How do you make sex interesting?
I always get bored pretty much right off and start entertaining myself with scenarios of how I could absolutely ruin the situation for my partner, and "what could I say now to make this grown man cry" probably isn't something you should be thinking about while having sex.
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>sadist.
Degrading role play would be my advice.
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Do you have normal sensitivity in your vagina or does penetration do little for you?
Either way, I'd try to be more active, focus on stuff you can do to enhance either your or his experience.
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>>17457503
I'm afraid this vagina is the only one I've ever had, so I don't really have reference to what qualifies as "normal". What is it SUPPOSED to do?>>17457503
>>17457501
It's more like the urge to kick inanimate objects once you bump into them. Pointless, fruitless spite.
Post free movie download links.
>safe
Pls anons
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crackle
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Moar pls
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The pirate bay
Use public internet
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What's the American Dream Today? 2016-08-13 20:37:19 Post No.17457427
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What is there to fight for in America? Money, muscles, Education?
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Peace, meaning, companionship
Those things you listed are means, not ends
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Job satisfaction and low working hours.
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>>17457427
Yes yes and yes
Being skillfull in your field and not being an adult baby with sensitive feelings are big plusses
Some amount of romantic love is actually more and more desirable, as fewer people manage to get it
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I may get blasted for being a silly femanon, but whatever.
So, I've been with the same guy for 5 years. I have never been indecisive about the issue of having kids, and have told him from the start "yes, when I'm in my 30s I definitely want kids". At the time, he told me his opinion was that yeah, kids are cool, it might be nice to have them one day.
Within the last year though, now we're properly making proper plans to move in together (personal circumstances have prevented me from doing so before -- but that's another story entirely) and get married. My plans have typically included my hypothetical children, and recently he dropped the big bombshell: Actually, no, he doesn't want kids anymore. They're such a handful and cost too much money, time, and energy. Can't it just be me and you, babe?
As you can imagine, this is a bit of a dealbreaker for me, and back at the start of the relationship I thought I would have the courage to leave. But it's been 5 years, and part of me is clinging onto that hope that he might change his mind... after all, he did speculate that kids would be an interesting challenge and a nice way to complete a family... so is there hope? This is literally the only thing that is making me question the relationship. Otherwise, everything is perfect and I wouldn't want things any other way.
So what do? Cut my losses and walk from what would otherwise be a perfect relationship, or see if I can win him 'round? (or 'accidentally' become pregnant..?)
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>yet another 'I want kids but he doesn't' scenario
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Don't 'accidentally' become pregnant. From one femanon to another, that is a shitty move and is not going to work out well for anybody. Just don't.
You need to talk stuff out with him. I say it's probably good to not sacrifice a good relationship for something like that, but at the same time that is definitely a big deal and could even be a dealbreaker.
It's always rough to have to throw away a long relationship, especially over something that seems so small but is so important to you.
Talk to him, try to work something out. Relationships are all about communication and compromise. See if you can work it out. You both need to approach this with an open mind.
One last question, how old are you both?
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at least he is honest. i tell my gf i want kids even though i hate kids and had a vasectomy years ago
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I broke up with a girlfriend of 3 years because she said she did not want kids. It was a similar situation where in the beginning I was clear I wanted them, and she was similar to your guy in her initial response. However as time moved on and I was closer to proposing her status changed.
I say find a guy that wants kids and not wait around and hope someone wants kids (he probably will not). Despite what others your age may tell, having kids is the greatest thing in life and also the most fulfilling thing you can do.
DO NOT accidentally get pregnant with a guy who does not want them.
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Selling a Hacked 3DS? 2016-08-13 20:24:09 Post No.17457401
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So about 6 month ago I got me and a friend a 3DS each and hacked them both on Firmware 9.2. At this point I've upgraded and don't personally know anybody who'd want to buy it. A lot of sites don't like selling modified devices so where would be my best odds of selling it with moderate safety and a potential satisfied buyer?
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Shit, should've spaced it out
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Ebay definitely
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>>17457413
It's against TOS, Mainstream sites like Ebay or Gumtree remove them
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I only get to see my girlfriend a couple hours a week and it's killing me.
A little background, we've been together close to 5 months now, She works 9-5, i work evenings. While we live relativly close together (30 min journey) but it's not practical for me to go to hers after work as she would have to be up less than 6 hours later to go to work again. However it does give me the time to go and meet her during her lunch break, and we have the weekends to catch up.
