How do I appreciate myself more? Looks wise?
I've been maintaining a facial routine, and treating my body and face with care, but I still see repulsive, am I better off just getting plastic surgery?
It's to the point where I cry myself every night and don't go outside often.
Am grill btw xd
What does you being a girl have to do with your question?
Idk get good at makeup.
>will getting plastic surgery fix my crippling psychological problems???
Lol idk
>>17458404
are you fat?
if you are fat your face is going to keep being shit no matter what
i don't know post a pic of your face i guess
>Is it a fucking meme or legit?
>>17458402
Its a meme. Not masturbating won't make you any less of a frumpy sperg.
It's legit. Muhammad Ali would go celibate months before fights in order to maximize his aggression.
It basically turns you into a knuckle dragger because you get the blue balls, but also it makes you more sexually aggressive and want to try harder to get women.
A lot of it has to do with where you fap too. Like if you fap at your computer and then spend all day at your computer. Your computer spot is gonna feel all fappy and then it's gonna make your room and your life feel like fap zone.
It's not really about not fapping, it's more about doing other shit besides fapping because it's too easy of a reward.
Like don't sit at home smoking pot all day. Go out and enjoy some shit and then smoke pot at night. Same general concept.
b for interest
Hey /adv/,
My girlfriend and I are having an argument and I need to know if what I'm doing is right or wrong:
My cat has recently been diagnosed with feline diabetes. Due to this, and my schedule with schooling, I am being forced to wake up around 7:00 AM and I need to be home 7:00 PM to give my cat an insulin injection.
Since I have gotten in to this new routine, I have been going to sleep much earlier than I used to. I used to be able to stay up much later, like practically up to 2AM, but now I am going to sleep around 11PM. I get home around 7:00 to give my cat her shots,and after an hour I am basically getting ready to go to bed.
I have to leave my girlfriend's house around 6:30 because of this, and if I ever bring her to my house I am tired and done by like 8:00, so she is saying it is unfair of me to do that to her. She feels that it is bullshit that I have to go at 6:30 each day to fulfill my responsibility, and she also feels it is bullshit that I have to take her home so much earlier that we used to be able to.
tl;dr - I am forced to wake up at 7, my girl wakes up whenever she wants (like 11:30 most of the time) and due to circumstances my day ends around 7:00PM socially. She feels she deserves better than that.
Any advice on what I should do?
Let me get this straight: your cat's sickness is making you maintain a healthy sleep schedule and that makes you the bad guy?
>>17458329
You've made a lifestyle adjustment, and if it sounds like a necessary one like you say it is, then she can adapt or leave.
Wait for a bit to get into your routine to see if your energy adapts--you shouldn't be overly sleepy at 8 with a schedule like yours. This'll mean more potential time with your girlfriend.
What does she expect you to do? Let your cat suffer so you can spend more time with her?
Basically I have been working at this place for like 3 months . Aside from the boss not being one the work is horrible and there is not enough hours. Busy season starts in a couple of weeks and I know for a fact the work is going to pick up. Thing is I found a better job , the pay is a bit better but I would be back to less hours. So basically its either a ton of hours at a shit wage or a modest amount at something a bit better. I'm going with the pay raise here... My boss is going to flip out but w.e. Anyone have a similar thing happen? What ended up happening. Before anyone says boss wont care, they will just find another worker..true..but not at this place. My boss lost two long term employees 1 to an injury and one cut hours to go for a gig they like. Since then ( 6 mo ago they have gone through 4 employees) I have a feeling this is going to be a rough one.
So... Man tf up??? Tell your boss you got an offer with better pay, don't mention you'll lose hours. Tell him you don't want to screw him over like his past employees have but finance wise you need to take this job to get by (even if u don't say it). Ask for a raise see what happens. If he says fuck off then take the other job.
Is this retail or what? Seasonal or are you a regular ft employee at either? Or pt? U could get more hours at that other place eventually... Happened with me was working full time +++ at a mcds making shit for everything I did, then I applied at a company in the warehouse cause my bro worked there & he'd get a bonus for a referral... Anyway, the new job would only be 3 days a week but payed $3 than mcds... Brought this to the store manager offered me a 10 cent wage if I went from crew trainer to manager trainee. Uhm bye. Worked at the warehouse eventually got on as full time seasonal now full time regular in a diff department, full benefits & everything... If this company is really good & a really good opportunity, don't blow it just cause you don't want to let someone (yo boss) down. Don't let yourself down faggot
>>17458347
Its not retail. I work in this stupid niche skilled trades industry where its impossible to find competent employees because you actually have to have a skillset. I think you are elaborating WAYYY to much when you quit . I think my boss is going to FLIP...considering the other guy cut this hours to do his own thing and probably wont work on my days as he barley can work on his and trys to switch with e all the fucking time...mind you hes a 45 yr old man. The other guy I work with is just as new as me and just as dissatisfied. I only worry that hes gunna quit before me and fuck my plans up
>>17458364
>my boss is going to FLIP
so? it's his problem, not yours. what's he going to do, fire you?
