how does it feel when a woman is getting her boobs sucked/played with
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weird
tickles a bit
kinda fun if in the right mood
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really good and tingly
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>>17655682
>tfw sucking her tits
>says im turning her on sucking her tits
>girl is on top
>she actually sucks my nipple
>im like wtf?
>feelsgoodman
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How to be comfortable with being alone
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Hi, this is my first time posting here so Im not sure how this works. I just got out/escaped from an abusive relationship of over a year. Now, Im scared to even leave my house or have any sort of interaction with the outside world. I dont want to ever go back, actually. But i know i will eventually feel the need to hang out with people, check out a party, etc. I really just want to keep to myself but as humans, we feel the need to socialize. My question is, how can restrain this need and just be content with being by myself? The only time i would go out if when i work.
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Your feelings are understandable given what you've been through.
Is it possible you are really more afraid of getting into another abusive relationship?
Is it that fear that is keeping you from wanting to socialize?
If so, you are not alone. I don't think anyone wants to get into a relationship to get hurt.
You just need more tools to learn how to protect yourself. Educate yourself about identifying the red flags of abusive people.
Education can help you handle you fears.
And if you want to be more comfortable being alone maybe you just need to give yourself permission.
Be more gentle with yourself.
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>>17655673
If you just got out, you absolutely need to start seeing a ttherapis, bonus points if you find one who specializes in abuse. Your feelings right now are natural, but you shouldn't be trying to handle them on your own. Doing that will open you up to an emotional spiral that you don't deserve. If your health insurance doesn't cover it, talk to a nearby clinic or planned parenthood. They keep lists of counselors who work with state insurance, or on a sliding scale (they compromise the price to what you can afford)
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thanks, but it's not just that. I dont find myself getting into another relationship anytime soon. Im just extremely scarred from my experiences that i feel ashamed to even step foot out. im paranoid. this person did not show any signs of red flags until i was in too deep into the relationship. With that being said, im afraid of what anyone is really capable of. I know not everyone is psychotic, but its that fear that someone could be sweet and chill on one end but secretly turn a new leaf on the other. Whether it be a friendship or relationship, im so fearful to interact with anyone in the matter because that paranoid feeling.
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Sorry for the novel
>be me, grade 6
>meet girl in same grade, fall for her instantly
>we became super close, best friends even
>she'd call my house phone and we would talk for hours every day after school
>her parents loved me, i was the only boy ever allowed at her house
>i was always too afraid to tell her how i felt but one day she asked me if i had a crush on anyone
>she could tell when i was lying because we knew each other so well
>got me to admit i had feelings for her
>"i like you too"
>i literally jumped in happiness when that happened
>she has to go
>the next day, my awkwardness gets the best of me and I'm afraid to talk to her in fear of ruining it
>later that day my other friend comes over
>"dude *insert said girl* just told me she has a huge crush on me and now she's my girlfriend
>my 12 year old world falls apart for the 4 days they "dated" (6th grade remember)
>she says sorry, asks me to still be her friend
>i say yes, still have strong feelings for her
>we continue being best friends
fast forward to grade 7
>We stopped talking because we started hanging out in different cliques (we started middle school, you know how that goes)
>we don't talk for a few months but my feelings never went away
>she texts me on new years eve
>"id honestly kiss you right now"
>i reply "i would kiss you back"
>she tells me she loves me
>at this point i just say it
>"i love you too"
>she leaves me after a few weeks, i get sad but whatever
>still have feelings for her but we don't talk after this
skip to 9th grade
>we start high school
>end up having the same class
>friendship rekindles
>become extremely close friends again
>i never stopped feeling for her, always too afraid to say anything
>she starts having a lot of different boyfriends and would always come to me when they mistreated her, id always comfort her
>i watched her get heartbroken over and over and it killed me inside, but i never said anything
please let me continue first
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>>17655661cont.
skip to grade 10
>she gives up on boyfriends, hangs out with me
>nothing was ever explicitly implied but you could feel the tension between us
>she'd always be really close to me and rest her head on my shoulder or give me really long random hugs and say how much i mean to her
>i loved it so much
>halloween happens
>we are in a group of friends but they're being annoying
>every time she rests her head on me a friend comes to try to interrupt it just to be a jerk
>we leave on our own, end up at park
>sitting on a bench, its about 11 p.m.
