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Why is society one big sex cult? They don't know how to tolerate people who just aren't interested in sex or dating and shame and shun them at any opportunity. Even people who are supposedly really tolerant of minority groups and open minded and talk about equality are always judging people by how much sex they have and how good they are with the opposite gender. I just want to live my life and focus on my own pursuits but people think I'm just shy and they need to fix me or something.
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>>17653599
>Why is society one big sex cult?
Literally the reason any life exists. If you're not here to reproduce you're in the way. So boom bitch, get out the way.
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>>17653599
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Civilization_and_Its_Discontents
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>>17653599
>Why is society this arbitrary thing I've deluded myself into believing?
Get out of your echo chamber and stop indulging your confirmation bias. Society isn't just what you think it is.
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for the past 3 years my boyfriend mentally and verbally (and sometimes sexually) abused me. i'm finally getting out though feel ruined and broken. wondering if i can get someone to ruin his life professionally so he doesn't work in this city anymore or personally so no one ever wants to date him? please help.
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Tell us what he did to deserve such a horrendous act of cowardice against him?
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don't retaliate. don't take revenge. it's low. You might want closure now but what will that accomplish? have revenge and you're basically letting everything that is evil in the world win. you have let the badness create more badness within you, and now you want to let it loose on the world. why let the cycle continue? You have a choice to stop it here. So what are you really living for? light or darkness?
I could give you the best revenge advice ever, but you would only be going out of your own way to cause trouble.
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>>17653578
3 years. you weren't in a hurry to get away so why the rush now to ruin him? you got something out of being with him, why not focus on the positive thing and if you must break up just move on. sounds like you just don't want him to have a new woman.
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I'm a guy who's in a relationship with a girl that's not from my background at all. We get along well but my family keeps telling me it's a shitty idea and that I'm going to regret it after a while. I've tried as hard as I could to convince them that she's a good girl, her race isn't that huge of an issue but they insist I should stick to my own race. Help me out /adv/, am I wrong for falling in love with a girl from another country? We don't share the same culture at all but I like her like I've never liked any girl before.
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Your cultural background doesn't matter at all in a relationship. You're the one who wants to date her and not your family so their input shouldn't bother you.
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>>17653583
Yes but I'm looking towards a long term kind of thing, maybe marriage later on if things go well. I really like her but my parents aren't too keen on her upbringing. She's black, I'm white and she comes from a relatively uneducated family. It doesn't bother me honestly, but my parents told me I'll regret it when I realise I could've been with 'better women in my league'. I feel bad because I don't know who to listen to.
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>>17653570
if you are independent and live on your own who gives a shit but if you live with or depend on your family for shit they got you by the balls and nothing you can say or do will convince them otherwise.
Married to a different race from a totally different culture and language. Once we figured out how to not get upset because of cultural differences and misunderstanding because of language it has been awesome but I live 1000 miles away from any of may family so don't give a shit.
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For some time I really I thought I made it, fellow /adv/enturers.
I found a gf who loved every single aspect of me. She laughed at my jokes, She respected me, she came to me when she needed help and supported me when I did. Absolutely everything you could think about was perfect and she made sure to remind me every day, as I'd find new ways to surprise her and make her feel good.
Ever since I found her I got my dreamjob with enough time for her, don't have any problems and we have one hell of a time together no matter what we do.
Recently I realised she became somewhat distant. I thought it was because of her studies, since she's still in college, when two days ago my friend found her profile account on a dating site and told me about it. I couldn't believe my eyes. Last active: that same day.
So I can do five things.
1: Free pass to cheat on her, remaining in the relationship somewhat cucked but cuck her to death too with no regrets.
2: Mention her account, perhaps forgive her.
3. Dump her on the spot no questions asked.
4. Create an account, seduce her. If she falls for it get her to do some kinky shit for me, hatefuck her as her bf and double-dump her right after when I expose her.
5. Acknowledge that the fact that she has an account doesn't mean she's fucking someone else and she just likes to flirt.
