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Up until her telling you that you're a cunt etc, I thought she was doing the fairly typical passive aggression of a young girl who feels too nervous to give straightforward criticism and doesn't realize how much worse being covert and implicit is.

But I changed my mind. She is obviously seriously troubled. Keep track of everything she sends you. Don't bother saying anything at all to her, clearly she is not remotely sensible.

>>17777487
Thanks for the advice.

I tried to diffuse the bomb and talk, but she doesn't seem to want to.
Thing is I still need a picture from her to finish my part of the work. (picture which I should have had days ago but she keeps putting it off). All i gotta do now is finish the animation, since, like she says "that's all you good for", and pass the oral presentation.
After that i'm out. I basically told the teacher by mail that i continually tried to help, and asked for advice on those subjects I don't understand. That it seems like a lack of communication on both sides, and I regret having to bring her into this. Also i hope it'll go better next time.

>>17777517
No problem. For future reference, you have to nip this shit in the bud. The moment you overheard her talking to her teacher you should have gone to her and tell her something akin to;

>hey femanon, I heard what you said to [teacher], and I'm sorry to hear that you are not satisfied with my level of involvement - however, for the sake of wrapping up this project in a way that we are both happy with, I want to ask you sincerely to please come to me first if you are not content with my work or with the division of work... I cannot step it up and be the partner you want me to be if you don't tell me when I am lacking, and up until now I was under the impression from what you said that all was good

Or similar. Basically, don't be accusative (gets you nowhere but a defensive knee jerk reaction) but make it dead. clear. that she needs to communicate with you in order to get anywhere.

As for the teacher, I think you were a bit too gracious towards the girl. Sure, it sounds like you left it to her to take initiative etc, but it wasn't "a lack of communication on both sides", it was her providing you with communication that made it impossible for you to realize what she really wanted from you. Though it is good to also volunteer what you could've done better, that shows that you are also self-critical and not just pointing fingers. But in this case I would've gone with - she communicated things to me that later turned out to not be accurate, and I recognize that I could've taken a much more active stance here and not just depend on her approval.

It isn't because you're ugly, you're probably just more incompetent and less pleasant than you think.

>>17777450
>that ugly kid who browses 4chan and hates other kids

lol you are a stereotype OP.

>>17777450
Chances are overwhelming that it is not your looks that make you a designated victim.

Unfortunately, not everyone who makes a baby is a good parent, and your were particularly insidious in convincing you you were ugly.

Because of that you unconsciously walk around with body language or facial expression or way of interacting that broadcasts "I am the designated victim. Abuse me as you wish."

Change that, and you change the way people treat you, which in fact has very little to do with your looks.

Lick it probs.

>>17777444
Put it back in.

>>17777444
Wash your fucking hand.

>>17777416
Break up so she won't have to put up with an insufferable cunt like you anymore and can find someone better.

>>17777418
Unfortunately the last guy she went out with was a white knight and she found him insufferable, so I doubt you'd have a chance.

>>17777416
desu m8, it doesn't sound like she has a social media habbit problem but a respectful boundary. its one thing to find beuty in people but how shes liking asses and shirtless men and exes photos then maybe somethings going on in her membrane making her like these things and not focusing on your ass and shirtless body and exes.

i say, don't stoop to her but just like "ayl the fuck wit white women. you go into an indian themed restaurant and you act like meeting pajeets are a sacred thing. first you enslave us and then you play sheety video games like WHAT THE FUCK!?"

Okay, before I say anything. What risks are we talking about?

>>17777394
Then why the fuck are you using tinder

>>17777451
STDs primarily.

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>>17777372
>accidentally also pretty
no one believes you unless you post pics

>>17777372
Everyone's just as lost as you. Find your own shit to do. Keep men at arm's length (or more) until you find the right one.

