I don't really find my wife or many other females in real life super attractive and prefer porn (mostly 2d) unless they're like a gravure model (otherwise they kinda seem kinda disappointing naked)
I don't see this as a problem and wouldn't mind splitting up over it but is anyone else similar?
Yeah OP I'm just waiting for VR and sexbots.
Some may say this is pygmalionism disorder but no one is really suffering from it, only the women we don't want to fuck and they sure can do without it.
>>17649427
>sexbots
Duuude the future is nigh.
>>17649427
Guys are even uglier, why even interact with people
We've had threads similar to this, but here me out.
I've been trying to get girls for months and I've gotten rejected frequently/a lot.
Honestly, I think that I keep getting rejected because I'm not doing well financiallly and I'm not handsome (this is my own fault).
Now, after all these rejections I think I have to improve my life financially to get women.
I seriously think that when I've found a better job, move out and buy my own car then I'll be able to attract/get a few women.
It's a fact that a lot of women want a man who's confident and financially secure.
Lastly, what advice would you give to a guy who has this problem ?
Women look for few kinds of guys.
A handsome guy (or alpha as you call it) - he does not need money, just a dick
A provider guy - he just provides her resources, he needs money and may get sex in exchange
An emotional tampon - guy needed only to listen and have emotional affairs with, least likely to get any puss
Some men connect two of these roles or more, but most don't. A guy that has it all is a God.
If you want to take on a role of a provider then that's ok, but money is not the deal for sure. And if you take only on one role, there is a high possibility that she will find some orbiters to fulfill the remaining roles.
To sum up - If you are about to find woman just because you got more money, then, unless you are some kind of sugar daddy, you may have a bad time.
>>17649386
I think you're deluding yourself into thinking that the only reason why women ignore you is the fact that you're not financially stable enough.
Sure, it is a plus, but it's not necessary.
Improve your body. Become more social, learn how to talk. Develop interests that aren't deeply gendered or at least make good stories.
Sure, having your own place and your own car helps.
>>17649417
>An emotional tampon - guy needed only to listen and have emotional affairs with, least likely to get any puss
most-likely to become a cuck
I fucked up cutting my own hair. It was my first time cutting my hair. I thought I finished until I noticed my back was a bit fucked up so I got all the shit out to even it out, but then I forgot to put a guard on and I shaved a tiny spot in the back of my head off.
I shaved the back of my head with a 3 guard and there is a small fuzzy spot in the back of my head. How long do you think until it grows back? You think I should go smaller around my head to try and cover it up?
I have work and college on monday. It's near the top of the occipital bone. If I were to draw a line from the top of my ears to the back of my head it would be around that area. How can I fix this? I mean honestly nobody cares about me enough to notice, but it's still bothering me.
>>17649354
Go bald and say you are doing it to help a friend who had cancer. You have no choice, anon-san :)
>>17649357
What if I have no friends?
Go to the barber and ask for a taper fade or a skin fade (depending on where the fuzzy spot is).
You might actually look like a regular fashionable human being, too.
How do I find a bf that doesn't mind doing oral/anal only? I have a med condition and vaginal penetration hurts me a lot
>>17649345
Is this condition called a penis?
I'd be happy with that
Just find a guy with a big anal fetish online somehow
Most men would relish the opportunity to get a gf like you.
>GF goes down on me for the first time
>feels like my foreskin is being literally pulled off
>so hypersensitive I can't enjoy it
>she's interpreting me moaning in pain as enjoying it
>8 hours later and my bell end has completely disappeared and the skin underneath is red, raw and sore as fuck.
Don't tell me it's supposed to do that, surely not
Also inb4 this evolves into cut/uncut debate, literally don't care
>she's interpreting me moaning in pain as enjoying it
At this stage you could have said "hey, babe, that hurts, please stop."
But you didn't.
Tough shit, brah.
>>17649337
This.
Were you too scared or what?
My doctor prescribed me a medication on my first appointment with him. It was supposed to help me sleep. I gave it two weeks and it wasn't working so I looked up some stronger sleeping pills to discuss with my doctor and I found out that my pills were antidepressants that are not approved by the FDA to treat insomnia only. I am not depressed, and even if I was and didn't know it, there's no way that my doctor could have figured that out based off what I told him in our tiny appoitment. I've even felt really numb recently about things I've usually been passionate about, and now that I know what pills I've been taking I feel like they're responsible.