>we get closer and closer
>i finally sum up the courage to hold her hand
>she holds it back, looks at me and smiles
>i kiss her (my first kiss by the way)
>i lean back in a "wow did that just happen" way
>i waited 4 years to do that
>she says my name, so i look at her, and she leans in and we literally just kiss over and over again for 2 hours
>i walk her back to her house, holding hands, thinking life is just so perfect
>i kiss her goodnight
>next day, she wasn't at the place we usually meet up at before school
>don't think too much of it
>walk in to a classroom to say hi to a different friend
>she's in the corner sitting close to some other dude and we make eye contact and she makes a face like she knows what she just did
>she tries to apologize to me over and over again, saying how she just wanted us to be friends and she's afraid of ruining us
>i forgive her but things aren't the same
>literally 2 days later she starts making out with a friend right in front of me
>never felt so heartbroken seriously
>i leave, don't talk to anyone in that group for 2 months
>she apologizes again and i say whatever
>friendship isn't the same anymore
>we still were friends though
>i still felt for her even after all of that
>summer comes a bit later, and we start hanging out a lot
>she starts getting close to me and i don't know why but i kissed her again
>she kisses me back
>"we need to just be friends"
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>>17655665>at this point i give up, end up meeting a girl at an attack attack! show and we start dating,
>relationship ends badly
skip to end of senior year in high school
>she messages me on Facebook, and i figure eh why not
>we start talking again
>i tell her everything thats happened to me in the last year and a half-two years since we last spoke
>we catch up
>she ends up going to a college 3 hours from me while i go to community college
>we text each other occasionally but nothing too serious
>back of my mind i realize i still have feelings for her
>an hour later she texts me
>"i miss you so much"
>we end up flirting again
>she snapchats me nudes
>I've wanted to see that for 7 years at this point
>"lets hang out soon"
>two days later, same friend from 6th grade (at this point i considered him my closest friend) who "dated"her for 4 days texts me
>"DUDE I GOT LAID LAST NIGHT"
>hes kinda a player so i don't think too much of it
>"oh yeah? thats cool dude!"
>"guess who though?"
>the very same girl
> i feel crushed, tell him what happened
>he gets pisses, instantly stops talking to her and apologizes to me a million times
>im not mad, he really didn't know
>i eventually stop talking to him too though
skip to 6 months later
>she texts me "hey"
>im so pathetic i reply
>i still have feelings for her
>she invites me over
>we hang out just normally
>after a while she lays on her bed and I'm just sitting on the floor awkwardly
>"you can lay down too, you know"
>i lay down next to her and we talk
>i kiss her on the cheek after she keeps getting closer to me
>"you shouldn't have done that. i have a boyfriend you know. You should leave"
>i apologize a million ties and she seems fine
>texts me a amonth later
"im drunk and my boyfriend just cheated on me"
>i reply "I'm sorry, are you okay?
>"why do i even text you, you don't care"
>never replies to my texts ever again
skip to now, a year later
i miss her and feel for her and i don't know why. what do i do?
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>>17655668
Jesus.. she's really fucking evil. Don't talk to her, what the hell?
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>be me
>be 22 years old, 7/10 except for body
>could be 9/10 if I got my shit together and lifted
>used to be pretty decent at text/sext game
> depression plus longterm gf breakup= sadness
>depression.jpg
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HOW THE FUCK can I get back in this texting game? Tinder is a treasure trove if used correctly. Have gotten laid ONCE to a tinder bridge troll, yet match some FINE girls. wtfeck halp
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>>17655612
>7/10 except for body
What the fuck does that mean
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Just relax and type what comes to mind, I too went to Tinder after breaking up to get back into the game. It's more or less anonymous, so just type what feels natural and see what happens.
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>>17655718
Kek
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>other night punch brother in the face out of impulse because he was talking about some personal things and wouldn't shut up
>That night he comes up to talk
>Tell him i dont want to right now
>2 days later, today, he comes up again
>Tell him I'll come down after I'm done eating
>Go downstairs to talk to him
>Basically tells me he's not mad, and he understands why I did it and what he was saying shouldn't have been said
>Says he knows im in a bad place and starts tearing up (literally never seen my brother cry)
>Says that if I think we should stop talking he understands
>See him cry and he wipes away tears and smacks his face a little bit (he doesn't ever like showing emotions really)
>Says that he wants me to consider to be more comfortable and talk to him on a personal level and not just bro level
>Talks about how he wants to help me through my depression and that the medication i take doesn't seem to be working and if I want he will reccomend some more natural things
>Say we love each other and i go upstairs
I feel empty /adv/
I believe that punch made him feel like I don't love him. I don't know what to even say to him now. Things won't go back to the way they were.
