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Why do i feel bad for fucking my ex? We broke up about 3~ weeks ago. We met last night kinda spur of the moment, hung out for 6 hours or so. She wanted a hug before we left, which lead to making out, me eating her out to the point of her climaxing, her sucking me off as I sucked her toes (freshly painted, couldn't resist), and then us fucking. Neither one of us is seeing anyone. But I had the empties, most depressing, beyond sad feeling after we finished. She called me a few hours after it happened and told me she still has feelings for me and loves me, which did make me feel less terrible. Today I didn't actually feel bad or any of the emotions from last night. She's been texting me a lot more frequently and call called me a good 5 times today. What am I feeling exactly and how should I be feeling?
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Just give it another chance.
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>>17764363
When she called me last night she seemed to want to just stay friends.
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>>17764395
That works too. Fuck her every now and then. Or just hang out. Take it easy.
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Whenever my boyfriend talks to females, he suddenly becomes cringe fest overload. He overacts the attempted charisma and tries way too hard.
It's really fucking embarrassing to see.
Girls often look away in embarrassment, not endearment, yet he is delusional enough to think it's appealing.
>Pic is the kind of faces he will pull along with the thumb to mouth action.
It wouldn't be such an issue if he naturally had these behaviors/actions...but he doesn't. It does not fit his personality/looks on any level.
I want to bring it up but I don't know how without hurting his feelings.
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If he can't take some well meant advice, dump this beta cuck.
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If he's like this why are you dating him in the first place?
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How do I bring it up without telling him this so brutally?
"You act like an idiot around females"
He actually hates the 'suave' type of guys, but now I am wondering if it's because he wants to be them.
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What is love, anyway? Does anybody love anybody, anyway?
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>>17764308
love is literally a chemical reaction in the brain. thats what it is. beyond that we have no legal definition. many people will argue love is only a very specific modern concept in order to make themselves feel superior to others who do not have the same kind of relationship.
but at the end of the day all we can really say is that it is the chemical reaction in the brain that we developed in order to make babies.
that being said, it has become something a bit more. love is 'greater than the sum of its parts' as evidenced by the fact that it leads to great art, great drama, and great tragedy. time and time again people prove to be the most empathetic about love.
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>>17764308
Yes.
Stop being such a heartless, worthless whore for once.
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Real love is unconditional metta.
All other love is a mental state of being attached to the idea of being in love with another.
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I have a credit card that is maxed out at 1,000 dollars. I dont have any form of income. I am disabled and cant get work(never get a callback after interviews). It has now finally come the time where I am unable to make the minimum payment of 25 dollars, and then there will be the montly fee on top of that.
How bad am I fucked if I just stop paying on the card? I literally cant do it anymore. I am paying a minimum monthly payment every month, so its basically just cancelling itself out after interest and fees. I am stuck in an endless loop, with no way of paying it off ever.
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>>17764300
call. explain. ask for a 'pause' or defferment. if they say no, hang up, and then just stop responding to them.
i owe over 8000 dollars in credit card debt at ewlls fargo. it literally just sits there. doesnt gain interest or anything. just sits.
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You're both retarded
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>>17764300
Don't pay this month, get a job this month and pay $100 with your first paystub.
Repeat until you have zero debt.
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I tried not to be a stone-cold asshole and it backfired 2016-11-15 03:56:24 Post No.17764288
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Lately I've been in this sort of FWB relationship with this guy, and since we're genuinely friends he's been encouraging me to be more open about my feelings (something I've found impossible for basically my whole life). Today was one of my lowest days in a long time - which is saying something - and I figured I would try to message him about it since he's always saying I should. Well after putting my foot in my mouth and talking around the issues for a while I finally asked him if he had time to talk. Forty excruciating minutes later (mind you, we had already been exchanging messages pretty rapidly for half an hour) he messages me back saying maybe in an hour.
I told him nevermind, and when he asked why I explained that the whole time I'd been waiting I was even more anxious and upset worrying that I'd bothered/annoyed him, so I'd changed my mind about the whole thing. He said okay, and to try not to "dwell on it."
I know I'm being a ridiculous ass, and that he probably didn't grasp through chat that I've been feeling absolutely desolate and suicidal. I recognize that I kind of jerked him around and was probably acting annoying. But I was/am really, really upset and I feel like after all this prodding to be open he didn't even really care. I never open up like this to anyone and the decision to try was a big leap for me. Do I have a right to be mad?
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You need a nap.
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Grow some balls, woman. Or cut yourself while listening to Linkin Park.
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You sound like an excruciating attention whore. Your friend is doing good in keeping you and your tsundere insanity at bay. Even more likely, if you didn't have a vagina, he would just not be in contact with someone as obnoxious as you altogether, because you truly sound insufferable.
