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Weakness
Shallow sleep
Waking up in middle of night
Shortness of breath after exertion, eating, or sometimes from nothing at all
Heart palpitations
Ringing in ears
Sensation of warm spots on legs
Had a few white colored shits. Yes, literally white as fucking snow
lost ability to get that feeling of getting a full breath since may (though tests have shown my lung functions are normal)

And theres more, but thats what comes to mind. I feel like my vitality is draining more and more. Ive been better mentally, why would i be getting worse? I feel like im circling the drain. Idk why im asking you guys about this but idk what else to do. Im completely exhausted.

Sounds pretty serious OP. You might have some disease or possible cancer. I would get a CAT scan asap and see if they can identify anything along with blood work and the whole nine yards.

Do you eat a healthy diet? Is there major stress in your life right now hat might warrant such physical things to occur?

>>17831126
Ive had a lot of blood work done, nothing has ever showed up. And as for stress, no, theres nothing thats really stressing me out other than the symptoms themselves. Which is another reason why i have a feeling its not all anxiety. Id like them to investigate these things more but they just pass it off on anxiety. Seems like because im 25 and was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder, they think its impossible something could actually be wrong with me.

4 years is a pretty long time man. Is it a "not right now" or a "I don't see myself with her for the rest of my life" feeling?

If you don't want to, there is not a lot you can do. If she doesn't accept that then yes. your relationship is in terminal decline. Abandon ship.

>>17831113

It's a 'I never want to get married, period'

>>17831039
Are you using a medicine that contains amphetamine? Should that be the case, quit poisoning yourself and live with ADD.

>>17831039
Talk to your doctor. It's their job to find something for you that doesn't have side effects like this and they will know way more options than any of us could provide.

>>17831042
No idea. I take Vyvanse if that helps

>>17831060
I've literally tried half a dozen different medications since I was 12 and ever single one has had this side effect. I'm pretty sure all of them do that.

'Stop taking the medication' isn't really helpful advice desu

>>17831000

Maggot Faggotson
Blacked Cuckson
Tafeel Wenogieff

that sticks

"I want to be a politician" - can't even figure out a name. Good luck kiddo

>>17831012
Gee, thanks mister

I meant 2-3 for the first and last name combined, though.

I was thinking something like Ian Everson or may be it's better to do something like Tim Taylor? Any of these work or are they trying too hard?

>>17830999

First of all, nice OCD trips.
First of all, nice OCD trips.
First of all, nice OCD trips.

Now that I've got that out of my system, your neighbor is a fucking cuck and you should blast your TV on full volume. Fuck that prick. If he's so bothered by the TV that means he also vegetates in his apartment all day for him to hear it always.

I have OCD too, and it's mostly intrusive thoughts. No set rituals. I adjust things from time to time until they "feel right" but that's about it. I really feel for you, famalam. Maybe if you joined a Skype / Discord group you'd feel better / less lonely?

Drugfags will tell you about drugs. I've heard there's some really potent stuff out there, and if you don't wanna go the hospital route, there's always black online markets and stuff.

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>>17830999
Buy a decent set of headphones and listen to either podcasts or classical music. God Speed Outlander.

>>17830999
>>17830999
Beautiful trips.

I would turn the tv back on, just maybe a bit quieter. Your neighbor doesn't know you, and they sound like a shitty person. Lots of people leave background noise on when they're doing things. There's a reason people go to coffee shops to work, because the background noise is actually very helpful. My ex, one of the hardest working people I know, always had a show on when she was doing things just for the noise.

It's really not that unusual, the guy that approached you is a cunt.

Another option, could you get a pair of headphones? Then you don't have to worry about people hearing the noise. I was always super stressed about disturbing my neighbors with sound, headphones are an easy solution.

Nobody thinks you are worthless or need to die. Even your shitty neighbor would probably feel terrible if he knew the pain his comment is causing you.

Wow your like the opposite of me. I just hate conversing with people unless it's critical.

But anyways, I'd probably suggest droning out or something. Treat life like a movie and your in it. People aren't talking nonstop in movies. I don't know I'm giving bad advice right now.

>>17830990
see, ur doing it again
u just cant stop can u
maybe i should give u a lethal dose of morphine instead

Remember. Do you even lift?


Try herbal medicine

Op will try and be tough and work out and become a hunch back lol

just let it heal then go back to working out you gorrilla

No I wasn't going to lift but just do bodyweight like pull ups.

Yay, if she's insulted onto the next

>>17830975
I mean, you already have the tickets. There's no harm in asking someone else to go with you. You don't have to advertise the fact that they weren't your first choice.

Just try not to lead with " hey, i got these tickets to go ice skating but x didnt wanna go with me and honestly, i wasn't sure if i wanted to ask you at all so i asked on an anonymous image board if that would be a good idea."

>>17830983
Most girls will probably be able to guess it though.

>>17830964
Brush your teeth twice a day, once in the morning, once in the evening.

>>17830964
Always keep 5 to 10 dollars in assorted change on you at all times.

Don't ask for advice on 4chan & try new foods whenever you can.

You won't "get in trouble", but it won't be free. They know your address, you filled out that information. You will get a mailed invoice if your funds do not clear when they attempt the charge. Don't ignore that.