But ever since she went on holiday with her family lunch meetups have dropped to once or twice a week and i haven't seen her on the weekend for the last month. She says she's busy or tired (Which i believe to be true as work is running her ragged), but i don't know how much longer i can cope not seeing her, not cuddling up and watching movies or reading and just not seeing her for more than 2 hours a week.
I want to bring this up, but fear coming off as clingy or adding more stress to what seems to be a rough time, i'm just at a loss.
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Dude, holy fuck, this is why you learn how to be happy on your own BEFORE getting into a relationship. Jesus man, learn meditation or something.
Anyway, sounds like you can't do much about the situation right now. So what you want to go cry to her about it? Develop some equanimity instead of complaining about things you can't change.
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Thanks anon, this may come across as sarcastic because text is like that, but actually thanks for putting things into perspective for me.
Maybe i'm not ready for this relationship yet.
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>>17457406
Im not saying break up, just quit being a pussy.
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>Go to party
>Grind with really hot Arabic cutie
>She had a few drinks talked about sex toys and how much she loves sex
>Find her facebook
>Send her this
>And I get this response...
I don't get it anons! Did she over react? I'm a black man so this might have something to do with it.
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looks like you found the feminist
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>starts a conversation with an autistic pickup line
>gets shot down
>r-racist
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>>17457378
Wooow, she's a giant cunt. Please reply with something like "Please block me you vapid cocksleeve" or something the like. It's even pissing -me- off.
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My mother didn't love me as a child and as a result I'm super fucked up and I've never been in a mutually loving relationship before.
How do I build trust and respect for women again? I know they are not all lying, cheating, whores, but it really seems like most people in general are shallow and irritating and women are no exception.
I have this problem where if I'm in public, I think that everything women do is to pit men against each other in brutish competition, even things that are innocent and are not sexual appear to be sexual and if women are not giving me attention over other men I throw a gigantic tantrum. I don't do this outloud, but I become so full of rage that I begin shaking and getting unreasonably angry. I've lost several jobs over this.
I honestly don't believe this is the way the world works and I want to think differently but I can't figure out how, it seems inescapable.
tl;dr how do I overcome my distrust for everyone especially women? Please do not come in here with some shitty advice about how I should man up and be an alpha chad, that shit is asinine.
tl;tl;dr How do I appear strong and confident without turning into a chest puffing "dominant" chad bot? Women seem to flock to these types, but something about it seems morally adverse.
seriously guys frustration over this is causing me to lose jobs and get situations completely confused.
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Accept that other will never love you because you will never be able to return it and do other stuff with your life.
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>>17457351
I mean, I'm not incapable of loving. I've just only been in situations with shitty people and it's left me really cynical. I'm asking about how exactly I stop being cynical about this.
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Am I a secondary psychopath?
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How does one ACTUALLY friends???? 2016-08-13 19:54:37 Post No.17457333
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I don't think I've ever given this concept a thought but, how does one actually make new friends??
I'm 24 - live in NYC
Long story short
Found out 4 months ago my ex (who i dated for a year) cheated on me and fucked 4 times with a 'childhood friend'
One of our mutual friends knew and didn't tell me.
Haven't been reached out to by anybody really, except after all the fallout. One took me out to console me, said they knew how sensitive everything was but wanted to let me know the guy who cheated with ex is aware of the scope of things and feels horrible.
Only one of these friends who I somewhat respect has reached out to me. Only 3 times. Twice after the fallout and once a week ago since he's relocating and working somewhere else now.
have run into these old friends (how i see them now) casually. They ask me how I've been, have a drink with me w/e.
I understand their position; i understand none of this is their business, they have their lives and whatever. i'm not asking anything from them.
BUT
I just don't feel comfortable being friends with them while they treat him like nothing happened and joke and kick the shit or whatever.
I'm insecure. I don't know if this is coming off self-centered, sensitive, or whatever, but i just i feel like he's getting away with fucking me over and i simply can't be around that.
I've chosen to not associate myself with them at all.
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continued.....
4 months later now and things are still shit.
3 weeks into a new office job I haven't felt so alone in such a mundane atmosphere.
