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Same, but then i got a chinese girlfriend so it all worked out, i didn't even go for her due to her race, we just get on

cool, its no biggie, lots of people have racial preferences, and despite some racists in the world no one really 'judges' a man who gets an asian wife, they more think hes cool if anything

Asian gf reporting, my bf is kinda rasist, ask your questions.

>>17765761

try being independent for awhile. at most, focus on brotherhood.

>>17765874
Actually I spend most of my free time with my friends because I can't stand being by myself?

Should I start forcing myself to be alone more?

>>17765885

not forcing per se. the independence I talk about is a bit more philisophical and spiritual.

if you cant stand to be alone, you should reflect on why. some people really are just social creatures, but like dr. suess says, alone is something you will be often. you might as well learn how to enjoy that.

>>17765727
20 yo virgin here, good luck

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>>17765762

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>>17765764

>I can't find a job

Why not? How hard are you trying?

Sell blood/plasma to carry you over.
Sell your stuff on ebay.

i live in a small town in washington and i have applied EVERYWHERE every fast food chain and small business then went there personally and no luck. i did have a shitty walmart job but they didnt like me because i actively reported my supervisor who did things like follow me,yell at me because i was "setting a new standard" because i got the work done too fast..basically im just tired of being undervalued and im willing to do basically any job besides sell my body.

Nobody.

>>17765667

Really depends on your specific situation. I always say get a therapist if you can, they are professionals.

A friend/family member might mean well, but they don't know what they are doing.

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>>17765667
>anxiety and depression?
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLjelIPg3ys
meditate
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5GSeWdjyr1c
talk to whomever you feel comphy with

Gunshot wound to the head would probly work well

>>17765662
Can't afford nor can find a place to buy one.

That's what religion is for.

I would suggest Buddhism, turning yourself into an unfeeling zombie is pretty much their only requirement. Monotheistic religions will work too, but usually require more effort, money, silly names to remember, etc.

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>>17765646

>>17765646
What dude how.
That's like dividing by zero it's impossible to have sex with a nonvirgin if you're a virgin

I mean it is kinda fucked up that you would wait and she didn't

but lets be real its only cause you're ugly not because you value your virginity amirite

I talk to myself. Been doing it since I was little. It's not that I think there's someone else or anything I just like to hear my thoughts out loud.

Is that bad?

>>17765632
>>17765642

You just sound lonely. I know I feel the urge to speak out loud when I spend a lot of time alone, just to hear a voice.

I don't think it's "bad", but it could be a hint that you need more interaction in your life.

protip even social butterflies talk to themselves at certain points

get a bedroom mirror, look at yourself while speaking, and practice how you speak. you can talk about whatever you want and build your oratory ability at the same time. r

And by "juggle" i mean having a relationship without the other one knowing. Seems like an interesting concept, i'm aware that it can backfire, but would like to try anyway.

>>17765624
Well?
Why did his spaghettios keep generating lightning?

>>17765652
Probably because of global warming

>>17765617
>I told her since the very beginning that we should better stop it (a potential relationship) since I don't want to have anything with her son

If you don't want a relationship, let her leave. Don't be an asshole to her. Don't keep going after her.

>>17765617

That actually scared me and said to her that of course I would see her and talk to her, but just as "friends". And then she wrote something like "I can't write if my screen keeps getting wet. I can't barely see the letters too". I think she said "I'm crying". And then I said to her "Take a rest". End. The next day i sent her some voice messages explaining everything, and I said "I still love you". She told me "I still love you too"... SO yeah, normal teenage love, doesn't? NO, because she fucking doesn't talk to me. Only Sundays, and most of the time if I talk to her first.

So yesterday was my last interaction with her. I asked her how she's doing and when is her birthday. "I want to give you a present". Then she said "Will you see me? That's the only present I would like. I don't ask for anything else". LOL. I didn't knew what to think about that. But yeah, I got quite lovly again and told her something like comparing her with the supermoon we all saw yesterday.

She hasn't replied. But she has posted 2 depressive love songs on Facebook. I mean, she does have time to reply to me, but she doesn't.

I'm fucking desperate as fuck with this situation. I just want and need to talk to her, face to face, but each time I try to tell her she fucking simply ignores me or changes the subject.

Questions:

Does she still "loves" me? Should I just wait until she asks me to talk, while I fuck girls and do my life (I've already, though)? Should I insist?

This whole shit does affects me.

Also, I don't know but I've the feeling she misses a lot her son's dad.

>>17765626

Dude, she kept coming. She insisted. We had sex and shit. I then fell in love!

I'm 36 and have no problem picking up girls 10 years younger than me.

>>17765587

depends how desperate you are.

I've been single for 4 years and i love it to be honest. I have flings when I can but dont see myself settling down. so i dont bother with girls who don't interest me.

id rather have a dry spell than a bad fuck.

companionship for the sake of companionship sounds like hell.

but if ur so needy that you NEED a partner cuz not having one is upsetting you, then by all means, go be miserable with someone.

You're immature, everyone who's normal finds you distasteful, and you're not at all marriage material and will die alone. By all means continue to act like you want and fuck bar sluts with daddy issues, but be aware as with everything in life there are consequences. Don't whine when ten years from now your family is dead and the only human contact you get is the artificial affection you pay hookers and sugar babys for because your looks have faded and the only value you have to to pay for someone else's kid.

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Change jobs or just end it.

>>17765546

If you have savings, quit.

I know everyone is going to shit on you for this, but I can't impress upon you enough how important it was that I quit two jobs when I was your age to pursue my dreams. When I first got out of college, the economy was shit, none of my friends had jobs, and I was stuck in retail management. Same shit - working 10-12 hour days, missing my friends and family, watching my life pass me by, never able to take vacation time or interview for another job because my schedule would shift every other day and I didn't know what time I'd have off...

I left. Took some time to look for a change of scenery, ended up back in retail management, thinking a new place and new people would fix it. It didn't. Quit again.

I had to take a $10/hr part time job to finally get some degree relevant experience, but getting my foot in the door was all it took, and now I make $80k a year in marketing.

Take the risk if you can afford it for a bit.

in the end do what makes you happy

>>17765513
To top it off my PC can't run dishonored 2 and every job I applied to didn't email back so I can't even get a minimum wage job so I can drown my sorrows in vidya and expensive clothes to brag about on /fa/

>>17765513
1. Commute to college for the first year. Study like mad and get all As.
2. Get summer and part time jobs and save your pennies.
3. Present parents with this argument - you clearly are a serious student and deserve a little more freedom, and you are prepared to pay half the dorm costs from the money you made.
4. Move to dorms next year.

>>17765513
Stop being a cry baby, I can handle it, why can't you?

No friends or family that can take you in for a bit til you get situated?

Why did you get kicked out?

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>>17765501
Friends without racist parents or have side for me? Nah. Family? Wouldn't ready work out.

I was being yelled at to go to school, I yelled back saying I'm going to school.

>>17765511
Look around for roommates maybe?

Is reconciling at option? Sounds like you're in a pickle otherwise

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>>17765403

Row E. In any theater, row E is always the best.

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>>17765406
what do

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>>17765414
This is first tier seating. I need two seats, which one is the best?