Is there a way to look up license plates free? I'm trying to track this dude down.
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>>17492713
call an insurance agent at Geico or Progressive
make up a bullshit story like
I just bought a car from someone online and I'm not sure if they really own it or if they were leasing it from someone else
they can give you information like who owns it or if it's even registered
they'll look it up in their database and if they're dumb or gullible enough,they will tell you who the owner is and possibly the location of where it's registered to
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Why are you trying to track him?
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>>17492768
Outside schools at finishing time? Yoga classes? I dunno, think where milfs go
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What is this shit? It keeps showing up on my clothes after washing. Is it the detergent still in my clothes?
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it's a logo you retard
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>>17492692
looks like cum stains to me.
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DAD WTF!!!
I couldn't communicate properly with the bf if my life depended on it. I never say anything if something bothers me. This will lead to huge problems. How the hell do i learn that? How do i get over myself? I'm very avoidant. I know why and all that. But i just don't seem to be able to get it right. If i make an effort, it goes well for a few days and then it creeps back
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why don't you speak up if you're bothered?
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>>17492682
it is all up to you really.
Base of every good relationship is communication.
If you aren't even willing to speak up, it is doomed to face.
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>>17492690
I'll write down my thought process.
>oh, we just had sex and he didn't even make the slightest attempt to help me enjoy myself too. I should definitely tell him that's not satisfying and that i expect him to atleast pretend to care
>but wait, he did care but i rarely actually cum anyways so he probably has given up
>but he could still try. Maybe i just need time. Maybe we just have to experiment a bit more.
>meh, i sometimes need half an hour to achieve a shitty orgasm on my own. That's draining, exhausting and not worth it at all
>he would also feel like i'm putting him on the spot. Maybe he was just tired
>is it really worth that awkward talk if it might not even achieve anything if he tried harder? Nah
>i'll get over it
the end
I always have thise dialogues. They happen fast as fuck and the conclusion is always that it's not wirth it.
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Seeking spiritual guideness
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I'm going through a lot, and I've looked deep into meditation, spirit science, creation and life. I feel that I've learned, but not enough. I can feel my chakras blocked and wounded, and I have no idea how to clear/heal them. I've googled a guide, but it doesn't feel right. If anyone could point me in the right direction or help at all it would be greatly appreciated. Thanks
Also, any knowledge that's shared would be cool
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Read wikkan, SRS.
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>>17492668
Is it a book? I googled it and the search came to Wiccan ideology and the Book of Shadows
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Stoicism
Marcus Aurelius
Seneca
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Money is a systematic form of slavery and I dont want any part in it. I hate what it does to people and close ones in my life.
I came from a pretty well off family but was never given enough to get by. My parents never bought enough food for me. I grew up super food insecure and i literally would go over to a friends house who lived off of government foodstamps and i would get to eat for the first time in a week.
My parents give me no sort of financial support and are divorced. I dont talk to either of them and they have basically disowned me because of my views and because i didnt do everything they commanded as my slave masters. My siblings dont talk to me at all either.
I haev no friends either and lately ive actually been looking for shitty mininum wage jobs. Im homeless and ive even been dressing nicely with my 1 nice dress shirt but nowhere will fucking hire me.
I dont even want a job I fucking hate money. Still i entirely pretend that i want the job and do quite well in interviews.
I walk over this one bridge every day and i cant not think about where the best places to jump off would be into freeway traffic. I fucking hate this planet and myself and I have no insurance so going to the doctor to get fucked up research chemicals prescribed to me wouldnt work either.
I am so fucking disenchanted with this fucking world. Should i jump?
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>>17492662
Yeah, kill yourself, more oxygen for me.
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Saying money is conducive to slavery is an insult to actual slaves.
Yea idiots get themselves into insurmountable debt and that sucks but not everyone has to do that.
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>>17492676
Im not talking about debt im talking about slavery.
Labor and slavery are the same thing.
http://www.krisis.org/1999/manifesto-against-labour/
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Sup adv. I've been thinking about why I was so crazy over my ex lately. We had a brother sister/father daughter relationship but she always wanted to fucked like crazy. She would always tell me I'm like her brother, who is an OG, he's like a mob boss and treats her well. *the arm holding type bro/sis.
Well she would hug me, look in my eyes, call me daddy and I'd call her little girl. She relied on me for comfort and to help her get through stuff. I miss it.
Could it be the same as losing a significant family member after loosing a relationship like this? Is this wrong? Lol I always wanted a sis.
Pic related, how she looked at me.
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>>17492639
Well, she's your ex and not your current gf for a reason.
Focus on that. Not on the good, but on the bad.
It's easy to gloss over the bad, once you're removed from a situation, and it looks like that's what you're doing right now.
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>>17492639
>Could it be the same as losing a significant family member after loosing a relationship like this?