Come home and i'm simply not engaged. I can meet girls and whatnot through apps or whatever but i'm simply just trying to find people my age who are into music/art and i can make stuff with(i'm into the local punk/art scene here)
I haven't been to a show by myself in forever.I used to go to shows by myself all the time when i was 16 and was never able to make friends.
I know a couple of faces and will nod and say hello but i would never ask to hang out because i don't feel close enough to do that.
I only know one person that lives around who I consider a friend and actively hang out with but we're not close enough and I don't want to overstep in his circle and be this annoying overbearing douche.
I'm out of school and trying to find new similar people.
I know the reality that all people suck and what not. but i'm in a hole in this fucking city.
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oof. get cucked right in the balls.
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>>17457337
you're in NYC? go to the comedy cellar on their cheapest weekday.
damned, if you're looking for friends, just to have friends, you are doing it wrong.
Define a goal, sth that takes time and dedication. A marriage, a pilots-licence, building a boat. Now start your journey, and after some time see who can help you. You will experience stuff all the time and have someone to talk about. Maybe you can help someone out with their shit, once you've become an semi-expert. If you offer people a chance to feel useful, to have a purpose, they'll like you. At least the not so busy will.
Also most people have a latent alcoholism going on. Use that to your advantage. Invite some in for BBQ and give them a chance to drink. they will be thankful for that, if they're not total asshats.
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is this chick into me or not?
>knew chick for a year, didn't talk a lot but still kinda friends. never texted or talked out of work
>she gets out of 4 year relationship
>about a month and a half later she starts chatting me up
>tells me she likes me as more than just a friend etc
>ask her to hang out
>ends up being group setting, end up just cuddling with her on couch and sleeping
>tell her the next day over the phone that I like her (big mistake) and ask her if she still feels that way
>could tell she was put on the spot and she says she is not ready to be looking for relationships right now
>instantly regret my decision and just tell her I was drunk when I had that convo with her
>i go no contact and she starts texting me 5 days later
>hang out again and end up sleeping in her bed with her, no sexual shit though
>this night fucked with me and I started to develop one-itis so I decided to go no contact with her again
>she starts texting me again 3-4 days later, I just didn't respond
>texts me the next morning asking me if i'm alive
>ask her to hang out again, we're hanging out tonight
Literally have no clue what the fuck I'm doing. I've dated 4-5 chicks in my life and they have all been pretty easy in that they all displayed interest and just followed my lead. This one is giving me hot and cold signals but doesn't allow me to walk away. She isn't some dumb slut, she's incredibly intelligent with a really good job, fairly independent. I don't think she's using me as an emotional tampon but maybe I'm just blind to it.
Do I try to make a sexual move tonight or is it still too early?
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For the record, she has never brought up her past relationship around me once. I know that's a huge red flag but she has never used me as a pair of ears to listen to her problems. I know thats like the friend zone kiss of death
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make a move, you have nothing to lose, be more blod ffs
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You two are friends, you said you liked her, she said no thanks, and you're still hanging out. You can either give up and be friends forever or make a move.
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Hello guys. I've finally gained the courage to do what needs to be done. Best way to stop doing this? I could possibly strangle/hang myself but I will probably pussy out also its day time and too many people around. I really need help with how to do this as I am poor, and can't afford a gun.
Homeless to boot.
I don't want to starve to death.
Please please please give actual advice. I'm tired and don't care to not have toilet paper to wipe my ass with near by. Please help me come up with a plan.
I'm dehydrated and I don't even want to walk to the gas stations restroom for water. I quit.
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Please help stop this. I'm begging my body aches. My mind aches I CANT DO THIS ANYMORE. I'm afraid of the pain that I know is coming soon. I live by Cincinnati. Can anyone lend me a gun for just a few minutes.
I am begging any of you kind souls to help.
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>>17457373
Anon. just dont. I want you to think about this. Killing yourself isnt worth it. If you can go to the countryside leave cincinatti behind and go to IN where they have jobs.
Also try to stay fed, no doubt that is putting stress on you.
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>>17457328
Do not off yourself... dumbest thing possible. You have no idea what awaits you.
Are there any shelters near by? How are you getting online? You could search for any sal army or similar nearby
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How to start a conversation with a complete stranger? 2016-08-13 19:27:41 Post No.17457288
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>Female friend wants to "set me up" with her friend
>femanon is allegedly really interested.