Why are we still here, just to suffer?
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It's time to move things to another level man. Take this as a chance to change your situation. Good luck
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>>17655610
Tell him you care about him, and you really appreciate him coming to talk to you. Let him know it meant a lot that he's worried about you.
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>>17655731
I told him I loved him and all
But i just don't know what to do now. I feel like I've really hurt him. You gotta understand my brother never cries, not over death, certainly not movies and shit, hes a stone wall.
But seeing him cry when he said if I wanted him out of my life he would go was fucking heartbreaking.
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This is legal help. Say i want to walk my dog at 12 am and every 2 hours after that so 12am 2am 4am *6am. In order to show the new people that i run the block. How would i go about them not framing me and saying i was throwing pills on the ground just to get the police to make me stop? Any help is much appreciated. Got to walk again in 2 hours so plenty of time. Also i normally carry a kitchen knife in case i get attacked by any number of things.
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>>17655592
What?
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>>17655603
New neighbors always outside. its a bunch of trump voters for lack of a better phrase. And i want them to know that i will be up when they sleep (i do not stalk people) they are ruining my night walks and they are going to try and frame me to get me to stop. What do
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SELFLESS SHAME BUMP
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How to overcome small-dick insecurity?
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>>17655590
How small?
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I was pretty darn in love with a guy who happen to have a small dick.
It was perfect for me though.
He stopped talking to me out of nowhere so he could date other chicks :/
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>>17655590
Have more to offer than just sex.
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During the primaries, I enjoyed watching Trump mess with the Republican party as a whole because both political parties are a joke anymore to me (I'm a registered Republican just so I could vote for Ron Paul in the 2012 primaries.) At that time, I was thinking of voting for him just because he was different than everyone else in the Republican party.
Then, I realized, I didn't like what he wanted. I thought the media was treating him bad and so I didn't believe anything they said. I started actually looking at his policies and realized that I didn't like any of them, so when I voted in my state's primary in March, I voted for someone else. Now, I feel bad. I think I enjoyed him because in a way, he was anti-establishment and I tend to be that kind've person myself.
What do you guys out there think? Should I feel bad? Did anyone else out there feel like this?
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>>17655496
There are other candidates out there!!
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You're a fucking cuck, you didn't vote for him so stfu jfc get over yourself
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>>17655496
Time to "Make America THINK Again".
My policies are on Lambright.com
If you have any questions just let me know!
Weird, embarrassing health concern here:
I can never empty my... penis?... when I pee. Not my bladder, my my penis itself. I can take a piss, and feel completely 'empty' and shake it off, feel satisfied, and done with the process of urination. Then, I stuff my old snake-like friend back into my boxer briefs and pants, zip up... and inevitably, almost every time, more urine dribbles out, often leading to spotting on my pants. It's embarrassing. annoying, and concerning.
Like I mentioned, I am fairly certain my bladder is completely empty by the time I'm done taking my piss. I can even hang out of a second or two in front of the toilet, and really kind of shake and/or push every drop out... but when I zip up, almost every time, a little comes back out. Not, like, a lot, but enough to notice it being a recurring problem.
Any advice? It doesn't seem like a "see a doctor" type thing, so I thought I'd ask the people I trust the most in the world: strangers on a chinese cartoon picture website.
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Isn't this shit japanese
Also train pelvic muscles
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My 88 year old uncle says he sits down to pee and leans forward and the angle helps release all the pee.
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>>17655457
Same thing happens to me, are you european? It's just forskin,
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>literally has no idea how to make friends
I legit have no idea how i've made friends up to this point. I have some online brodies that i've known for a long time, but as far as real life friends go, any I have just kind of happened. Now that we're going to college i've realized just how distant everyone is, and i'm trying to open myself up more to new people. I have no idea what to do, the best I can manage is forgettable small talk. My anxiety isn't helping that either, whenever somebody approaches me I get really uncomfortable and tense. What do
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>>17655449
This kind of stuff makes me sad because I would easily be your friend if I knew of you. I'm sure there is plenty of other people like me willing to be your friend too just have to develop some kind of positive rapport and go from there.
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>>17655466
I don't see what you mean by positive rapport?
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>>17655483
Just a positive relationship, one where the other person thinks of you in a positive way, like you made them laugh, talked about interesting things, had a good time together etc.
If you can do that with another person then it's a good chance you will become good friends.
