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I was with a girl for four months, and came to the point that she want to introduce me to his parents. She showed me her parents then immediately went to walk she's dog. When we went back into the house, his parents just shelling vegetables, I sat down next to them, not a word spoken to me, I tried to start a conversation, but in addition to the one or two-word responses, nothing happened. I spent the night with the girl, the next morning the mother woke her up to go for help cook lunch. I climb out of bed, and then I asked her and her mom, "Can I help you with something?" but the answer was no, so I went back to the girl's room and rested a little longer. We sat down for lunch, there is no attempt from her parents to communicate with me, the main topic of discussion was that of their neighbors what idiots (good topic for me because i'm surely know they neighbors, so i can discuss about them...). At the end of lunch, I asked if I could help in washing up the dishes, her mom also were told that I can't. Subsequently, two days later, the girl broke up with me, all of this in chat because her parents did not like me because I did not help in the kitchen and I'm not talking to them. That was a week ago. I heard my colleagues that now it disgusted me as if I were the devil himself ...
And here comes the part that I spoke today with her best friend and it turned out that she was in love with me and try to get through this is to show hatred towards me because it easier for hem to bear the sorrow. Now we have two people who love each other and suddenly because of the parents she hates me . But I was still love her and she love me , but I can not begin to hate whatever she was doing.
So do you think I should write to her ( personally I can not talk to him because of the work shift when I see only when there is no opportunity like that ) that I want to talk with her about this things , or rather leave it alone and try to forget?
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Move on. This is classic Romeo and Juliet.
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>>17456114
Due to the absurd humor of the life, the girl named Julia, but thanks god i'm not Romeo
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>>17456099
Talk to her about it, faggot. Factually you should have talked to her about it the moment she gave you that retarded breakup reason.
have been in an online relationship with a girl for almost 2.5 years. shes crazy about me and i think i am too. i find comfort in talking to her unlike anyone i talk to. shes always available to me as am i to her. but i talk to other girls online a lot,currently flirting/trading pictures with 3-5 other girls and fucked another girl a few months ago. am i a bad guy? i dont think i could ever tell her this. do i have issues? i slightly feel like im settling with her but i dont think ill ever meet someone that likes me and is available to me all the time and is so attractive.
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>>17456076 (OP)
I hate to brake it to you man but what people call love.....
It's just a chemical. reaction that compels animals to breed
It kicks hard and then slowly fades away
I did it you did it c'mon anon break the circle focus on science
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dont worry, online and long distance relationships aren't real relationships.
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>>17456091
yeah but we plan on moving in together asap
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Should I go through with this? Red flags? Girl really likes me? 2016-08-13 07:49:31 Post No.17456059
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Should I go through with this? Red flags? Girl really likes me?
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>Female friend wants to set me up with her friend.
>Not too big on blind dates/whatever
>Girl thinks I'm really attractive. According to friend "She hasn't been enthusiastic about liking someone or even the prospect of liking someone but ever since I mentioned you she's seemed more so than usual. She re-downloaded twitter just to follow you."
>She's not unattractive or anything. She's cute, but not my usual type. I'm more into nerdy/rough types, she seems more of a girly girl, but friend insists we'd get along well.
>I feel the need to give it a shot though, as she seems interested, and it's not like women are barking up my tree regularly
>She lives in my hometown an hour and a half away from where I moved to for college.
>I'm starting college, she's starting her senior year. I'm 20 in a few months, she's a few months into being 17
For some reason, her alleged enthusiasm about talking to me/meeting me is putting me on edge. Like I wanna give it a shot, but this is following the same pattern as my last relationship did, in which the girl was EXTREMELY CLINGY and it was a very messy breakup. I don't want to repeat that.
>Really enthusiastic about meeting from just hearing about me
>Re-downloaded an app to follow me on
>Friend gave me her number. I was out of town and busy. I planned on texting her later. I got a message two hours later from friend asking "She keeps wondering if you're gonna text her."
>Friend says that girl gets really anxious about these things, but other than that has her shit together. Like she's a small time musician and performs at small gigs and shit.
Are any of these things I should worry about, or am I just freaking out in fear of repeating an unhealthy relationship?
