What do you think about open relationships? Experiences? How about those where you just have threesomes/groupsex? Are women willing to it in a long term relationship?
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as a man i find it gross and degenerate, a woman who would even consider it turns me off.
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>>17881141
Why? I would love to be with a girl who would let me fuck other girls during threesome. Of course I wish she would be bi and would only be with other girls, not men. Is this possible?
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>>17881144
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hey /adv/. so you suspect your partners a cunt, you get a friend to flirt with them.
They flirt back, send nudes, talk behind your back about your appearance etc etc (all while maintaining they love you and would NEVER cheat) whilst getting sent (fake) nudes and gettin off to them.
Right, now you know about all this, they know you found out, break up with them or forgive them?
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This isn't a question, go post in the vent thread cuckold.
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>>17881112
It is a damn question you infidel, break up with them or forgive them?
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>>17881116
You already know the answer, anyone who reads your whiny little post knows that.
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Im like the female version of a white Knight.
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>>17881105
well marie..
FUCKING SAVE ME.
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>>17881108
From what?
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>>17881105
Do you mean you defend men when feminists attack them and the men on this board etc?
Someone has threatened to come to my work to fight me. I have all the chat logs and in the event he does actually show up he can't get at me because I'm the on site security guard and I control all the doors. In the event he becomes violent I can call the cops and not feel guilty because I'm supposed to do that on-site anyways. What are my chances of success and what other measures should I take? BTW I didn't antagonize him. He disagree'd on something I said to a mutual on Facebook and then started Pming me.
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>>17881086
keep ignoring him
keep saving all the evidence
block his dumb ass on pm
and what exactly did you type on FB ?
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>>17881644
I mentioned that if a woman came up to be and started to physically fight me I would defend my self.
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>I'm the on site security guard
Uh, do whatever your training said you should do whenever faced with a threatening person? You're supposed to be the expert on this, if you don't know, your workplace is fucked.
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Trouble while trying to have sex
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Hi /adv/,
I'm 22. Was a virgin. Found gf. My experience:
1st time we tried id - couldn't get it up cuz stress
2nd time had difficulties putting it in in missionary, so she mounted me. Came in like 15 seconds
3rd time had difficulties putting it in again. We do foreplay, I get hard, I try to insert it, I fail to find the hole, I go limp in 15-30 seconds of trying. We do foreplay again until I get hard and try again. So in third time I finally manage to put it in in missionary, last about a minute, but she almost comes with me as she was already aroused from fingering.
All this happened in about two weeks
Then, because of pms and other unfortunate circumstances, we don't get to do it for almost a month. We both crave for sex. Finally we get ourselves an opportunity.
4th time I AGAIN struggle to put it in. Three times we had to raise it up again, then she lost the mood and we didn't even do it.
5th time, three days later same shit happens.
I can't have sex with my gf because I fail to find the hole and go limp after trying. What is wrong with me? How can I fix it? We both want it very badly, but she is starting to feel disappointed and says that my nerves are rubbing off to her and it's becoming harder for her to get aroused. Also, she had a bf before and they used to have sex just fine, so it's not her problem, even tho her vagina is quite tight and it hurts her to put two fingers in. But my dick is also small, just 13cm. Seriously, I'm super lost... Does anyone have any idea how I could get off my nerves and stop losing my erection just after 15-30 seconds of trying to get in?
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Also I'm using condoms. So it goes like this
>I get hard
>I put on a condom
>Lose the super hard erection and do more kissing and shit to make it harder
>Try to put it in
>Fail
>Repeat
Might it have anything to do with positioning?
We do foreplay lying in the bed, blood flows in my penis and it gets hard. Then I kneel on the bed and get her closer to put it in and soon I lose it. Can it be because I shift positions and blood flows differently?
Really I'm just making up excuses, but what if?
Also I have no problems while getting a handjob. Then it always stay hard.
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>>17881075
Look, don't fap for a week before you're going to have sex, invest in expensive, thin condoms and really, truly realise your girlfriend isn't judging you and loves you and wants you, so you don't need the performance nerves.