I have little to lose if she betrayed me, and I need to know; I need her to tell me, but I don't want to be lied to. It's been a nice ride.
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>>17653566
Confront her in an entirely adult and reasonable manner. Post cool story after. Also women can never make you happy, only the buddha dharma can.
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>>17653566
Talk to her. The whole point of a relationship is that you talk to each other. Find out what's going on and what she thinks she's doing. Proceed based on what she says and what you think is the best course of action.
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shes already cucked you
I like to cuddle with my gf in bed. Am I gay?
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>>17653565
yes
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>>17653565
mama's boy
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>>17653565
Real men that are straight like to creampie, only girls cuddle with each other for warmth.
Embrace the cold, my niggers
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90 percent sure i got my gf pregnant..
What are my options?
Seriously don't want to have a kid..the condom ripped and my gf was spotting 8 days after we had sex and now shes having cramps and bad nausea. From my understanding nausea and spotting are signs of pregnancy and aren't normal PMS symptoms.
She doesn't want to get an abortion which I understand but I can't support a kid..I feel like I've reached the end of my life and I have no one to talk to about this
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if she doesn't want an abortion, bring up adoption. tell her that it's not a good idea for you two to be trying to support a child.
but in all honesty, abortion is the best option in this case.
remember- its a glob of cells being vacuumed out
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Raise the kid you faggot.
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let him starve
i seriously cant believe childs under 6 have rights yet
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take new gf out to a scenic place, with hotel, maybe two three hours away.
it's nice
she doesn't want to suck me, barely make out. definitely won't let me fuck
we've been going out for two months. we usually always make out but she is waiting for sex for marriage.
she thinks anything down there is sex.
is it time to go?
I can't even get a bj or eat her out
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>>17653469
Are you stupid or something? Of course it's time to go. You want to fuck, and she wants to wait until marriage. There is nothing to be done in that case. You two are completely incompatible.
There are plenty of chicks who are down to fuck. Go find one and have fun. This girl wants to stick to her morals and ideals. That's fine. She can find a guy who wants the same thing.
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>>17653469
Ahh you confuse her want to mean what she actualy wants. Be rough, be aggressive, take what you want. Only when she says stop in a truly serious tone do you stop. And even then just to console her and then get right back to it.
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>>17653473
is bj a fuck. anything more than kiss a fuck?
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I'm 25 and I feel like I've completely wasted my life in every possible way, financially, creatively, romantically, you name it. 25 and never even been on a date or mastered another language or accomplished anything I can be proud of. All I do is take up space and resources.
Anybody else feel this way?
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>>17653406 If you aren't addicted to something and arent seropositive, you have failed at wasting your life.
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>>17653413
Well? What's your story?
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Yeah I went to school at 26. I was surprised I was not the oldest person in class. There's a lot of 40 year olds still getting their shit together.
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Honestly I don't know where else to turn with this.
My gf (age 25) needed to wake up early after three hours of sleep. Because she's a heavy sleeper and was afraid her alarm wouldn't wake her up, she slept beside her mom in her parents' bed. Am I wrong in thinking this is weird? What could this be an indicator of?
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What? Who cares?
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>>17653387
>What could this be an indicator of?
That you're a massive pervert
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>r-room for one more?
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I never have enough. Take these past few weeks for example. I am a 3rd year undergraduate and I desperately wanted to get a good 2017 summer internship. I would kill for ANY of them as long as I had something secured. That would make me happy.
Fast-forward a few weeks later, and I manage to close a position at a global, tier 2 investment bank. My happiness lasted for all of about 15 minutes before I realized I needed more, and that I wouldn't be happy until I had an internship at the best investment bank.
Fast forward a few weeks later, and I land an internship at the best investment bank. My happiness is short lived, because I realize I wouldn't be happy until I got a position at a hedge fund. I applied to several and got rejected from all of them, and now I feel like nothing but a failure despite having an offer at one of the worlds most prestigious investment banks.