>Got a message from female friend
>"Femanon just wanted me to give you her number."
Usually I can talk to people if I have something prior, but I'm not used to just being given a number and told "Talk to her."
Only thing I can think of is the generic "What's up/How's it going?" But I'd appreciate it if the femanons on here could throw in some input. Once the conversation gets going I'm fine, but what's an appropriate way to just start a conversation out of thin air with someone you've never met before?
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I'd say you've already got your opening line.
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talk with her not at her. if she's interested then approach and just let her take the lead, spur the convo along where needed.
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You should literally talk about the situation and how weird it is.
Thats a perfect opener
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hey guys,
i have a problem and id be happy if u can help or give me some tips.
so i have a girlfriend for the first time, im a virgin and have problems having sex. when it comes to sex my dick always gets flaccid, i mean before i enter her, especially when i put a condom on. we tried it a few times and had long foreplay but it still didnt work out. i stopped masturbating and i always did that to stupid fetish porn. shes definetely not the problem, it is me. or maybe its the pressure im exerted, i dont know..
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don't use a condom (at first, if she insists later on then put it on after you're good and hard), drink a beer or 2 to calm your nerves, smoke a bowl of that helps (weed usually makes me horny as a goat), take a little Xanax if you're nervous, if all else fails just picture some really hot porn in your head to get hard. I've done it before ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
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>>17457297
Is a troll.
a condom can definitely kill your boner especially if you aren't rock hard yet. Wait until you know you're solid until you put it on.
Also, most people have a go to for getting hard. Kissing, fingering her asshole etc you need to find yours.
Lastly don't be afraid of thinking of somebody else or a certain situation I know some people feel like they're cheating but that's bullshit
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You need to spend a lot of time getting her relaxed. That way her vag will be easier to penetrate.
To help speed things along your first position should be doggy as it's the easiest to enter them smoothly.
Lay her down on the bed and put a pillow under her tummy so her ass is raised get her to spread her knees so her bottom goes down a bit because during soggy you need to fuck downstairs or it hurts them
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Promiscuity vs Monogamy 2016-08-13 19:08:32 Post No.17457240
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Hi /adv/ give me some insight here.
I chose to have a monogamous life and I'm suffering for it. The problem being I have an international partner and I'm not able to be with them because visa/international shenanigans tell me to go kill myself instead of letting me in the country. Partner doesn't have money to come here and I wouldn't want them to visit this hellhole anyway. Also we're not ready to marry and even if we were I wouldn't be getting a visa for $$$ reasons (visas are a fucking nightmare)
Obviously monogamy for me means more than sex, but sex does give me some relief. Doesn't help that my ex left me because they wanted to be a slut and I feel like a fucking loser when choose to hold out for someone while person I dated shoves in my face that they had more sex in 1 month than I did in my entire lifespan.
I'm just confused as to what is better. I believe that certain lifestyles fit promiscuity better than monogamy and vice versa. Sometimes I wish I didn't need this relationship kind of attachment to someone, but seeing a family member in her early 20's as a single mother because she couldn't keep her pants on...
I know this is probably hard to respond to. Quite frankly it's hard to even formulate what I want to say. I have been holding this back because I have no one I can talk to about this subject. Hell I don't even know what I'm expecting from posting this
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Give up on your girlfriend. You have no way to be with her, neither in the long or in the short run. Find a girlfriend close to you.
I think monogamy gives you much better things than what promiscuity can.
I actually fuck much more and have a lot more fun than most of my friends who fuck around, with a lower risk of STDs and a lot of added benefits.
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As someone who has casual sex a lot I can assure you monogamy is better
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>>17457305
I thought about giving up on her many times but I would just end up finding someone else from another country anyway.
It's a long story, but basically I cannot live in the country I was born in and if I don't manage to leave soon I doubt I'll live another year here
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Ask me for advice and I will give you the simple and non-bullshit solution.
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>GF doesn't let me play video games around her
>Always wants to be around me
>Wonders why I don't come over to her place when she finally gives me a chance to stay at my place without her to bug me about video games.
I don't know what to do.
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How do you get over thinking everyone you see is better than you? For some reason I always feel like everyone has their shit together except me.
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>>17457221
How do I get better at my grades? I always study hard but I always get the 7s or 8s.