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Did you read some Jaques Lacan? This is your phantom...you are freaking out man, but that is ok if this girl is for you she is going to love your good side and your shit side.
Chill
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>>17456059
Give it a go, my dude.
I'm sure there a people out there that would kill to be in your position.
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How the hell do I find a girl that is interesting? 2016-08-13 07:46:04 Post No.17456053
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How the hell do I find a girl that is interesting?
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I've met girls and befriended them. I've texted them hoping it'll be fun but it always seems to get boring within a few days to a week.
There was an ex of mine who was interesting only because I just heard a bunch of normie gossip from her. We weren't anything alike and i changed around her so i wouldn't have to feel lonely anymore. Couldnt take faking anymore so that ended.
I'm not even lonely from being rejected, I just can't seem to get interested in a girl on any level above "she is hot enough to fuck"
A lot of the times I'll daydream fantasies about certain scenarios with girls. Not even sexual, just talking about what I find interesting.
What do? How do I find someone who won't be a chore to keep a conversation with?
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Well what do you find interesting?
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My interests seem to change often but as far as I've noticed I like to talk about bigger picture things in people's lives. I'd prefer to talk about the heavy stuff than Sally's baseball tryouts going well.
I like simple philosophy topics along with psychology
Most hobbies tend to switch frequently. I play video games and watch shows but only when I've nothing else to do. And browse the internet i guess if you wanna count that.
But I really feel what divides me is my sense of humor. Others would describe as odd or just in bad taste. I also like to talk about topics other would consider taboo. I don't give much thought to norms and such.
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>>17456106
>But I really feel what divides me is my sense of humor. Others would describe as odd or just in bad taste. I also like to talk about topics other would consider taboo. I don't give much thought to norms and such.
Why didn't you just say you were autistic?
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Can someone who has learned swiss german and successfully integrated into swiss culture point me to the resources he used? I've mostly found books on german and from what I've read they're completely different languages with different pronunciation rules and grammar. Any other tips much appreciated
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I'm studying Japanese language in uni, but I can offer some universal language learning advice.
Immerse yourself in the language as much as possible. Watch movies, browse the internet, read books, talk to people. I made my internet homepage a Japanese news site have to look at Japanese everytime I want to browse the internet. The key to getting good at a language is not just practicing it, but making it a part of your daily life
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>>17456046
Seriously, just fuck off
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actual swiss german person from there speaking here. You can just talk germany's german here as a foreigner, nobody expects you to speak dialect (of which there are like 10 variations across the country anyway). Even germans living here for decades (supposedly the group that has it the easiest to learn the dialect) do an absolutely awful job at it.
And swiss german is spoken only, most people write in germany's german.
> I've read they're completely different languages with different pronunciation rules and grammar.
There's maybe a handful of small grammar things, like, we have no "real" past tense, (meaning you can't say "he memed", only "he has memed"), but that's by far the biggest difference. Pronunciation can be very different though, and we have quite a few words that only exist in the dialect. It's essentially like comparing scottish english to american english, maybe a bit more extreme. And again there are many regional differences. People from Bern or Zurich have trouble understanding people from Sion (mountainious area in the lower west of the country) when the guys from Sion go full hardmode.
The best way to learn it is to come here and listen to people speak it.
Have some music
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=PkGatIgXERI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xce-W9LWM44
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8hmVEFmF-pU
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My gf accuses me of being indifferent and cold because I don´t talk and that she initiates it all the time. Last two weeks I would barely reply back a few words, regardless of being home or at work. I don´t know what to say besides ¨hi, how´s your day?'. if I have something to say, I will, but that's that. How bad is this?
I'm very solitary, have only one friend I talk to rarely and generally like to keep to myself and spend time alone. Socially engaging is tiresome and often boring, I dislike chit chat and giggling about nonsense (she likes it). Problem is that I could go for days or weeks without seeing or talking to her and wouldn't consider it a break up. I'm gonna try communicate more but it may not work since it's how I've been all my life, unfortunately. Is this relationship doomed because of our differences? Should I give up on human contact?
I'm afraid of losing her (we've been together for almost a year) I'm nearing my 30s and becoming harder to bond with people at the surface, much less at a deeper level for a relationship or just getting to know each other. Plus everyone is kinda married with kids now.