>>17777401
This. What you have to understand for men, don't even try to deny this I'MA SPILL DE BEANS! As a man, women are seen, to me anyway and from observing other men, women are like tools. Just use them and put away when done. KEEP AWAY FROM THOSE MEN, DO NOT EVEN THINK OF GIVING THE WIN! Don't take the L. If you give in to that libertine behaviour of them then they win, I suppose you do too if you are slutty but I mean if in the end the dick cums from a woman then jt doesn't matter how much control you thought you have, the goal was to get the sex and he got it so he won. fuckig not even lebron's hairline is as bad as that.

Be a woman, or be you, fuck trying to be a man as how women define it. fuck being a woman as how men define it. be your own woman. if you want to find a guy and settle down with him do it gurl. be married, i support healthy relationships that can be turned into marriages. dont adapt, adapting gives you the L. Make them adapt. the only reason you feel like a meat bag is because women allow men to treat themselves as such. 2nd wave feminism was a mistake. the right man will cone for you, patience

*slurps dick* my name is john and i haven't slept since last saturday because my girlfriend farted in my eye baaAAAAAaaalls

Jesus fucking christ anon

>>17777356
What

This isnt a good first impression of /ck/. Like ive never been here and this is the first thing i see.

>>17777330
Stop wasting time and find someone duh

>>17777395

but i dont want anyone

i want *him*

>>17777330
get aids fagg

>>17777245
Mouth herpes isn't an STD. Most people actually get it during childhood, from parents and family members.
It is also only dangerous when you have the actual sores, you just need to pay attention for a week or two and never get infected.
My mom has it and my boyfriend too, and I never got it.

You're such a little bitch boi

70% of people get it within their lifetime
It's the smallest inconvenience
1/3 of those show any symptoms and even fewer have regular occurrences

Your stigma you attach to it is petty

It is as dirty as a blemish or pimple

>>17777245
From a guy trying to do the same thing with a girl except she has genital herpes, do it bro, fuck it

If you really like her personality, not just her looks, start dating her

To fully understand the situation and help you to the fullest it would be in our best interest if you uploaded an example of what was sent

>>17777221
This.

>>17777221
roll

Not to mention it was our anniversary yesterday. We've already talked about it in person in which I became a total sook and almost began crying.
Just vomited too.

How old are you guys?
Don't mean that in a dick way
Just sound kinda young


I've learned in my strongest relationships honesty is the best policy because everything is pretty much found out eventually if you don't want to be fighting all the time

"YOU THINK KATE UPTON IS HOT!?!??!"

"Yea, not as hot as you, but close" give her a wink and kiss her or some shit

If she takes that as he doesn't love me and wants to cheat then she's not ready to be in a relationship and you'll be 1000x better off without her

>>17777173
There's nothing you can do. This has everything to do with her self-esteem. I had a girlfriend just like her. She could talk about how handsome or sexy Johnny Depp is, but as soon as I talked about some actress she would pitch a bitch like yours is. The most you can do is assure her you love her.

>>17777142

I'll eat the bait and get the shitshow started

259.5
129.5
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130

>implying i wouldn't excuse aunt sally

130.5

>>17777142
(37 * 7 + 1 ) / 2 = 130
Any other interpretation or answer is objectively wrong.

Is what im feeling even depression? I dont want to self diagnose. But im also poor and cant afford a actual therapist/counselor.

>>17777136

>Get over
That's.... not how it works, but arright, not going to nitpick.

You, my man, need to start exercising. I know, it's weird, but you need to get your adrenaline and testosterone levels UP UP UP. Adrenaline, cos it helps counter insulin (or was the insulin counter, never could remember...) and testosterone, cos it's important for the entire metabolic rate. Also, the seratonin might help.

Do something that gets your heartrate WAY UP for 30 minutes, each day. Running, swimming, cycling, mountain climbing, etc. I'd avoid the gym, because the increase is too sporadic, and I'd definetly recommend group sports (basketball, football).

>>17777140
I am sad. But this made me laugh. I did lifting and cardio for two years. Didnt help shit and eventually quit because of that. I tell people the same shit honestly. But that doesnt work.

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>>17777121

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>>17777126

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>>17777092
GRABgrab her by the

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>>17777093
BY THE WHAT

>>17777097
...by the hand and tell her that you want to get to know her better and see if she's keen for coffee