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What does 'get a life' mean? 2016-10-09 21:42:33 Post No.17654317
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What does 'get a life' mean?
> had a fight with my SO, a really dear friend of mine (being close for 5 years), with whom we started dating about 2 years ago
> been drinking (mainly myself to sleep) (only mild things like cider or champagne) for 4 days out of 7, trying not to hurt myself (2 years of self-harm experience, now clear for about 6-8 months or so), knowing my SO really wanted me not to do that in our relationship
> get dumped with 'you know I can't accept such attitude' 'go get yourself a life'
> 'you've never been alone since 13, not even a couple of week gone by between your boyfriends and girlfriends'
> true, now 19
> 'you can't be alone with your own thoughts'
which is true, I get extremely nervous and melancholic at the same time
> 'you have serious untreated mental and physical health issues'
true, being depressed&anxious, got almost constant dizziness and nausea (seriously, 24/7 feeling that way, waking up in the middle of night with that 'I'm going to throw up' feeling, have to sleep for ~12-14 hours a day otherwise blacking out; had dizziness since 11-12 y.o., but it got really worse recently
> can't afford private doctors, my medical insurance only covers psychiatric help at my home region, and now I'm at the uni
> but my insurance covers me going to local hospital (which is connected to my uni) with physical health related problems, they also got a couple of neurologists (last time I asked for help with dizziness only got diagnosed with vegetative-vessel dystonia, no checkups were done, got prescribed Alimemazine and Phenylpiracetam which helped a bit but it all came back when I finished the prescribed course, and later symptoms kept getting worse)
So my questions is basically that. I need my life back. I really do.
1) What should I do exactly with my health issues? Doctors here are not exactly willing to help and find the reason I am getting worse, but they can run tests if I ask them to. What should I ask for?
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I had a full check-up done when I was a kid, hospital told my parents I don't have any physical health issues, doctors told my parents I feel this way because I'm 'too tall for my age' and that's it. Also got 'diagnosed' with vegetative-vessel dystonia which is known as 'diagnosis when we really can't figure out what is wrong but we have to fill the papers since this person keeps complaining anyway'.
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2) What does 'get a life' mean in my case? I mean, I am now studying at a prestigious uni, had several internships, having a hobby (studying at music school now), it's not that bad.
Is it about me always trying to distract myself by being around other people? I always do that, it's true.
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Can someone tell me what this is?
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IQ test question
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>>17654246
I want serious replies. Is it really x ?
i've struggled with confidence for a long time. i'm in a school surrounded by people who only care for appearance. those who don't meet the standards are shut off by everybody and bullied horribly. luckily, i can meet those standards, but it's hard to maintain it. i have to spend hours of my day making sure i look ok, i have to constantly check myself and it's draining all the energy and confidence out of me, but i can't stop because i know the consequences are brutal. i feel fake, buying designer, doing my make up, getting highlights, all for the sake of others.
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I don't know how anyone can fall prey to bullying. They must be so weak phycologically.
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>>17654231
it's pretty much like, if you aren't as attractive as the others you're kidding yourself if you think you're going to receive the same rights. for example if a pretty girl said she needed a boyfriend others would be supportive but if an unattractive girl said that people would laugh
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>>17654262
Americans are pretty fucking horrible
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>about a month into school
>gone through all the clubs I'm interested in already
>gone through and met people in classes
>no girls I'm interested in that have also been interested in me back
What do I do now? Wait until next year?
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Your problem seems to be that you only value women for their role as potential dating partners
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>>17654217
No shit Sherlock, I'm clearly talking about them in a dating context. I have plenty of male and female friends.
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>>17654224
If you can't see that you need to fix this mindset, you're never going to get anywhere
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Why does everything seem like shit? 2016-10-09 21:11:39 Post No.17654179
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Why does everything seem like shit?
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2016-10-09 21:11:39
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Something is wrong with me /adv/. I get this sinking feeling that everything in this life is shit.
Things I liked doing before now seem like complete shit and pointless. All I do nowadays is sit around and masturbate, play video games, go to a job I hate even though it pays okay.
