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OUTTA THIS HOUSE

You can't be at peace if all you do is worrying about the future and imagining how you will turn out

Made me nauseous reading this. I'm sorry you have to go through this shit, so early in life, familia. Not sure what I can say, I hope someone can help you on here

>>17655260
Why live through that? Not generally a proponent of suicide, but you're of legal gun buying age and you can put them on credit.

I'd stick my .45 in my mouth in your position.

>>17655238

How about you just stop talking about religion.

run forest run

>>17655238

you are missing out on some mad fun.

Just make her keep getting madder and madder. Offer her a great date on sunday, then take her to church.

Denial - no. Acceptance - yes. Live your schizophrenic life, live it happily, yes.

Hey op!

I have suffered from schizophrenia and paranoid ideation before. I had a similar religious-themed experience, and feared that people could read my mind. It was a terrifying experience on the whole; extremely stressful. I am now fully recovered and studying medicine.

Your LSD trip triggered schizophrenia. You may continue to have these thoughts about mind reading, being given commands, and these coincidences that you feel must be related or caused by something other than chance for a while. When you have them, it's important to remember and to tell yourself 'hey, this is schizophrenia. you are okay, and everything is alright'. Read this site and use the information in the 'About IFS' tab as well-

https://www.selfleadership.org/outline-of-the-Internal-family-systems-model.html

I strongly suggest that you see a therapist (NOT PSYCHIATRIST), and avoid taking medication. Your case is not one where medication will be of use- it should only be used for patients who's delusions are so profound that they will probably never break out of them and back into reality. All antipsychotic medications currently on the market have severe side effects - and they don't address the root of the problem, which is internal and can be resolved with therapy, talking to yourself, and changing the way you think. Many therapists will recommend medication because this is what's taught in school. Unfortunately it doesn't really help patients, but when the only tool you have is a hammer, everything looks like a nail.

I wish you the best of luck, OP. You can do this :)

>>17655201
Thanks, anon, that is really helpful. I hope I can find a free or cheap university-related therapist so maybe I can leave my room or something once in a while..

The only problem is my experience during the trip I believe told me I had schizophrenia so I fear even the development of it is also a development of something sinister like an apocalyptic prophecy or an indication I'm in hell or in some transitionary state, and sometimes I believe I'm in hell for something I may have done in a past life.

No matter how much I try to convince myself these thoughts are crazy I can't seem to shake them, they are always present in my daily life.

I will follow this advice then if I can manage the courage to talk to a therapist. Maybe I can do one little thing that puts me into a position where I am obligated to see one..
>>17655175
Thanks I really try to live a happy life but happiness isn't exactly something that makes sense to me anymore besides as a very fleeting sense of wellbeing

What are you agraid of, OP?

>>17655159
time to hide in shame, its ogre

>>17655159
I'm not sure, I just can't seem to build up the confidence to talk to girls. I'm in my head too much I guess, thinking way too much about shit. But still, I find it hard to even make eye contact sometimes. I've watched videos and read books and still, when it comes down to the situation, I can't bring myself to introduce myself. Only time I do talk to girls are either if I'm in a group of friends or something similar.

Break up with her. It'll be better for both of you

My question is: Am I being crazy for not wanting her to snap her ex?

It should be noted that:

At the start of our relationship, I told her I wouldn't hold her back from doing anything, as long as she told me about it first. Of course, that doesn't mean she can do anything she wants, it just means if she wants to do something completely irrational and beyond what I think is acceptable, I'd break up with her first. She has broken this rule in the past though - gone clubbing without telling me citing a lack of a form of communication and the "no big deal" argument.

Also, in the past I made a big of a deal about snapchat. Her 'best friend' on snapchat (ie. most snaps back and forth, 2 week+ streak) was some other guy friend of her's. She said it was again, no big deal because he didn't contact her any other way so it's how she talks to him. That's why they're bff's on snapchat. She also says she thinks snapchat isn't a big deal/serious. I told her to be more considerate of me in both instances.

>>17655156
nah dude, I love her. This isn't something to break up over. It's just an issue we're having and needs to be resolved.

You could make it up if you wanted. Or you could just say what it was and explain your were taking a lower salary because it is a family company.

If you have value to them, you hold the cards, so it shouldn't matter much. I mean what are they going to do, not hire the guy with the skills they've been searching for because he got low pay at his last job? It makes no sense. But if you are replaceable putting the right range in their mind would help.

>>17655154
>your were taking a lower salary because it is a family company
Mind you, I make 1800 yearly. It feels like a huge leap to ask for like 8 or 9 times more than I currently do.

>what are they going to do, not hire the guy with the skills they've been searching for because he got low pay at his last job?
Or maybe believe that I do not respect my work and that I may bend to whatever shit they may pay.

I'm researching on this topic and to be honest I'm scared of responding, a step in the wrong direction and I may fuck everything up.

>>17655169
>8 or 9 times
Huh, no. More like fucking sixty times more than what I currently make.

you're taking it college? i feel like no one would want you to bang them on a sleeping bag

>>17655145
I don't care, I admit that I'll be a virgin forever

If you're actually using a sleep bag like sheets, i.e. wrapping it across the matress totally unzipped, then that's not a bad idea. extra comfy and dorm room beds are twins at most.

If you're just sleeping in a sleeping bag on your bed, that's weird.

>>17655071
how long for? i once had a 24 hour stomach bug (didn't know this at the time) but I woke up in the middle of the night really nauseous, went to bathroom and sat next to the toilet for an hour before i started throwing up. next day whole day i was nauseous, constant vomit / dry heaving (when i ran out of stuff to vomit).

after 24 hours it was completely gone and i was 100% fine, but very hungry.

keep hydrated. drink water as much as you can, and if you can stomach it try to eat a little bit. i had like, 1 piece of toast and that's all i could handle.

staying hydrated is probably the most important thing though.

