Best things for a first date? I'd always propose dinner but I got rejected every time.
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Drink at the bar? Shit, if you get rejected for dinner. You might be doing something wrong dude, or shes just not interested.
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Those were just with ither women where I likely was doing stupid shit, just wondering if that was bad. How long into knowing someone is it a good tine to ask them out? I feel like I always ask tok early and I think I have a an actual shot with this one girl.
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dinner dates suck for me, I hate the formality. drinks/coffee/activity (activity best if can think of something, eg. bowling, bouldering, walk, swimming, art gallery, museum, etc.
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Hey /adv/,
Pic very much related.
I asked why she was acting so odd, pic was response.
What do I do guys? Break up with her, or stick it out?
Relationship of 4 years btw.
Thanks guys.
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Just a quick update.
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Self bump.
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19. Go out to bar and concert and everyone is older than me and I feel like I'm inferior to everyone in these places. What the fuck help me out fellas
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Also anyone know what that thing is in my hand it's growing near my house
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>>17651639
Cut it open and show us a cross section. Also tell us what it tastes like, we might be able to guess from that.
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>>17651636
grow some balls and stop giving a shit
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What do you do when you like a girl's personality, but their physical appearance is really ultra super average and you're dating down?
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>>17651604
whatever u wanna do?
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>>17651604
Move on, seeing as you're a douchebag and no one really deserves to be stuck with you.
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>>17651604
>What do you do when you like a girl's personality, but their physical appearance is really ultra super average and you're dating down?
Well considering most girls are either that or good looking with a shit personality, take your pick.
If you do find a girl that's cute and nice personality it's because she just got good looking. She will become one or the other soon enough.
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going to try to hang out with my friend tomorrow
it would be the first time it was just me and her together, and i think i'd like to make a move on her
assuming she's down for hanging out without other friends, how do make a move (we're going to be out in public the whole time)
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bump
really want to know what to do
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>>17651600
Don't.
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>>17651974
wait until we're doing something more private, or don't make a move on her ever?
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I worked with a girl on Thursday and Friday. We got along pretty well, were chatting and shit.
On the Friday when we'd finished. I asked if she's like to talk on Facebook. She said yeah sure, but her Facebook doesn't allow random people to just add her.
I'd like to get to know her better, but what do if I can't make any contact? Thursday and Friday were completely out of the ordinary, I don't usually work with those people so seeing her in person at a different work site is highly unlikely.
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May be she had one but she didn't feel like giving it out to a worker that she worked only with 2-days with. You shouldn't stall on that detail or she leaves faster than you can imagine.
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>>17651615
Well that's fair enough, but it's a bit shit to say "Yeah go ahead and add me" and then not allow anyone to add you.
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>>17651625
If subject comes up again, tell her. Otherwise don't bother.
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There was a wasp in our kitchen /adv/ 2016-10-09 01:41:21 Post No.17651564
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There was a wasp in our kitchen /adv/
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Early in my life I have developed a very serious phobia of those bastards due to a childhood trauma. I was so in panic, without thinking I grabbed a can of aerosol, a lighter, combined the two and went to town on that motherfucker. It was hiding in a small hole in the window.
As it turns out, you're not supposed to expose things you don't wish to see destroyed to fire, so the paint on the window got moderately burned. Also the wasp is still alive - if likely flightless, so I'm still terrified.
Anyway, soon my mother will wake up and she will be undoubtedly furious for almost setting the house on fire and will want to punish me for my actions.
What am I supposed to do?
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Holy fucking shit, OP. Bump
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This is the definition of being a wimp. Let one sting you, it's a mild pain that goes away in a minute or two.
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>mild
Not op but I was stung by a wasp a while ago and I was really shocked by how painful it was. It was extremely painful but focused into an area the size of a pinprick. It did go away in a few minutes though. I think it depends on the species.
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I'm don't ever have close guy friends, so I'm hoping the guys on here can help me out.
I made my best friend very upset and he won't speak to me. He shut me out and avoided me at work for a week before telling me what I'd done, after I'd texted him telling him I had no clue. I'd done something he'd asked me not to about two weeks prior and he said he thought he'd made himself clear when he told me not to do it. However, he never says much seriously so I thought he'd been joking. What I did is what I normally do for my female friends and what I would hope they'd do for me, so I didn't even think it would upset him. Again, I don't normally spend time with men so I am oblivious to what is okay and not okay with them. But I did hurt him and I acknowledge that and want to fix it. I've apologized and explained that I did what I did because I cared about him and didn't want him to get hurt, but it wasn't my place to do so and I was really sorry. I tried to talk to him in person, but he said he didn't want to blow up on me.