I use to like going to the gym, now I can barely muster the strength to get out of bed. I don't like hanging out with my friends because most of the stuff they want to do seems like shit. Like going to bars or parties.
What the fuck is wrong with me? I am a wreck. I am 26 and I feel like it only goes down hill from here. Never had a girlfriend and my future in terms of family and having a family of my own looks bleak.
I have sexual hang ups and shit. I irrationally believe that sex will inevitably fuck your life up due to RNG bull shit and you will forever regret whatever decision that caused your life to fuck up.
I feel I am super fucked up and need help but have no idea if help can even be provided. Why does everything seem so shitty?
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For starters, you need an outdoor hobby. Hiking, motorcycle touring, surfing, something. Like sugar, video games (and indoor electronic pastimes) won't really harm most children but are toxic to adults.
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>>17654179
Cause everything is shitty. When I was younger I had purpose. But I fucked up all aspects of my life over time to the point I just gave up. I tried again recently to start again but my only reason for trying just fucked me over and now I'm broken again.
I too have never had a girlfriend and desperately want a family. my biggest hope is someday I can find someone, but after a bad experience with the only person that has shown interest in me, I too question the point.
I know it's a meme disease sometimes but have you thought about seeing a doctor for depression? It just saps your will to do anything, and sometimes the mind just needs a little tweaking. I've seen it work for some people in our situation
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>>17654251
I don't understand how they can tweak a mind though without becoming reliant on whatever is tweaking it. I don't want to spend the rest of my life taking "happy pills".
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Left DVDs at ex-girlfriend's house 2016-10-09 21:10:08 Post No.17654173
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Left DVDs at ex-girlfriend's house
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I had this DVD box set of Nightmare on Elm Street but I left it at my ex's house.
This was over 5 years ago
Is there any hope of me ever getting my DVDs back? It's too late to ask, right?
I just wanna marathon these movies on a comfy night before Halloween
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>>17654173
dude, I feel you. I left my Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy special edition at my exes when we broke up. That was over 10 years ago and I still regret not getting it back.
But you know, there is such thing as the internet and pirating and Putlocker and whatever else you can find on google. Just leave it be.
It's totally too late to ask. Just pirate the thing. (plus that shit is now uploaded from blu ray. So you get better quality than those DVD's)
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>>17654173
Just buy the bluray box. Dvd, lol, thats old. Dont ask her if you can have it back. That is super childish and not worth the loss in image at all.
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5 years is too late.
You'll just have to let it go.
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Say I have an ethnic name and go by a nicname that sounds like a regular name ie: Alex. At what point would I reveal that like on the first date do I just btw my name's actually so and so I go by Alex because no one can pronounce my name. I had a friend look at my dl the other day and they were honestly shocked my real name was different from what they knew I told them I only go by my name with family and honestly old friends from school call me by that name. Is it weird to not tell people or something?
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plenty of people go by nicknames. I went by Sophie from pretty much birth-the end of hs but my real name is Josefa; people would find out and be surprised but it's easily explained and they get over it within like 30 seconds. I think you're only obligated to reveal your "real" name if it happens to come up naturally.
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>>17654172
Sooner rather than later. There's no reason not to.
I'm sure she won't give a shit.
It really doesn't matter when you say it. But I would say it sooner rather than later, just to play it safe.
What is your real name?
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>>17654190
That makes sense it just seemed like people think I keep it a secret like a middle name
>>17654199
Ozomatli I go by Mat
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How to enjoy regular sex? 2016-10-09 20:52:19 Post No.17654116
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How to enjoy regular sex?
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2016-10-09 20:52:19
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I'm just going to get right to the point: I've got a loose vagina. Loose enough that a regular penis doesn't really feel like much of anything, and I'm sure it's no fun for the penis either. What can I do to make normal sex enjoyable?
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>>17654116
Are you overweight or otherwise out of shape?
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Kegals, kegals, kegals. And then work your way up to weighted kegals.
