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>friend tells me to buy ticket for x music event
>buy ticket for £25 ($30~) and plan to go with her friends
>next day get a text saying 'by the way you can't come I'm really sorry, could you pre drink with someone else?'
>ask why and apparently it's because this event was supposed to be for someone's birthday and her parents had put money behind the bar or some shit
>tell her that it's not cool and she offers to buy my ticket
2 weeks later
>send her message asking for money
>she gets really defensive and says that I should have mentioned it before and that she could have sold it for me
>tell her it's not my problem as she offered to buy it
>she says she doesn't 'feel obliged to give me the money since I didn't mention it'
what do I do? I don't really care about my friendship with this person that much but would like the money back, more as a matter of pride than anything
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why did you wait 2 weeks??
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>>17652503
Because I was fucked off that she essentially goaded me into spending money and then uninvited me days before the event
I don't see how the waiting part is relevant
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>>17652499
>£25 ($30~)
lol you wish
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How the fuck do I kiss? Nothing comes naturally to me because I have autism.
I kind of learned how to hug, cuddle, regular kisses, ect but I don't know how to french kiss. No matter how many times we do it, I'm still absolutely terrible.
Can someone give me a step by step instruction set that makes sense? General tips? Thanks.
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>>17652490
You have to put the lips on another then bite their lower lip. Many virgins think kissing is like sucking the other person yet it is exchange in teeth. You will sort of get the hang of it on first try.
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>>17652589
>t. a kissless virgin
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>>17652490
This wikihow article is genuinely informative for once. Feel free to skip to section 2, but I learned not to kiss with my eyes open. Funny how that works.
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I broke the news to my parents that my girlfriend and i are moving out together and they werent too happy about it. Any one out there to give me some advice for someone who is moving out for the first time?
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>>17652465
>advice for someone who is moving out for the first time
Don't do it with your girlfriend.
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>>17652469
why is that?
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>>17652489
if you break up it'll suck
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Hey, /adv/. I haven't been here before and this is my first post here. Probably no one is going to see it but its worth a shot.
Can any of you tell me why women are so manipulative? I had to break up with my last girlfriend 6 months ago. It was for mainly selfish reasons but thats not the point.
After those 6 months, just yesterday she texted me saying how shes sorry if she ever mistreated me and drug me down. I took the time to apologize aswell since I carried a ton of guilt myself.
That was nice and all, to get some closure and to clear my conscious but she texted me again recently very late at night that she was drunk, but also really fucking misses me.
Now I may be looking in to it too much but is she trying to reel me back in? Because fuck, her saying that sort of sweet thing reminds me of when we were together and Im catching myself wanting more contact even though I should be over it.
I just want to know if shes playing a game or truly misses me. Her apologies were very sincere and now we are both on good terms, so it seems now would be the perfect time to fuck with my emotions. is it a trap /adv/?
>tl;dr gf and I split on bad terms, months later she texts me and we resolve everything, then says she misses me and I want to know if its some sort of game.
I know this was drawn out and all but I appreciate anyone reading. This might seem weak but I'm really confused about life right now and dont know what I want.
Thank you.
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>>17652438
>cutoff distractions
>get life together
>rake in bitches
>don't fall off
>???
>kill yourself
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>>17652451
My life isn't in terrible shape but I'm just not terribly happy. Its hard to explain.
thanks though
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>>17652438
Men have lots of ways to manipulate or control women. Women have only one - their clever use of their sex appeal. They get good at it.
I'm feeling fucking horrible. Something happened a while ago and I don't even know if it's just stuff from my head, but I'm feeling desperate because I can't know what's going on right now, and the wait is unbearable. I can feel the tears welling up, as if they're banging on a door, but I can't let a single drop out. I desperately need to let it all out.
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watch this alone and in the dark then report back
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6o_2TeVk1tc
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Sorry Anon, that did nothing to me.
Thanks for trying though. Really, thanks.
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Is there a chance a girl who rejected me a while back might like me now?
I mean, she rejected me a like, I think the beginning of May? I don't remember exactly. I just remember she said yes to my day, and then a couple days later told me she was under some emotional stress because of her past boyfriend cheating on her only 2 months prior, and then was like she couldn't see herself with anyone or something, and then told me she only saw me as a friend "right now".
I didn't press it and just softly went no contact for the entire summer.
I mean I can't really think of too much that's out of the ordinary, only things that show she's more comfortable with me as friends. She comes up to me more often now if she sees me or something, and the other day she told me she loved me as I left for a class. But that's not a sign of anything, that's just becoming more friendly, and I know when she has a crush on a person, she's super obvious about it. Constantly contacting or calling them, tagging in them on facebook etc. I'm not like that at all with her, the last time she even texted me was I think a week before I asked her out, so in May/April.