Now, I want to be pissed and stop taking the pills, that aren't working anyways, and throw an appropriate fit with doc, but I'm also considering continuing to take the pills and experience the "full trial" to be more sure when I go back for my next visit in another two weeks. Besides, I've known depressed people who take antidepressants and they don't seem to be affective at treating that either.
What do you think?
Pic related, it reminds me that my medical problems could be worse.
What did you tell the doctor during your appointment?
Have dealt with shitty doctors before, eventually leading to eight nurses at a hospital filing a report against one for how he treated me.
The doctor should have been transparent, you needed something for sleep, not an anti depressant. What medication are you on?
That's what those meds do, they tune things down.
If you don't have a diagnosis, if that doctor didn't even explain to you why they put you on that medication, if its off-label use doesn't even cover sleep, stop taking it. Get a new doctor immediately, don't waste any time with that bullshit. If they're going to make a decision like that out of the blue without a word your way, they aren't going to change. That's an arrogant attitude. Get a new doctor.
Don't continue taking the pills please, I'm a psychologist and at uni I tried to take antidepressants for a month without being actually depressed, afterwards I started feeling little bit down, or not as happy as while taking those pills and now here I am, with the worst kind of a depression (F32.2) not knowing what to do with my life, even though I'm living my dream and that's all because of that stupid pills.
Thanks guys, I won't take them.
Girlfriend has no sex drive and says she is depressed.
What do?
>>17649258
Get girlfriend a therapist.
If she's not willing to improve herself, dump girlfriend and find a new one.
>>17649258
Girls can't be depressed.
>>17649295
Kek
I'm currently 21 and going to community college. My family is really, really poor so I'm getting a lot of help from financial aid.
I want to be a sports writer. It's my dream. I watch sports almost every day and consistently read about sports every day. I'm a good writer, or at least that's what I've been told. The problem is that journalism is a really competitive job. With newspapers dying out and websites relying on ad revenue so much, there is a lot of lay offs. That's why I'm majoring in communications, because I feel like it's flexible if journalism doesn't work out. I'm currently working for a fundraising company. I raise money for non-profit media outlets like NPR and PBS which I feel like is a good job for me right now. It will give me experience with communications and I'm making a respectable 12 dollars an hour. Still live at home, still don't have a car (saving up for one) and I haven't published anything either which makes me feel behind in terms of producing content.
How should I move on from here? A buddy of mine wants to move in together next year but I won't have enough money saved up by then so I may have to wait longer. What are some jobs I can pursue with a communications degree?
I'm just kind of lost on where to move forward with my life. Despite being in college and having a job I still feel like a confused kid who doesn't know what to do.
>>17649255
Get a real job like Engineering, Computer Network Engineer (Not nearly as hard as it sounds) or Nursing.
If you're going to be a writer, don't fall for the whole "muh degree guarantees me a jerb" that high school counselors push.
If you're a good enough writer you don't need an expensive degree.
I did journalism at university
Now I'm a copywriter
Give that a go there are lots of jobs going, especially since journalism is dying online and on traditional formats.
>>17649274
I don't know if I could do that line of work. I'm really good at dealing with people professionally and have been told many times that I'm a great salesman. I want to work with people. I've heard Human Resource jobs pay pretty damn well. Maybe I'll look into that.
>>17649275
This could also be an option. Man, why did I have to be born in the wrong era? Journalism was strong and kicking a few decades ago. Now it's all shit.
Here's the situation (in simple bullet point format):
* I'm engaged to the girl of my dreams
* We are both young
* No kids yet, but plan to have one kid
* I have a semi-decent salary of 75k with possible growth (I'd say 100k within 15 years)
* My fiance is currently majoring in some junk major four year degree and will graduate in a few months
* Her job opportunities are extremely limited, somewhat unsafe, pays only slightly above minimum wage, and she hates the work (really dumb, we know, major regret)
* She says she'll just have to suck it in and work for the money
* In my head (I haven't told her), I want her to be happy so I'd actually want her NOT to work and stay home as a housewife
* I'm thinking it'll improve our quality of life (kids will always be taken care of, chores, food, etc)
* Some issues I can think of:
(1) Lack of a second income will hurt (extremely delay our plans to buy house)
(2) Worries if I happen to get laid off, what would happen if I can't find job again in a decent amount of time?
(3) Will life be fulfilling as a housewife? After finishing chores and stuff, it must be boring doing nothing else at home
I'd like some advice, am I thinking things correctly? Are there any alternatives? Or pitfalls I didn't think of?
