I let the only man who mattered, get away. I feel so lost now, /adv/. I really don't know what to do with myself anymore.
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Find your silver medal, obviously.
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He wasn't the only one, he is not special nor are you.
You're both people and there is tons of you out there you will find another one and it'll be fine.
All you need to do is move on
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Kill yourself
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being the only guy in a group (4) of girls friends 2016-08-25 15:35:20 Post No.17495504
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So the title says it all... Been knowing them for several years now and things have always been great but only recently have I noticed that one of them really liked me and that another one would not stop being suggestive in my presence.
Now I've seen what happens when there's just one girl in a group of guys and it was a disaster.
Is it the same with lads ? My feelings are unclear right now and I believe this could fuck up the whole group if I decided to get with one of them, but then if I didn't and just stayed friends I may just lose a big opportunity.
What are your thoughts on this ?
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Approach it by having private conversations with the other girls, see what is their point of view 'indirectly', if you move to the topic and they hint something you basically have their consent. Make sure to plan this out well, wording things wrong and there will be a lot of confusion. Good luck.
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>>17495504
If you have hard time chosing between them, then don't chose at all. If they confront you about it, ask you out or anything say no, or else your group of friends will fall apart
Also what >>17495515 said.
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>>17495520
I don't have trouble chosing which one would be right. The one that's into me (I guess) is somewhat normal but has a deep sense of morality that I truly enjoy so that'd be her. I'm better friend with the lewd one but I know her enough to believe I'd burn myself if I'd touch her.
>>17495515
I'll try this. They've hinted that we should get together before but my concerns are going with the lewd one, as she's not that stable mentally and I don't know how she'd react to this.
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Why is that I always think of a better argument or a better come-back after the situation's been over?
How to not let this happen in an argument?
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By not letting the argument happen in the first place? That's the best I've got.. But when you're in an argument you don't think logically, you're always right and the other person is always wrong until someone either gives up or breaks down the others resolve.
If it was something you could just prevent it would've been done a long time ago.
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>>17495448
By not panicking and destroying the shit of whoever disagrees with you.
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>>17495464
I should've added that it is not for general fight's and stuff but for the debates and talks my college organizes.
Elaborating OP. I always seem to be the one talking the most in the group of 4vs4 and they expect me to speak a lot than the other idiots in my group.
About two years ago, I was charged with drunk disorderly. I was drunk at a 24/7 hr gym at 4am, and became disorderly when the cop arrived and arrested me. I rode my bike there. I'm 30 yrs old, was dealing with an emotional issue (told gf I needed space, she wanted to kill herself. I drank at the gym, can't at home. we are now married. She is a Chinese immigrant.) I did probation (drug/alch testing, counseling, AA), but didn't have a car and couldn't complete it. Judge ordered leg bracelet. I didn't comply and ignored the order, and moved in with GF at University apartments. Lived there for almost a year with her. We married. A year later, she has her green card. I was pulled over randomly, and arrested for a bench warrant. She bonds me out $1000. 7 months later, I am fully compliant. I had to wear an alcohol leg tether for 6 months.
6 years ago there was a similar charge, I had broken up with GF, got drunk, and stepdad called cops on me. 6 months in jail, 1 month in rehab, 1 month in mental hospital because I cut my wrists. Schizoaffective diagnosis.
Those are my only charges, and I have never hurt anyone. Only drank alcohol and acted out/yelled.
I worry about my wife as an immigrant, and that I married while I had a bench warrant.
I need advice and have lived for a while with stress and confusion.
I will try to answer questions completely.
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>>17495436
Judging solely from what you have posted...
1. You are the type of person that should not be indulging in alcohol, or recreational drugs.
2. You need, literally need, professional help.
3. You are incredibly irresponsible, and need to prioritize better.
What, exactly, are you looking for here?
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>>17495436
Do you have a question, or are you just bragging?
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>>17495467
How pathetic are you, that you would consider anything he posted as bragging?
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My boyfriend has had 6 partners before me, most of them being drunken hookups while I was a virgin before him. I'm having a hard time coming to terms with the fact that he had so many partners before me and thought nothing of it at the time, but the general consensus is that it's what happens/is normal. Why is that? How can people treat their bodies and the act of sex so casually when there are tons of health risks and the emotional weight of it is so strong?
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Because he wasn't raised to think having sex is something to be overly concerned about. Why complicate it?
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>>17495416
>and the emotional weight of it is so strong?
it isnt for many people. if purity is so important to you maybe you arent made for one another.
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You somehow think sex is a bad thing. Most people don't.
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After the first kiss - what do? 2016-08-25 14:56:48 Post No.17495412
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A couple nights ago I finally got the balls to kiss this girl I have been hanging out with lately. We see each other fairly frequently since we met through our hobby. Tonight will be the first time I've seen her since the kiss.
We have a lot in common and she's made it quite obvious that she is physically attracted me. Fully aware of how autistic this sounds, I have come here to ask how I should conduct myself henceforth.
Of course, I'd like to sleep with her but she's also top tier gf material. With this in mind, what do? How to maintain the attraction? Should I kiss her again tonight?
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Self bump, please to help, lads. The hour approaches.