>>17830947
Nothing they can do.
If my bank accounts I havee 10000 dollars and i really only have 10 its the banks fault

>>17830947
Nothing is free.

>>17830874
My nigga, you young. The problem is you not thinking of the big picture. All that shit sounds like it will blow over in a few days. I'll go over every point and untangle to web you seem to have spun.

>I started doing this weird thing where sometimes I'll wake up without remembering falling asleep
Cause you been stressed most likely. Your brain is overworked by the anxiety that it just knocks out now. Great book on the subject "at last a life" by paul david
>I found out my best and only friend was moving to Israel

While it may suck for now I promise you that you won't meet your real friends till you are well into your 30's. Even then with modern technologies you are never going to be apart. I mean really what difference does his distance change in your interaction with him or her.
>Somebody scratched something very hateful into my locker
So what? I'm gonna tell you something as one artist to another. People are not going to understand you. People hate what they don't understand. It's the price we pay for our art. As long as no one is causing you physical harm I wouldn't let it get to you. It says nothing about you and everything about the sheep. Let your art be your escape. It will never let you down even if the world does.

>>17830874
>I keep getting random nosebleeds

That's physical. Something easily fixable and possibly stress related. Honestly that's hardly anything to feel down about. It only feels that way cause you are accumulating everything onto the perception that your life is bad.

>Entire school think I worship Satan because of an argument in class

Shit better than them thinking you worship jesus or allah. Satan isn't even the bad guy in the bible if you read it. He only killed like 5 people and even at that needed god's permission. WHile god killed several thousands and millions. That's besides the point tho. Those people won't even matter to you when you are out of school. Move to a new city where no one knows you. start all over. That's what I did. I've never been happier. I can now be the person I always wanted to be.

>And my submission into a national art competition was rejected
So what? We don't create art for arbitrary recognition. Sure competitions are cool but we become competitors trying to please people rather than artist trying to please ourselves. having judges use arbitrary methods of evaluation to decide which art is better is meaningless. You good little brother. Seriously. Your situation is so small when you see the big picture of life.

Give it time. School sucks, you'll get through it.

Go to a doctor about the sleeping thing.

You'll make new friends. You will become more close to these new friends than you ever were with your old friend.

Whoever scratched things into your locker is a shithead. Take pride in the knowledge that you're better than them, but don't gloat or act holier-than-thou. Just be a good person, and eventually all the bad people in your life will fall away.

Nosebleeds happen, not a big deal.

Nobody gives a fuck if you worship Satan or not. Your argument is probably already forgotten in the minds of most people. If you're worried about it, just be a good person. I'm not a christian, but I think jesus had some pretty good advice when he said to let your actions speak for you. If you act pleasantly to everyone, people will want to know more about what you believe, because they will want to be like you.

Just because your work was not accepted into a competition does not mean it does not have merit. It's just not what they were looking for. Talk to other artists about it, teachers preferably, and they can help guide you.

Being young is a kick in the dick. Don't run away, that's a silly reaction. Talk to a school counselor, or if you don't want to do that ask your parents to see a counselor. Worst case scenario, you can't get yourself to ask your parents to see a counselor, tell your parents you want to see a doctor because of your falling asleep problem and then tell the doctor you've been feeling really shitty and want to talk to a counselor but you don't feel comfortable asking your parents. They'll figure something out.

you could move out instead

>>17830896
I'm not sure if English is your first language, but OP said that this guy is his tenant. Meaning that OP owns the place.

>>17830896

This is my house, so no, I can't. Keeping the house is in my long term best interest financially.

>>17830855
"But you're lying to these people, those things I did aren't as bad as they sound, I had reasons in my mind for doing them, good ones, because I was feeling upset, that's why I did them!"

The internal state of your mind does not matter, the only thing that matters is your actions. A murderer who "isn't a murderer deep down inside" actually is a murderer, one who's in self denial.

I will always be here for you by the way, as a friend. Remember when you said to me, "If you ever think you're going to kill yourself, just show up at my doorstep and I'll be there for you"

I want you to know I will always be there for you in the same way, because I literally love you with all my heart. I just can't be with you anymore.

>>17830855
Holy shit. Read this as if it were addressing me, since my initial is T. But then I realized OP is a guy.

You had my heart beating for a bit until I caught on that it wasn't about me, OP.

Anyway, you sound crazy and so does your ex. Good luck.

>>17830971
She made me fucking crazy. I will never allow myself to get as obsessed with anyone as much as I was with her, ever again.

Tell her to get on top and show you

Did you fuck with music on? If not then do that. It's easier to find a rhythm if there's a rhythm.

>>17830847
You idiot. Slow and steady wins the race. You are supposed to slowly build up speed. Its a psychological thing. When her mind is able to predict the next thrust it amplifies the pleasure she feels.
Also she probably meant that you werent thrusting in sync with her thrust from below.

> i've slept with over a hundred at least
Most of us are upset we can't get respectable women we want, not that we can't get fucked by venereal transport packs

>>17830826
lel I assure you the women are of high quality, aside from the first few when I first started, most of them would at least be considered 7s-8s

Female here, the sort of women this fellow can teach you to meet will give you a disease.