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I have pectus excavatum, am 22, and really want to get the Nuss Procedure sooner rather than later... Since I'm already getting it later than a patient should.
I will be graduating next Summer, and really want to go to grad school right after... But I feel like it'd be the best time to do the Nuss Procedure.
Would I be screwing myself over to put off Grad School for a year/working for at least 6 months to get this procedure done?
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When is the nearest time you can do the procedure?
No need to rush things, take it slow and get it done by the best specialist.
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>>17652077
I have that too, why are you getting surgery?
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>>17652099
The rush is that most specialists won't perform the surgery on people over 25.
>>17652101
Worried about cardiac complications in the future, and figure it's better now than later.
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>i find apartment at a great deal for me and sister to share (location is perfect too)
>sister ends up signing lease because i've just graduated and was jobless
>landlord knows i'll be living with her
>i have a good and stable job now
>sister wants to kick me out of apartment after having a huge tantrum which includes destroying my things, but i want to be the one to keep the place
can she even legally do this? she's giving me 2 months, and i've already given her half of my money for the down payment, which she refuses to return.
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>>17652072
If she's on the lease and you're not, she sure can. You're effectively a lodger or boarder, meaning you have far fewer rights than she does. The situation with the down payment is a bit more hazy, but that's a separate question to whether or not you have a legal right to be there, to which the answer is no
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>>17652079
well fuck she's only giving me 1 month now. but at least i have a job.
any way i can fuck up the place with roaches or something at least lol
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>>17652164
fuck roaches, go to a sleazy hotel and bottle up like 20 bed bugs and drop em in the apartment
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Hey guys,
My girlfriend of two years has been cheating on me with another guy. i only found out a few months ago that when we first met, she left that guy for me.
If i knew this i would not have asked her to be my girlfriend since if she can cheat on someone else she can cheat on me. which i just found out.
turns out she's back with that same guy again, who she left to be with me. I recorded her on the phone and she has been fucking him non stop, and she has been fucking me too whilst slowly getting more distant and then she said that sex hurts her and she made me stop. The fuck, it hurts. fuck off. i caught her on the phone too many times and she made too many excuses.
I loved her so much, not anymore at all. We even wanted to marry each other, and were planning the whole thing out.
So now what should i do? That's why im here.
To my surprise I thought that if someone cheated on me i would go insane/kill myself/ attack the other person rashly and get myself in prison, but i didn't shed a tear and haven't confronted her yet. i knew the whole time in the back of my mind anyways. she's been filthy talking with this guy and fucking him when im at work. I've been slaving away 60+ hours a week for this bitch and this is what i get. She keeps asking me for some cash to get some new clothes. She wanted to look pretty for him. This girl is pure evil, and she deserves whatever harm this world has.
>She doesn't know that i know yet.
>My goal is to plan this out properly and slowly ruin her life: without doing anything illegal.
>How should I do this?
I need legit serious help here
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>>17652045
Best way to ruin her life? Move on and be happy. This bitch will ruin her life on her own. You don't have to do anything.
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First thing: if you live with her, gather her shit up and make it easy to get out of your home.
Second thing: if not, meet up at a park and just end it, don't fucking talk about it because you'll probably stay with her and end up with more regret than you have now.
Third: kill any connections you have to her
Fourth: Move on mate, only thing to do.
>source: been through this shit before
also forget about revenge, she'll destroy her own life soon enough with her habits.
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>>17652045
Get her fat.
Claim you like fat bitches and she should be one too to fit the bill. If she goes with it and sticks with it, lay it on heavy (kek) with her in terms of food, make sure she fucking ruins her body.
Then, dump her right after something, anything bad happens.
Or she'll dump you on the spot when you say this, its a win win really.
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Has anyone here ever had chronic brain fog? In my head i feel like im literally living in a Dream. I always malfunction in social situations. I always try to avoid people because mentally i dont have the energy to carry on a conversation. Im moody, nervous, and anything else a normal functioning human should be. Pls help
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>>17652017
Sounds like you've got a dissociative disorder.
See a therapist
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>>17652225
Yeah i can see it. It started happening back when i smoked weed so i can definitely see it.
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>>17652240
thats why its fucked up that everyone's mainstream belief that it needs to be totally legal when even if its illegal we have kids smoke it one time in their teen years when its a scientific fact that the brain hasn't finished growing and the toxins perminately ruins them in adulthood for ever there-on.
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tips for dating a chubby woman
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Basically started talking to this chubby woman I used to work with. Total sweatheart, really nice personality...def a good person. Thing is I don't want to miss out of this but I literally have never dating a chubby woman ever. Any suggestions?
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The trick is that you view and treat her as a person.
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>>17652007
>I literally have never dating a chubby woman ever. Any suggestions?
why would there be any difference to a skinny or a fat girl ?