>Doesn't speak clearly about how utterly butthurt and suicidal she is
>blames others for not being fucking wizards and seeing in their magic 8ball that someone at the other and is so mad and hurt she wants to attention "kill" herself
I am to lazy to go to school to lazy to get a job and to lazy to kill myself.. what should i do
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Wait until tomorrow
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>>17764287
Don't move.
Don't eat.
Don't drink.
Things will take care of themselves.
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You really only have 2 choices
A. Stop being so lazy
B. Be a lazy homeless person
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How do you avoid people?
I fucking hate the people I'm 'friends' with, but they wont let me be.
They're all fucking females that are triggery at any subject and I want to die.
>be me
>was eating lunch with some of them today
>we were all laughing when suddenly friend B started acting moody
>tried asking what was wrong then she gave us all a glare
>friend T got triggered
>friend S complained about being lonely despite being a heart breaker
>all of us left depressed and angry
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They won't "let" you avoid them?
WTF?
You a slave or some shit?
Just trigger them hard enough for them to never want anything to do with you again;
>YOU DESERVE RAPE.
>WOMEN = KITCHEN
>FOR A BUNCH OF PEOPLE THAT LOVE CHOPPING UP BABIES FORESKINS, JEWISH WOMEN REALLY DO LIKE TO COMPLAIN ABOUT "CONSENT" ALOT...
Just fucking trigger every one of those turbo-kikes till she "can't even", and leaves you the fuck alone.
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>>17764291
>You a slave or some shit?
I suspect she's a woman.
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>>17764282
Make up excuses like: "Uhhhh I got the shits" or "I have to go do X or Y" or find yourself a bf that you can spend time with instead of hanging out with the rest of your clique.
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Is it possible to have "racial dysphoria"? Just to be clear, I don't hate people of color. It's just that for sometime in my life, I've thought about how much better I would feel if I were white. Coming from a Latin background having mostly white ancestors, I don't think it would be very difficult for me to "pass". Do you think it's something I should pursue, or is just a dream I'll never accomplish?!
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Skin lightening could be an option. Which country do you live in? Some products though are banned like hydroquinone.
You could try what I've been doing and go on a low phenylalanine and tyrosine diet for a few months. Without those two amino acids your skin cells can't produce pigment.
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>>17764251
I recommend studying your culture and getting some pride in yourself and your heritage.
Don't try to be someone else. Be yourself. Only one in the world
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>>17764893
>You could try what I've been doing and go on a low phenylalanine and tyrosine diet for a few months.
Lol, why are you doing that
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How bad is my hairline? Be honest. Only 20 y/o.
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Not bad at all
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Its normal, faggot. Also losing your hair and going bald is a sign of manliness.
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>>17764239
Alright, I guess I'm just self conscious aboot it /thread/
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University/ College in Eastern Europe 2016-11-15 03:29:59 Post No.17764193
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University/ College in Eastern Europe
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I'm considering going to university in Eastern Europe. I've been looking into Slovakia, Slovenia Czech Republic, Croatia, Serbia, and Estonia.
Slovakia: Comenius University in Bratislava
Slovenia: University of Ljubljana
Czech Republic: Charles University in Prague
Croatia: University of Zagreb
Serbia: University of Belgrade
Estonia: University of Tallinn, University of Tartu
No amount of statistics will beat the personal experiences of citizens of that country, so I'd like to hear your opinions on the job markets of your country, university/schooling in your country in general, and how life is in general there (cost of living, quality, etc.)
I'm aware that I'll have to learn the language. That won't be a problem, especially since there is an incentive. College here is Marxist cancer, and the cost is absolutely fucking crazy. Cost of living in my area is beyond inflated.
My plan is to just do community college here, and continue elsewhere in Europe.
Anons from other countries (Central Europe, Baltics, Western Europe) opinions are appreciated as well.
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Which country are you from?
Also all these countries are shit. Go to /int/ and ask there
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>>17764497
United States, Commiefornia.
Community college is ok-tier, but when University pamphlet have "diversity" and "lgbtqGTAVMW3;()" classes, there's a problem.
Also, I can't afford them.
Main reason against central Europe is the migrant crisis, and the cost of living. Still haven't looked deep into all countries though, I could be wrong.
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Have you ever studied a foreign language before? Particularly a Slavic language?
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I just found out my girlfriend has bipolar disorder
We've been dating for about 2 months, everything was going well.
I recently noticed she hadn't been sleeping well and has been unreceptive of any sexual advances. I asked her what was up and she broke the news to me.