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>>17881085
If I don't fap for 3-4 days - I just ejaculate in my sleep. So I actually tried to stay fapless for 3 days before my 5 time and was hoping it would be really nice and finally work again. And it didn't
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It's hard to explain but basically I cannot fap to porn that I download.
Wtf is happening to me? Am I suffering from some kind of condition? Similar to porn artists who cannot schlick to their own art, I literally cannot get aroused from the pics/vids I save. For instance, if I can watch a porn clip online I can get horny but after I download that clip and watch it again on my pc, the clip automatically loses its appeal.
I spend 90% of my holiday time fapping and collecting porn. Needless to say that this problem is greatly affecting my life. (Not baiting or anything..That's how pathetic I am)
Please help me understand what I may be suffering from! It's very difficult for me to explain ;_;
Also, sorry for my poor english!!!!
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it's normal to not like fapping to stale shit.
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>>17881049
http://reddit.com/r/NoFap
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Why is this even a problem? Why do you give a fuck?
I'm really into this girl, and tonight we decided to go all the way. At the time, I was hard and ready. But by the time I put the condom on and went to put it in, I was limp. I went down on her but couldn't get it back up. Whenever we make out or I fap by myself, I don't have a problem. How do I keep it up during sex?
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Worth mentioning, this would have been my first time. I'm a virgin.
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>>17881016
This is a nerves thing. You need to relax, and also spend a little more on thin, good quality condoms.
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>>17881028
I've read I should try fapping with the condom on to get used to it, but I've also read I should just stop fapping. I've never tried one on before tonight. I'm not sure which to do to get ready for next time (hoping there will be one).
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How to move on from an ex? 2016-12-22 07:28:59 Post No.17880997
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How to move on from an ex?
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Today is 5 months since my ex broke up with me. Still not over her. Lost count of how many dates with tinder girls I've been on since them. None of them went past one date. Just miss my ex and how close we were, how well she knew me. I hate making small talk and opening up with people.
I think a big problem is before I met my ex (over 2 years ago) I had a close group of 4 friends and we hung out all the time. Now, 3 of them have girlfriends and are doing their own thing, one is single but kind of hanging out with a different group. So my group of friends just kind of fell apart. So not only did I lose my ex who was basically my best friend for 2 years I also lost my group of guy friends and only rarely see them now.
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Was in your shoes.
>5 months after break up, still not over this heartless bitch
>go celibate.
>don't look at girls sexually anymore
>I kept this up for about a year after the breakup
>started observing female behavior
>now know exactly what they want and refuse to give it to them
>they need my attention, "WHY WONT HE JUST LOOK AT ME" they scream internally.
>finally shoot them a glance and a casual smile before turning away. I have transcended above the need for pussy.
>this allows me to weed out every worthless bitch that comes my way with nothing to offer me except her vagina.
> scum, they are.
I turned the tables on women and watched their silly, overly complex minds wig out and malfunction.
>feels good mate
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>>17881004
God, what an unpleasant person you must be that that gave you pleasure.
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>>17881004
Interesting. Do you basically hate women now?
I deleted my tinder because I am sick of the dating scene. I feel like I got really lucky with my ex when I met her. Sweet girl, has a career, going to school for her masters, not materialistic, overly compassionate which was part of the reason she broke up with me because I'm honestly very cold to most people.
Anyway, don't feel like I'm going to find any girls like that again. Feel like I'm becoming very bitter towards dating and the whole concept of trying to find a mate
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I'm a mixed race black/white guy who grew up on my mother's side (all white) and associate almost exclusively with whites, or people of any other race but black. It's not by design, it just turned out that way.
I think this is the biggest contributing factor in my lack of attraction for a lot of black girls. I don't find them disgusting, obnoxious, too masculine etc. it's just that the really dark skin doesn't do it for me on a purely superficial, aesthetic level. Kinda like how some guys I know don't like red hair for some reason.
