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Just be honest and tell her your only friends are those 2 guys who you don't even like much. There's not really much else you can do.

>>17495355
I agree with >>17495985
There is nothing wrong with you. Not everyone has to have friends. If you like being alone/ your GF being your best and only friend, that's fine. If you are functioning well socially there is be nothing to be worried about. Just tell her the truth, if she likes you, she'll be fine.

tell her the truth and take her to a picknick anyways

>>17495328
are you actually good looking though? you cant expect to get with 6-7s if you're not good looking or have an incredible personality. the main benefit to losing your virginity is confidence and i suppose practice. i would of fucked a hambeast when i was a virgin if the opportunity presented itself.

>>17495328
You'll worry about women less, because through all the jokes about men being controlled by pussy, it's really not the greatest thing on earth. Like I love it, but at some point in your life you start realizing how dumb some of the people you jerk it over are in reality.

It's good to get it out so you can build some self respect, but if you're going anywhere in your life, you'll wonder why it was so important. If you're not going anywhere, you'll keep obsessing and be that old man one day who spends his days hooting at girls 1/3 his age or younger.

If you're lucky you'll stop thinking things like "she'll most likely let me fuck her in the ass" and become a normal member of humanity.

>>17495328
>>17495328
is pic of you or girl you want to put your penis in?

Just fucking do it. Why does being facebook friends with him even matter?

>>17495309
I like him! And I want to ask him out eventually.

Yes it is ok to add him and you should.

>>17495294
mate its like the most normie fetish. The most famous too. Just fucking complement her feet. Then the next time say "aww they are rly just so cute, i want to kiss them" see her reaction if she likes it just go ahead and do it. Then Elaborate on how you've always liked them,

I've never had any issue with any of my gfs when it comes to their feet, and I'm a huge footfag.

Pretty much told them straight up every time and they were like "oh cool, I get lots of footrubs then"

Is it bad to cum on her feet while she's sleeping?

Happens to me sometimes but never happens if I get 10+ hours of sleep the night before. Maybe your eyes are just tired? But mine water up for no reason when what you are talking about happens to me.

>>17495334
So sleep more? I will try this.
>mine water up for no reason when what you are talking about happens to me.
I've experienced this. My eyes started tearing and burning very badly in the corners of my eyes. I was driving and literally had to pull over because I couldn't keep my eyes open it was burning so bad.

I want to fix this so badly.

>>17495352
Was responding to the original post, then I saw this.

I would really advise seeing a doctor if they're that bad. It could be a sign of an even worse condition, even infection.

Eye drops are available but given what you've described I feel it'd be unwise to suggest them without you getting some proper medical advise first.

*keep my mind off

>>17495269
break AKA both of you are unable to have a conversation like adults so you stop talking to eachother and she goes around getting dicks shoved in her until she feels like she's had enough dicks to be able to deal with you again.

what was the fight about anon

>>17495269
Work on improving yourself and enjoying life, because if you are on a break the relationship is fucked.

>>17495225
>/r9k/ is cancer, anons.
so are women to be honest with you family.

>>17495225

/R9k/ is toxic in the sense that it makes you think all women are the same.
But it's good to know what MOST of them are like...
You just gotta talk to them like you would talk to a man, form your opinion afterwards instead of before.

>>17495225

Congrats man keep it up. When you talk to women the best thing to do is listen mostly and control the conversation/topic. You do that by changing the subject subtly to something you prefer or making a joke if she's too consistent on the subject. Jokes are key, the best thing to do is joke with her like she's a nagging sister. Don't go into debates, drama blah blah and talk about feminism and all that gay/heavy shit, defuse anything like that with a joke, changing the subject or if all else fails, excuse yourself.

If a girl has a bf you're talking to, ask her what she likes and doesn't like about her bf, that gets them to really open up and can teach you a couple of things about relationships. I'll bet you when you talk to several girls about what they dislike about they're bf, they will all say or something else similar, "he's not doing what he did to get me in the first place or he stop treating me like he did in the beginning." .