I'm really at a loss for what to do. I think I love her, but I really don't love her like this.
She's distant and cold. She has nothing to offer except a dismal attitude.
She doesn't seem to be interested in getting better either.
I personally suffered minor depressive disorder that led to me dropping out of college, but have found methods (meditation, mindfulness) to recover and have found the will to overcome my past issues. None of my attempts to get her motivated or interested in coping methods has worked.
I know she'll exit the depressive phase before too long but I also know it will return.
I don't know what to do
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Dump her. There's no cure.
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>>17764192
This. The only people who can help her are professionals.
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Bipolar disorder is on a league by itself compared to garden variety major depression (and you didn't even that!). Worse in every single measurable aspect. Best advice I can give is just to be there for her, or cut off contact as fast as possible so she doesn't grow any more attached to you. These are some damn serious issues, and if the therapist/pills hasn't worked in the past there is very little help you can provide.
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So let me start off by saying I'm not gay and I do identify as a male.
But all the time I get the biggest urge to cross dress and I prefer the feminine look of women's clothes.
All the time I browse women's clothes online and imagine how I look in them.
Is this normal? Have any of you dudes experienced this before? Should I just kill myself? I need answers my dudes
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>>17764163
crossdressers/drag are not commonly gay. that's just a stereotype.
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>>17764163
Talk to a psychologist who isn't trained in the USA, or is at least not a backwards "classically trained" dingus.
Why? Psychology will help you understand your feelings and desires/behavior.
Also,
>Clothing and the use thereof is cultural
>If you've got a dick, don't like dick, but like to wear a skirt and panties just pretend it's a kilt if it makes you feel better when you plow the puss-puss.
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Don't sweat it anon-kun. I secretly want my bf to wear my panties and fuck me in them.
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Being a nonstereotypical black sucks shit. 2016-11-15 03:22:47 Post No.17764159
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Being a nonstereotypical black sucks shit.
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>be ligher skinned black
>white girls don't care for me
>black girls want super nig-nogs instead
I'm not even some beta nerd. I don't get it. What do I need to do to up the appeal?
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Really? I go to an inner city community college and all I hear is that black girls want light-skins
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>girls want super nig-nogs instead
Aint just black girls, mate.
And it aint that they are blacker than you either.
Think about it, every wife-beater has had a wife to beat and "nice guys" and just about the most evil thing in the fucking world. Why?
Girl love thugs.
In other news, sky is blue, grass is green and OP's still a fag.
Key to life; Never care more about anyone, than they care about you. Stop giving a fuck about women because it's sure as shit possible they don't even care about themselves.
Also, drink alot.
Maybe smoke.
Focus on work.
Do shit.
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>>17764159
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=hJtYVpLAZmI
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should I tell him I was raped 2016-11-15 03:20:45 Post No.17764152
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should I tell him I was raped
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the tldr is that I'm 19 and have started hanging out with this guy a lot recently, several dates and he's hinted at wanting me to be his gf. I was raped when I was almost 18 by the only other actual boyfriend I've had. I really like him, but should I tell him about this? I'm scared because I see shit all the time about how girls who were raped are damaged goods, undatable, etc. and if I do tell him, should I wait any longer? I'm really scared to do this
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You're a cunt for leading this guy on after several dates.
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>>17764152
How were you raped?
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Yes you should tell him and if this ends badly because you said this don't take that as an indication to never bring it up again with other guys you meet down the road. It's important to communicate issues you're having to your significant other. You'll eventually find somebody mature enough to hear you out and respond appropriately to you about this.
If you were my GF I would be totally patient and understanding with you over these issues if they gave you trouble doing anything in the relationship. There are plenty of guys out there like me who will do the same thing.
Fuck, /adv/. Yesterday I was with a girl and couldn't get it up. I tried by myself today and nothing worked. I'm legit scared.
I'm 28 had have never even come close to having this problem. A few months ago I started SSRIs and I haven't been sexually active since then. I'm going to stop taking them and see if I'm fixed. This is awful.
Has anyone else been here?
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Don't stop taking your SSRIs, anon. It can be medically dangerous to do so. Your doctor should've told you this when you were being prescribed them.
Just put on some good hardcore porn, take a breather, and relax. If you still can't get it up, see your doctor and ask about Viagra. It's not a problem dude, just blood pressure issues in your dick.
Although, if you weren't prescribed the SSRIs and you're a recreational user you can disregard this and do whatever. Heck, take a Viagra and don't worry about any drug interactions. Your body, your risks.
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>>17764161
I was prescribed them, but I can't honestly say there's been a benefit. I was on the fence about continuing with them, but I wanted to give them a chance and be able to tell myself I was trying something.
Not worth it.