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How in the world did you manage to get a girlfriend with barely speaking to her?
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The only advice I can give you is try to talk to her about it and how you're feeling. Let her know it's okay to go out and see her own friends and do her own thing while you focus on your own thing(s). Let her know you still love her and that you'll engage in conversation when you're ready. If she doesn't understand your boundaries and keeps pushing it, it may be time to end things and move on.
I recently started dating someone new about 2 months ago. Before we were ever "official" I made damn sure he understood how solitary I can be. When I'm having an "episode" of wanting to be alone, he's very awesome at finding other things to do such as playing video games or going out with his friends. He respects my personal space and the boundaries I have laid out. He knows I am affectionate on my own terms and not his. The few times he's tried to be affectionate and I wanted to be alone, all I had to do was express my disposition and he would fuck off. I still very much care about him and want him to be a constant in my life, but I do have to remind him occasionally to fuck off and leave me to my vices. But at least he understands when I remind him and he can't say I didn't warn him, I told him about my solitary-habits prior to us ever really dating.
If she doesn't respect your boundaries, then I'm sure you'll find someone who will... I did and I never thought that would be possible.
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>>17456013
Neither of you deserve relationships. Relationships are a give and take. Another person with needs exists, besides you two selfish cunts. Just be alone. Don't fool people into thinking you're capable of being in a normal, loving relationship when you're clearly not. It's not all about you and your fucking needs all the time. Jesus fucking Christ.
WHY are you required to have health insurance in the United States? How did the government get away with it? Every source I click on just explains THAT you need health insurance, not WHY.
It's outright disgusting and dystopian.
Is this normal in other countries too?
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>>17456008
Yeah, but they don't charge you for it. If you are low income though you can just get medicaid which will be either free or really cheap depending on your income.
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Because merricans would cry if their taxes went up to pay for national healthcare.
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>>17456011
I don't believe in medicine or surgery though, I'm perfectly comfortable with suicide in the event of being horribly injured. Why should I have to go through the paperwork and phone calls (worse than the price honestly) for services I would refuse?
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Video editors of /adv/ please help
I am trying to re create this video effect in SonyVegasPro 12 and After effects but I am not sure how to even begin. Do any of you know how make this effect or know what the effect is called?
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I asked /wsr/ but no response yet. Video links or any help in general is appreciated
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Split color channels and offset them. Use a purple tint. Overlay VHS timecode and scanlines.
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Is that really it? I thought there would be more to it. Thank you so much anon!
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Will a girl ever friendzone a good looking (8+/10) guy? Why would an aesthetic brah even be friendzoned ?
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You are either trolling, underaged, or extremely stupid.
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>>17456000
Why do you think that?
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>>17455996
Bump??
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>tfw you're just 1 person out of 7.5 billion in the world
How do you guys deal with existential dread?
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>>17455987
Smoke weed, get drunk, fuck bitches, eat good food, enjoy the company of those you love
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>>17455989
I hate drugs, I can't get bitches, I'm overweight so I force myself to eat veggies, and no one actually loves me, my family just tolerates me.
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>>17455995
Seems like existential dread is the least of your worries, m8.
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What kind of firearm/weapon should I get to protect my apartment and my shit from thieves/bandits/niggers/raiders?
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Research local laws. Find out what is legal. Try everything within the legal bounds. Select which is most ergonomic to you. Train with it often.
Do not get attatched. If you have to use it, the police are taking it away regardless of justification or legality.
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>>17455979
>If you have to use it, the police are taking it away regardless of justification or legality.
That's actually good advice. I didn't think about that. Thanks!
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>>17455973
First line of defense: don't live in an high-crime zone.
Secondly, do you think your raiders will be armed? If you think so, move already. In many places the law gets a lot harsher on the thief if they are armed, so they might not be.
Third, get a dog. Nobody raids a place with a guard dog, when there are some without.
If you really want weapons, your best bet is probably one of those pistol-shotguns, or some kind of rugged rifle that will work mostly as a more intimidating baseball bat. But if it gets to that, you're really in a bad neighborhood, most thieves should flee when seeing you and your dog.
