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tremendously. she wanted to know if you are in a commited relationship or not. come on, anon...

Pure autism, nothing less than I expect of this site. I am proud of you, anon. You represent us gloriously.

She wanted to know if you are just friends or if you want to be something more, like in relationship.

>>17496022
She was about to sink the hook, lad.
Ya spit it out in her face.

it´s not bad per se to doubt one self and to "know that you know nothing". IQ tests only test a small range of intelligence and are, in my opinion, not reliable indicators of intelligence as a whole.
it might be that the people you associate with are just dumb as fuck and the moment you use a word that is slighly above average usage, they think you must be some kind of genius. it might also be, that you ARE intelligent. but that doesn´t mean shit if you don´t put it to work.
it´s also quiet common that people with higher intelligence doubt themselfes. it´s because they usually are selfaware. something that´s impossible after a certain level of stupidity.

>>17496020
So is there any actual way to reliably know if I'm smart or not?

Usually people who tell me this are mostly my parents (both are university professors, have a bunch of projects outside of our country and are generally "well known" [I think] across their fields), but those don't really mean much since parents always see their children as more than they are (or they're just trying to cheer me up I suppose). And most professors throughout my life have told me many times that I should put in more work at school since I could achieve way higher with my mind (I somewhat disregarded what they said due to not really caring about high school teachers).

>>17495995

>multiple people tell me im probably the most intelligent person they've ever met

jesus christ anon, no they don't. maybe one or two people have. jesus.

>the rest of that nonsense.

doeses it really fucking matter? if people say you're smart just say 'thank you' or throw in an 'awww shucks'. stop worrying about whether or not you are actually smart.

the problem today is that people think that smart is either 'on or off'. its like all the teenagers who say 'im mature for my age'. they think being mature (Even if they are) means being an adult, and its not the same. there are different kinds of mature, different kinds of intelligence, and its a SCALE.

you can call me short, but im still taller than that other guy. understand what i mean? you can call another guy big, but he may just be fat, or muscular, as opposed to tall.

there are various types of intelligence. you know the shit you're talking about. others dont. my roommate who knows just how dumb i can be thinks im smart cuz i used the word 'infer' right. my boss thinks im smart cuz i can balance his books, but my best friend thinks im a retard cuz i dont know much about science. my other friends think im intelligent because I can do visual effects or program a website, but my other person thinks im special needs because i mis prounounce everything.

see what im getting at here? nothing matters. the universe will collapse into entropy. buy gold, vote for trump.

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bump

I dunno, if I were you man I would honestly stay away. Seems a bit suspicious that she would just start messaging you after getting pregnant, so yeah, she very well may want you to help take care of the child.

As I said, personally I would stay away but ultimately it's your choice. Do you really want to take the risk of having to take care of the baby and possibly act as it's new father? It's an awfully big decision thta could impact your life in many ways you may not want, and you have to remember that you have NO obligation to take care of the thing, it's not your child and seems like she wnats to dorp some of the resonsiblity on you.

Don't forget that if you drop her, there are plenty more girls WITHOUT other people's children that you can persue romantic relationships with.

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>>17496645
Sounds about right man. I guess I'll stick to my original idea of going to college out of state.

I don't mind stepping up to take care of a kid, just not yet. Though, I doubt this relationship could endure what I have in mind. I mean shit, I still need to get into college and build up a career.

But thanks, anon. I just wanted to know I'm not sounding crazy to back out.

>>17495947
Every week.

>>17495947

They are just women who want the same things as any other woman would. The problem is that men get intimidated and don't even try.

If you believe Pook, by being jacked as fuck.
https://bookofpook.neocities.org/#ch-19

a hook and a parrot works well for me

>>17496067

torrents and google you fucking idiot. and dont do it at home, go to starbucks and shit up their ip.

Are you active when high, or couch potato? Whenever I feel like getting up when high I go for a hike/ nature walk kinda thing. Makes me feel like I'm part of something bigger than myself.

When I'm flat out stoned and don't want to move I just do stereotypical stoner things, play video games, watch porn, basically my day to day but more enjoyable.

Also, get on youtube and search off the air. There's a series of videos done by adult swim that are bretty gud to watch when high.

play csgo?

go outside enjoy nature
listen to music whilst laying on the couch
watch a movie
decent hash is god tier, fk weed

>>17495903
Wait.. She told you she loves you after a week? That's a BIG red flag famalam.

Yeah man just get your dick wet and don't tell her, but don't be surprised if she does the same with other guys. You can never know for sure since it's long distance, do you trust this girl 100%? The correct answer is no, you can't.