Some time goes by, and I tried messaging him again, asking him if he thought I was sincere since a friend of mine told me he didn't know if I was thinking about his feelings. He said "right now it doesn't matter if I believe you or not, I just need space". I told him I understood and I didn't message him again until recently, when Hurricane Matthew was about to hit us and I wanted to know if he and his family would be evacuating. He told me everyone was going to his grandma's house, so I told him to please stay safe and he said he wishes the same for me too. I texted him two more times after that, to make sure he's alright, but got no response and I don't want to push anything so I'm leaving him be. But...
From a guy's perspective, what do you mean when you say you need space? Is that simply all it means or is a nice way to tell someone you don't want to be friends anymore? Any advice? I can give more detail if asked, I can't fit everything here.
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It would help tremendously if you told us what you did. This is an anonymous board why the hell do you care if you tell us?
If it's something like you screwed up a possible gf for him or something along those lines it would be pretty devastating. He's obviously extremely mad just like any person, guy or girl, and needs time to forgive you.
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Sorry, I didn't mean to be vague. I was just trying to fit it all there and I'm terrible at summarizing.
My best friend, my roommate, and I went out to eat and got onto the topic of this girl that he likes. He'd asked us for advice previously and we tried to help him out, but this time he was telling us how he'd come back from a trip and found out she'd slept with her ex. So they stopped talking but he still liked her and he was waiting on her to contact him. I jokingly told him I'd ask my friend, who knows the girl really well, if she was still with her ex. He laughed it off and said something along the lines of "haha please don't". The conversation went on, I didn't think anything of it.
Then a week or so later, the girl was brought into a conversation by my friend who was going to be staying with her for a month. Since I'm interested in women, I asked my friend if the girl was seeing anyone, as a way to keep my best friend's name out of it. She told me that the girl had an off/on thing with her ex, so I left it at that. I went out to dinner with my best friend that weekend and told him about it and didn't realize it upset him until we went back to work. It made him even more mad that I didn't know what I did to upset him, but I didn't even recall the past conversation and when I explained it to my roommate who had been there, she said she wouldn't have taken what he'd said seriously either. He has a way of joking about everything. But I didn't mention that to him, I just apologized for hurting him and that it wasn't my place to do what I did.
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My girlfriend and I broke up yesterday
She wants to still be best friends like before, and I'm okay with that.
Here's the thing: she wants to still fuck around with me and go on dates but doesn't want the love part in the equation because she can't provide that.
What do?
I'm down for the sex, but the relationship just fell apart and I have no other romantic interests yet
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kill her
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What'd you guys break up over?
There might be a chance of her reconsidering the relationship she had with you. She might also want to be loved in different ways.
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She needs a part-time bf while she is finding a new one, m8. Very sensible thing to do. Finding a new bf ain't easy m8 gotta scream, aim, fire and load in all the love at stake. OP you'd better have your patience and time ready to support her battle.
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Is it better to give up and lose virginity to a whore or to keep waiting endlessly knowing your chances are very slim, as you keep getting older?
What would you do?
I always thought to myself that it was pointless to pay for it and I'd rather die alone, perhaps just to focus on other things. But as I keep getting older I'm starting to give less of a shit about my "dignity", as is not as if this is going to make me feel less empty or anything, but I kinda need to know how it feels to fuck a woman, it is like an urge I have.
But I'm an incompetent moron (regarding women) in his mid-20s and I don't see getting anything real any time soon, I'm not sure it will ever happen.
Obviously I would rather to have a pretty girls who actually wants me, I don't want a whore, but rather than to keep masturbating now and then when I feel lonely, I might try something new.
Is it ok or does it make me even more of a loser? Not like I care what other people think, the question is more towards how am I going to feel about myself, what does this make me.
Probably just overthinking it and is not a big deal, but basically I'm so fucked up that I'm about to break one of my own principles.
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I can speak from experience and tell you you dont really lose your virginity to a hooker. They just fuck you and leave, its not really a sexual experience imo.
Do it or dont, its not going to change anything about you
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Read Models by Mark Manson. It's probably the best guide on how to better yourself and be successful with women. I'm too lazy to provide a link but you can find free downloads for it.
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>>17651437
Honestly?:
Virginity is a social construct.
I lost mine at 16, and you grow to never give a shit. Only idiots and losers care about losing their virginity.
If you meet a nice girl and you think that things are heading that way, then tell her bro. Don't go around complaining that you'll never find the one, or that you're still a virgin.
Just live your life, and the time will come; whore or not.
