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>>17880578

rememebr guys, girls only change wahts attractive on a global scale in order to fight masculinity.

>>17880578
Have you ever kissed a girl on the mouth, son?

Lol Harper go home ur smashed bud

>>17880573
>Or am I being irrational and it's just my meds making me crazy?
trust your gut. it's usually right.
she's already being a lying cunt with you by saying it was 'accidental'. Nothing is accidental. That is an obscene rationalization on her part. She doesn't think much of you if she used that line.
i'd break up with her. she's almost certainly been on the cock carousel with her coworkers. she's trying to pull the wool over your eyes. if you don't take definitive action, she'll never respect you and she will cheat again. she might even be cheating now.
your text message is actually a good poker bluff bc its probably true. if you keep the frame, she'll prob spill the beans and then you know you were right.

>>17880573
Why do you want a confession? The trust is shot and there's no mending things at this point. Abandon her, cut all contact and block her everywhere

also when we were in a fight, she said "your shirts here by the way" and it wasn't mine.
I asked her who's it was but she "didn't know". She DID have family over, so it might have been her brothers or dads shirt.

>>17880539
Cuck him OP

>>17880539
Just put on something sexy and seduce your boyfriend. I don't know how women can be sexually frustrated in a relationship. She doesn't do it often since I already initiate sex a lot, but it really turns me on when my fiancee seduces me like that. I find it hard to believe that he would reject your advances so I don't think you have to worry about that.

>>17880539
>sadfeels

I think you mean slut feels

Neck yourself

>>17880525
The fact that you are depending on your boyfriend to manage all of your emotional incontinence is the problem. Get thee to a therapist woman and take care of bidness without burdening him with thy insecurity.

>>17880525
Tell him that sometimes you feel insecure and you need him to tell you and show you that he loves you.

>>17880557
I did and he accused me of pushing him away by being insecure.

>>17880488

don't feel bad man.

I had brain damage once. my best friend said 'you'll be fine' then tried to talk about suicide squad for the millionth time. i had a less intense meltdown than your father and said 'DUDE I GOT LITERAL BRAIN DAMAGE, I JUST HAD AN MRI, IT COULD POSSIBLY NEVER HEAL, I AM ONLY HERE RIGHT NOW CUZ WERE NOT REQUIRED TO STAND FOR THIS CUZ I CANT STAND FOR MORE THAN 5 MINUTS'

and he understood. he wasn't a bad person, he just wasn't acknowledging my problems. and when i called him out on it he realized it.

can people REALLY be bad people or 'fucking pieces of shit' if they just have to be give n a reality check?

my friend is the sweetest (no homo) guy in the world. were all just caught up in our own stuff and dont alway sremember to see beyond it.

you were there for your dad when he told you what was wrong. thast wahts most important. instead of butting heads with him you hugged him and took care of him.

real talk, hes probably in ihs own room thinking 'wow im such an awful person i took out all my frustratiosn on anon just for trying to share a joke'.

>>17880520
Well he was just so worked up just thinking about it and I didn't do much to acknowledge it now that I am I'm feeling bad he just sadness Sharon text his mom and just thought about it for a while and it's good now he had his break he had his breakdown and now he's all right I still worry about him I just hope to God that he'll be able to see his mom and dad one last time before they go I just hope to whatever deity that's listening to me well understand this.

>>17880543

hopefully he does. im glad you could help him. just dont think you're a bad person. you're a good person. you just made a mistake and thats okay.

focus on science instead, or video games.

>>17880453

unless a site advertises itself as strictly for hook ups, they tend to be pretty balanced on who's having sex and who's dating. there arent certain websites that just make people say 'WOW I FEEL LIKE DATING INSTEAD OF HOING' and unless the site sells itself as hook ups only there is no reason that ho's will be sudden;y drawn to it.

the actual best way to get into a relationship is to meet women irl. why? because chemistry. dating apps make you judge people like pieces of meat instead of just meeting people you actually get along with.

OKC is full of trashy, ugly women. Don't go there. That's all I got for you though. I need advices as well. Too scared to get together with a female from onlines. Plus my Tinder profile gets no matches, despite me getting decent amounts of female attention IRL before I became a shutin. Maybe because I don't smile and my pictures give away my NEET lifestyle?

Its just like. To elaborate a little. I was a total social retard in high school and still kind of am but I'm getting a little better. I never resented the 'popular' kids I just thought that some day I'd learn how to be a person and have a conversation easily and be liked. But I'm 24 and that hasn't happened yet. The popular guy is fucking the girl I love even though she's weird and was unpopular in high school like me and wasn't socially accepted and was abused like me. I know that doesn't entitle me to anything, its just like. Fuck they're still winning. The normal people. Its so gay and cliche but its like dr. horrible's singalong blog or something. I can't take it.

Oh yeah, on top of that I'm unemployed after losing my job because I developed bipolar disorder during it (found this out later) and stopped showing up. My grandma is kicking me out because I was acting like such an asshole because of my mental problems. I have no place to stay in 11 days, no job, on top of it all I'm obsessed with this girl and think about her all the time. I've never felt this way about a girl. I doubt anyone read all this its just like. My life is so fucked up and I don't see a way out. I haven't even gone to college yet.