I've been told by someone that these are possible signs and I mean, I guess I can see it, but I don't really know.
I have some other stuff I can talk about that might be signs if that would help, but I really don't know.
The only other "big" thing I can honestly feel I have is that she seems pretty goddamn comfortable around me, and she's not like this with most guys other than some of her good/close friends, so that's possibly where I now fall in for some reason. Like, some kids she's noticeably more relaxed and reserved, and most of the other times she's totally on edge looking for something to say/do etc. It's hard to explain.
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I wouldn't think too much into it unless she starts becoming more flirtatious or starts finding reasons to touch you more.
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>>17652405
I should mention I'm just as autistic as every other guy asking for advice on this board, how the fuck do I know if she's being more flirtatious or finding stupid excuses to touch me?
I mean, she playfully messes with me now after a joke or w/e, but only once did it actually go on for longer than you'd expect.
She kept hitting my shoulder since I was sitting next to her then just rested her hand on it, I didn't really acknowledge it but it was weird as fuck to me and the other kid sitting at the table too
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>>17652411
That sounds like touching you more than she did before to me but I could be wrong. Just wait and see if she does it more. This is a hard one to judge sorry man.
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I have until the end of the month to move out from the place Im at and I dont have a job.
I didnt register for class this semester and Im currently working on my transfer app
should I just wing it and buy a ticket to where my college is and find a job? Amazon warehouse is always hiring but I only have 500 to my name which is my school funds
I dont know what to do, I just want to get healthy and get back on track with school and my career
also, I obviously dont have any friends
pls help, what would you do?
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>>17652384
Why can't you move home?
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>>17652385
it's where Im moving out of
I dont have siblings to help either
Im 21 and I told them I dropped this semester so they told me to fuck off and how much of a waste I was.
I thought they'd listen and understand but they didnt give a fuck.
My point is, that they're right. Ive been living here for free and just going to uni fulltime without excelling much academically and changing my major.
They obviously wont give me any cash and I live in a shit city so that's why Im thinking moving to where the uni is is my best option
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>>17652396
You have a month to get a job. You're not in a position where you can be picky, just apply for anything and everything and take whatever you can get. Moving to where the uni is pointless unless you're actually going to study.
Why did you drop out anyway?
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I was looking around and saw that Las Vegas has really cheap motels where you stay by the week. Could I go there without a lot of money and just start off in something like that until I figure out something?
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sounds like an awful idea.
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>>17652344
That is literally retarded.
Vegas is awful unless you are looking to be sexually exploited and poor forever.
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>>17652344
You're better off paying rent somewhere else, maybe a room somewhere.
Get a job at the Casino
>cash ops
>bartender
>server
>valet
>etc
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how do i stop my cyberbully
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hi, I know you don't know me and i shouldn't be asking for this, but i simply don't know what to do anymore about this and Im begging for any form of help. I have tried every means necessary to try to stop my internet troll but I'm literally at the end of my tether.
I noticed the internet troll attacking my friend called GFSlegion (trixi) I asked her to stop. Since then i have personally received over 6000 messages of hate, she has called me and my friends everything from A to Z and uses a proxy server to evade bans and uses a spam bot to send us thousands of messages.
frustrated at the lack of help from the police and from the admins, i took matters into my own hands and set up a tumblr blog to counteract her words but kept it anonymous.I know it was not the best course of action but I simply couldn't take any more and ignoring her wasn't working. I took lengths to hide my Facebook profile but somehow she has found me and put my personal information (my family, and the town i live in) on her blog posts, I don't know how she found it as i am very careful and make sure my data is hidden from search engines and from non Facebook friends. the only thing i can think off is that she is a friend of a friend who can see my profile ( have fixed that now)
As fast as I’m going to the admins and blocking this information, she is spreading it. I have now received a message though tumblr basically saying that if i don't stop blocking the blog, she’ll ensure this data will go viral.
Im so frightened as i don't know what she will do. I have tried going to the admins to remove the posts and the police to try to see about a prosecution, I have tried cyber bully websites but while they offer support, they cant do anything. I feel that no one wants to stop this person and just me brushes off to the next person in line.
this is why I’m turning to anyone for help. please.
thank you
sarah
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I don't understand, why in the world didn't you a) ignore this person and b) not delete your shit when it started to get serious
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we ignored her for 4 months and stayed silent but we did and thats when she sent those messages. collectively myself GFS and 2 others have received over 30 thousand messages and 154 separate blog posts within the time we stayed silent. i simply lost it as it felt no one was doing anything and she was getting away with writing anything
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>>17652317
This. Have u tried deactivating/deleting the social media accounts, like ALL social media accounts? Setting up new phone number, new bank account, changing passwords for everything, etc?
