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>>17465027
Put an old computer monitor over your head so you look like one of those girls from his movies.

>>17465057
Does he basically have a porn addiction then? This is what I get for choosing to date the beta over the chad.

I am a female and I'm the same way. It's impossible for me to cum from oral or sex. My bf blames himself and thinks he's just bad in bed but I've been with dozens of men and it's not that. Some people have more deep-set nerve endings and just have a harder time climaxing from some types of stimulation. Please don't take it personally, it's a physiological issue and has nothing to do with you

>>17465069
Thank you so much. I was really worried I was doing something wrong, or that he has just desensitized himself.

>>17465069
Cont. That said, it could have to do with porn and masturbation habits as people can become addicted to certain types of stimulation. If he were to give up posn and masturbation entirely there's a chance this would change, but it might be physiological rather than psychological, in which case no ammount of abstinence woudlt make him able to orgasm from sex. Try not to take it personally; if he's fucking you he obviously finds you attractive

>>17465027

Death grip + too much pr0n

Tell him to nofap for a week and try to have sex. He will bust his load in 60 seconds

>>17465075
Sure! I totally get how you'd think it was your fault but truly, some people just have a hard time getting there. I've met several men with this problem, maybe three or four (I've had sex with over a hundred people, for reference), and it's even more common in females. I have gone a year w/o using a vibrator and was still unable to orgasm from masturbation and sex. Later learned it's a nerve sensitivity issue, purely biological. Given that your bf doesn't require porn to get off, I'd say it's more likely that's his issue as well. Try to be understanding and patient; some of my ex's would get very insecure and self-depracating when I went to finish and it really felt bad, made me not even want to.

>>17465088
He tried that when he went on holiday and it didnt work.
>>17465077
desu part of me thinks he's only doing it because it's his only chance. He actually said I'm the best chance he has.

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>>17465089
Thank you, I was really beginning to get worried.

>>17465027
Its porn. He masturbates to whatever fucked up fetishes he has and then when it comes to the real thing its nothing like his porns.
Tell him to stop watching porn.

>>17465164
He probably still was fapping. Also it takes about 3 weeks of no porn to fix an issue like this. Really its supposed to take up to 90 days which is why problems like this never go away. Because theres no way hes going 90 days without porn.

He needs to stop watching porn and stop fapping for AT LEAST 6 months before he will see any results.

You can also do kegals and eventually weighted kegals to tighten your pelvic floor muscles. Even if this isn't the problem, it's really good for your general health.

>>17465027

Do you know if he takes any medications? Speaking from personal experience here, Many anti-depressants/anxiety meds can cause inorgasmia in male and females. So don't chalk it up to a problem with either of you just yet.

>>17465173
>>17465177
So is it bad if he masturbates everyday? I'll talk to him about this

>>17465196
Not exactly. It depends on the individual guy.

Some have trouble in bed if they masturbate to porn daily, but others have zero trouble.

Still it's a good idea and a nice change of pace to stop masturbating for a while just to see where the guy lies on the scale.

I know a few guys who can't cum from sex. One guy said it was a big factor in his divorce. He loved his wife, but he masturbated with a death grip for years, so he could only finish from masturbating.

Try laying on your stomach and squeezing his dick while he's in you.

>>17465205
I'm talking about it atm with him, but he's avoiding it. Thanks for the advice anons

>>17465196
For him yes. Some people can eat garbage everyday and not get fat. Most people cant.