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i am the same way. but thank god im not an actual autist.

you just have a different personality than most people dont worry about it.

but dont be surprised when your personality is similar to the description of someone with actual autism.

its just your personality. psychological sciences however will say that you are defective because you dont think like the majority of people.

>>17650174
doesn't deviation from the normal exhaust the defective term?
Also where is the line, where it is just a personality issue, and from where it is autism?

>>17650204
if you have problems with performing in your life then its autism.

if you flip the fuck out when someone says sonic sucks then its autism. if youre just anti social. then its just your personality.

its really a grey area about where autism ends and begins. we could talk about it all day.

but if it affects job your or income. then yes its autism. if you cant live without government benefits. then its autism

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>>17650151

It's not like she doesn't love me though, she really does care about me but she has her moments where she turns into a bitch. Like yesterday.

Here's my problem:

I'm hungry for sex all the time, we have sex, then tries to have sex with me again, I want to, but I just needed time to get my dick strength back, she gets mad at me and that "we shouldn't have had sex I knew this was gonna happen"

The last time this happened was 2 years ago and it was because I couldn't get it up once and it fucked me up in the head because she would tell me shit and make fun of me and make me feel bad. Then I realized it was a mental block that I had because I'm always horny.

Dude, just break up. She sounds like a nightmare. Yeah, yeah, you love her and most of the time she fine, I don't give a shit -- very few people are shitty 100% of the time. Somebody who's lovely 85% of the time and a complete bitch 15% is just a complete bitch, full stop.

In her case she's also an idiot. You don't have sexual disfunction, you have a completely average refractory period. All guys have 'em. Did she not receive sex ed in school?

Sounds like a bad relationship and honestly the first time she said something like "I'll find another dick to fuck" you should have kicked her out. I've said a lot of shit to my partner, taken a lot of shit from her too but neither of us has ever said anything that spiteful, ever.

>>17650182

I was 18, a loser, and she was the first girl I ever talked to sexually/shown interest in me.

I've worked on myself a lot now to the point where she sees this and is insecure about herself because girls keep making advances on me.

But for some reason I'm just stuck.

I bought her flowers yesterday. Before picking her up, then she was like "Don't come anymore I want to clean my car and I have a lot of stuff to do" So I was frustrated because that was going to be the first time we have sex in a month.

So I sent her a picture of the flowers.

She got mad at me because I sent her the picture of the flowers to make her feel bad about not hanging out with me. That's kind of true, that's exactly what I wanted to do. Like we had plans. Why would she decide to clean her car then and there?

You're right. I'm pretty damn unhappy. I'm just stuck and I don't know how to break up.

>>17650138
antibiotics

>>17650138
otitis externa

Go see a doctor you fucking retard

I dont' have much to offer for help, but maybe my thanks and knowing your helping two people to find happiness in this life, and a chance to fuck with one guy.

>>17650126

No. Walk away. This is sick and insane.

You can't save someone else, they have to want it.

Yes. I value friendship over all else.
I will always have respect for past and present friends.

>>17650063
I don't know man. I've been turned into a bitter fucker because of always being more loyal too my friends than they've been towards me.

Except for one guy that has that slavic "back a brother up"-attitude which always makes you ashamed of how far you've slipped...

yes, i don't have many but the few that I do are the best people in the world

>>17650061

Problem about what?

no more of a problem than people that drink every day, which seems to be almost everyone under 30

When I smoke weed I masturbate to cuck porn all day, taking breaks to eat and smoke. When I don't smoke I fap to anime and /s/

Dude, get tested. No one can give you precise statistics but it doesn't matter. STD-wise, YOU have now slept with however amount of partners she had since her last STD-test. (And no, don't take her word for it.)

Even if you plan to use condoms, every future partner of yours will now not just suffer potential consequences from your personal sexual exploits, but also from all the guys she fucked without protection, and all the girls those guys fucked before they fucked her. So don't try to play it by ear and get your ass to a doctor.

>>17650058
So we're both only 20 years old.

I don't have a car on campus anymore so I don't know how to get to a doctor. Would the medical center at my school offer those kinds of tests?

>>17650042
My grandma died 3 weeks ago.
She was my best friend growing up, totally the most fucking awesome woman I've ever met.
Ask her about her childhood. What games she liked to play, what did she do. Ask her how her parents were.
Ask her about her youth, about her relationship with her grandfather.
Ask her about your mom/dad as a kid, what did they do, what did they like doing. Joke about them with her.
Ask her about her favourite memories, ask her to teach you her secret recipe for something or to do something together if she feels good enough.