Thank you for not starting with
>be me
>>17649239
If you're both young, your fiance can work to supplement your income for a few years until you have your first kid, and then go part-time. At that point, you'll hopefully have saved a bit of money between you, maybe enough for a deposit on a house in the suburbs.
Talk to your fiance about having her drop a lot of hours in her job after you have kids so that she can stay at home. She can do the housework and keep her job if she has spare time after household jobs and if not, then you underestimated the time it would take. Otherwise, you're still earning money, just not as much.
Women tend to find raising children very fulfilling. It's biological. She might get bored if she's at home by herself, but if she's with her baby I very much doubt it.
>>17649239
If 75-100k sounds semi-decent to you, then maybe you need a wife that works at a similar level.
Of course every place is different, you might be living frugally already on 75k, but maybe you're not making the money go as far as it could, or you'd see it's a fuckload of money to live on.
A couple of years ago, I downloaded and started using Halite BitTorrent, and it was good and worked fine. After some bullshit happened, I reset my computer to factory settings and lost everything. Now I'm trying to re-download Halite, but for some reason it's not working and I can't remember how I did it in the first place. I googled first, but couldn't find anything useful, and I'll be the first to admit I'm not super literate in software stuff. Any help?
>>17649237
Certainly you realize your description of the problem is too vague to return even remotely useful feedback.
>>17649243
>>17649243
Fair enough. What happens is I download the source file, extract, then try and run the batch file, but then I'm stuck. I don't know what I'm doing honestly
>>17649252
I don't feel like downloading it. Can you post a picture of the batch file's contents? Is that actually the installation process?
Found a girl on Tinder I wanna message. I suck at openers and she isn't really giving me much to work with. Here's my best one:
>I saw in picture five that you hang your toilet paper underhanded rather than overhanded. Give me one good reason not to unmatch you
Is this stupid? Spoonfeed pls
>>17649188
>Give me one good reason not to unmatch you
You might get the first part to work but this is waay to provocative.
>>17649188
That's funny. You're funny. Give it a shot. It's all a numbers game, and you just have to keep going out and meeting people. There's a really good chance she won't get it, but if she doesn't, then you don't really want to hang out with her anyway.
>>17649193
>>17649197
I thought that at least the first part was good. Should I tone down the second part?
>girlfriend is terrible at giving head
What the fuck do I do? Receiving head has always been amazing throughout my life (30 now). I don't know what to tell her. She apparently tried different things while going down on me and I was letting her know what felt good. But, it never hit the spot like anyone else I've been with.
>>17649171
Stop complaining and be happy with her, you retard
>>17649171
You've got to talk about hese things in a couple in order to be happy. Talk to her gently, explain that, if she loves you she'll understand. Tell her what you want and have her tell you what she wants. Sex must not be a taboo between you or it will lead to problems.
show her how you like it and be the alpha. all women desire a man who can take control
I have a superiority complex backed up by an inferiority complex and it's tearing me apart.
After one suicide attempt I've decided this: if I can't be the best, I'll die like the rest. Thoughts?
too much anime
>>17649152
Find what's actually meaningful in life and you will eventually manage a base sense of comfort and functionality, even if transient, empty, or fleeting.
You'll also never be told to get in the fucking robot by a German qt. Sorry.
>>17649152
Convert to buddhism and start meditating. You will not have these problems anymore.
Is Desert eagle good for self-defense? My brother just gave me this gun for birthday present and holy shit, this is a big motherfucking handgun. Haven't shot it yet but I do know the recoil will be a bitch.
desert eagles are basically the dragon dildo of handguns, unless you've got shaq hands its just gonna be a big silly thing
But hey, a gun's a gun. As long as you train with it you'll be able to use it in an emergency. Good luck if you were hoping to CC it though lol.
btw I hope you thanked your brother well because that's quite an expensive gift.
>>17649108
This thing jams like crazy if you dont fire it right. I rented one at a firing range before. Its a fun gun but I wouldnt use it for anything serious. Its bulky, heavy, ammo is pretty pricy, prone to jamming, isnt really all that accurate. Get a smaller pistol if you want something more effective for self defence, or be damn sure you can fire it properly if you should need it
Watch this:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7leSF_FE658
Is it a normal thing to ask a girl out of the blue? New to this kind of stuff. Trying to get out of my shell.
Spontaneity can either be taken as confidence or craziness.
It's a gamble like anything else, so go for it.
No, it's not. Not anymore.
Gonna have to be REAL patient if you're coming out of being hidden.
>>17649114
She's apparently into me though. I just wanna know if its weird or not. I dont really see or talk to her.