Some women will say he's too needy, just dissect whatever you can. Anyway, always keep in your head "to not" take women too seriously( until she's giving up the goods) because a lot of what they do is for attention when they interact with males in convos. Also women are rather emotional creatures and seem illogical at times.

>Happy you're working.
>But want to fuck that up by ruining your relationship with your employer because your butthurt people are taking about you when you can't even really hear them.

I wish I had your problems.

>I've dealt with people saying shit about my hearing for a long time

How do you know?

Dude be happy you have a job, my mom is 44 and she has hearing disability , in all her 6 years of searching jobs since she got this , no luck at all . Be happy with what you have

Possibly, just let them know beforehand.

Call the National Suicide Prevention Lifeline at +1 (800) 273-8255.

You're not worthless people care about you

>>17495206
This needs to be posted as a sticky.

Dunno about Craigslist. Never thought about it I guess.

>>17495200
?Is there any better way of finding one-time hookups?

Tinder

Watch out for bug catchers.

Do YOU think that's a good idea?

>>17495298
The pay is good and it seems like the job's on demand. I just don't know how if I could land a job while on tourist visa.

That's a bad idea. Getting a work permit is not so easy. And you're not even supposed to be looking for work if you enter Europe as a visa-free tourist.

Relationships are about meeting in the middle, ask her if there's some weird shit she wants to try and roll with it. That of kill that part of you. My wife will never do anal, and I will never get to stick it up her ass. But I'm fine with that because she sacrifices for me too.

My girlfriend likes the rougher stuff too and initially I didn't enjoy doing it to her. What really helped is that she shows clear excitement, happiness, and arousal from it. When I see that kind of positive reaction I can be rough without any malice because I know it makes her happy. You don't need to be sadistic to act that way (this is healthier too).

We've progressed further now. We can role play where she doesn't show happiness and I'm still comfortable because I KNOW she enjoys it. It took time to establish that trust.

Help your girlfriend realize your enjoy her treatment of you through your actions and moans and stuff in the moment. It'll take time. You may have to focus on clearly expressing pleasure in the beginning to help her understand you enjoy it.

>>17495183
you should start by playing that album on repeat until she enjoys it

>>17495180

Some people have very difficult personal struggles.
No one on this board could help you, gotta do your own research, think about how you became this way and what you want to change, what you want out of life.

It's a long extremely difficult process, good luck.

can relate, i figure iv just been burned so hard by people that forming relationships seems pointless and im just waiting for them find me, it works because i have a good social life, but i could take more advantage of things

its all about perspective and maybe you fear rejection or feel different from everyone else?

no one can tell you, only you know, smoke some weed and do all the good drugs, it might help answer shit for you

>>17495180
>I don't know if things are ever going to get better and I can't really talk about this to anyone.

I think most of your problems stem from this. When you talk to nobody but yourself how can anyone tell you you're wrong or right?

What the fuck is wrong with you? Your mother needs medical attention and you're on 4chan. Call a doctor.

Clogged arteries(if she has been REALLY following the low sodium diet), go to a doctor to get some pigment injection xrays done.

>>17495169

I told her before coming here, but she doesn't want it

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>>17495146


Two mature persons in love help each other to become more free. There is no politics involved, no diplomacy, no effort to dominate. How can you dominate the person you love? Just think over it. Domination is a sort of hatred, anger, enmity. How can you think of dominating a person you love? You would love to see the person totally free, independent; you will give him more individuality. That's why I call it the greatest paradox: they are together so much so that they are almost one, but still in that oneness they are individuals. Their individualities are not effaced —they have become more enhanced. The other has enriched them as far as their freedom is concerned.

Immature people falling in love destroy each other's freedom, create a bondage, make a prison. Mature persons in love help each other to be free; they help each other to destroy all sorts of bandages. And when love flows with freedom there is beauty. When love flows with dependence there is ugliness.

>>17495149
You didn't even read that, did you?