This kind of attitude permeates throughout all facets of my life, from career, to self esteem, to relationships. My last relationship ended because, although I was happy with her at first, over time I started wanting a more intelligent, more attractive, and overall better girl. I just couldn't love her anymore. But I'm sure if I ended up getting that new girl, I would get tired of her too.
What the fuck do I do? This kind of thinking is tearing me apart. I am really sad, I hate myself, and I perpetually feel like a failure. However, I am scared to get rid of this kind of thinking, because I feel like it is the only thing that allows me to keep on achieving things. Any advice?
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>>17653354
You're doing better than 95% of the population.
Relax and just do your best my man.
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=g6bUUmelbyw&feature=youtu.be
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>>17653354
>What the fuck do I do?
learn that these things will not give you long lasting happiness .
read up on Buddhism and meditate
i like this google talk , nice monk
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kaNO09cPS6c&spfreload=1
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>>17653364
It all goes back in the box... Then what am I supposed to do? Give up?
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Pizza that's been left out beside me in a box for 12 hours, yay or nay?
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Eat it
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>>17653317
will do boy
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No don't.
I know oral sex is pretty unsafe.
i've used always used condoms for anal though, correctly too. should i be worried about an exposure ?
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>>17653273
Meh. I'd suggest just not fucking nasty, disease ridden people.
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>>17653273
It depends on a lot of factors, like if you had open cuts in your mouth or not, and if the guy has an high viral charge or not, and how often it happened. You should do a hiv test at least 1 month after exposure for it to be 99% relevant.
I also have a question for you guys:
Is receiving bareback from a 24yo, in a couple with a woman and who did a neg hiv test on the 1st of august safe or not? The guy seems trustworthy but you never know... Also he asked if i was clean before i asked him, trust me when i said i'm virgin and showed me the result paper. He lives in a decent house and he indeed seems to have a girlfriend.
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>>17653384
been happening everyday with the same guy. he said he was neg last test, but hes since hooked up with other guys before sticking with me
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So, im a lonely 24 years ols guy with almost no contact with the opposite sex. So i decided to talk to random girls in kik just for the sake of practicing my conversation with women and to try to overcome my shyness.
So im from italy, and i started talking with a 43 years old woman from México that i found randomly, a chinese girl and another girl from france, pretty much at a daily basis.
So, now after a month, i don't really know fucking how, but they are all three in love with me and willing to travel to italy to meet me, i wish i was kidding.
So, i know that it was my fault because im not interested in these three girls and i used them, but i would never expect this reaction from them, how can i slowly cut contact with these girls without hurting their feelings? I know i acted like a fucking retard but i didn't know what the fuck i was doing, but they are good girls , i don't want to hurt them...
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Why cut contact? Regardless of whether they are serious you should keep talking to them. If they actually spend their own money to come over and fuck you, who cares? You're a winner.
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>>17653250
Teach me please. Also start talking to them less and less often (turn off kik notifications).
I've did similar thing and after talking to maybe 600 hundred females I have 2 "friends" who are girls. Please teach me
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>>17653258
So, they come here , i fuck them and then what? The point is that im maybe interested in those girls sexually, but not for a relationship and that's what are they looking for apparently.
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What the fuck kind of condition do I have?
Noone anywhere seems to even comprehend what my issues are about.
