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Women are throwing themselves at me? wtf is going on 2016-08-16 02:32:37 Post No.17465255
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Women are throwing themselves at me? wtf is going on
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2016-08-16 02:32:37
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Okay I don't get this. I am the same weight, and same height, almost same haircut.
Everywhere I go women are just all over me man. In class, I always get 3 girls to work with me in labs. I go to library and all the ladies gather around me, starting helping me with things and they can't stop touching me.
I am walking around and I get smiles and looks from strangers. What the fuck is going on? the only thing that has changed about me is I have stopped letting my parents bully me and I don't let my psycho obsessed mother put me down anymore. Think that shit is changing how I come across to people? or did I always have this charm but never noticed it before. idk man it's godamn amazing how my world has changed.
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Post a pic of your face
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>>17465286
This. If we see your face we can see if your bullshitting.
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Do you smile a lot? Are you a personable individual? What are your physical characteristics? What do you wear?
A couple weeks ago, a bit of skin has rubbed off of my thumb. The same day, I was eating Doritos, and some of the Dorito powder or whatever you call it got on my fingers. I didn't wash my hands until later on. The next day, I realized that the powder was still on my thumb. Two weeks later, it's still there. In pretty sure a layer of skin has grown over it. Can this cause an infection or something. Sorry for the bad picture quality
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Another crappy picture
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>>17465254
Wash your hands often, keep them strongly hydrated, with creams and stuff
Or ask your doctor for something against this
You might end up having your skin coming off your entire hands, and it looks (and feels) horrible
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Fingers have super good blood flow and heal faster than the rest of the body. If that shit is outpacing your fingers healing factor its fucking bad.
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>chatting on okcupid
>several long messages between the two of us
>seems to be going good
>ask if we can meet up
>no response
>it has now been over a day
can someone explain this to me?
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>>17465231
Nope.
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>>17465231
Find Somone IRL, dating sites are as flaky as 4chan
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>>17465231
If i were in your shoes, i would think i "may" have taken too long and overstepped boundaries with suggesting a meetup without first talking on the phone.
In my experience, i have a huge success rate with meeting up with the girl if i have first talked to her on the phone.
I say by the third or fourth message that i dislike texting, suggest we talk on the phone and go from there.
It's all a numbers game bro, pun intended
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got a graphic designer bachelors degree 26 years old lost all forms of creativity so i can't do design work, and can't stand it, but can't get another job since you need a different degree for everything plus 2 years of experience. I know I'm not the only one in this situation so advice maybe share your tale?
don't even no what to go back to college for if I had the cash
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Suck it up, you're in too deep to turn back.
a lot of people who are good at their jobs are miserable and after 10 years or so have to push through a plateau.
this is probably a plateau.
I feel this way about music atm.
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I'm hoping to finish my associates in Web Design next year and even then I enrolled in community college in 2010. Almost all my friends that I graduated HS with, and even the ones that were a year behind me, have their bachelors and are out enjoying life and decent jobs while I'm still part time and in school.
Meanwhile I suck shit at design, can't bring myself to practice for the upcoming semester, and basically suck at the only hobby i had interest in k-12. I don't really have any other interests so I think I can relate OP.
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>be me, have online friend
>we're basically each others' only good friends
>talk almost every day
>we both want to die
>promise each other not to an hero
>thinking about breaking my promise
should i? on one hand, it's a really dick move, but on the other, we don't know each other irl and for all he knows, i could just be having pc issues or whatever. i literally think he hasn't been within a 100 mile radius of me, ever.
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>>17465186
>Suicidal thoughts
Seek professional help, and/or call a suicide hotline. There should be more holding you to life than some online friend.
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Its pathetic that the only person you care about being a dick to is a rando you play games with.
Do it... dont do it; your wasting your life either way.
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>>17465234
like i said in the op, we're each others' only good friends. we mean a lot more to each other than most online friends do
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Hey /adv. I need some advice
So I'm friends with these two girls who are also best friends. Lets call them Mary and Jane.
I have feelings for both of them but I'm not sure which I have stronger feelings for.
Ill do some pros and cons
Mary pros:
Has strong feelings for me
Great in bed
Solid 7/10
Awesome personality
Mary cons:
Emotionally unstable
We've dated before. (I couldn't handle her mood swings. She's gotten a bit better with that)
Flirts with everyone, even while in a relationship.