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I need some late bloomer stories. I am 18 but everyone I run into thinks that I'm either 14 or 15. I went to a party the other day and many of the girls thought I was a high-school student. Everyone in my family is tall so I assume that I'm just a late bloomer. M-my jawline just started coming in and I just got some peach fuzz.
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Are you sure you aren't suffering from any hormonal disorder? You probably aren't but it might be worth checking out. Apart from that I don't have much to add. I had a shit time in high school because of being a late bloomer, but my self-esteem recovered pretty well when I finally started looking like a man and not a boy. By the time you're 21 you'll be fine.
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>>17455966
I'm in the same boat OP. I'm turning 19 in Novemebr. I've always looked young and I am still short (5'7) and skinny.
I still have that young kid ribcage thing goin on. so I dont have anything nice to show under my shirt.
I've always had weird body hair where I have a lot of hair in some places and none in other places. I just started growing facial hair last year and it's still hard to even do that. Its the only thing i have currently that adds age to my face.
really hoping for a growth spurt or some shit soon
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>I am 18 but everyone I run into thinks that I'm either 14 or 15
I'm 22. When I was bullshitting with the pizza guy, he guessed high school. There is no late blooming for me. You still have a chance, but if it doesn't work out, you'd better embrace that youthful look you have. You can be manly in demeanor, but you will never have rugged good looks. I suggest just becoming beautiful instead.
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My boyfriend of a year and I recently broke up but we are still living in the same house together. It was for the best and we were both amicable about it however I am finding it very hard to deal with especially since he is my best friend and I no longer have that support. His baby mama and son moved in from California shortly after we broke up and while I know it's selfish I get sad when I see themy hanging out together. I want to hang out with him but he ignores me and I feel trapped in my room whenever I am not at work. I am planning on moving out at the end of September but it's only been like this a week and I am really miserable. How can I stop feeling this, should I avoid him, talk to him, or approach him at all. I don't want him back romantically I just want my friend back.
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Am I being pathetic y/n
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>17455955
Honestly you should only come home to sleep and maybe eat. Stay away from that toxic environment as much as possible. Whether that means going for a walk, going to the gym, going bowling, or any other activity you enjoy.
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>>17455955
>baby mama
Stop reading at his fucking ebonics.
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I live with my parents but I can't stand it anymore, they are constantly bugging me for money, and they're extremely abusive so I just need out. Not to mention we are being kicked out because my parents use the money for other things instead of rent.
Problem is, I work online, so if I move I have to move somewhere that has internet asap - I live in Australia. I don't have a drivers licence or passport and I work cash-in-hand so I won't be able to just apply for a house and I can't live with other people. I can live with other people but my daily life will be so hindered I'd probably just kill myself. Are there any options for me? I don't have any friends or other family that have internet at their house, and I'm a girl so I'd rather not stay at any dodgy places.
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Apartment complex maybe?
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>>17455937
Thanks, I'll look into that.
Here's hoping I can find a place that will take Paypal and/or cash in hand without any questions.
I'd be willing to pay a months rent upfront ever single time if need be. I'd just really to live in a stable home for more than 6 months.
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>>17455911
Granny flats, heaps if people rent them out privately.
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I don't like my drunk self(?) 2016-08-13 06:09:38 Post No.17455904
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I don't like my drunk self(?)
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Well, shit, I don't like myself much when I'm drunk.
How I behave also depends on the people I'm with.
When I'm with people I know and trust, I start kissing them, cheeks and lips, gender does not matter.
When I'm with people I barely know, I can also get a bit touchy, and I don't stop even when I'm told to. I also get somewhat defensive, but never aggressive.
Also, I always fucking text my ex, more like, sing to my ex in voice messages, although, I had never felt shame in this, and was able to laugh it off the day after, but not this time.
What I need is to come to terms with my drunk self, 'cus it's just myself without inhibitions. But I cannot stop feeling shame, when I am with people I don't know much. Maybe I'm just too self conscious?
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You're an alcoholic and you need to stop drinking
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Then...stop drinking??? Why is this a question. Literally all your problems would be solved if you quit drinking so much. You sound exhausting to be around when drunk, honestly.
>sing to my ex in voice messages
Do you not understand how creepy and weird that is? And stop sexually harassing people you nitwit.
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OP here, I actually get that drunk only once every 2 months.