A wife IS a major family member. I'm closer to my wife than I am to my actual sister, and my life would be wrecked without her. Maybe you weren't married, but yes, of course a serious breakup can be similarly traumatic, regardless of the weird sister thing you may have had going on.
>Is this wrong? Lol I always wanted a sis.
Sort of creeps me out, personally, but I'm uptight. It seems pretty common and since you aren't actually committing incest I think it's harmless.
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>>17492675
Thank you, she was the closest person in my life.
>zero life skills, can't even cook or clean well
>don't know shit about laundry
>don't know how to dress
>shitty social skills
>low highschool GPA, can't attend uni
>can't drive at 19, family refuses to teach me
>nearest driving school is miles away
>blew my first chance at college
>parent hasn't bought groceries in months, been living off small junk food meals
>no job, applications are all ignored
>nothing to my name except certs for some trade jobs
>only hiring in shitty high crime city
>parent wants me out soon, may or may not help with college again
Should I just kill myself at this point? It seems like there's no way to go but down.
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>>17492638
>It seems like there's no way to go but down.
From what I read you are practically at the bottom so you can only go up at this point. You can start small by learning how to do laundry and cook for yourself, ask your parents for guidelines.
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>zero life skills, can't even cook or clean well
>don't know shit about laundry
>don't know how to dress
>shitty social skills
You know you're allowed to learn things right? Like, you can fucking put in some effort to learning these things instead of going on 4chan, vidya or masturbating.
>low highschool GPA, can't attend uni
Not yet. Hope this taught yoh a lesson about trying harder, because now the next 10 years of your life are going to be a lot shitting than they could have been
>can't drive at 19, family refuses to teach me
>nearest driving school is miles away
You don't need parents or a school. Just a car. Practice on your own.
>blew my first chance at college
Yup
>parent hasn't bought groceries in months, been living off small junk food meals
Better find a job or you're gonna starve or get some malnutrition disease. Also keep in mind a shitty diet affects your overall fatigue, motivation and general mental abilities
>no job, applications are all ignored
Better look harder than you have already, and learn to sell yourself.
>nothing to my name except certs for some trade jobs
So start with trade jobs. Finisher positions in carpentry and metal fab don't need any experience or brains.
>only hiring in shitty high crime city
You're not attending school and you don't have dependents so there is nothing forcing you to stay where you are
>parent wants me out soon, may or may not help with college again
Obviously they want you're out, you're an adult contributing nothing to the household while still leeching off them
>Should I just kill myself at this point? It seems like there's no way to go but down.
Or you could y'know, try. Because trying is a constant thing. Your problem is you try something once or a couple times and then give up. The only way to succeed in anything is to keep trying until you do so.
My advice can be summed up as such: stop being lazy. No one will help you with these life basics. Stop wasting time and figure it out.
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>>17492638
Try going for an artistic carreer, if that appeals to you. Many damn good artists/writers have come from a background not so different from yours.
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Few months back I met a girl through dating website. We started chatting a lot, and after a month started dating. We clicked almost immidiately. Due to the fact that she was taking care of her mother (she died in July) and lived outside my city, we hanged out only during weekends. During this time I provided her emotional support, and stayed close to her. I met her family, she met mine. In after she recovered a bit I invited her for weekend and we had good time. On beginning of August I wanted to do something special (we were going out for 2 months) so I cooked a dinner and prepared a bath for her.
Few days later she cancelled our holiday plans (a couple of days in another city, where she always wanted to go) due to work.
We met for one day afterwards, had really nice time together (she left 3 hours later than she planned). However in the end she wanted to say something but did not had courage.
Afterwards she was a bit weird during whole week, so I felt something was not right. She cancelled our plans for the weekend (we had tickets to concert) and said that she will not come without giving reason. Last Friday we had a talk - she was afraid, she felt interior to me and that we do not fit - she was afraid to engage in the relationship because of this. After a long talk she said that she need to think.
During weekend we had few more serious conversations, about our goals in live, what we want from relationship etc, and the result was that we want the same things. We had another call on Monday and decided that she will visit me this Friday.
During this whole time we were talking normally, with a lot of drifting to sex and flirting and joking a lot.
Today she sent me a message that she will be unable to come on Friday. Saturday - she does not know. I asked if I should visit - no, please do not come. In the mean time we kept joking and flirting.
In my last message I have asked if something is wrong again. And joked that she requires a lot of effort.
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>>17492622
Continued:
Since then I remain silent. She knows how do I feel about her (the same way as she told that she feels about me). Should I ask her about weekend around Friday? Or just remain silent and give her time to think?
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>>17492629
What concert ?
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>>17492641
Local rock band. Nothing special, but she liked it once I sent her few tracks
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im a man with wide hips. im trying to broaden my shoulders so i dont look too disproportionate. is it possible to do this without having to buy weights,gym membership?
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>>17492621
No. Your bone structure is all but set in stone and shoulders are one of the hardest places to build bulk muscle mass.
Lift weights or fuck off.
