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Does anybody knows any music that I should listen to so I can increase my agressiveness? I don't want to be violent or anything. I just don't want to feel so damn afraid and anxious of everything all the time. I want to impose myself and speak my mind out. I think music would help while I run and go to the gym...
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Various kind of metal, heavy electronic, dubstep, etc. work for me.

You need to find something that works for you, though. Find something that fits your taste and pumps you up.
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>>17493794
Fast paced music. Usually rock. There's an album I like called Nonagon Infinity, most of the songs are pretty fast paced.
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http://www.bodybuilding.com/fun/24-of-the-top-eminem-workout-songs.html

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My GF has a skin condition called keratosis pilaris and it makes her skin bumpy (and hairy). Is there anything she can do to improve it? Does Vitamin E capsules work?
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Send her to a dermatologists.
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>>17493758
>Send her to a dermatologists.
Anything besides that? lol
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>>17493933
We aren't doctors you fucking idiot. Why isn't there a rule here for medical advice holy shit?!

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I'll start this off by saying i'm in the military.

About five months ago my friends wife's friend moved near where I am stationed. We went on a couple dates but I wasn't sure how she felt so I kind of let it fade away. I recently went on a TDY (Temporary Duty so I was away for about two months) and during that time she started texting me and snapchatting a lot...I told here when I would be back and she seemed excited.. when I got back... well, look at the picture. What should I say to this?
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Tell her its all good and move on with your life.
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>>17493748
what a slut, show us the pics
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"Good luck with the rest of your life. "

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I think my wife is cheating on me, I need to find a way to see what she is typing on facebook when she uses my computer when I am gone. She is very secretive and will close the window when I come around.

Please let me know if you know of a good keystroke counter for mac.

Thank you
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How about you act like a fucking adult, and tell her your concerns and the specific behaviors. Without accusing her off cheating
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Because if she is and denies it than she will make it harder for me to find out.
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>>17493803

This times a million.

It should be in fact easier for you to approach this sort of thing without having to hesitate as much.

Just ask her what she's doing and if she truly has nothing to hide she'll tell you because she trusts you won't get upset with her.

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Is there any hidden merit to maintaining thoughts/beliefs/dreams that realistically seem to serve no purpose?

To clarify, let's say you have a dream you want to achieve that you know for certain is impossible. Or, you have some idealistic belief that you know you can't instate into reality in your lifetime (whether that's due to you not wanting it enough, it being impossible, or other factors). Is there a point to keep thinking about it, to complain about not being able to do it, and to dedicate resources to it in general?

Do you lose anything by giving up on such a belief? Does the existence of this belief by itself have some meaning? Or is it better to just forget about it and focus on what you can do instead? Maybe it's better to not forget it completely but not dedicate many resources to it either?
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>>17493631
Sigh... I ask myself stuff like this all the time. Honestly, I just like to day dream about idealistic bullshit all the time- it makes me happy. At the same time, I know it's a fucking waste of time and I'm wasting my life away with ideas that will never, ever happen. Maybe if we can do something with our psyche that somehow makes our visions into reality?! idfk. bump.
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>>17493631
"It is only by dreaming the impossible that we discover how much more is possible than we thought"

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Is college really a meme?

I want to be a programmer or get some desk job

If I could buy some books on programming, grind for a couple of years then I'll do it.
I got a dad who's doing something similar, if I talk to him, I can probably get connections and hopefully get some job.

but is college or a degree really necessary for this?

I also want to start out part time due to some medical mumbo jumbo and disabilities
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depends where you live, I guess. a lot of employers aren't interested in training people and also won't give a fuck if you studied everything yourself. they want degrees and certifications.
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>>17493630
Despite what people may tell you yes a degree is important. HR will filter lots of applicants who don't have a bachelors and or equivalent experience. Not to say you can't get by without it but it will be tougher.
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Just do what I did man, commute to a cheap local state school for the Cs or related program. Get the piece of paper and learn while you're in school look at the job requirements and get what they want while your in school.

WHY?
It's easier to learn for most in a structured environment, you may meet some people who can connect you to a job. It will make finding a job much easier and if people get laid off having a degree helps my friend. If you care about social circles it does help being college educated because now a days people will look down on you.

Sorry, im just speaking the truth man.

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Is strict parenting ideal?
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Sometimes.
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No cause your kids will do stupid shit they didn't get to do when they were younger and wont learn from it. That doesn't mean you have to be slack with your kids. Find a middleground, anon.
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As a high school teacher, yes.

