passion?

tl;dr: not having fun with friends, being alone, work or hobbies any more. what makes you want to get out of bed in the morning or if you don't have anything what's life like for you?

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Boxing.
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>>17449408
I've taken up sports, but I don't think I could do boxing.
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>>17449398
studying for a state board exam is the only thing that keeps me going

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I know everyone hates their boss. Well almost everyone. Basically I started my new job about 2 1/2 months ago. I work at a place that produces high end good etc( not glamorous but it works). Anyways upon started my boss had gone through a huge turnover in workers , 1 of the had gotten hurt and the other was perusing another endeavor and decided to cut hours. Anyways I get there and work my 1st day. Cleaning is a shared experience between workers and generally is fair. WRONG. My boss showed me of the machines (which should be cleaned on the daily but had magically been untouched for what she said was 6 months...WHAT THE FUCK. Anyways...shit just seems to go undone unless I'm there. Recently I missed a few days of work...when I came back HOLY SHIT let me tell you..it was like nobody had done a fucking thing. My boss also had the fucking nerve to get at me for using to much cleaner on the machine...claiming "its leaving a stain". It just seems like my boss is so disorganized yet takes so much fucking pride in having everything irrelevant "neat and tidy"..mind you its a fucking pigstye. Boss also has no fucking class and constantly leaves their mess behind for others "the workers" to clean. Which is neither here nor their since I am a paid employee but shit I'm not my bosses fucking maid. Anyways...how can I make it clear to my boss that shit is fucking messed up and needs to be corrected or else I'm out.
I honestly don't know how they have been in business for so long.
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Anon, this is your opportunity to step up and become the leader that this company needs.
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>>17449401
You have no idea. From my first week I have been stepping out...I generally work independently and occasionally oversee a staff of 1 or 2 (nothing crazy). I do everything from interacting with vendors, suppliers, so on and so fourth. I made mention that we should have a cleaning regiment but that turned into me just doing it because my boss is a diluted fucking idiot who is more obsessed with tiny fucking details than huge ones.
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Its clearly a monkey company.

They dont need you. Youre better th an that place.

If you say your gonna quit they wont beg you to stay... theyll hire another monkey to do your job.

Just find anoyher job anon.

I have been in a long distance relationship with a girl for 5 years. She lives in Tunisia and I live in the US.
We were making plans to visit each other this coming Christmas but she recently developed breast cancer.
The relationship has always been difficult because of the distance between us but now that the cancer has been brought into the mix things have gotten really bad.
Her health is getting worse by the day and there's a very good chance I'm never going to see her.
It has been incredibly hard on me but even worse for her. Her family life has always been bad her parents don't seem to care much about her health and they say terrible things to her.
I wish I could fly out to her and get her better treatment but I am very low on cash.
I don't know what to do about this. It's a strange feeling being far enough away to let go but still feeling emotionally attached.
It's a feeling that has worn on us both.
I don't expect everyone to understand but if you were in my shoes what would you do?

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don't sweat it, she's not real anyway
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>>17449361
She is though, we talk with face time
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You have 2 options. A) Buck up get some money and fly your ass over there and make her happy before she checks out for good. B) Tell her how you feel and hope she makes it through then when you have the money go out and see her.

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How is one to go about enjoying isolation without harboring disdain for others? Currently, I'm at the stage where I enjoy being alone, or with close friends, but can't stand others. Most people don't offer anything of any kind of value. I don't want to be a misanthrope, but it's really hard when 90-something% of people you see are shallow normies. Is there a way to look past people's flaws without being naive, or do you do something else, /adv/?
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>>17449303
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>>17449335
So, literally solitary confinement? I've actually thought about it - only snag being I'd have to commit a crime... right?
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>>17449340
No not literally. But if that guy can get over it, you can too. Being alone is a blessing in disguise anon. You learn who you are when you are alone. That guy discovered he likes to write shitty stories. I discovered, when I was going through what you were going through, that I love boxing and within the next 6 months I'm going to get my pro license.

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What is the proper etiquette for talking to girls in swimsuits?
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Stare at their eyes and talk like a normal fucking being. Not that much different than talking to girls not in bikinis.
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>>17449321
>Never take your eyes off her tits/ass.
>Whenever you talk massage your crotch
>Always offer free massages or you can offer to put the lotion, at the same time you should have your tongue out and saliva should be pouring out.
>Straight up tell her u want to fuck

These are guaranteed to work.
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>>17449325
Is it possible to do this too much so she notices I'm trying not looking at her body?

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My brother failed uni and now basically is heading down the road of NEETness. How can I help him? He didn't do well in college and he failed his first foundation year of uni. (UK). My parents are worried and stressed about his future and he seems to not care and basically.has given up.

What could I recommend him that'd be an alternative to uni, since it'd be a waste to pay another £9000.

I hear stuff about going into trades and stuff but is that only America? I was trying to reccommend apprenticeships and maybe that'd be his only option possibly. Any help is appreciated
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>>17449302
what are his interests?
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>>17449585
I honestly don't know. Maybe science or geology but those are the things he basically didn't focus on and failed
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>>17449302
>and basically.has given up
Sabbatical year. Throw him on a plane, tell him to come back in 2017 with pics from at least 4 continents.

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Ok /adv/ so a few days ago a friend that I have been talking to for months just straight up told me they no longer want to talk to me anymore when we were in the middle of a decent conversation. When asked if they were joking or not they said they were serious about cutting contact with me and they provided no info on why they were doing it. This has happened with 4 other people in the past each one having no relation to the other so it couldn't be rumors or anything like that causing them to do this. Why do these people hate me after taking the time let me get remotely close to them? Should I confront the most recent person and ask them why they no longer want anything to do with me? I really want to know why they do this because every fucking time they do this it leaves me with a brief feeling of my heart dropping, I end up feeling like shit for a few days, and it ends up damaging my already non-existent self esteem and confidence.
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youre probably annoying as fuck.