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>>17652007
If you don't have bad cases of foot in mouth you'll be fine. You're on 4 chan you might be a sperg so try to use filters when speaking to her but what gives me faith is you like her so you might be fine
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Posted this yesterday, so pardon that, just wanted to reach a conclusion with this
>go to hang out with close bro, he invites a girl at the last minute but that's fine
>get there, we all talk a bit, he lets me know his goal is to get shitfaced and bang girl
>figure that's weird but I'll handle it, I smoke some weed for the first time
>he nearly OD's by mixing a ton of different drugs
>she and I catch on pretty quick, we start going full nursing mode to keep him going
>takes like 3 hours, but once he's settled she invites me to cuddle with her to Netflix
>accept, stoned me thought that'd be great
>we talk a bit, similar interests, she's pretty cool
>lets me feel her up, after a while sorta sperg and ask "wanna make out?" but she just said "nah this is where I wanna be," i reply "alright, this is cool too"
>keep cuddling, eventually say "i gotta grab my phone over there," she gives me this hot look and says "let me call it so we can find it easy"
>get her number/FB from that, cuddle rest of night
>wake up, bro's fine but still a bit messed up, we lightly make fun of him together
>up and leave after a while
Now, I don't mean this all that a braggy-kinda way, I'm just throwing it all out there since I'm socially inept and can't interpret it. It's confusing me since I've never met someone so lax. Not looking for romance, but she'd be a cool friend imo
She definitely wants to keep in contact with the number/letting me go even that far, not just being friendly? Should/shouldn't I text? How do I even handle texting, just get to know her/maybe flirt a bit?
Any input whatsoever is appreciated, help me understand grills and stoners
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tl;dr, bro invites me and stoner girl over to hang, he nearly OD's, we put him to sleep and then we cuddle/feel each other up. she gave me her number, should I text her? if yeah, how should I go about it?
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A girl invites an autist like you to netflix.
Lets you cuddle.
Lets you feel you up
And you have the audacity to ask us if you should text her? Idiot. If a girl is willing to let you do all that then you can do no wrong unless you act like a retard. Text whats up and say you want to chill sometime like last time.
Poor bastard could have gotten some pussy and he completely fucked it up.
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>>17652083
I'm blaming tumblr at this point for my confusion about this, with that whole "cuddling doesn't mean anything" mentality bleeding out of it. Between that, never having escalated something so quickly someone, and feeling like I'd impede on my bro, I'm going full retard.
I do appreciate your bluntness though honestly, I'm overthinking everything at this point
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>Very long term girlfriend cheats on me by kissing another guy
>Pleads for me to forgive her as I'm trying to end things out of hurt and betrayal
>Tries to explain herself and messages me that she misses me /isn't willing to lose me for the next 4 days
>I finally come around to the idea of moving forward and maybe being able to forgive
>Drive to see her first time since I first found out so we can talk properly
>All goes well we talk for hours, have sex, looking towards the future and both want to be together
>She messages me later that night that she loved seeing me and misses my company already
>Ends the night with I love you and goodnight message in her regular way
>Wait the next day for her to contact me... nothing
>wait another day... nothing
>third day now and I'm wondering what the fuck is happening
>Who is this person that i spent so much time with
What do I do in this situation? I feel like I need closure, I literally have no clue what is going on here, I don't want to initiate contact and come across as needy when she's the one that cheated on me. If she was busy or something she could have just let me know, no messages at all tells me things aren't going to work out. And I'm coming around to the idea of us not moving forward together but I still feel like I need some kind of closure, surely she wouldn't beg and plead and leave things with me thinking we were going to work through it when she had other intentions. We literally talked for 4 straight hours the last time I saw her where she was saying how she wants to be with me no matter what.
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You let her off the hook to easily
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>>17651997
Listen here noob. Never forgive a cheater. NEVER!
You want to know what she is doing? She is probably thinking who she likes more, you or the other guy. Basically there is a high chance she might leave you.
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>>17652039
By wanting to stay with someone I thought made a mistake and wanted to be with me beyond a shadow of a doubt?
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I blew it guys.
>meet girl, think nothing of her. she's cute, but not local..
>go out drinking with friends , she's there.
>she says that she likes me (cant tell if joking).
>she keeps playing with my hair
>she kept on rubbing her legs up against me, getting real close
>she starts getting drunk
>playful hitting me, stealing my seat, etc.
>now shes flirting with all the guys in the bar
>im going to see her tomorrow
I think I already blew my chance with her.
What do I do?
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please respond
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>>17651996
If she was interested then, she's probably still interested. Respond to that interest.
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She threw herself at you and you didn't act like a man by accepting her advances. Of course she lost interested and started flirting with other guys.