Jane pros:
Easy 9/10
Body is a 10/10
Funny as fuck
Loyal
Jane cons:
Manipulative
Unsure she has feelings for me
Never slept with her so unsure how she is in bed
A pretty shitty person
What do guys?
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>>17465180
School Days it senpai.
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>>17465184
underrated post
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>>17465208
I just want to see people happy.
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How do I stop fighting? When you go to sleep, you're awake, when you're awake is when you're asleep. You have 1 lifetime to stop being combative, stop sinning or stop having lowly passions - and if you fail, just like your dreams reflect your inner state, if you're not full of love when you die then you might suffer after death... It's so bad that Jesus chose to be brutally tortured just to warn us, just be good.
I'm not saying anything religious, I'm saying that it's obvious your dreams are effected by your internal state and since death isn't the end, I really need to fix myself before I die as a bitter, spoiled teenager.
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>When you go to sleep, you're awake, when you're awake is when you're asleep.
Lost you there
>and if you fail, just like your dreams reflect your inner state, ...
what bro? What does that have to do with anything?
>I'm not saying anything religious
>It's so bad that Jesus chose to be brutally tortured just to warn us
Sure you aren't
You have religion issues and emotional issues. That is obvious because you are a teenager.
Stop acting like a faggot and deal with it. Also don't bring your religion here, that is something you deal with.
have a nice night
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>>17465191
sry dad, not tonite.
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Spell it out for you.
fighting will only ever get you in trouble,
even if you 'win' you never really win.
if I ever feel angry these days I just consider how much I don't want to go to jail, and I find the strength to shut the fuck up.
Don't go to jail, the lord will not save you.
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>be dating bf who is a very good looking guy and relatively clean, polite and smart. also super considerate and kind
>basically everything i could ask for
>meet the people who he has to hang around with at a party his brother is holding (they live together)
>mfw they're very trashy, classless and disrespectful to the people around them
>all of them are ugly and dirty looking and even a little deformed...
>very "redneck" or "hillbilly"ish... mind that they're close to their 30s or already are in their 30s. (i'm the youngest at 24)
>the ugliest and most deformed looking girl (she's married with kids too) kept hitting on my boyfriend and tried to kiss him while saying "i love you"
>bf feels disgusted but too nice to tell her to fuck off because her husband is his boss
>she's also spilled beer on me a few times and interrupted my conversations with others to take over
>some weird, sweaty/smelly guy with no chin kept hitting on me and even rubbed my shoulder when i wasn't looking
>went so far as to say my legs are "really smooth" (i don't think he touched them but i was scared he copped a feel when i was talking to my bf)
>bf gets angry at the guy and makes an excuse to stow me to his room so the creep couldn't find me
>i'm stuck in his room til i find out the creep passes out on their front lawn
>other girls don't want to talk to me
>hear a couple stories from the guys about how they lost their tooth and about sports
>after party
>bf repeatedly with genuine enthusiasm: "i'm so glad you came over, this weekend was a good one! :)"
>mfw i didn't enjoy any of that and for whatever reason my bf forgot about all the awful shit
my bf seems to think this is normal and for some reason enjoys these people's company...
he is very serious about me and has been asking me about marriage and stuff, but is it bad that i'm having second thoughts because of the people i'm probably going to have to deal with often?
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That sounds like crap. He must be a closet redneck if he hangs out with filth like that
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Birds of a feather flock together. Isn't it common knowledge that you can tell someone's true self by who they associate with and their friends and family? Like the whole "guy I'm dating turns into a different person when he's alone with his friends" type deal, or "you can tell what a girl will be like when she's older by looking at her mother".
I'd watch out.
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Well the thing is you only see them for that drunken 2-3 hours you've been around them. Whereas they have probably supported your bf for years behind the scenes, and what he sees them for.
Basically you kind of sound like a selfish bitch. Being honest here.
If that weekend honestly meant a lot to him, then why not just leave it at that? You're not marrying these people.