I have had too many meetings with crying or angry mothers and fathers who don't know what to do with little Billy and his grades/behavior problems, but God forbid they take away the cell phone or video games. Strict parents are more likely to take steps at home to fix these problems.

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How can I cure bipolar disorder without medication?
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>>17493580

Bipolar disorder is not a curable condition. Its a very multi-faceted, complicated disorder that MUST be treated with medication and therapy. It can be treated but not cured.

There is no home remedy to a severe psychological disorder like bipolar.

There are over 5 different types of bipolar disorder all with different manifestations, behavioral patterns, symptoms and methods of treatment. This is not something that you are capable of doing on your own, thats why we have doctors.

See a doctor. Get therapy. Create a support system and trust them to help you with your condition. Untreated Bipolar disorder can and will destroy your life or possibly kill you if you go on thinking you can handle it on your own.
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>>17493596
So there is absolutely no hope, I have an incurable disease and should give up?
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>>17493600
With that attitude sure but I know a few manics that manage to live good lives with medication and therapy.

/ADV/ I come to you for help. To make a long story short, my family has been a POS after my father passed away and all my sisters got the easy ways into their adult life and I was kicked out of my home passive aggressively (Family suddenly left when I was 22, I tried managing the bills of a house in an expensive location, found out my family was coming in and leaving shit running while I was away and couldn't pay any bills anymore because they were so expensive)

My girlfriend came to the rescue and told me her family was willing to take me in while I got back on my feet, this was two years ago and during those two years a lot of shit happened which have kept me living with her and her family all this time. First I lost my job because it was outsourced to the Philippines and I had to run small jobs for about 7 months as to not be a burden to this family and bring money still, then my dog got Distemper and I used most of my capital on the treatment, I even found a great job and kept the treatment for about a year, sadly my 7 year old companion did pass away one month ago from an unrelated infection and I have been dedicating this month to repay loans for his treatments. (We are talking about 4000 dollars) PT1
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This brings me up to speed, I no longer have a reason to be here, I honestly do not like being here, I feel like my relationship and the decisions in it are highly affected by my girlfriends family and since I don't really have a welcoming family to talk about my problems this has turned kinda one sided. I feel I HAVE to get married, than I HAVE to take my girl with me wherever I go, and that if I do something on my own it's a sign that I do not love my girlfriend in her family's view.

I am coming to my sense that it's time to leave, but I want to go live by myself for a while to clear my mind and get back on track to where I was before but this is also hurting my girl because she feels I don't love her anymore and that's why I want to leave without her, but to be honest I need to be by myself for a while to fix myself and stop hurting her.

I really don't know where to start in order to deal with these feelings which came all at the same time. Please do ask questions, any insight would be greatly appreciated.
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>>17493576
>but I want to go live by myself for a while to clear my mind and get back on track to where I was before but this is also hurting my girl because she feels I don't love her anymore and that's why I want to leave without her, but to be honest I need to be by myself for a while to fix myself and stop hurting her.
Explain it that way to her anon. Explain to her that you have to fix yourself before you're ready to take the relationship further. Im not sure what you could do if you dont want to be with her anymore cause that might seem selfish and you might be hated for it if they start talking.
your taste in jets is burger/10
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>that if I do something on my own it's a sign that I do not love my girlfriend in her family's view.
I'd agree with her family on that point.

So I'm Jewish, and this guy from my school emailed me this Onion video that uses the Holocaust as a joke:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Q4PC8Luqiws

Earlier in the year, this same person started a fight by calling a black guy a nigger.

With that in mind, is this a hate crime?
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>>17493558
nice bait, kys fampai
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>>17493560
Actually I'm serious. It's not what it looks like.
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No he's just an ass hole. If he beat you up for being a Jew that would be a hate crime.

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Is going to a psychiatrist or psychologist worth it?

I'm anti-social and depressed as fuck, and I'm tired of it.

I don't want to end up subscribing therapy sessions for the rest of my life.
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I take anti depressants. im not depressed anymore but im still shy or anti social or whatever you term it. Although anti depressants don't make you happy. they just take away the depression. I really want a medicine that makes me happy.
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>>17493538
>>17493554

Is your insurance going to cover your pretend friend?
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>>17493538
Go to a psychologist. A good one will tell you how he'll work with you and won't milk you for years. I think if you are open to change, and you seem to be, you will change your perspective in a few months.
Read into adlerian psychology.

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An ex friend who I willingly broke contact with is trying to contact me again.