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I recently put up on the black board in my university that I'm searching for a girl, who will cuddle with me and that I'm willing to pay for it. I got many offers with extremely high prices, but one girl only wanted 20 bucks, so I arranged the meeting while my parents weren't here and we spend some time cuddling, I don't remember how long it was because I was lost in the moment. She didn't want any money afterwards and said she thought it was really nice. We started repeating it and she even invited to her place when my parents were at home. Now she asked me if I want to do more stuff with her like eating together, cooking, watching something etc. Why would she do that? I'm not good looking, have depression etc., does she try to play with my emotions or something. She is unironically attractive, even if she's a bit underweight, so I don't know why she would do it. Is this maybe a trap to fuck me over?
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Because she's pathetic like you and just wants 'the boyfriend experience' without having to lower her standards to someone like you
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>>17654104
Why would she even do that? There are better people willing to help her with that. It doesn't really make sense, I saw good looking people in my classes who complained about not having a gf, she should do that with someone like them. If we go to the movies or eat together, people can see her with me, so I should probably tell her that she shouldn't do that.
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>>17654099
Did you ever decline her? How did she react?
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Poor and shit family, no future 2016-10-09 20:22:12 Post No.17654017
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Poor and shit family, no future
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I come from a poor family in the UK, we are pretty much living at the threshold of poverty, we have a cramped house and eat food and have internet, but we don't have money for pretty much anything else and because of this I have no hobbies except gaming.
I have no friends and my mum is an emotionally abusive bitch (I don't say this lightly, I tried to keep good relations with her my whole life but she 'forgets' all the bad things she has done and generally drives me insane with frustration) who blames me for all her problems even though I am her 4th child and I do nothing to offend her except play games in my room and keep to myself. This has pretty much destroyed all of my self confidence and I have never had a girlfriend and had anxiety to the point where I wouldn't even go outside to the shop because I was scared I would be judged badly.
I did OK in school (not uni, I am 18) and had a temporary job that I recently left because it was very disorganised, I got no training and it was a pretty shit work environment.
I want to know how I can actually build a life that isn't shit. I am overweight and unattractive with very little social skills. I don't even have the confidence to go to the gym. I want to one day make money and buy my own apartment (maybe even a house) where I can live on my own (maybe with a girlfriend/wife) happily and not have to worry about being screamed at or all the other bullshit that comes with living with my family.
It doesn't feel like something I can achieve. I have read many stories about people with happy endings where they have children and a wife and a house, but I guess not everyone can achieve this. What do I do? When do I accept my life will always be shit and just kill myself?
Sorry for the rant, if I had a counselor I would be telling them this instead but this board is the closest thing I have to a mental professional.
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What are you doing right now, sitting at home, being a NEET, waiting for something to fall into your lap? Go and get a fucking job
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I can relate - single mother, council house in a shitty area, played vidya a lot, quite introverted. I did go to college/uni though. My dad was a prick whenever I saw him as well, drinking problems.
Self improvement can only begin when you're ready. I'd never been a fat cunt but I was always chubby. Last year I realised I had proper went too far when my clothes were really tight/not fitting anymore. Did at least an hour of exercise every day, and cut out fizzy drinks. I'm back to just below my regular weight now, so still chubby, but a lot happier. It was really easy as well, you've just got to commit to going for a walk/lifting shit in your room or whatever - you don't need a gym. Fizzy drinks are a killer as well as juice etc, stay away from sugary drinks is all I can say.
As for a gf, shelf that for now. Let it be a motivation for improving yourself. You could always try tinder but desu at this point it may just frustrate you more than anything. Wait until you're happy with how you look in your pics.
Overall you just got to keep on keeping on mate. You're still young, take your time, self improvement is slow but after a couple weeks you'll notice the difference both mentally and physically. Good luck.
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>>17654058
I am applying for jobs, I just applied for two today. If it was so fucking easy to get a good job I would already have one.
Working for £5 an hour 9-5 is worse than not working at all because I still won't have enough money to move out, but I will instead have to deal with my families shit and also my work at the same time.