Ive dropped contact with a few cunts who just have annoying personalities coz i dont want that kinda person around me.
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>>17449452
But why spend months or even years talking to me if I was being annoying faggot? If I was being annoying the least they could have done is told me. The only thing I did that could have been considered annoying to them was sending them link to videos that I think they might be interested in but even then I would only do that like once or twice a month it's not like I was sending them 37 YouTube links a day.
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Have you done anything legally or socially wrong?

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>Be 6'0", pale, dark blonde white guy. Grew up in a Christian home.
>Dress well, clean shaven, go to the gym and work out daily.
>Going to school for a bachelor's degree
>Working as a cook
>Pretty good mannered all be it honest but I mean well
>Living at home taking care of my Grandma and mentally ill brother
>Meet girl in college
>We become good friends, she asks me out and we start dating
>Finally meet her parents this week
>Find out her parents are from Japan...
>Apparently her Dad loves Kurosowa films too, which is one thing we talked about on our first date.

First off I'm not scared, but I am worried. How will they react when they find out their daughter is going out with a white western guy? In other words am I doomed?
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>>17449284
>Find out her parents are from Japan...

Are they living in Japan?

You'll be fine, white skin is still quite the thing here in Japan. In fact if it doesn't work out with your gf you can come here and blast pussy almost effortlessly if you're actually telling the truth about how you look like.
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>>17449292
I normally get 7/10 and 8/10 on rate threads. Decent I guess. They are in the US as of now. My parents met her and they gave her the OK.
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>>17449305
Should be smooth sailing from now on, until divorce then she will kidnap the kids back to Japan and you will be pretty much fucked because the judges here 99.9999℅ of the time they will side with the J mommy. This is pretty much your only worry from this point on.

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I got out of high school and didn't go to school, I worked retail and got lucky when my Aunt's office had a file clerk job opening.
I worked that job for a few months until I had done everything they needed, and then used the fact I had worked federally before to apply for other federal jobs.
I work seasonally for the government now, so realistically I'm making 35k a year but I could become full-time if I wanted.
I'm going to be blunt - I want to make a lot of money, and I feel like a government job isn't the way to do that. I'm planning on going to school for something, but I really don't know what to go to school for. As of right now I've considered business management, accounting, or computer systems networking, but I'm unsure if any of those will give me the opportunities I'll need to move up and secure a fairly good income.
I'm really not sure where to start, and I don't want to come across as someone who wants to just "fall into" the right thing. I just want to go down the right path - work extremely hard - and I want to make a lot of money preferably before 30. I'm worried about picking the wrong path, working hard at nothing, and setting myself back a few years.
What should I be doing, where should I be aiming? What are the good careers to go for? I feel like I'm good at networking and have always had good relationships with managers and supervisors.
As of now my gameplan is something like, go to school for something that interests me (CSN, accounting) and use my federal work experience as a stepping stone to make at least 55k. I think that's my biggest advantage vs. people my age who just went right into school. Once working full-time I can use my skills that I learn from each job to apply at higher-earning positions, and use those job offers to discuss salary and other potential job opportunities.
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investment banking
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>>17449283
I'll look into this, thank you
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Any advice about what fields to look into?

Would computer systems networking or financing be good?

How bad of a choice would law be?

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Should I be happy with this? (Pic related, it's what I'm suppost to be happy with.)
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>>17449271
why the hell no
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>>17449286
it depends on how many candies it gave you
i think 50 is max with a magikarp
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>>17449271
One day, it will evolve into a sea serpent. That alone is the reward.

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I'm turning 20 at the end of the month.
I graduated with the minimum marks because I didn't like school and I dislike studying, I literally begged my professors.
I never worked even one day of my life.
I never liked a girl back, and no girls have liked me back either, so I'm a kissless virgin faggot with insecurities.
I'm in love with a person I have no way of seeing besides asking her to hang out, and she has a boyfriend she's very in love with.
I basically have no more friends.
Once in a while I try to get into something new to try to lift me up and stop being a literal slug, but I fail to keep up with that interest and go back to being depressed after just a few weeks.
I fell like I messed up so bad, and other people on 4chan often state that it doesn't get better.
I'm in a state of mind that won't let me change my situation and be happy.
Is there any way to make my life worth living before I die at least? Is there something I can do to revert the wizardry process and get a job, a house and a wife? Because I always felt like that's everything I ever wanted, but I was always so unlucky to never find any opportunity to sieze.
My teenager years of having actual fun sometimes and just not caring are over and people want me to just "get over it" for whatever problem I have, of course not caring about my depression.
Can I still do something while I still have some hope left? I feel like I'll be ready to kill myself on my birthday if I haven't figured it out then.
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Work out. Weightlifting, specifically. Not being a scrawny faggot is the first step to confidence, which is the first step to getting over this. I speak from experience as I was in the same place as you at your age, I'm 23 now. Of course working out is just the start but it's a good one. Just trust me.
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>>17449386
My latest interest was MMA fighting, but as I said, keeping up with the training every day is too hard and I always find excuses to give up.
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>>17449432
Well, I don't know much about MMA, but the way I kept weightlifting up is by not just weightlifting itself, but by turning it into a lifestyle. This means constantly improving your exercise regime, but also eating the right foods. To an autist like myself this research was fun and kept me engaged for a long while.

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I don't think my boyfriend can keep up with my libido and I don't really like masturbating. How do I make him fuck me more?
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This isn't a problem. Fuck off.
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>>17449239
viagra ground up in every meal
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