>The other guy I work with is just as new as me
>hes gunna quit before me and fuck my plans up
so? you're leaving soon. give your notice, work your last couple days/weeks as best you can, and then go enjoy your new job.
why are you acting as if any of this is your concern? are they gonna show up at your new job and make you do your old work?
My girlfriend has been consistently texting her guy friend for 7 months now. How can I tell if this guy is a beta orbiter or a chad who is going to cuck me eventually?
Wouldn't worry about it. Your girl already is planning for the future. She's gonna fuck someone else eventually.
>>17458312
Wtf does that even mean anon
>>17458308
he's not an orbiter since she has never introduced you to the guy. he is your replacement that she keeps in case you fuck up
My teenage niece is the hugest bitch of all time. She has this irrational hatred for her mom (my sister) and seems to take pleasure in bringing problems around. My sister gives her all the love and care in the world, her daughter is her entire universe and has been ever since she was born, but this brat just throws that all back in her face. It just makes me so mad, I am so sick of her driving my sister to tears. All she wants is a functional, loving relationship with her daughter. The dad fucked off not long after she was born so all they have is each other. I love her more than anyone and her hellspawn is slowly killing her inside.
My question is is this my business, and if it is what can I do about it? I feel like it's something they need to figure out on their own but it's so hard and hurts so much to see.
>teenage
thats the problem. she'll grow out of it eventually
Your sister is a whore who got pumped and dumped by some bad boy. What makes you think she is a good mother? Further more, even if she was a perfect mother after the fact of getting impregnated, what makes you think she is entitled to any respect from her daughter, when she couldn't even give her a father. Your sister is a whore and good for nothing. You're just a white knight faggot. The displaced blame is incredible on your part. I'm sure mental gymnastics run in the family you insufferable cretin.
teenagers experience fluctuating hormone levels; reinforcing low self esteem and insecurity.
she's probably reacting harshly to your sister because she doesn't feel she deserves her kind treatment. Teenage girls man, i dunno either
I'm not too sure if I'm posting in the right board or not, and I honestly don't know what to do. I'm technologically inept and I have nobody to turn to but 4chan, and that doesn't leave me with a ton of wiggle room.
The issue: My hard drive roasted about a month ago during an outage. I bought a new drive and torrented Windows 8.1 onto a flash drive. I started it up and I have no idea how to boot from the flash drive.
>>17458269
Find out how to go to BIOS from your specific machine. There's a boot device selection tab, don't remember exactly what it's called.
Look up a tutorial or go to the technology board
>>17458323
Exactly right, it normally is on of the Function keys (f1,f2, etc)
Hey /adv/,
Last night I was watching the Olympics with my girlfriend, it was the women's boxing. And I said this:
"I know that it's 100% the fault of fucked up men who abuse women, but if it was mandatory for everyone to learn how to defend themselves - there would be so much less rape and shit in the world."
shitstorm.jpeg
She went on and on about how I was so privileged and shit when I was making an honest point. There will ALWAYS be fucking mentally off kilter people who think it's ok to abuse people/people who lack empathy and get off on it. So why not learn to defend yourself?
It makes no sense to me.
Help me understand?
there are some things you're not supposed to say even if they are true
This makes me rage. Why can't we talk about problems in society? Men need to be educated on how to respect women and women need to be able to defend themselves.
Basic fucking math.
Does your girlfriend have any of the following:
- a tumblr
- a nose ring/stud
- blue/purple/green hair
- over 50 lbs. of adipose tissue
>Snapchatting with a girl that's attracted to me from a night club
>She sends me
>"I'm always watching lol" and "I find out everything"
What did she mean by this?
>>17458245
she stalks all of ur social media for sure
anything you've liked or commented on, she's seen
this bitch must've been looking through some sort of social media yeah.
WAIT A MINUTE OP. What if she's in this very thread RIGHT NOW.
So after a bit of a rough night last night, I spent the day collecting new Tinder matches. I have never been the champion of wooing girls with my charm online or in person for that matter, but I have had one great fuck from a girl I met on the app. I have also been on two so-so dates plus one trainwreck.