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I've been with my husband for 17 years and we've always had a good sex life. About two years ago he asked me to start sleeping with other people while he watched. I haven't done this but it's been very hard for me to be close to him since I don't feel that I fully fulfill him anymore. Honestly if I knew that he was into group sex I probably would not have even married him, it's not that I think there's anything really wrong with it it's just if I was going to do something like that I would be doing it while I was single and not with spectators. We have 2 kids together and I'm finding it very hard to stay married to him. Am I wasting my time? Is it normal for men to be curious about this? Or do you think he's gay?
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He's a fucking cuck, that's what he is. A cuckhold enjoys watching their partner have sex with other people while they are present
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>>17654016
why are you asking these questions 2 years later?
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Pretending to not know what cuckolding is, is this the new pasta?
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Got into an accident a few days ago. I was at fault. My parents won't let my drive anymore. How long should I wait until I ask them to let me drive again? They're pretty mad that the insurance will go up. So should I ask them when things start cooling down? Like should I wait for a month before asking them I could drive? I'm 18 btw and this was my first accident
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>>17654001
what were the damages?
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>>17654001
>They're pretty mad that the insurance will go up.
Sucks, but the way out I'd see would be to get a job and pay the difference in insurance.
Or get your ass OFF their insurance and buy a moped. They are more fun than cars anyway, and if you L2 auto mechanic on them they are damn cheep to maintain, and with this diy/hard knowledge you'll have marketable skills to make your own job rather than suffer the insult of being employed.
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>>17654091
My car got hit in the side, while the other got hit in the front bumper and grill
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I'm about to take on a sales job because it is something I can really see myself doing. What university courses can I take to get a degree in something to do with sales?
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Marketing or related would be what I would think helps the most with sales
They're very similar. I've met a lot of marketers with inflated egos who can't stop trying to embellish things. That's a good trait for a salesman, you will get more sales if you exaggerate well.
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>>17653953
what a shit image
drake is trash
although I will say it is interesting, when you try to guess the context.
why is there a thic c c c c latina chick at a school posing by that painting?
why is there a fucking gay ass drake painting at a school?
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>>17654277
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-3756487/If-reading-m-late-Cheeky-high-school-senior-wins-Twitter-painting-witty-honest-message-classmates-teachers-personalized-parking-space.html
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I have a gf and we have Sex and only after the 5th time we had sex did I discover she doesn't really feel it but she still likes it. She says she likes pleasuring me but I'm still really depressed that my dick doesn't really feel good for her and now I feel every time she moans she's just doing it to please me not because she actually likes it.
WHATS going on bros? Any tips?
Im STILL young and not very used to Sex so I cum in like 3 minutes but I feel like I've slowly been lasting longer and longer but I'm not sure that even if I lasted 20 minutes my gf would still feel pleasure.
WHAT do?
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Btw we are both of our first times and have never had sex with anyone else and we are also particularly young me being 18 and she being 16 (legal in my country)
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PLEASE help me goys I've never made her cum before but I just cared about wether she liked it but now I learned she doesn't physically
SHOULD we keep having sex till she gets used to it?
HELP ME
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>>17653950
Try oral or working with your fingers (look up something about it online)
Otherwise, if she still likes it despite her lack of sensitivity, get over yourself and give her what she likes. She might later gain sensitivity or something, who knows. It's not as big of a problem as you might think.
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How do I get over the fact that I'll never have a large, white penis? I'm legitimately depressed over this. 5 inches is just pathetic
>inb4 "it's average, it's fine"
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Why do you want a big penis so bad? Seriously? It doesn't make you better in bed. 5 inches is legit perfectly fine.
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>>17653887
it is fine. pathetic is worrying about it like an insecure sperg
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>>17653887
>how do I get over the fact
Well if you never have sex it won't matter. Anyway guys always complain about being a manlet, having a small dick, or girls complain about boobs too big/small, feeling inferior to other women etc. To all that I say: who cares. Fuck it.