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>>17653362
2/3

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>>17653365
3/3

I honestly thought she was into me.

>>17653362
Yes, you're trying too hard. Just ask her out for dinner at the start.
Holy fucking shit you killed it, just give up.
Should've been this way.
>Hey I know a nice place down...., wanna grab dinner with me?
this can go either way
>Alright sure! (She's interested in you)
>No thanks, I've got plans (Give up, she's not interested in you)
Just move on now, it's friendzone from here on out.

accept your fate
you dont want to be depending on baldpills forever

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>>17653043

Why not grow a set of balls and become a man?

My hairline is also receding and you know what? I am looking forward to being a bald fucking badass

I guess that's because I have more testicles than you OP

There basically four options:

>Finsteride
These are the pills that help stop balding. They're also expensive, can be hard to get unless you talk a dermatologist into prescribing them, and they have side effects that make your dick not work.

>Minoxidil
The stuff you put on your head. Actually works, but only as long as you constantly use it. Also kind of expensive and gradually loses effectiveness over time (with studies showing it gradually becoming less effective after five years). Works the best, but only delays hair growth.

>Transplants
Very expensive, leaves scars, and only covers up areas where you're presently losing hair. When other areas also thin, you'll either need more transplants or have a weird looking hairline.

The last one is shaving your head when you become uncomfortable with you you look. This is the best option. It's the easiest, and the only one that really lets you be okay with yourself. Yeah, you won't have hair anymore, but you also won't constantly have to worry about the state of your hair loss, what you're doing to stop it, and how you look. It's a gigantic relief (you know that anxiety you're feeling now? when you get used to being bald, it will be gone), and probably one of the best decisions you'll ever make.

>>17652957
You were gross and she treated you like you were gross. Now you're not and she's treating you like you're not. That's normal and you can't really hold it against her.

>>17652957
It is reasonable to not be attracted to someone because they aren't good looking. Fat people usually aren't good looking.
She, on the other hand, treated you poorly and has been a bitch. I can get not being attracted, but if you were so close she behaved like a superficial cunt.
She should have treated you nicely, even if she didn't want a relationship with you. I'm not saying she owed you anything, but she didn't respect you just for the way you looked.
Coming back for you now that you fit her physical standards is okay, but I don't think that she fits your personality standards.
I don't think you should go for her.

It's one thing to not be attracted to somebody, it's another thing to be a cunt about it.
>outright appalled
>hated every second we spent together
>wouldn't even shake my hand

6 yrs sucks man but you should break up with her

>>17652466
Just talk to her, fuck's sakes. Don't get pissy, don't let it hang over you or her, just talk calmly and rationally like adults

>>17652466

Confront her for what, OP? That can only go one of two ways, both of them not being very suitable outcomes. I suggest you breakup with her, don't mention why (this will get her very attached to you and increase the number of fucks you'll get out of her), and mind your studies. I know it's hard but you're a big boy now, any problems with this logic?

>What's making me undateable?
you tell us, post pics

>>17651895

no way I'm doing that. What if someone I know posts here and finds this thread. I wouldn't be able to stop cringing. Ever.

Doctors in America get women very easily

I am baffled to hear about a doctor being single

it

I need to break it off with my fiancé and give myself a chance at life.

I'm too young for this.

>>17650988
how young are you?

>>17649832
>as I think most girls do.
Projecting hard, huh?

You shouldn't hang out with people you were physically intimate with. It's reasonable of your boyfriend to be bothered by that.

>>17649832
>as I think most girls do
uh?

>>17649832
You have a fiancé, not a fiancée.

A
I dream about drinking from your tits.

I think I'm going to talk to you again J. It's been a few years and you have crossed my mind a few times. Honestly though I wish I would have dated you at a later time in my life. When I had a car

I want to leave you alone , but that's hard, even harder because i don't know if that's what you want. I don't know if you are confused or you feel disgusted , but you said you don't regret it so that's good. I want to be your friend with benefits because you're really nice and amazing and you have a nice cock, but you seem to be distant so i looked for some advice on internet( i know it's not the best idea) , it said for me to leave you alone, anyway i hope that you could be my friend, but if not i hope you'll be happy and won't tell our secret to anyone.

>>17656493

Depression doesn't need a reason. Go talk to a professional, they will be able to help you or at least to give you tips on how to try to help yourself.