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do something fun like twister then 'fall' on her, kiss and bang. Simple shit OP.
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My first kiss was at the end of "When Harry Met Sally" with a girl I knew in high school and was trying to 'go out with' but was too nervous to make that first move and make it official.
Well after that kiss, things began to get passionate; much more than I thought both her and I were capable of at that age.
>We started by having sneaking into your bedroom at night.
>Then we would cuddle, kiss passionately while listening to Norah Jones.
>This led to making out and grinding though your thinnest fabric pants.
>This led to grinding my thigh in-between your thin pants legs against your pussy until you came.
>This led to our pants coming off and grinding in the missionary position.
>This led to me going down on you with your panties still on (they were satin); you were self conscious so you wouldn't let me take them off.
>One day I pulled them to the side and started licking your bare pussy; you started moaning/groaning and bucking your hips while I licked until you came.
>After that the panties would always come off when I went down on you but mine stayed on.
>I never asked you to do anything to me but you would rub my cock through my boxers and bare cock; one night you actually made me cum with her rubbing/handjob.
>Some nights I would take my boxers off and I would grind my cock against your pussy though your panties.
>Ultimately, one night we were grinding in our underwear and I slid her panties off to go down on her when she reach down and took off my boxers.
>We were in the missionary position and I gently started to rub the head of my cock against your pussy (which was wet so it slid easily).
>After a few minutes of this, I gently begin to slide the first inch into you when you grabbed my hips and tried to pull me all the way into her.
>That's when I stopped.
I don't know why but I didn't take her virginity that night and ended up never doing it.
If you asked me now (14 years later) why I didn’t do it; I still couldn't give you a reason.
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hello fellow anons, I am a 22 yr old male I have a wife and 2 kids 1 year and a 2 year old. I hate my job and recently got a business license to start my own shop, however while I am waiting for it to pick up I still have to work my shit day job w/ my ass hole old man boss. I stay up late trying to post car parts to sell online and have to come to work the next morning when I get home it is as if I can't even sit down because my wife starts bitching at me that I don't ever do anything around the house/ dont ever have time for her etc etc. I want to hero every day but can't leave my boys she is going to school for nursing and is just waiting to get approved from the Board of Nurses to go take her Nclecks however the hell you spell that shit. At this point I feel over worked under payed and un appreciated, it has been like this for about a year or 2 since my mother passed away about 2 years ago. I used to drink alot for a guy my age(a bottle of whiskey every 2-3 days) I have stopped drastically for my wife but still feel as if this is not enough for her. I am an artist and don't even have time to do any of my art because I am so busy with everything else I play games at the end of the night for relief but by the time I can actually sit down and do what I want it is 12 at night and I have to wake up at 8 to go to work the next morning. -.- Can someone advise as to what may help remedy the situation? My wife and I are always fighting the majority of the time it seems as if its about money or neither of us do anything to help each other anymore. I truly am tired.
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Put your foot down
Tell that nigga you do your bit, now she has to do hers.
Don't be afraid to walk away that is your only power as a man.
Lay off the booze, focus on yoru business, put your foot down, lay down the law and get good
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>>17495407
I stopped drinking alot for the past 6-8 months maybe about once a week and once on the weekends with some pals. I am trying to avoid walking away that will eliminate the time I have to be with my boys.
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Dunno man
You both seem really stressed due to workload and money troubles which could be the reason you are fighting
It may be difficult, but I guess the best thing would be to get your money troubles fixed - maybe even wait until your wife has her nursing shit finished.
Get your finances high, save uip,
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>tfw you're friends with a bunch of failures
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>tfw they aren't really your friends, you just hang out with them to make you feel better about yourself.
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Good thread, I like it
So what kind advice you're looking for pal
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>not being positive
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I'm fat and gross and want to look pretty. I'm 26. What do?
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>>17495391
you a boy or girl? you should lose weight anyway
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>>17495391
Lose weight.
While you're doing that, make your body size your style. Look at sassy fat women like Queen Latifah - they say to the world "This is me and I'm sexy" and the world believes them.
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>>17495391
Stop eating and start moving around, fatty.
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If cannabis fucks with my head and gives me what I think is derealization, would something like lsd be completely certain to absolutely destroy me, or only partially certain?
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How are we supposed to know?
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>>17495380
>cannabis fucks with my head and gives me what I think is derealization
Explain. It really just sounds like you're a pussy.
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>>17495380
>derealization
What? Are you describing like an altered state of consciousness? That is normal.
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>Met a cute as fuck premed student
She really wants to date me, but I'm worried that she is going to transfer away when she has to go to medschool, because her school doesn't offer it, just premed. I don't want to get emotionally involved at all, if she is just going to end up leaving.
What do I do?
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Honestly anon just get with her, you got nothing to lose by trying.
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>>17495392
Except for an emotional attachment that I'll inevitably lose.
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>>17495394
This
Yeah.. That would suck. why not just tell her "hey, I like you and all, but if you're going to move away for school then this isn't a good idea"
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Imagine yourself in this situation.
