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>gf of two years
>Have conversation saying basically Hillary was a shit candidate and that it's possible Trump won't be that bad
>She's never been into politics at all
>She's been on and off, 180 from "I love you so much, don't leave my bed, I miss you!" to "God I hate you"
>Calls me a Trump follower
>She just stopped responding to all communication Sunday night
>I didn't even vote for the orange fucker

I would think maybe something happened, but my phone reports that she has seen all my messages, of which I sent a few each day.

But in all honesty if she turns out to be the type of woman to break up all the sudden over a political difference then maybe I'm dodging a bullet?

I also have a feeling that our long distance relationship has put strain on her and it's possible she was looking for an excuse. She kept hinting our relationship may end due to out careers splitting us up and kept saying that she's worthless and possibly holding me back, to which I always said that's bullshit.

I was content to try and make it work anyway.

Anyway, today is the beginning of the two day period each week, where we get to see each other and still no response. (she's commuting to an out of state internship for one semester)

I get the feeling this is the end of our relationship. I can see the logic in breaking up I guess, but I felt like when your love overrides what is logical to do, then you've found someone worth loving.

Then again this is my first long term gf, so maybe I'm retarded. Pretty sure I'm right about breaking up though. I'm ready to move on if that's the case, it's this stupid cliffhanger that has caused me not to sleep the entire night though.

This is how a break up starts right?

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Femanons who have been pregnant, how much did your boobs change during and after pregnancy?

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I need some advice on my situation. This girl I've known over the internet for years is pretty awesome but there's a guy in the way obviously.

Our relationship
>Both of us are in the same level of intelligence
>Share similar interests and hobbies
>Share similar political views
>Make each other laugh
>both of us are introverts but like going out once in a while
>Sexually attracted to each other and have sexted before
>Both of us found a partner around the same time and ended it around the same time
>After that we had personal problems to deal with and didn't talk for a while

We would start catching up and talking again for a good couple months. We actually exchanged our mistakes and saw how we changed after these years.

Eventually, she would find another guy. However, when we were talking about our mistakes, she said she would try hard not to get attached to another guy. I'm under the assumption that this guy is no exception. They've been together for, I assume 2-4 months and I did not find out myself until last week. She has nothing about this relationship on any of her social media. I learned it from her brother.

She recently visited my state and I met her. We both had fun even if the time was brief and her guy was there. My basic animal urges kicked in and I wanted to steal her from him but I held back the whole time. They've since returned home but they might make another visit later.
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My girlfriend recently admitted to me that she has a fat/weight gain fetish and she sometimes fantasizes about feeding me and me getting fat. Is there a way to be fat/obese without health problems? I'm open to the idea, and it's actually sort of hot to me that she'd be into something like that, but I'm terrified of all the health problems I hear about.

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What is the best drug to micro-dose before work?

Looking for a drunk/lethargic/happy feeling while still being able to work.

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So I'm like 90% sure a girl is interested in me, but some days like today she just completely avoids eye contact with me and doesn't approach me to talk, and others she'll stare at me incessantly until I talk to her or she approaches me. Is she not interested anymore? I'd imagine someone interested would always want to look at me and talk to me. Should I bother inviting her to the pool again. The last time we went she wanted me to grab onto her and she ended up spending more time than we planned there, she seemed to be having a lot of fun.

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About to have my first fuckbuddy. We're still at the kissing stage but I'm awfully jealous already, am I slowly falling in love? I feel like I'm losing at my own game. How to stop this clinginess?

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Hey adv, redpill me on having a onitis and how to let go of a girl who keeps stringing you along. Also explains general cons in pursuing a relationship

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Is there something you can do about emitting a specific weird vibe?

I'm completely healthy, normal-weight and have never had any kind of issues with food, but some reason people - completely independently and unrelated to each other - somehow seem to get the impression that I have an eating disorder, and I have no damn clue where it comes from.

What causes people to get a vibe from someone? How can I make it stop? I always sound like I'm lying when I'm not, so just reassuring people I'm alright doesn't work.

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I have a female Japanese tutor who was raised in Japan and currently lives together with her white boyfriend. She's currently getting her partner visa (they've been together about a year and a half).

During our last lesson she wore this really short skirt (it was in a cafe) but I didn't say anything.

My question is, if I say something about her skirt, would it make her want to fuck me? I was thinking something like
>can you wear that short skirt again this time? :)
or
>you were wearing a very short skirt last time lol

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I have a 17 year old sister and she has been lying to me about going out. It’s a very long story; to make it short I caught her lying, she was with a boy who is not Muslim he is white, and in short I told her first of all you cant have a boyfriend and second of all he is non Muslim – if you like a Muslim boy bring him to meet our and they will arrange your marriage with him. But she says she wants a boyfriend and doesn’t care if he is Muslim or not and this makes her happy. I have argued and told her nicely and also in anger but she is not listening. What should I do? I need some advice on this and how to handle her. I haven't told our parents (yet) to keep her safe

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I'm in the process of subletting a room from a girl, we're supposed to sign the contract in a few days, but now all of the sudden I get a better offer from someone else. Her room smells of food, she's charging more for rent beyond what it should be, wants me to keep her bike in it, and has a bunch of other niggling conditions. What should I do? Honor my verbal agreement and sign with her or go with the new guy?

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What is the most secure email to use?

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Ok long story short, I'm crushing on this girl.
Nothing good about it, just a big NO.

Spent a weekend with her and a friend of mine,
started knowing her better during a weeklong trip during wich I guess I started getting some funky feelings.

3-4 months after that and I tought I was over it and spending time with her wouldn't be a problem,
but I saw her recently and realized that I'm not.

So best course of action would be to just cut her out of my life, except I can't.
First of all our meeting was due to a "tragic" event and if I just gtfo it would feel like betrayal, for me too.
Second of all we have big trips planned with this group of friends in the future, I can't just ask them to cut her out,
nor I feel like leaving this group (wich is the best I've ever had in my life).
Third, I've become closer to her family due to the tragic event aforementioned, her mother still gets teary when I leave after I visit them.

I don't know what to do,
she's asked me to spend a weekend togheter next spring but I feel like every moment I indulge is a mistake.
I should do something now that I'm not too invested into it, but I don't know what.

I think she's a cool person and I wish I could keep her in my life on the long run,
but I'm sure that with time the feelings would only develop and being unable to act on them would undermine our friendship.

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What the FUCK is wrong with me? I have so much learning helplessness and anxiety, I can't even begin to do anything. If I wanted to draw? I can barely LOOK at the paper without screaming. I can't read articles on a topic without being flooded with the pressure to need to know alot about it. I can't read books either on something. If I'm not actively engaged, hands on with proper motivation like doing it as work and have a sincere interest in it, I get a panic attack. Is there a solution to this?