There’s this girl I’ve had feelings for since
high school, and now we’re in college
together. We’ll call her 'Sally' Once we
hit second year, we went out drinking,
and I worked up the courage to
exchange numbers. We started out
talking often, but she hasn’t answered
me in three days now. I’m getting depressed just thinking that Sally might be sick, or
that something happened to her…
Please, somebody give me some advice.
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>>17462992
Calm down. You've made it farther than I did. Worrying about it won't get you a response any faster.
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"depressed"
fucking pussy, youre not depressed, youre disappointed theres a difference. man up, text her one last time, if she doesnt answer you have other people to talk to
jesus
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>>17463021
Maybe this last email I sent did something to hurt Sally's feelings? Give me your opinion here…
“Good weather today. You haven’t emailed
me or called me, so I’m just sending this
since I’m worried. Did I do something bad?
PS. The stars were pretty last night.”
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What are some signs that I'm disconnected from life?
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it would help if you defined what you mean by "disconnected from life," but offhand I would say that if you're asking that question, and if you're feeling like you're disconnected from life, then you probably are.
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>>17462987
you're posting on 4chan
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You're probably more disconnected from reality by having delusional unrealistic expectations from life, rather than actually living it.
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Girls being into the 'idea of a guy'
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I think women like the idea of me, but not the real me. Pls help me senpai.
Some relevant background: I'm a 20 year old male. I'm studying at a pretty prestigious university university doing a pretty difficult degree (this is relevant later on).
Women seem to love the 'idea of me' but then lose interest in the real me after a while. The best example of this is a girl (19) I dated who initially seemed very interested in me. She and I got along pretty well and she opened up to me more than she seemed to in any previous relationship of hers. She even went a lot further with me sexually than she had ever done in a previous relationship. After a few months of being 'boyfriend and girlfriend' she seemed withdrawn, not wanting to be touched and not really wanting to hang out with me. After a few weeks of this we both decided it wasn't working out and we broke up.
What really bugs me is I heard from a mutual friend (whose word I trust completely) that she was bragging about me to all her friends when we started dating, "Oh here check out a picture of us, and he's studying X at Y university" etc. What annoys me is she would talk about anything I would do that would impress her friends, e.g. what I study or what my hobbies are but she never wanted to actually discuss or take interest in my interests and hobbies. I tried to take interest in her hobbies and to find common interests, but it always ended up being me participating in something that was already her 'thing' e.g. I would watch a netflix series she was already watching but she wouldn't so much as try watching something I would recommend to her.
This sort of initial interest and then eventual lack of common ground and interests causing a rift has happened to me several times over the last few years. Girl seems really interested in me, and sometimes is the even the one who asks me on a date. After a while we end up with very little in common and then they don't seem to care.
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It is normal for a girl to not really care about what you actually do but do care about how successfull it seems, by the time i moved in with my gf i got questions like, what are you studying again?
This is not a reason that she looses interest in you though, maybe she was just lead astray by whats amazing by her friends opinions, when she actually was with you she probably realized what she really wants and that wasn't you. Maybe there is too much of an intellectual gap, maybe she wants to be more outgoing and going to parties and you don't provide that circle of friends she could have joined.
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I can get your perspective. I'm not sure how else to put it, but it seems like some women are enamored by the idea of "stable". I feel like those types of women tend to lack any defined goals, even if it's just something as simple as being a housewife. They just have no idea of what they want or where they want to be in the future.
Maybe they're hoping for an osmosis effect because you have your shit together? I'll never fully understand it I think.
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>>17462994
I think you may be right about the gap. The issue is there are very very few women in the course I am studying so it's hard to meet them there. My other grip is I put in a lot of effort into taking an interest in their hobbies and such but they never seem to put any effort in for me.
>>17463008
>hoping for an osmosis effect
I think that's pretty true. But the idea of it kinda hurts, them being interested in my stability because it'll help them personally.
The issue is that these problems in relationships seem to only manifest themselves after a while. I can't find out if it's gonna happen or not without getting committed to some degree. Any ideas on what to look for when I first meet a girl?