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So about a month ago, I got pulled over and couldn't prove I had auto insurance since I had just bought my car and it was not technically under my insurance yet. The officer pulled me iver because I had a taillight out but didnt cite me for that, he cited me for the insurance. I couldn't prove within 10 days that it was covered at the time, so today I went to pay the 135 fee or whatever. As I was doing so, the lady there informed me that this also means my lisence is suspended until I can prove insurance as of now (which I can) and that I'll have to pay the 85 dollar lisence reinstatement fee and carry an SR22 for a year. But the thing I need advice here on is that I also do not have my lisence yet. The officer also chose not to cite me for that at the time, and I figured he was being nice, but now I don't know what to do because although I was driving illegally to begin with, I was planning on getting my lisence here soon but now it would seem that I cannot go sit for my lisence because it is nonexistent AND suspended. Any advice?
(Important detail: I live in Idaho)
Tl;dr- Got my lisence suspended from a ticket but don't even have my lisence. What do?
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Get a new license dum dum
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>>17465147
I cant go get my lisence when I dont have a lisence to begin with, but it's suspended so the dmv wouldn't let me test for it since it's suspended
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>>17465153
Well when does it get unsuspended?
I tried asking this in /biz/ before but I only got shitposts, please help me /adv/
I have found myself in a position where I have a completely ride through college, I only need to pay for my books and housing. Tuition is %100 covered for me, both at the undergraduate (bachelor's) and graduate (master's or doctorate) level.
I don't know how to put this without giving too much of anonymity up, but I will say that the only catch is that it HAS to be an in-state public university that I attend. I live in Indiana.
The thing is, I don't know what to do. I'm sort of depressed, I never gave a shit about anything, in high school I was a slacker, got out with a 3.2 gpa without trying, but I always sucked with math.
I never planned on doing anything beyond an associates degree but suddenly I have found myself in these circumstances. I have no idea what to do - nothing interests me. That isn't to say I'm unwilling to study, I just never gave a fuck.
I got out of high school early in 2014, and enrolled in an online associates program for IT. I finish in 9 months, and I haven't learned shit, and I truly mean that.
What do I do now? I have 9 months left before I have to determine how my life will play out, and I don't know what the wisest way to handle this is.
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Take gen eds the first year while you think about what to study. Go thru a list of jobs and research them.
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>>17465122
>I have to determine how my life will play out, and I don't know what the wisest way to handle this is.
No you don't.
The belief that what you do in college will decide your career is cancer and you should forget it.
My advice is pick a field you can make some money at.
STEM, Finance, Accounting, Medicine, Business, or better Entrepreneurship Something that's not going away, This will give you the option to go into a nice job when you are done with school. But really it doesn't matter and you can safely change your major if you hate it, (Just don't do that too many times.)
Work life != Real life.
Not saying they can't just saying they don't have to.
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>>17465160
I have thought about going into law, optometry, dentistry, or just general medicine (doctor or PA) for my graduate studies, but I don't know what to do for my undergrad
I've considered studying to be an x-ray tech for my undergrad, but I don't know if I'm smart enough
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how do you handle a soulmate?
quick backstory
>me : decent looking 26 y/o dude from texas, good enough job, decent education - etc.
>married at 21 to a really pretty/cool girl, split up at the end of 2015
>move into mutual friends house in march
>make friends with neighbors and others in neighborhood
>one neighbors mom meets two german girls traveling america on a bus from new orleans to houston
>the girls end up in austin at said moms house
>friend (the moms son) asks me to take them out on the town, i do
>me and one girl hit it off extremely well from the start
>first night we sit outside talking until 5am after everyone went to bed
>next day she splits from her travel partner and we spend the rest of her time in austin together
>literally never had such a connection develop so quickly, and intensely
they leave after a week or so in austin, and i brushed it off as an "oh well"
well, she calls me about a month after leaving and asks what i think about the PNW and invites me out with just us two, i buy a ticket within an hour and we meet up in portland at the airport for a 10 day getaway.
it was everything it should have been, it was intense for both of us, we drove up the coast to vancouver and just had an amazing fucking time.
shes back in germany now but we facetime daily and talk daily - shes supposed to fly here for my birthday in october ( which seems far-fetched but this whole thing has been far-fetched) and also is in the process of selling everything and moving to america
but uhhh... what exactly do i do with a match like this?
its actually kind of frightening because it seems really easy to fuck up something that could be potentially really big for both of us?
shes the only person ive met just like me, its really bizarre and everyone comments on us when were together - i almost wish i never met someone like that because i was totally fine with fucking tinder girls
i never even felt this way about my ex-wife
its fucking wild
help
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>>17465082
It sounds like you want us to talk you out of it but why? There's no such thing as "the one" but finding girls you have a connection with is something that happens once maybe every 2 years. Just go with it, you have no risks. She's the one taking the risks by selling everything and moving to a new country. If she's okay with it then do it.
