I can't ditch porno you guys. I tried and failed multiple times.
I can't do it because there is nothing to replace it. Well there is.. but I am in no position to obtain it(a real relationship).
Its like pissing, there is no replacement for pissing. The only way to relieve yourself if you have to piss.. is to piss. You can't just "turn that urge into motivation!"
It doesn't work like that. Pissing is pissing. Masturbation is masturbation. The only substitute to masturbation is sex. The only substitute for sex is masturbation.
FUCK!
I just don't have the resources or the capital to get a girlfriend. So what am I supposed to do? Not masturbate? What the fuck is the end game here? WHAT THE FUCK IS THE ANSWER!?
take up cycling/mountain biking. your sex drive will become non-existent.
this might come as a complete surprise to you but you can masturbate without porn. I do it all the time. it's called having an imagination.
>but I don't have an imagination
everybody has one. if you think you don't, it's because you haven't taken the time to develop yours.
it helps if you focus on the sensations of the things you're fantasizing about rather than just visuals.
>>17497664
This actually helped me not necessarily quit porn but now I'm not jerking off 3 times a day to the first video I see. If I'm not having sex it's 1-3 times a week.
slow it down to once a week, one every two weeks, once a month, etc.
Do you mean noporn or nofap?
Because they're different things. You need to step from one to the other.
If you don't have the willpower to do that you're just fucked, bucko.
>>17498077
Mix in swimsuit catalogues as a mild replacement until you develope an imagination.
>I can't do it because there is nothing to replace it. Well there is.. but I am in no position to obtain it(a real relationship).
You don't need a girlfriend. I swear you guys are so dense, girlfriends can cause infinitely more problems for you. The reason you watch so much porn is because you need to feel connections with other people. Not just sexual.
Think behind the scenes; the director, the cameraperson, the crew, the person making the coffee, the factory that made the dildo, the lube, even the furniture used. You want to be there, you want to be part of a society, making and seeing what you make, feeling connected. Having relationships, experiences, and finding your way around.