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>friend is a 7/10 but has money so really a 9/10 in the eyes of women
>his gf is a 4/10 at best, the mountain of makeup she wears doesn't help, has the body a slightly overweight asian boy
>stops his whoring just for her
>buys her all sorts of shit, basically takes care of her
>drops all female contacts because she told him to
>he becomes a completely different person
>one of her friends tells him her phone password, finds out she's been cheating
>doesn't confront her about it, just bitches while i sit through his complaining
>she dumps him for a construction worker or some shit, he begs her to take him back
>she gets dumped by the new guy a week later, finds out living on minimum wage is hard and takes him back
>he's gone cuckmode at this point, she gets away with anything and everything
His gf is obviously in the wrong but that doesn't excuse his disgusting state of weakness.
How do people live like that? How do you just let someone do shit like this to you, especially someone considered inferior? What could possibly make someone forgive frequent abuse and absence of loyalty?
I can't bring myself to respect these pitiful people.
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He has serious issues that you aren't aware of
If you can trick him into starting therapy he might have an epiphany
He probably still thinks of himself as a worthless geek or a bad person
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Honestly, it just sounds like you're a bit pissed that you're not his #1 priority.
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>>17651414
I'm not gay though, you want me to say "no homo" or something?
>>>/fit/
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>i'm aware of how much of a piece of shit i am with no goals or ambitions
>i still have no motivation to make myself a better person because i always go back to my old ways
how the fuck do you escape from this shit? this has been my life ever since my adolesence began. how the fuck are you supposed to do better when you don't feel like it? i realize i'm not the only one with this problem, and i hate myself for it. this generation is filled with a bunch of /r9k/ manchildren who contribute nothing to society and leech off of the world. i don't want to be a part of it.
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the only thing that satisfies me anymore is jerking off to porn and listening to music. i literally have no self control at all. i swear to god, the easiness and instant gratification of the internet will cause the downfall of millenials.
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>>17651342
Keep learning. You'll find things you haven't tried.
For me it was diet that turned everything around. Just slowly changing the way I ate gave me more and more energy
Canceling my internet connection took it to another level
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OP what the fuck are you on about, you are aware of your own behavior and you literally pointed out all the problems and even have a solution.
Look, it's not that you have no goals or ambition, it's that you haven't found what you liked yet. It's not that you have no motivation, you haven't found your passion in something yet.
Bit of wisdom here, don't think of how others think of you. That slows you down and beats you up internally, just fucking do whatever you can.
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How do I enjoy being eaten out and fingered? Many guys have tried it on me but I've never enjoyed it whatever technique they try
Every time I try sex I just get resentful because the guy enjoys himself and I don't.
Is there even any hope.
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Why do you have a picture of Christina Model if you are a girl
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>>17651347
I googled 'pussy'
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Oh okay I believe you now
Do you masturbate? Pay attention to how you do it, then teach him how to do it the way you like. They can't read your mind
If you masturbate in a very vigorous, hard way that nobody can do to you, you have female death grip, and need to change the way you do it so you aren't so numb.
Think about relaxing your body and not being nervous as well. If you have hang ups about your vagina that is a while other post
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How do I win? Am I fucked? 2016-10-09 00:14:17 Post No.17651322
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How do I win? Am I fucked?
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Apparently some guy wants to fight me. Background info:
>I'm 5'6
>Scrawny
>Black
>Sorta athletic
>Definitely not lazy though
>Never gotten into any fights before
>He's pretty tall
>6'3 if I had to guess?
>Sorta scrawny as well
>Not really sure of he's athletic or not
What are my chances? Any advice on what to do?
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How old are you? What are the circumstances?
idk man i saw this episode of neds declassified once and all he had to do was act crazy
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>>17651322
"Apparently"? Is the fight not a fact yet?
Also, is he black too? I mean, you told us that about yourself but not your opponent.
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>>17651322
>5'6
>6'3
Unless he's a spooky skeleton, he will have a big weight advantage.
So he will wreck your fucking shit.
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I do love my boyfriend of 3 years and I don't want him to be unhappy, but at the same time I feel so fed up with him recently and I just feel like I can't and won't spend my life with him.
I don't want to dump him, but whenever he's around I find it hard to even touch him and I hardly enjoy his company.
I know if we splet up he'd be devastated and I would HATE to see that, I cannot even bear the thought of putting him trough such pain. But at the same time I feel terribly dishonest towards him.
What are those conflicting feelings? What do I do? Will it pass?
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Wat een sprookje.
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If you spend three years with someone and don't get pregnant, your hind brain tells you to find someone else
It's just nature. Look it up.
Also if you are on birth control you'll be more attracted to gentle weak guys who don't turn you on. If you recently stopped taking it, that could be why
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>>17651270
It's far crueler to lie to someone than to break up with them. He'll get over it, it's really not a big deal.
I've been through this many times with girls I've dated where I just kind of get tired of them or something isn't right and I can't see a future for our relationship anymore. Shit got a lot easier and a lot less painful when I stopped lying about it. You don't have to be cruel, or give unnecessary detail, but you owe him the truth.