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Anyone work in/has worked in a call center? I've got a job interview tomorrow for a position in a call center, outbound calls specifically. I've never worked in a similar role but I have experience working in customer service. I experience a bit of anxiety calling people, does anyone know the type of questions they might ask me? The Job is not commissioned, I will be paid a salary.
The company seems to sell tickets or something for a particular resort. I had a phone interview with a lady today which turned out to be a bit of a disaster imo, many awkward pauses and she asked me a few questions to which I replied and she was like "...Riiight"
I'm scared guys ;_;
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How good are you at having people tell you to fuck off and then hang up the phone?
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>>17462986
No idea, never had it happen to me. I am a pretty sensitive person though.
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>>17462968
I am working an year in call center. Is piece of cake. I am in inbound so I have to call to clients. Outbound calls are much easier. People want from you answer and they care to get answers from you. If they get mad you just drop a call.
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I'm probably going to get laid tomorrow after about 7 years of no sex at all.
How do I overcome my anxiety about this?
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>>17462923
By getting it over and done with.
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HELP MEEEE
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>>17462923
Nothing anyone can tell you will fix this problem. While you're in the moment it'll be hard to really take time to think about what you're doing. Your instincts will either make you sink or swim.
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Is it wrong to sleep with my twin brother if we use birth control im 18 now and ever since I was 15 ive been in love with him and I think he feels the same way too. We are very close to each other and are our only friends
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>white people
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For the record, you haven't slept with him yet? I'd say it's definitely wrong but do whatever the fuck you want, just don't make any babies and NEVER let anyone know.
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>>17462913
Do it op, post updates.
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Psycopathy, sociopaths, etc. 2016-08-15 09:27:31 Post No.17462909
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Can i know what its like to be a psycopath? Is it like in the movies? American Psycho for example?. I'm bored and i just wanna hear some stories.
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Litteraly Pulp Fiction
or Scarface
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>>17462909
Most psychopaths aren't like that, and you most likely won't know someone is a sociopath until you've spent some time with them.
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>>17462909
There are psycho/sociopath documentaries you can check out on youtube, they usually are boring people in the sense they aren't killers.
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I am having a very hard time deciding what i should do with $500 given to me by my older sister.
She told me to go renew my passport with some of it but i wont need it til next year.. here are my options
1. Renew my passport and drivers license
2. PS4 so i can play witcher 3, ff15 and deus ex mankind divided
3. Ounce of weed and a gram of mdma
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>>17462886
1. Buy weed
2. Sell weed in 20 bags
3. Turn 500 into 1000
4. Get both your passport and license along with the games and PS4.
Should get a PC though. PS4's are for losers.
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>piss in a bottle
>sell piss bottle fot 30 bucks
>be 540$ richer
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>>17462904
Where did the extra $10 come from?
Will i have trouble finding ladies friends in college? Not an autist and not a virgin
Whats the best i can get looks wise
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>not an autist and not a virgin
I think you'll be fine. You've got a nice face and hair.
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>>17462880
X,D
Fucking kill yourself you fugly acne-ridden twat
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Your face and hair have potential to be vastly improved.
But, only do it if you want it, trust me, always do everything for you, not for others.
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My friend is blaming me for something I didn't do and there ain't nothing I hate more than being falsely accused, and that would be fine if he wasn't threatening me as well. I honestly belive that if I saw him and he said anything to me about it, that I wouldnt be able to stop myself from beating his ass and I don't know what to do, I don't want to ruin a friendship or hurt someone.
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>>17462842
What is he accusing you of? Can you talk to your mutual friends about it?
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>>17462850
He's saying I put his girlfriends kik on a thread on /b/ so people would send her dick pics
I've already talked to my other friends in the same fucking group chat that he's in. No one knows who put her name on there
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>just 13 year old things
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Is it possible to be in love with 2 people at a time?
One is my partner, father of my son, not the kind of person I ever thought I'd end up with but love the comfort of our relationship.
The other is a close friend, who is everything my partner is not, and I love being in his company.