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>>17492626
i worded this terribly. i know that i need to do exercises but i seriously cannot afford weights right now. would a pull up bar work for now?
obviously ill search for proper techniques
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>>17492634
A pull up bar costs more than a couple of weights, unless you're buying a cheap shit one that won't work well anyways.
Pull ups are never bad for you, and gym memberships aren't expensive unless you have a minimum wage job and a family to support.
But pull ups alone will not build you drastic muscle mass because they're largely a back exercise.
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I want to start by saying that I don't condone cheating and am just curious how you all think of cheating.
I see people suggesting to come clean pretty frequently here and I can't help but wonder what that really accomplishes. If you plan to break up with the person, what does it help to make the person feel even more betrayed.
Would you really be happier knowing that the person cheated on you if you had no suspicions and it didn't impact you otherwise?
Just wondering how you all rationalize the act and why disclosure or nondisclosure seems ideal to you.
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Because keeping a lie totally secret is a lot harder than you think, and can actually wreak havoc on your own mental state by keeping such a big lie inside. It's for your own benefit that you don't let it fester inside. It's why it's so hard to people to keep secrets nowadays. You just feel so much relief when you finally tell someone something.
and also when the other person finds out you cheated and didn't even tell them, it's a whole lot worse than if you'd just come clean. You think they wouldn't already feel betrayed by the fact that their ex lied to them about the reason they broke up? Cheating always comes out eventually. Someone will see something, rumors get around....
I mean, if one is the sort of unfeeling person that can keep everything bottled up inside and live a duplicite life, more power to them i suppose.
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>>17492618
Monogamish works better. Humans arent designed to be with one person, so cheating isn't all that morally wrong, AS LONG AS IT ISN'T CONSTANT.
If you have a 15 year relationship and cheat twice, that's not all that bad.
If you have a 1 year relationship and cheat 5 times, wtf are you doing.
It also depends on if you develop alternative feelings for your cheating partner. There are 100 million facets to it. Cheating is a phenomenon better explained in a 300 page book than a handful of online posts and opinions.
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>>17492636
>If you have a 15 year relationship and cheat twice, that's not all that bad.
If you have a 1 year relationship and cheat 5 times, wtf are you doing.
This is the poor rationalization of a cheaters mind.
Obvious the saying "ignorance is bliss" comes into play here. Knowing will destroy a person. Even if the cheater disclosed an hour after it happen, or if it was five months ago. There are just degrees of destruction. Factors like hiding it, or continuing the deceit, will escalate the destruction degree.
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>Check gfs instagram
>See this
Should I be worried?
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>>17492614
lol
remember anon
"once you go black, we dont want you back"
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Yeah, dump her.
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Shes fat, never shhouldve gotten with her in the first place. She looks like on of those basic white girl. Dump it faggot
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Say you're a youth worker and a retard child tells you that they love you, how should you respond?
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>>17492587
Tell them you have a boyfriend and act offended.
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>>17492587
I love you too, but we have a brother and sister love. You should be with one of the boys your own age.
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>>17492587
"That's nice sweetie"
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Hey guys, finally able to attend university but the price of books at the bookstore are crazy! Is there anyway I can find copies for books online or for cheap via E-book? Alot of the professors say we can use older editions/volumes, I'm just having a hard time finding anything myself haha, any advice?
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>>17492580
don't you have any senior friends who you can borrow from? consider yourself lucky they let you use older editions, if you look hard enough I bet you'll find the books you're looking for
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If you go on /t/ there was a textbook thread that started and you mighy be able to find what you need.
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Thanks so much! and no, sadly I don't know anyone here yet. I'm not from the area and my other friends ended up going into the military
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Gf says i am not 'experienced' and wants to take a break so i can experience 'freedom'. She say's am insecure and shy and I need to get with other girls to get over this at my young age (20)
I went absolutely insane at her condescending comment, I am not shy and I do not need to get with 50 girls (like she has guys) to 'find' myself or be confident.
I called her a cunt and went crazy at her now I think we are broken up. Should I just leave her, I feel disrespected and dont think my spouse should be pushing for us to be on a break anyway... thoughts?
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It would probably be best. She sounds like a bitch, and do you honestly want to make a women who's been with 50 guys your wife?
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>>17492579
Probably she wants to fuck someone else/ other people and instead of saying that she's trying to make it about you.
Whatever the case, it's an unfixable situation and you're better off breaking up.
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>>17492579
Leave her. She wants to bang other dudes and she's trying to say it is because you suck so she doesn't feel like a slut for doing it.
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Femanon here. 23. Never had bf. Had guys who were interested in me and talked to me, but it never really went far. I never know how to talk to them,or how to make it very far. What am I doing wrong? Am I getting too old now where I just seem pathetic?
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>>17492567
pic?
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>>17492567
Are you a kissless virgin then?
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i give 99 percent chance youre fat or at least quite chubby