Cyberbullying can get nasty best to go off grid. If suspicious person show up, call the police.
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>texting a girl for few days
>imply a little too much in my implications
>now she stops responding
What do I do now?
pic related
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>>17652309
What'd you say?
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>>17652326
>Asked her about her plans for tmr.
>Said shes going to atlantic city with her parents but she's under 21 and cant gamble or drink.
>then why not stay home?
>why should I stay home
>"so we can meet up heh"
>Says she needs a vacation
>ask her some other mundane question (to brush off getting shot down lol) and no response
btw its a tinder girl and she already agreed to meet up for coffee in like 2 weeks and this is the 2nd time i tried to get her to meet up earlier
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>>17652340
You implied sex which is not good for someone you havent met on top of basically asking her to ditch her vacation. You may not be fucked but you definitely hurt your chances. Btw if you met her on tinder chances are she's already talking to 10+ guys I'm not even exaggerating.
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best way for an acid burn
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im trying to burn my flesh away with acid or base (cause im crazy and stupid like that) what is the best and legal way to do that?
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and yes i did try bleach, even mixing bleach with rubbing alcohol and other cleaners i had in my house
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Why are you doing this?
I once tried to remove a mole with apple cider vinegar, which is acidic. It kinda half worked, the color is gone, it's smaller, but the bump is still there. Hardly noticeable. It may have worked perfectly, but pretty sure I fucked up and didn't use organic.
Point is, apple cider vinegar might do what you want. But it'll need to be organic. Also, I still wouldn't recommend. This stuff burned the skin around the area pretty bad, but it did heal after like a year.
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>>17652270
D-dont.
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I need to see something new. I've lived in the same town for 13 years ever since I was 5 and have never left the country as a result of my family's working class status. I've always felt like I was in a rut and that something was missing and it hit me. I need to get out and see the world
I know where I want to get started. I want to take the weeb rite of passage and go to Japan. I know how to plan and save money. I have no one I'd be able to convince to go with me though and I'm completely ignorant on actually travelling. What do I do?
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>>17652265
Don't go to Japan alone or it will be shitty for real. It's great if you know people.
Are you a man/woman, how much money can you spend, where do you live relatively, and how much time are you looking to spend away.
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>>17652265
As someone who has traveled Europe and Asia, I'll tell you this.
I would recommend not going and using your money to create a portfolio.
The reason I say this is because every major city in industrialized nations are exactly the same. They're terrible to visit, and you won't get to experience the real culture. You'd need to visit small towns and such which cost a lot.
So save up money cause your young now, and visit these places when you're financially set and more responsible
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>>17652265
The problem with travelling to find yourself is that when you get there what you find is still just you.
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Bringing girls home to parents house for sex
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How do I bring girls home for sex in my parent's house? I am a 20 year old college student living at home and I have plans to have sex with a girl next Friday. Both of our parents will be home that evening. I would like to avoid any awkward encounters with my parents before she leaves in the morning. Should I just be up front with them and subtly request that they go to bed upstairs before I come home in the evening?
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Is she aware that you live with your parents?
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>>17652262
We are both senior year undergrads with aspirations for professional school so it is more or less expected on both sides. The problem is giving her the D without having an awkward conversation with my parents in the morning.
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>>17652264
I'm not talking about assumptions or expectations, does she actually know? Depending on how you made the arrangement, she might have only agreed because she thought you had your own place
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So I applied for pic related because screw it, I physically qualify and I'm graduating very soon. Does anyone have experience interviewing and/or working here?
Overall, if I was nohing special in college (aside from a high GPA), do I have the slightest chance in hell of getting hired? Also, it's a corporate (ie. non-tech) job if that makes a difference.
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Chances are slim considering they put a BIG emphasis on work experience and what college you went to.
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>>17652113
If you're name ain't Pajeet "Straight from the shit streets" Malik, it's very unlikely.
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>>17652113
why would you want to work for jews?
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Hello /adv/ this is my very first thread and I wanted to ask what types of careers I can pursue that are relatively short with a decent employment rate. I´ll give you some info about my situation, I´m soon going to be 21 and I still haven´t finished high school but I´m studying again and It will take me 4 years more or less. So I figured that during those 4 years I could prepare myself for a job. I figure that any info related to jobs would be useful. Also I´m not american.
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>>17652086
>relatively short with a decent employment rate
What does this even mean?
And why is it going to take you 4 more years to pass high school?
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> I´m soon going to be 21 and I still haven´t finished high school
> I´m soon going to be 21 and I still haven´t finished high school
> I´m soon going to be 21 and I still haven´t finished high school
I am sorry but wtf man?
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>>17652090
Yes it´s awful I know but it wasn´t entirely my fault.
>>17652089
I meant something that doesn´t take me too many years at college since I don´t have time anymore.