Anyway, I feel like a lot of the attention I get is from exactly these women. On Tinder it's mostly black girls who match me, and in person they're usually the ones I catch looking at me over and over as if they're attracted. It's really frustrating because I've been single for over five years, I want to date again, but I struggle with confidence issues and it feels like the easiest thing would be to date one of these black girls, but I don't want to because I don't feel enough attraction. How do I resolve this?
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>>17880981
Too bad OP, maybe try bleaching your skin.
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If you don't like them, don't match with them. Simple as that. People have their preferences.
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Bite the bullet and have sex with one. You'll probably like it.
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Someone help guide me through the internet shitfest of false promises and products to restore my foreskin /adv/.
>Cut as baby
>relatively loose skin, can pull it up a little over my head when hard
>head dry and desensitized as fuck
Most internet solutions are weird products that probably have fake reviews, so does anyone know a legitimate product or method to restoring your foreskin? Don't care how long it takes, and I'm pretty dedicated to the idea as an experiment.
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>>17880967
Its a meme
Why would you want that nasty shit
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>>17880967
you might be able to find a doctor that will do foreskin restoration surgery, but idk why you'd subject yourself to more dick surgery. the damage is done, just learn to live with it
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>>17881011
Not wanting surgery, there's a ton of methods to restoring it via stretching, I just want to weed out the horse shit scams
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The love of my life just broke up with me a week from today. I'm 22 and she's 20. We had been together since March of 2015. We took an art class together at uni and I asked her out about half way through the semester. We went on a couple dates and ended up dating pretty quickly. I fell hard for this girl and she did for me. I was her first love. She didn't believe in true love until she met me. In August of 2015 I took her virginity, so we grew even closer. We were inseperable.
She was always at my apartment. She practically lived there. The whole relationship was perfect. She wasn't like other girls (a cliché I know but it's 100% true) she wasn't promiscuous and is incredibly rational. She didn't cause drama for no reason like most other girls do. I never knew a girl like her could even exist. She didn't like to go out to bars or party (same as me) and she was perfectly ok with just staying inside with each other. We're both introverts and are extremely awkward in social situations. I was ready to spend the rest of my life with this girl. We never fought or anything.
There were only 2 occasions where she sat me down and had to talk about my attitude towards myself. I've been taking antidepressants since I was 14. I've always had a pretty negative attitude towards myself. It made her upset that I was so critical of myself, minimizing my accomplishments and maximizing my failures. I promised to work on it. She kept saying i should go to therapy but i thought that was a dumb idea. Our relationship resumed as normal but I honestly didn't change things too much. I regret that now. During the past month she has been pushing me more to go to therapy, I told her I wanted to focus on finals and that we could discuss it with my parents once we were home for the holidays. She agreed to this request.
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Last week she came over after I had not seen her for a week since she went home to her family after finals and she had strep throat. Everything seemed perfectly normal until she brought up therapy again and we shortly discussed it. I told her I didn't really feel it would help as I do not trust therapists and don't think they actually help. She began crying and told me we were breaking up. I was blindsided. I never would have thought that this could even possibly happen. I admitted that before I hadn't put as much effort as I could have in changing my attitude and that this time I would give 100%. I even said I would go to therapy if that's what it would take. She said it shouldnt take this situation to get me to change. She said it wasn't fair to her to feel the way she does. She said that this week apart she started seeing all of the things that she couldn't see since we spent so much time together. All throughout this she kept telling me she loved me and held me tight. She would brush my hair and act the same as if we were still dating.
I didn't want to beg her to stay since that wouldn't be fair to her. I did however ask for a final chance which she refused. There was nothing I could do. She left and I haven't stopped crying since. I have no idea how to deal with this. I will NEVER find another girl like her, it's just not possible. After sifting through the garbage pool of girls at uni filled with promiscuous degenerates and liars, I found the girl of my dreams. She's absolutely beautiful and pure, and I used to be able to call her my own. I just don't know what to do. I told my group of close friends and they invited me to hang out to try to get over it all, so I'll be drinking myself to death later tonight but after that who knows. I was fine on my own before her, but now that I've met my other half, there's no going back to regular everyday life without her. I'm devastated. Yeah it sounds bitchy and melodramatic but it is what it is.