>>17880449

you are reading this wrong. have you considered that the reason she doesn't have feelings for you is because you are 3000 miles away? or ugly? or just not her type?

i see geeks dating geeks all the time. hell last time i went to an anime meetup a girl walked right up and asked me out. about half the geek girls i know like geek guys. same wiht the guys.

people tend to like different types, but arent opposed to people similar to them.

my best friends a geek guy and hes dating a normie girl.

two of my friends are isnanely hot geeks taht are dating each ohter.

i know geek girls that prefer geek guys, and that prefer hipster guys and that prefer any other sort of guy you can think of.

you are saying all women dont like you cuz you're weird / geeky, but its probably that you're ugly and hitting on women too hot for you / too far away

Kill yourself or being a piece of shit.

>>17880423

you do not find him unattractive out of guit. you've seen what the world has to offer you, and you realize he isn't up to scratch.

its kind of like when you get out of highschool and realize who you were dating hten isnt' actually that sepcial, even though you felt like it was the most special relationship ever at the time.

leave him. he deserves better, and so do you.

>gets mad that bf suspects her of cheating
>cheats as revenge

why are women so stupid?

This seems like a troll but I'll bite. What kind of things have you been put on penalty for?

this has to be a troll i spend the last 2 minutes writing out a response in half disgust only to realise you might be trolling.

if it's not a troll, seek medical help you have the mental age of a toddler.

He sounds like an ass, just leave him if it makes you unhappy, How long are you two together?

>>17880365

>>17880365
Don't talk to her. DOn't make anything happen. Go home regretting the fact that you never took a chance. That's what I would do.

>>17880379
thats what i would do, I lold at that

Make them laugh.

>>17880345
Imagine youre meeting men for new friends.

Think of all your close guy friends and how they came to be. Did you sit down and ask about their hopes and dreams and force conversation hoping, just hoping theyll like you more?

Or did you all just hit it off completely organically and before you knew it with no real explanation you were best buds?


Thats how it works with women. If you force it, not gonna happen. Theres not some magic formula. You hit it off or you dont. It helps if you seem happy and open from the outside. Other than that its just meet people with no focus or goals, and when you like a girl, ask her out, let it develop, and move the ever living fuck on if its not going well!!!!

>>17880345
>6'1"
there will be girls who want to bang you just based on that.
I'll tell you what I do that has worker very well.
I'm not the greatest talker either. But I can seduce them through texting.
Get her number. Learn how to turn her on with texts. This takes time to learn but basically once you get them turned on this way, then you can invite them over and they won't want to waste a lot of time talking before getting down to bidniss. Basically, don't feel obligated to talk to them. Lead with whatever form of communication you are good with. ANd also, guys usually think they need to have 6 hour conversations with girls before getting physical. Not true at all.

>>17880327
staying up 48 hours won't fuck you up in any permanent way but definitely do not drive or do anything where you need sustained attention. You'll sleep for 12 hours but you should be functional when you wake up

chicken soup
diazepam (Valium)
sleeping tea (no caffeine)

Ireland/UK? I'm up too, but I'm cool with it because I'm off work.

If you're just really wound up try this
Scalding hot shower/bath > chamomile tea > clean bed sheets and comfy pyjamas

Breathing exercises help sometimes. If this stuff won't work, just take some zolpidem, tramadol or melatonin.

The fact that you're worrying about who's right and who's wrong, and about trying to get your son out of this situation instead of being concerned about his mental health makes me think that your 'son' is actually you, or that you're an incredibly shitty parent

If the consequences of your son's bad choice is more than the cost of a lawyer, get a lawyer.

>>17880329
We've already gotten him an appointment with a therapist a family friend recommended to us. His mental health just isn't what I need advice on right now, i don't know very much about that sort of thing.

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>>17880287

HEre is some cleavage for reference.

>>17880287

interests change. i used to be an ass man. now im a tit man. and in some cases, we simply get accustomed too things.

our generation is way more into kink than previous generations cuz by the time we were 18 we had already seen an entire world of pornography and in many cases have had active sex lives. so now the norm excites us less at a younger age.

cleavage was something you liked when it was new. now you're used to it. its still got that baseline of attractiveness but its just not as exciting as it used to be. just like anything: you get used to it.

Don't jack it so often man

the only right answer is don't because if you do you're gonna harm people
either keep your gf, or break up with her but tell girl 2 to stop a little to fuck, if she wants to fuck you now she will still in a week

>>17880265
girl 2 doesn't even know I'm dating girl 1 (aka gf). No one knows except her and me, actually.
gf is out of town and won't be back for months, so I don't see why I should delay the break up.
I don't care if I end up not fucking girl 2, but I would still prefer a win/win scenario.

Also I don't plan on cheating on anyone.

>>17880253
Just fuck the other girl and never tell your gf. If you have morals then break up with gf and fuck other girl. Did you need to make a thread to ask a question you answered in your post?