A couple of weeks ago I woke up with the worst stomach pain I've ever felt in my life. It was so bad I was vomiting. It wouldn't go away and I thought I was dying.

So I go to the hospital and it turns out it's mostly from severe constipation.

All this is to say that your problem could be some big issue, and I'm sure it feels like one, but odds are it isn't. Vomiting alone can be caused by a lot of things. The best thing you can do is take care of yourself until you can get to a doctor and try not to panic, because anxiety will make everything feel much worse than it already does.

>>17655113
it's a long story, but this has been going on for 5 or 6 weeks. it's varied in intensity. i was given meds and it calmed for awhile, but now i
m vomiting more than ever. any food or drink i ingest is literally gushing out of my stomach.

then don't stick your dick in yourself

>>17654991
The problem is that people won't stick your dick in you, and the solution would be the answer to "How do I get dick if I'm crazy?"

>>17654992
other crazy people, it's sadly a thing

4chan is for 18+

>>17654960
I'm 24 nigga. I have an actual fucking porn addiction problem, dude. thanks for the dumb reply tho

Fap a few times and suddenly it's gone. Magic oh yes.

>>17654899
I would not do that, ever. There is no way it can end well, you've been friendzoned.

>>17654899

First, stop acting like her friend. She might kinda freak out at first but it'll avoid her to run once you tell her.

And you have to stop acting like this for about a week, that will give her time to realize that something is going on.

If you don't drop the 'friend' role and tell her she will freak out and never speak to you like before and she will eventually find a substitute.

>>17654899
I was in the same situation back in high school. Now we're getting married after college.

I wish dating friends wasnt considered so taboo. Ive never had a stronger relationsjip

Anyway, I was poor too. Here's what I recommend

>movie (animated, if you wanna keep it light-hearted)
>dinner after (no shame in going to a "cheap" place like Red Robin. Although NO FAST FOOD)
>kissy kissy
The sinplicity of it all will make it charming. She'll likely think "he made he best of what he had even though he does that have much money"

She's your friend, anon. She'll just be happy that you asked her out

This is also good advice >>17655075

Um... If I must be honest, you do look a litlle bit... Classless. I must say that the hairstyle's problem isn't that it's flashy - it's just not well done and it's something that's been fashionable around 2003. Additionally, the eye makeup isn't done very well - the lines are messy, they're not blended in. Your lipstick is very shiney and a totally different shade than your hair (your hair is kinda orange, the lipstick - raspberry) so the hair look washed out. The earrings are a very strong accent too, and I feel they're just too much. Too much of everything. Honestly when I look at you a 2003 popstar wannabe is the thing that comes to my mind. I'm not trying to be mean or rude, but really, I think the worst thing on this photo is your makeup. Watch some tutorials. You are very pretty and it seems like you're just hurting yourself with this Russia-level fashion.

Is that actually you? You look like a clown

Honestly it's not a good look. The lip piercing might look okay if you get rid of the red in your hair. Also loose the hoop earrings and use a brown eyeshadow as liner for the bottoms of your eyes. You're pretty and you have potential!

>>17654833
Look man that's going to be really hard especially if you have such a fat or muscular neck that none of your veins are visible. Drive your self to a bridge.

>>17654844
Shit but also think about it, if you have time to post on an image board you aren't killing yourself asap. Give yourself 3 days and if you want to kill yourself after do it.

>>17654849
I agree, the fact that you took the time to type this out on the meme board means that you're not that serious.

Not trying to push you to the edge but something or the last bit of you is trying to reach out.

I mean, it's going to be okay. I know that's a meme of itself but dude, I've wanted to kill myself for 30 years. I fucking hate life and everything with it but I keep going because I still enjoy doing stuff for me. I'm separated from friends, isolated at my parents house still, hate myself everyday but I have hobbies to keep me going. I do it for me. You'll probably never hear of me, never see my work. I don't matter as a human being, and neither do you...But within that negativeness, is a positive. The freedom you get from nothing means you can do whatever the fuck you want for yourself. And honestly, I don't believe you've done a goddamn thing with your life to justify killing yourself. I bet your some teenager or 20 year old asshole who tried, failed a few times and then gave up. You don't have any motivation to give a shit about yourself and to keep yourself happy. Fuck society, fuck the world. Live for yourself. Don't be a failure. Because even if you are, that's your second chance you asshole!!! Everyone gets chances. It can take 1000 chances and you could fuck up each one. But I'm telling you right fucking now, if you haven't learned from any of your failures....

maybe you should kill yourself. Leave room in this world for people who are struggling and still trying.

I feel you dude but come on; you took a chance to reach out one last time if that's what this is. And we all know it is because if you really wanted to die, you could with 100 other ways to do it and get it over with. Not some faggy vein shit.

Call this tough love, call me a piece of shit asshole, but you know deep down for as blunt as I am, I'm right. Not the fags who tell you to do it or encourage you to do it. I'm writing this just to let you know I care.

Get the fuck over yourself, my god.

You did the right thing dude, it's a step to moving on and finding another girl

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>>17654842
Yeah, I guess I tried to keep her added because it felt like a last connection, something to cling on to.

Whatever I posted or whatever photos I took I always thought about her possible reaction to it, I thought how she'd see it, so I'd end up molding my 'facebook behavior' around that, which was unhealthy as fuck.

Either way, I couldn't help but wonder if being the better man here would have meant to just deal with that and move on without having to do something that can be portrayed as childish by her. I guess in a way I am still caring about what she'd think of this action.