This is salvageable I guess but you made yourself have to work so much more harder to get back in good graces with her. She most likely found another guy already.
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Ask people for advice on your NEET-related/social problems, or join our discord group to do the same.
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>>17651957
I found this website called http://www.balancingbrainchemistry.co.uk
I also found that this stuff called Zembrin or Sceletium Tortuosum is a natural SSRI with little to no side effects, and I take it, and it works
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Hi, I'm at uni. I have been at uni for three weeks and I have met tons of people. Mostly guys, some girls who either aren't interested in me, I'm not interested in them, or we're friends. I want to meet more girls, ones who I like and can potentially get into a relationship with. I am quite tall, large built, quite fat (dad bod, not morbidly obese or anything), and I'm not an autist or retarded or anything like that.
I have been to a bunch of societies, but I suck at clubbing.
Advice?
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>>17651923
idk why but that pic was way more amusing to me than it should have been
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Lose a lot of weight. It's hard, but it works. I'm not saying anorexically skinny but rather fit. That's that'll work for you
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>>17652372
I am, I used to stress eat since my home life was shit and it is starting to fall off me
I read the Redpill. I know the "one" doesn't exist. I know the Disney stort of "love and happily ever after" is a lie.
But I want to BELIEVE man. I want to believe that shit is true. It's hard accepting im gonna be emotionally empty for the rest of my life.
What should I do?
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>>17651913
accept we're all flawed and move on with your life.
Don't take life seriously. Fuck around. Settle down. Still fuck around if the chance is apparent and there are no obvious consequences. That way if your "one" cheats on you it'll be easier to forgive.
If she keeps doing it then you drop her.
And try with another one.
Objective: not die alone.
There, I summed up life of 50% of people in the Western country. Sad, isn't it?
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>>17651946
Do non-western countries have it worse in this regard
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>>17651959
If it's a poor country they don't worry about this stuff, when you live day to day you really don't care about all this.
Depression is the illness of the developed world.
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>Become president of a club at college
>Meet girl about a month and a half ago when she joins club
>Thought girl was cute and nice
>Girl was interested in me and I was clueless
Flash forward a month or so (last week)
>Hang out with girl alone for the first time
>Hit really hit it off
>Hang out again and it's like whoa
>Ask girl out
>"I didn't say anything cause I was interested in you but I have a boyfriend now"
>Guy was someone she liked over the summer but he didn't want to get with her or something and he finally manned up
>I say "OK, I will back off"
>Girl keeps getting closer with me, hanging out with me, trying to get my attention when I ignore her
>Tell her it's not really fair
Flash forward to 2 days ago
>End up meeting at 11 PM at beach to straighten things out
>Says she's been conflicted cause she liked boy for so long but she doesn't even think about him when she's with me
>I pretty much say I'm done and ready to leave
>"Let's lay on the beach anon"
>Talking turns to cuddling, cuddling turns to making out, making out turns into fucking
We haven't really talked about it since, but she kissed me goodbye and all that and watched the sunset with me last night. She also said she 'knew what needed to be done' regarding her week and a half long boyfriend, which I took as her planning on breaking up with him. She also started making future plans with me closer to Halloween.
She is working this weekend, how much time should I give her to break it off with her boyfriend? Trying to be somewhat understanding but I'm not really planning on being anyone's backdoor man
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I think I left it off but her 'boyfriend' and her only got together on September 26th
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>>17651897
It's already pretty bad she fucked you before she broke it off with him.
If she hasn't ended it with him by now, you need to fucking cut contact with her completely. She cannot be trusted.
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I'd cut contact she sounds like a bit of a mental case.
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Im a man looking to potentially hook up with other men but Im scared of STDS.
What do? I'm not gay though.
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>>17651836
don't get hung up over the label bullshit, Just wear protection and/or maybe get them to get tested beforehand
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Asking someone upfront if they're tested is perfectly normal nowadays imo.
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>>17651878
What if I want to succ the dicc
Cant use a condom then
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hi there going on a date tomorrow but I got one issue -- how the everliving fuck do I move in for a kiss?
im a kissless virgin, have gone on multiple dates with the same grill, who has acknowledged them as dates too, so its not a misunderstanding of any kind. she hasnt made any move of this nature yet either.
pls help adv
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>>17651824
bump again
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bumpin
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First make sure she is interested dude, if she hasnt made any moves or gave any signal that she wants a kiss, then probably she just doesnt want it.
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Someone tell me why not. I hate myself and everyone hates me. The only reason I hesitate is because I don't know how people will react. I feel like I am a waste of space, peoples' focus, and peoples' time and effort. What's the best way?
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>>17651818
I was thinking of jumping, myself... but a gunshot to the head sounds appealing too
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Why do you hate yourself?
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>>17651818
If all you're worried about is what people will think; maybe you're not ready to kill yourself.