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>>17495914
She told her family and friends about me.She sent me her drawings and baby photos,she sent me two letters that had to go trough 4 countries.She is 18. idk mane...

help me u lil nogs

Being in debt the rest of my life somehow does not sound ideal for someone like me.

Oh, if it wasn't clear. I consider managing my sanity to be where I have a simple job and just live out my days in peace. Not to say that I don't want any job period.

>>17495844
I need more information to give good advise.
Are they willing to pay for your college?
What did you study and for how long?
What would you like to do for a job?
What are those hobbies you have?

>>17495839
Pretty sure you're depressed. But why?

>>17495839
I just did a depression test. I'm not depressed at all, still they said others things. Those shit are useless and pretty retarded. BTW you can talk to someone about this feelings, that's it. Also, maybe start a relationship, help a lot in this situations.

>>17495879
I was in few relationships in past 3 years, they only made me feel worse.

>>17495876
Don't know really, don't remember a time when I was happy- maybe in elementary school or something.

>>17495811
Well guys go much more by looks, so if they look better than the girl there's a chance they could realize this and try for something better. If you think he's the type, improve yourself. If not, still try for self improvement but do it for yourself

>>17495811
1. admit that you're a worthless piece of shit
2. motivate yourself to start
3. forget about motivation and develop willpower and discipline
4. don't go on a diet

there is no secret, you are the only one who is to blame

>>17495883
yeah, no shit sherlock. my question is about how to get that damn discipline and willpower. i do good for a few days. then i stray or simply forget in the heat of the moment (for example, today i had to eat at work and lunch was pizza. i had a good breakfast and was determined to only eat one reasonable portion and then eat something light and small for dinner. then lunch comes around and it´s extremely stressfull. i work at a school and we eat together with the kids. it´s literally insane around eating time. i am in some kind of automatic mode, tending to screaming kids, throwing piyyas and tantrums. after the kitchen was clean again and we were back in the classrooms, i suddenly realized i have eaten WAY too much again.) how do i stay focuesd in such situations? if i can calmly prepare my own meals and eat them in peace, there´s no problems. it´s situations like this that always get me...

>>17495785
Total breach of trust man. sounds unhealthy to me

>>17495785
>lying
>minimizing the action
>shifting blame
It's manipulation, which leads to
>manipulating
She is the captain of the Red Velvet ship.

>>17495791
She just walked back in and I decided to get a note I wrote about her up, one I was going to show her eventually as she is quite upset now (crying, she won't say at what). It was about our love, essentially.

I said "I want you to read this" and she just looked at me and said "No, you've told me not to look through your notes - I'll do as I'm told" which was childish af.

She just said "just looking at you makes me cry", but smiled a lil'.

F U C K.

>>17495784
you're still young. Do what you need to do now so your situtation adn thus, everyones situation, will be better in the future.

Dont be like i was when i was 19 and had the world in my palm, just to move back home out of guilt to care for my sick brother and devolving into a jobless, prospectless, low-life through your 20's/

After moving back home when i was 19, i was perpetually broke, somtimes so broke i didnt eat for days, started abusing drugs, making everything worse for everybody. I didn't leave again until i was 26. Within one year I had my shit together and landed a job in an epic location about 1200 miles away from my family that's currently paying 35/hour.

I can't bare to think of what I could have accomplished had I stayed true to myself when I was your age and stayed the course.

Its lonely and guilt ridden as fuck when you abandon your family, but sometimes its simply the right thing to do

>>17495822
thank you for the pointers, But I am leaving at 19. You left at a very acceptable age. My dad would call me a coward I feel like.

I mean shit, I have friends whose parents told me they'd take care of me, feed me ect. My mom does none of that, but I feel guilty regardless.

>>17495836
staying home out of guilt doesn't do anybody and justice.

you need to drop the guilt and find another reason to stay, which might mean leaving for a few years to sort it out

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>>17495770
Drink some apple juice op it's just as good

>>17495805
Thanks.

>>17495770
How old are you? have a older friend buy it or find an of age drug addict or alchy and buy them one also or give them money fuck use your noggin

If you want to gind a kprean girl try going to korea you walnut

>I want her to be Korean, i just love them, kinda hard to tell why but they are so kind people and i think they are more faithful than other people.
Asian fetishism, but not as much of a meme as wanting a Japanese waifu. Do you know any Korean people or are you just going off of what you read on the internet and from watching camgirls?

>>17495830
>Do you know any Korean people or are you just going off of what you read on the internet and from watching camgirls?
Koreans and other Asian cultures are known to be very respectful, which i feel is very important in relationships.
No, i don't watch camgirls at all, not my cup of tea. Kinda hard to explain, i look up to them.

Will this pass or do I need to see a urologist?

Nothin.. ?

Go see a doctor.