>23 yo
>videogames has always been my only "thing", I would- and still do spend almost all of my freetime exclusively on it, sometimes even think about it and search info about it during work hours instead of working
>can't "just play" games anymore, have to do massive preplanning and decision making
>i take every action i do, every choice i make etc personally, and depending on my own personality, depending on my own traits, depending on my own current thoughts and ideas, etc
>for instance, i recently decided (again, one of uncountable times) that my personality most fits a douchy scumbag assassin, because for the time i only cared about making other players miserable as quickly as possible, so i've played an assassin/stealth role in all games, even singleplayer to keep myself in that mindset, even consider how i would perform in this role in real life if i ever came to need it (sneaking, stabbing, stealing, thievery, etc - just thoughts though)
>in games with character creation, make them at least vaguely resemble me; always the same hair style, same hair color, same eye color, same beard style (or shaved if i recently shaved), etc
>blatantly avoid playing anything that uses magic or advanced technology or could be considered a "support" role (healer etc) because I wouldn't do any of those things in real life
>as such, almost exclusively stuck with "warriors" or "rogues" or "fighters" and whatever, because those i could at least physically exercise myself into being able to be like in real life
>also unless there's literally no other choice and the game is too good to skip playing, i always pick the male character option - not out of misogyny or some shit, but because I AM A GUY, no other reason, so i'll pick a male class over a female class even if they play COMPLETELY differently
cont
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>get depressed as hell because of these things
>suddenly feel like playing a front line warrior instead, smacking people with huge weapons, simplistic playstyle, just barge in and kick ass, etc
>this puts me back into not knowing what kind of person i am, what kind of human being i am
>immediately quit playing the game i was in
>now contemplating if i'm, as a person, a frothing berserker kind of guy, or a noble warrior kind of guy, or if i should and could wield an oversized zweihander to cleave dudes with
>shit like
>well i do get angry easily, and often, so a berserker fits me
>but would i be able to perform like one? what is the mindset of being one? could i be like one irl?
>it literally isn't just a game to me, not sure if addiction
>what do other people think of me irl? do they think i'm an angry person? would they see me as a warrior in games? or do they think of me as a stealthy guy? if i'm a stealthy guy, it fits me to be the assassin again, but am i sneaky enough? don't i talk too much to fit being an assassin? am i not too impatient to skulk in the shadows? nah a warrior probably fits me more, just run in and swing a weapon.
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>>17653234
I don't even know what the fuck I'm trying to describe or discuss or anything. I'll just keep ranting.
>actually used to play the healer role years ago
>those years ago i was also a significantly more chill person, i had friends (literally none now), i talked to everyone, i was humble and just wanted to get along even if i was also up for all sorts of player killing as a fun pastime
>at some point really just decide that hey, not only is this role underappreciated and the people i keep alive are shit at the game anyway, so i'll just take over as the killer role and show them how it's actually done
>since then developed severe depression with occasional suicidal tendencies, i have no friends, i hate most human beings, i don't bother to interact with people unless i absolutely have to
>however in real life, at work, i still manage to at least ACT humble and like a nice, fun person, but the literal moment i leave work my mind instantly shifts to almost being another person entirely
More to come...
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>>17653261
>be a few months ago
>came to the realization that i don't have a favorite color
>start looking through all sorts of "what colors mean" and "personality color" shit
>end up with green being my favorite
>because of this, i decide that hey, i should define myself as a green person now
>buy a shitload of green shirts, two different green jackets, a green baseball cap, i try to get any black shoes with green details on them, i even get a couple of different green softpants even though i usually wear jeans
>this also needs to reflect me in games i play of course, so where i can, i equip and colorize everything everywhere into green
>this goes on until last week
>come to the realization that i'm also really fond of dark gray
>my mind immediately sets into failure state
>now i'm back at having no favorite color
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This is getting ridiculous.
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>pic very related
should I fall for liberal art school meme or is that really only for rich tumblr kids who don't have to worry about bringing a paycheck home? especially in a rural town? I feel like it's the only thing I am close to being decent at/not dropping out of.
Should I go with my heart, or my head?
I can't be a NEET anymore. I can't be a manchild living off mommy's money anymore. I can't take another break. No more. ENOUGH.
ask me questions, give me thinking tools, tell me about yourself/how you chose, whatever, just please, please help me out /adv/.
I'm desperate.
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I'm a STEM master race so I don't know much about liberal arts careers. But it seems going the formal education route with liberal arts is pointless when you don't have licensing exams or board certifications. You can learn anything from people on YouTube. Why pay to go to classes?
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Just go and become a teacher.
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>>17653190
Just pick up a trade if you don't have the aptitude for the sciences or engineering.