I really miss my granny. Enjoy your time with her and stay strong.

Op here, having some issues posting. To the poster who replied, thanks, those are some good suggestions that I'll definitely use. Also sorry for your loss, stay strong yourself.

>>17650002
Germoney

>>17649995
It's probably your relationship or your family.
Hide and lie till you're ready to move out.

prepare for an honour killing.

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>>17649929
Sounds like she was just using you to get pregnant and take care if her. Women are like that.

Sex drive is usually very low in the first and third trimesters

Women want to feel safe during and after having kids. Give it a few years

>>17649929
Go on. Leave her. Let her be a single mom and have your child grow up in a broken home while you chase sex with younger women on FetLife. Why do you need our blessing?

Find something else to do. Browsing the internet all day doesn't cut it as a replacement, even if it is the most obvious one.

In the worst case, you'll just end up doing nothing all together, and then you're actually better of playing videogames imao.

Myself, i stopped enjoying videogames a along time ago. It gets boring. You realize how simplistic most games are. A few games still catch my interest, some strategy games, but that's it. I can't be bothered playing mmos.

>>17649919
I did the same thing. Steam made it easy just to reinstall them. In fact, I ended up playing more after that.
The real thing that you need to do is find real hobbies, so that one day you'll find yourself not even feeling the urge to open one of your games.

>>17650035
I'm trying to replace it with productive shit to advance my career. I just finished uninstalling every single game.

Going to train my dog or learn new skills. It was extremely depressing to go through steam and see the hundreds of hours logged in each game. So much wasted potential.

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>>17649879
Video games are for losers. Get a real hobby. I'm learning how to sew!

Honestly stop playing games you sound insane. When I was a kid we played Mario Kart for twenty minutes at a time and then played outside all day. When I was fourteen I stopped playing games entirely

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>>17649980
What? I didn't mean 2 weeks straight I meant just like over the span of 2 weeks I've been playing

Keep everything clean, offer to pay for (half) the groceries and cook her food. In addition, treat her to dinner (with her boyfriend, if you suspect they don't have the kind of relationship where her having diner with a male friend would be seen as innocent) if you do find a job thanks to her.

>>17649860
I'm female so everything is good on that end. Thanks for the suggestion too! I'll totally have to treat them to dinner. I don't know if she'll want me to cook for her, she's very happy cooking her own meals, but I'll try to get her to let me.

I don't know how I'd feel about treating them both to dinner and being there. After I get a job I will be paying rent, however.

With my limited funds, I'll probably try to buy some food to cook on my own so I won't be such a burden in the beginning.

I will have to do something nice for them though, do you think a gift card to their favorite food place would be weird? Or just right?

I've never had a friend so nice that would actually help me like this and I really, really don't wanna fuck up.

>>17649889
Nothing wrong with a gift card but I think ultimately it means more if she can tell that you are devoted to making her life easier in other ways than financial ones (as that's difficult for you). Even if she does not want you to cook you could probe to see if she might like cooking together to get it done faster and have some fun with the preparation. Tell her to always let you know if you have to run her a bath, heat her up/make her food, or similar things before she gets home. Always offer to pick stuff up from the store if you're stopping by anyway.

>>17649795
> he's also the admin of the skype channel so we can't just ban her.

you can leave.

listen you can either accept your friend's partner or you can get new friends. unless you're fucking him too she has a small advantage

>>17649795
hopefully one or two guys in your group are good looking guys and they should start hitting on her. he'd stop bring her around

You and your friends get together and tell the boyfriend that you think you guys should gangbang a chick together. Then somebody suggest his girl. And everybody act real pumped for the gangbang. He wont bring her around anymore.

But in all seriousness, do you realize how much you sound like a whiny little twat right now? Boo fucking hoo, your buddy is getting pussy and your upset that its fucking your video game team up? Go get yourself some pussy if thats at all possible. Then go buy 5 pounds of tannerite, pack it up your faggotty ass, then sit on on ar15 and pull the trigger.

>>17649781
Go to your classes, or you'll be on here by the end of the semester asking for advice on how you're going to drop out of school and work retail.

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>>17649781
27 year old here op.

Went through that same loss of fire, but regained it around your age. Then kind lost it and regained it again around 23. Somewhen between then and now lost it again and haven't felt it since.

Post here if you figure it out.

>>17649781
What game?