Anyway, getting pussy would be really good for me right now, so I want to know what and when I could message any these girls (pic related) tonight to catch them when they are feeling open enough to meet with stranger they met online. Preferably I would love to skip a bar and either have them over or go over to their places. I am definitely just interested in sex, but want to keep it fun and respectful.
Any experience or thoughts here?
Should I get some drinks to have around in case they do want to come by?
Bump, if not tonight. General tinder/dating advice.
I only use tinder to raise my low self esteem.
>>17458283
Yea me too, but taking it one step further validate my existence and sexuality with physical contact. Fuck me, right?
So I've been dealing with clinical depression for 7 years, diagnosed and everything, nothing has really helped me or had a long lasting effect one me or my mood, therapist, anti-depressants you name it.
Overall I just feel beaten now, I feel as if I'm only living to make the people around me happy, rather than genuinely wanting to live everyday.
This probably isn't the place to post this but I wanted to know if anyone here has dealt with long lasting depression and if this something I'm going to have to come to terms with or if there's just something I haven't done in these 7 years.
6 years and in the same position as you. Shit fucking sucks.
>>17458237
3 years for me. Feel as if I'm nearing your situation already.
15 years reporting in. I've had 4 major episodes so far. I've just accepted it and am just living out of seer stubbornness.
Alright, which one of you did this?
http://nypost.com/2016/08/13/2-wounded-in-queens-shooting/?utm_campaign=SocialFlow&utm_source=NYPFacebook&utm_medium=SocialFlow&sr_share=facebook
Probably someone from /pol/
I don't know, but we should find out so we can all chip in and give him a trophy.
>>17458197
Sorry /adv
I posted this by accident here...please forgive me!
Hey /adv/ I'm sperging out over nothing and I need your help.
I'm interested in getting to know an acquaintance I've "known" for like 7 years. (classmates, and attend same public Uni)
We barely interacted before now, and only recently she offered me a place to stay in between apartment leases (after I asked publicly for help)
It turns out that I was able to work out with the landlord a move in early day, so I won't be needing the help, and told her.
We have a lot of similar interests, but no real mutual friends. Im not interested in dating her, just want to be friends. How do I fucking talk to her? Over text, no less...
Is it cool to just slide right into conversation after she acknowledges my message? Start off with asking how her summers been?
I just feel stuck because I'm making a pretty strong distinction that I've only talked to her for "business," be it project or such.
Help me find my tongue.
She offered you a place to stay? Isn't that indication enough that she wants to get to know you?
>>17458199
Is it though? Or is it just helping out someone when you can? Im making too big a deal out of this...
And then how do I initiate conversation? She's not the chatty type
>>17458216
Sometimes you have to have some conviction and confidence mate. Think of it like this, she could well have easily ignored you, like I imagine most other people did. But she actively offered you a place to stay. If she wasn't in the slightest bit interested she wouldn't have done that.
the girl i am dating has been texting me has been ignoring my texts as of late. today i brought it up to her. she apologized and said she has been busy. she spoke to more or less all day today. here is my problem. she claims to have been too busy to text me but i constantly see her on whatsapp. fair enough, she is busy with work but if she is so busy that she cant text me, why is she on whatsapp so much. does she see talking to me as some sort of chore? or can she simply not be bothered texting me sometimes? im aware that i sound insecure but its bothering me.
>>17458155
dump her dude. It will hurt like fuck, but it will hurt more if you don't rip the bandaid off now, I'm not even gonna say why, you know why.
She might even put up a fight and say "What you don't trust me?" and that's when you say "You are god damn right, I do not trust you." and then dump her.
>>17458155
My ex did this to me all the time under the pretense that "She just didn't respond very fast on the phone" and would sometimes go days without getting back to me about basic shit. But whenever we hung out, she would leap at a chance to check her phone if she got a text.
Don't be stupid, she's lying to you and she has a reason to be lying and your self esteem will endure if you are the one to break it off before some really suspicious shit goes down, or the lying gets worse.
If she's willing to lie about that, what else is she willing to lie about?
You might love her, but please believe me, I've been through shit like this enough.
Dude, chill the fuck out. Me and my gf (yes i have one) only use whatsapp as a mean of sending important information, maybe funny memes, and coordinating the next time we´ll see each other, like plans or whatever.
Use your fucking phone to plan the next date, thats it. Text her the day before to confirm.
Now use your virgin voice to talk to her, and your slut ears to hear her.
trying to shoot someone and run off, can anyone plan this out for me?
>>17458152
If you want i can tell you my plan so far
Why do you want to shoot someone?
>>17458152
If we are to help you, we need more info first - the name, address, occupation and photo of the target.