I have always been so against cheating, but I suddenly think I understand why some people do it now. But I don't want to be that person. Or hurt my partner, or throw my life away for something I don't know will pan out. Am I a horrible person? For wanting to be happy?
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You're probably not horrible.
I would say that the old adage of the grass is greenest where you water it is true. Especially in this case where you have a child involved.
If you didn't have a kid then it might have been something you could have explored with your close friend after breaking things off with your current partner but I would say now that would be the wrong decision.
Long term relationships are extremely hard, especially when people get comfortable and someone new and exciting is around.
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Nah, you're a women, it's normal. Don't hate yourself for what you are. You like your husband cause he provides for you in a way, but he's kind of a beta male when you friend is probably more alpha, thus why you start contemplating cheating.
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Definitely the other way, my partner is such an alpha male, and it turns me off. He makes great money so makes my life easy and is (generally) a good guy but can be a wanker and just such a classic male. He doesn't have much to say to me so I guess I get lonely being home with the kid all the time.
Other guy is reserved but easy to talk to and get along with. Literally everybody who meets him loves him. But he seems to take extra interest in myself which doesn't help. I feel like I'm in high school and the 'cool popular' guy actually likes me. Ick. Why do I have to be an adult
I've known this girl for two years, she been really nice and was a so called "different" girl, she actually likes games, has a dark sense of humor, everything to basically make her a guy, so a year ago I cuck myself and introduce her to my friends, soon enough we all become friends and everything is great. About a month ago she starts getting bitchy at me, making fun of me to my face and behind my back to my buddies. She implies I'm stupid, I'm a pushover and even calls me a "cuck" sad Indeed. She favors my best friend SO fucking much to were if he crashed her car she would blame me for not looking out. She's even done shit like that before and in private me and my friends talk about how she favors them over me. I started ignoring her but now I'm being left out of my OWN group of fucking friends, she gets to talk to my friends and I get left out. Me and my friends hung out without her and she spammed my best friend with messages being super nice and asking to call him when she knew we were hanging out without her. After ignoring her for two days and being left out, she starts sending me winky faces being all nice and NEVER acknowledging what she's doing. How do I uncuck myself? Just wanna hang out with my buddies without her, they like me way better but this girl is good at what she wants. Any advice helps
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Agree with your friends to kick that fucking whore out of the group. If the power of pussy is too strong, then just fucking leave. Block her on facebook, her number, stop talking to her and don't fall for her provocation. You already cucked yourself enough boy
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>>17462798
Tell her the only chance for her to keep hanging out with your friends is if she gives up the pussy.
If she won't, she's a waste of space and time.
If your friends don't back you up, they're not friends worth having.
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>>17462798
Don't ever introduce a girl to your group unless you got her tamed and smitten.Why? She might end up falling for one of your friends or your friend might try to sabotage you to fuck her. Your friend probably doesn't respect your game, "he'll say josh can't keep this girl, i'll take her." . Another thing women just love male attention.
Best thing to do now is kind of go lone wolf and let your pals and her make the initiative. Go meet other girls or something.
Should I confront my recent ex gf about lying to me when we first started dating?
I'm new in town and didn't really scope her out when we first started dating, but after I broke up with her I learned that she lied to me about a few different things.
I found out that she was a homie hopper in a pretty big group of guy friends, that she cheated on some of them, and that she has been going on and off with an abusive ex-bf from high school.
She told me many different things and acted like a huge victim.
We'd only been dating a bit over 2 months but I started seeing red flags and broke up with her just a few days ago
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How is it going to affect you?
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>>17462777
What a gross woman.
Also, sad waste of 7s.
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Any good places to disappear in the US? That's "get lost in the crowd" disappear, not "bottom of a river" disappear, just so that's clear.
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mexico
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>>17462786
kek
For real?
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ur right, mexicos to obvius
lets try brazil
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>take a piss
>still get the feeling of needing to piss for some time after
>have burning-like sensation after fapping
>never had sex so STD unlikely
How fucked am I?
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>>17462727
Might be a kidney infection. Go to a doctor.
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Drink more water
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>>17462727
That's a genuine question... Have you been wanking a lot?