So I'll try to keep it as short as possible. Me and this other girl were quite close, until one day she confessed she had feelings for me and our friendship pretty much crashed and burned from there. The thing is soon enough I had to leave for university so there was never any confrontation, I just let the distance happen.

Obviously her confessing changed our dynamic, because of our friendship I just submitted to her attempts at affection and I guess that led her on. I never reciprocated but I never shut her down either.
I'm not stupid I could sense her constant attempts of having my attention and it that was a really heavy weight to carry at all times.

Soon enough she got fed up with me not returning her affections and turned that on our friendship, like complaining she always had to be the one to plan our hangouts, getting angry at me when on various ocasions I wasn't able to meet her either online or in person when I said I would, etc. A few of those times I had legitimate things that kept me from engaging with her, but everytime she would call it bullshit and say I should just tell her if I don't want to hang out anymore. That or complete silence, which ultimately worked on favor of this distance.

I'll be the first to call myself on my bullshit, I'm one of those people who almost never texts/emails/calls back imediately. I don't enjoy those suffocating social situations, I like having my space. I know that sucks but that should have been of the first things to move on from or not in our friendship.

I also have to say this type of situation where someone has feelings for me but I don't return them makes me so uncomfortable I want to take the next rocketship into the next dimension.

I never attempted to talk to her again because despite knowing I didn't react well, I don't trust her. I don't need that craziness back in my life.

What should I do??
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I should add, she recently contacted me and I said, "what's up?", to which she gave the classic
"not much, what about you?" reply. Don't know how to move on from there.

I don't think I could trust her again but I'd like to do this without being a dick if possible.
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Where is that pic from?
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>>17493638
Magritte's The Son of Man

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Hey. So I've decided to look into joining the Air Force. Seems like the best thing for me. Been emailing a recruiter, touching base with him for the past couple of weeks. Before he wants to meet up he reccomended I gather all necessary paperwork (Medical records, etc) ahead of him so he can send me to MEPS. I'm just here bored out of mind waiting for my records to come through the mail and I just feel like my lifes on pause;can't enjoy my video games.

I've been lurking/shitposting after a 4 months break from this slice of hell. So. What are you all up to?

Hey. So I've decided to look into joining the Air Force. Seems like the best thing for me. Been emailing a recruiter, touching base with him for the past couple of weeks. Before he wants to meet up he reccomended I gather all necessary paperwork (Medical records, etc) ahead of him so he can send me to MEPS. I'm just here bored out of mind waiting for my records to come through the mail and I just feel like my lifes on pause;can't enjoy my video games.

I've been lurking/shitposting after a 4 months break from this slice of hell. So. What are you all up to?

Pic unrelated (like you don't know)
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>>17493515
Find a good book.
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>>17493557
Yeah, I've been thinking about that. I've got a compilation of books by Walden I have yet to read. But books can be read in mere hours. That's a downer.

What do you recoomend for books?
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>>17493572
Here are two fantasy series:
-King Killer Chronicles (Engaging from the getgo)
-Stormlight Archives (Hard to start but push through)
I also suggest that you work on developing a skill at the same time.
-Go workout
-Learn to cook
-Learn a language
That way your day is busy with things to accomplish.

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I I'm not sure what these bumps are. I wasn't in the woods or in a lake. HELP MEEEEE
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looks like athletes foot but its not on your toes.
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>>17493477
Your left foot looks deformed on the thumbnail.

Allergy, maybe.
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>>17493477
Could be samata.

Why does culture glorify drug addicts?
The media pushes junkies everywhere, sports athletes on performance enhancing drugs, entertainers on narcotics, books push characters on psychedelics. Party goers on whatever they can get.
It's not even rare, the biggest most popular stuff like a musician is a junkie acting stupid and people eat it up and try to act like that, why are these people role models?
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post examples please
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>>17493475
Arnold schwarzenegger, cheech and chong, fucking you can't think of an entertainer that has a drug problem? fucking really actors, charlie sheen, musicians when do you hear a rapper not talking about drug deals or being fucking high? It's practically everywhere all the fucking time if it isn't explicitly anti-drug like fucking reefer madness which seems totally exaggerated but is full of examples of things that fuckin happened and that drug addicts actually do, it's implicitly in favor of it.
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>>17493511
>if it isn't explicitly anti-drug, it's implicitly in favor of it
that's not true, but as long as you insist on having fucking rabies about this topic, nothing anybody says is going to sway you.

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