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>>17465082
>soulmate
Stopped reading right there
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>>17465082
All I can say is be careful. She might be playing the long con to get visa papers so she can come to murrica.
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I have been online dating this girl for almost a month now. We have done basically everything except meet in person, and we already consider each other soulmates. But there is a major issue; she gets extremely sad when she drinks, and will go on facebook and block everyone in her friends list. This time however, she not only blocked everyone, she also removed both of her profiles, deleted her email account, deactivated her phone number and even removed her profile from the dating site I met her at. The only way I can contact her now, because I also don't know her address, only her neighborhood, is to sit outside the coffee shop we had plans to meet at, and wait every day to see her. So 4chanians, do you think I should go get my girl, or do you think I should simply wait until she contacts me again?
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>one month
>online dating
>soul mates
Wew lad.
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>>17465050
Beat me to it
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>>17465040
Is this bait? Are you 14?
You both have fuccking issues. You both probably lack experIence and feel the need to be validated, hence the premature as fuck soulmates thing. That and you both get attached waaay too fast, which is never a good thing. you should realize that you barely know her at all.
She's also probably heavily manipulative and doing this on purpose, and may have some problems with alcohol. My advice is to drop the bitch and find a real girlfriend in real life
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Hi /adv/ I wanted to ask for some help or tips on disciplining myself more for learning a language or atleast ways to make it more enjoyable so I can push myself for it 100%.
I've been learning Korean since last year, 90% on my own I guess, it took me 2 weeks to learn how to read hangul (the characters) from then I had used apps to meet people for help with learning but over time it slowly died down and wasn't much help at all. Now I'm at a brick wall because I really want to learn the language and can read it pretty well though my vocabulary and conversational skills are bad. I'm not sure which ways I can learn while having fun and enjoying it. I want to learn many languages afterwards but I'd love to atleast be able to learn how to keep focused on learning and practicing.
Sorry if there's alot of irrelevant info/blog post type of stuff. Just figured it may help somehow.
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what you are looking for is not motivation but discipline. Shit is going to get boring but you have to push yourself through it if you really want the end result. Discipline my friend, make a small goal and hit it then make another goal.
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>>17465062
I really need discipline in my life, not just with language sadly. It's preventing me from doing many things I wish to do. So, I'm hoping by accomplishing language goals, It'll trigger more commitments for other things.
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>>17465031
Watch movies in korean, no subtitles. It helped me learn german. If you want to understand the story you can watch it once with subtitles and them rewatch it with no subtitles.
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I've been with my boyfriend for a few months now. I really do love him and I think he loves me. However, when we have sex he can never finish. We've been at it for hours at a time and he can only ever finish himself off. I've tried various different things. I know that he can finish easily to porn or when he jacks himself off (which he does everyday). So what am I doing wrong?
Is it just that he finds me unattractive or is there something I can do to help?
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>>17465027
Put an old computer monitor over your head so you look like one of those girls from his movies.
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>>17465057
Does he basically have a porn addiction then? This is what I get for choosing to date the beta over the chad.
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I am a female and I'm the same way. It's impossible for me to cum from oral or sex. My bf blames himself and thinks he's just bad in bed but I've been with dozens of men and it's not that. Some people have more deep-set nerve endings and just have a harder time climaxing from some types of stimulation. Please don't take it personally, it's a physiological issue and has nothing to do with you
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What advice would you give an 18 year old who doesn't know what college to go to?
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>>17465021
That it literally doesn't matter. You'll get a worthless piece of paper in the end either way
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>>17465021
Do you know what you want to study, what kind of career you want to go into? If not, get yourself a job and take a year or two off to figure out what you want. There's no rule that says you have to enroll as soon as you finish high school, and in fact, I think MOST people would get more out of higher education if they took a few year to make plans and get some real-life work experience. I know so many people who graduated with useless degrees, or ended up in careers completely different from their course of study.
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>>17465037
The only career path that interests me is going into the military and beforehand going through military academy,but i also want to make a lot of money so those two conflict