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>>17656493
Daily reminder that happiness is just a chemical reaction in the brain and you should just go masturbate or do a shot of heroin to release some dopamine. If you're already chronically masturbating and shotting heroin, find either a new drug or fetish to release more. Thinking that happiness is anything more or deeper then a chemical reaction is foolish.

Also, feel free to ask me anything. I'll answer any question if it could help in finding a solution to this.

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>>17656436
The heart wants what the heart wants
You don't get to decide who you fall in love with, and people develop feelings for others as time passes
So no

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>>17656436
You should attempt to fuck every girl you meet and spread your seed no matter the attractiveness, personality, intelligence or any other superficial things that may apply. Get out there and make babies for the sake of reproduction and quit being a pussy. DO IT IN THE NAME OF SCIENCE!!!

>>17656436
If you meet a girl and like her then aim to make her a potential date.

If you get to know her better and there is a good reason she can't date you then switch to friendship.

Only decide to try and make her your girlfriend after the 4th or 6th date.

I was where you were
It affected my hair, skin, and teeth

I googled how to reverse cavities naturally and heal tooth decay
Come across a link by Dr.Axe about health from the inside out and diet
After a year, my hair is long as fuck, my teeth are still a bit yellow but definitely not as yellow as before, and I've finally got little muscle definition on my tummy

>>17656357
Biotin gummies can help, they helped me immensely after losing hair from the front of my hairline after the stress of a back surgery. Along with eating plenty of iron-rich spinach, Vitamin C (fresh oranges) and Potassium (ripe bananas). I've even heard of one of my friends drinking bone broth and it assisting in hair growth because she was deficient in collagen.
As with any diet change, make sure you're drinking plenty of water and not cutting out all of the fat in your diet.
When it's stress induced hairloss most of the time you can recover with most, if not all of your hair replenished. You just have to take away whatever the stress factor was and supplement the vitamins which were lost.
Make sure you aren't digging your nails into your scalp and scratching, even repetitive touching of the follicles can stunt hair growth. Never tie your hair back or pin it if you can avoid it, caps/hats also stunt hair growth because they push down the follicle and prevent your hair from getting exposure to the sun (Vitamin D).
However, if you have balding and hairloss in your family then it may be starting. If you have balding on your mothers side, it's definitely going to happen. If you have it on your fathers side there's a good chance it will happen. It's a part of life.

m or f?

What did you want advice on? If you just want to whine, >>>/r9k/ is that way.

>>17656269
The subject is titled "blog" though.

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looks/money/status is fucking everything.

you need 1/3 to be happy

>>17656245
>Ex-gf keeps messaging me after we agreed to go no contact until we both move on

Be firm faggot. Why did you two break up?

>>17656252

She freaked out about her life and where she has gotten to as an individual, depressed and not motivated to do anything because she relies on me too heavily. Second time it's happened in our long relationship and the first time I forgave her doubting us, this time I pushed for a break up because I wanted her to be sure of me.

>>17656258
Wtf? So you broke up to test her? Are you really expecting her to run to you always? If she can't help herself you should just move on bro

you know how when you lower the difficulty on a game, the gold and loot drops aren't as good?

you can get by with less effort if you lower your expectations. look at it this way. on the one end you have shit like stockbrokers who pull down mad cash but have enormous stress, or specialist MDs in private practice who can name whatever fee they want and pick and choose their patients and practice, but spent 20 years grinding, kissing ass, and generally wearing themselves out to get there.

on the other end of the spectrum you got hobos who do odd jobs or don't work at all, and have all the free time in the world. but they have to bathe in a sink and be content with whatever they can steal, beg, or dumpster dive.

then there's everything in between. you just gotta find the place on the spectrum that's the least discomfort for you. easier said than done.

>>17656244
>the gold and loot drops aren't as good
aren't there any cheats?
>spent 20 years grinding
I want to have fun and not aim for legendaries
>easier said than done
true, seeing all those rich people showing off their luxury, which they got by their guilds, make me pissed

>>17656260
there are cheats but they are illegal like any other cheat and if you are busted your account is suspended for a period of time, its called going to jail son

omg are you me?

Difficult one?

she is full of shit and probably heard the guy who she lusting after is available now