You can't sleep at night (it's really hot were you live in summer). You are sitting in your bedroom, looking through the window. Very late in the night, a car parks in front of your house. Nothing special (since you live in a street with thirty something houses all packed together, next to each other) but a bit unusual at that time, late in the night.
A man gets out of the car. You pay attention to him, since is the only thing happening out there. The man then checks the supressor and the lock of the gun he is holding and hides it under his coat. Walks calmly, directly to your house.
You can't see him anymore because you can't see your own house entrance from your bedroom (the entrance is directly behind your bedroom window).
You hear the man put the key into the door and open it with ease. He happens to have a key to your home.
In that moment, you panic. Open the window making as low noise as possible. Using the fire stairs get to the street and run out of your house.
Get to the police station. They don't believe you. After a *long* talk, they accept to go to your home. The car is no longer here. Everything is ok inside the house (the main didn't took/move/broke anything -this reassures you he came after you and nothing else-). No suspects, no clues, no case. They leave you there and go back to the police station.
You don't know anything about the man, but he seems to know much about you (among others, has a key to your house). You have no enemies, got into no problems, don't take drugs, never had *any* trouble with anyone. You have literally no idea who this man could be or how to find out something.
What should I do now? What is a safe position to take? Where do I go now? How can I get rid of such a threat?
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>>17495370
This sounds like a psychotic episode OP, I would check in with a doctor if I were you.
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Well, just imagine it was real, not a psychotic episode. What would you do?
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>>17495403
Nothing much because the situation is absurd.
What would you do when you have a 2m cat barking like a dog in your backyard? Just kidding
You can change your locks and get some cameras pointed at your front door.
Not much else what you can do without evidence, maybe find the reason why someone wants you dead?
I still adivse a visit to the doctor.
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How to deal with being the rebound girl 2016-08-25 14:34:31 Post No.17495366
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How to deal with being the rebound girl
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His love for his ex resurfaced before we met. I think he wanted to get over it by dating other girls. I probably showed interest first so he wanted to date really quick, barely even knew me. I said wait until we get to know each other better before we become exclusive, post it on social media, (he wanted to publish it really early) and until I get over a crush. He was hurt, wanted me to hurry up. There were no promises before, we just went to the movies, to a park, to hike and to his house one time where we made out.
>fast forward couple of weeks, we start dating
I knew he liked his ex beforehand because he told me about meeting her before we did and I lurked his social media and blogs and saw the kinds of posts he made that showed he still loved her/again (?) and did not know how to deal with it. I did not tell it to him because I think it would sound creepy. But it has me worrying for months now, that he loved her more than he could ever like me. He didn't make such desperate posts when or before we dated.
I am afraid that I'm just a rebound and that I am giving my everything to somebody who only uses me because he could not get anything else.
How do I find out the truth without revealing to him that I creeped and assumed from his posts?
>pic related
i have even less experience though
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Inb4 >hypocrite
I had a minor crush on somebody who found me attractive and was stringing me along before We met.
I was trying to get over that as well by meeting other guys. I never dated that crush and only knew him for a short time.
My boyfriend knew her ex for a very long time and still friends with her on social media.
Sorry for my English, it isn't my first language.
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From what you speak, you probably are a rebound. Now what do you want to do with it is your choice. For me it would be to make some sweet memories with him. Fill his head with yourself. So that he will start to think more and more about you and less about her. Don't just be human companion dispenser of warmth and body. Have some experience. Make a ride with him somewhere. Go swiming in the sea/lake. Go for a motoboat ride, go for a long bicycle ride. Venture into some old ruins. Make memories.
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>>17495497
This is what I did because I don't want to give up on him, but he doesn't really like to go out. He is more of a gamer type and I haven't played much, so when we played he always beat me. Thanks for the advice anon.
One more thing.. is it a bad idea to ask him why he likes me?
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Any advice on how to sexually please my girlfriend 2016-08-25 14:30:21 Post No.17495362
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Hey /adv/ got any advice on how to sexually please a girl using mouth and hands only?
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Do thing.
Does she react to thing?
Keep doing thing.
If she doesn't react to thing then try other thing.
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>>17495365
Are you a rocket scientist or something?!
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>>17495384
Better, I can sexually please a girl.
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I've been looking for internships. I'm in a college program primarily built around content creation (video, photography, multimedia, etc), with a marketing portion running alongside. A lot of the openings I find at ad agencys/marketing firms are looking for "marketing or communications" students.
I haven't been able to find much on what "communications" is. I want to say it's any kind of media production, but if I'm wrong and I keep sending out cover letters with that assumption, I'm just making myself look stupid. Thoughts?
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>>17495361
Get help from your college's internship office. It's their job to get you placed.
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>>17495509
Doesn't necessarily mean they do their job "well". Their advice limits me to a basic cover letter and resume. Good for a place that cares more what I do than who I am, but the spots I'm applying for have a culture I need to appeal to, and lines like "I have training in X, X and X", "It is with great excitement that I submit this application", don't exactly say "look at me".
I'm not looking for help getting placed or an "appointment" 2 days from now, I'm looking for clarification of 1 term.
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>>17495565
Call me stupid as I'm a non-native English speaker but if I understand correctly you're trying to find out what “communication” means as requirement for internship?