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Alot of girls have called me cute but none of them have called me hot. Im also short af (5'5)
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>>17655422
AAAAAAAAAAAAAA
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Maybe
No one has? It might be more a personality thing, in which case I'd say someone will dig you for it, cute is a positive thing to be called after all.
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Don't matter - shit's a compliment. In middle school, I would get called ugly but nowadays this ugly motherfucker banging all those bitchass hoes that call me ugly.
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My father passed away three months ago.
I've been struggling to keep on going. I had found motivation in trying to set an example for my younger siblings, for my father's sake.
I had made a little sanctuary out of my room. I made it into art, there were beautiful pictures everywhere and colorful things with flavorful candles and books. I had written quotes, things like "you are beautiful" "don't give up" stay with God" and things to keep me going on post its.
I got back in school. I have to take the bus 11 or 12 miles every day to get to class. I ran to the gym and got in great shape. None of this mattered if I didn't have my beautiful room. My room was all I cared about.
My sister, she bought adderall from some kid she goes to school with and she told me about it. She got two of them so I asked if I could have one. She broke a half of one. The next day I went to see if she had them because I knew where she kept them. She hadn't touched them. I took the other half. She saw that I did that and accused me of taking it. The next day I went to check again. She didn't move them even after knowing I had went and grabbed one without asking the day before. She had taken half of one. I took the other half.
Should she be doing drugs anyways? She got so angry with me, that she picked the lock to my room. She tore down my post its and replaced them with ones telling me how much of a piece of shit I am. She threw all my art on the floor. My room is destroyed .And now I don't know what to do I don't even want to try anymore. This kind of shit just reminds me that my dad is dead. Yes I want to kill myself but how? I have to save up for a gun, but how much? I don't know anything about guns, how much money do I need to buy my way out of this cesspool of an existence? Including buying ammo I obviously only would need 1 bullet, but that's kinda suspicious asking to buy just one bullet.
Spare me the bullshit, by the way. I know life is beautiful that's why I am ending mine.
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Look take one from me, I didn't lose my dad or anything but I lost my best friend and I can't ever get him back. Sure I am sad, hell I don't know what to do without him now. But would ending you life be something you dad would want? Of course it wouldn't be, think about all the good things he would want you to do. He would want you to be strong and pick yourself up when you are down, don't look at him as a reason to end your life but look at him as a reason to make him proud.
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>>17655417
This is legitimately sad just because you come off as genuine.
My 2c:
I don't really think that the circumstances of your life are bad enough to warrant suicide, and I think most people would agree with me.
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>>17655417
Well, you should take solace in the fact that most black men don't even get the chance to meet their fathers. Cherish those memories and live a life that would make him proud!
Can someone please explain to me why people care so much if other consenting adults love differently than they do? Especially when it comes to gay people, why do people care if gay people love each other?
I'm genuinely trying to understand why people give a fuck. So many people seem so invested in making sure that everyone else lives exactly like they do.
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Systematic brainwash
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>>17655400
Because our society "fetishises" sexuality.
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>>17655400
>why do people care if gay people love each other?
cause they're secretly gay.
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Stalker
I'm a female and this girl I hooked up with once six months ago keeps texting me. I told her right after we hooked up that I didn't want to hang out again or talk, citing some emotional baggage, but really it was because she's fucking weird and has hairy nipples. She's texted me like 10 times in the past 6 weeks with 'hey whats up' and called like 4-5 times. I accidentally picked up the first time and ended the call with 'im really tired im gonna go' after like 20 seconds, then ignored all subsequent calls but she keeps contacting me. I'm not sure if I should text her asking her not to contact me or if that might incite some violent or fatal attraction behavior. Should I just get my # changed?
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So you hooked up with an emotionally unstable transgender male.
Cool.
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>>17655364
not an argument :)
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>>17655364
Women can have hairs on their nipples dude.
Beware
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How can I get a qt to break up with or cheat on her Marine bf of 2 years? She's a freshman in uni, I'm a senior. Her bf didn't go to college but is a year older than her, they have been apart for most of their relationship because of his military service. He was a typical football playing Chad in high school, the kind of guy you would picture going into the Marines but not that attractive. Chad in every area but face, kind of a dweeby looking guy. I am much taller and cooler.
So how do I get this poor 18 y/o girl to leave her meathead Chad bf for me?
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If ur taller and cooler how come she's not dating you lmao
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>>17655349
Because she's a naive young girl who believes in true love and the All American soldier boy going off to kill vicious brown people for her
How do I enlighten her?
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>>17655385
Introduce her to drugs and corrupt her and fuck her
u r bad at being a shitty person my nigger