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Also, my parents and several other people asked within the past month if I thought that she was the one. Of course I told them all yes, but now this happens. I was so sure nothing could possibly happen and that our relationship was airtight. I was so horribly wrong and now I don't know what to do.
Now I just want to try to get better and just put everything into my schoolwork for my last semester (I graduate in spring) and better myself just for me, but it's the beginning of winter break and I have nothing to keep me occupied and take my mind off of this... how do I even manage?
I still wholeheartedly believe she's the one, and I know she still loves me, but idk what the fuck to do anymore. I've started therapy and I've let her know that but she won't respond
We had already bought each other Christmas gifts so I made a christmas card and wrote a long ass heartfelt note appologizing, telling her everything I love about her, and telling her everything that I'm changing . I plan on dropping it off at her place along with her gift to maybe open the (metaphorical) door. After that I don't know what else I could possibly do besides work on myself and hope she comes around but fuck me it hurts worse than anything I've ever gone through
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Don't go to a therapist. Go to a psychiatrist. It's not bad like it sounds. I went through a similar situation as yours losing the girl of my dreams. We were dating and then one day she told me we needed to talk and that she was actually in love with my best friend all along. She left me for my best friend. I lost her and that friend, who turned out to be the shittiest friend of all time.
Anyways, my psychiatrist helped. I can honestly say my psychiatrist, with my effort and free will, changed my life. I'm so much better off now. I feel amazing every day. And he's one of my best friends. I have no idea where you're located, but his name is Dr. Steven Schane. The man changed my life. Highly recommend a psychiatrist, OP. It wouldn't hurt to put the girl out of your mind, get yourself better, the best version of you that you didn't even know was in you, and then go get her back, feeling like a king.
Because of how I treated it when I was younger, before I knew better, my vagina is really messed up. Should I consider vaginal surgery to make it normal and tight again, or just resign to it being messed up?
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What did you do to your vagina to "mess it up"?
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>>17880902
pics plz
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>>17880902
pics?
It can't be that bad.
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I kind of feel like I should check out of society.
I'm a registered sex offender, I don't have a degree. I'm virtually unhirable and working at McDonald's at the moment just barely paying off $7k worth of debt.
I slap my dick to Lolicon Hentai, I'm a fucking filthy degenerate, and my conversion to Catholicism has really only made me realize just how absolutely worthless I am to society as a whole. But since I slap my dick to loli shit and am a registered sex offender I can't just become a celibate monk and check the fuck out of society. I mean, I might be able to do that if I go to a 3rd world country and try and join a monastery there.
Seriously though, what the fuck do I do? I tried therapy to fix this loli shit and all they did was go, "You know this is wrong, as long as you know and continue to NOT act upon it, everything should be fine.", which is some bullshit liberal nonsense. I'm a god damn monster at this point. I tried to meet up with a 16 year old for sex and it turned out to be a cop. So while there's no victim there's still all the pieces of the shit storm.
TL;DR, I'm a piece of shit, but I can't kill myself because I'd be denied heaven [which I feel like I don't deserve anyway but by the glory of god... y'know the rest]. What the fuck do I do now? How do I make this better?
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Easy
Just kill yourself
Bam - problem solved
It's just that easy
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>>17880891
Stop believing in fairy tales to hold onto hope of some kind of "forgiveness" when you die
It ain't gonna happen
Suicide literally is the easiest way out
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>>17880891
maybe look into putting yourself in risky situations where you are likely to die. that way it can like technically be an accident and you can go to heaven.
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i only feel good when i am selling lots of heroin and fucking hookers. otherwise life just doesn't really do it for me. however i am starting to feel bad for my mom as i am such a disappointing piece of shit. but also if i kill myself i am sure she will be sad then too. what the fuck should i do!?!?
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1. sell heroin and fuck bitches
2. lie to your mom and pretend your in the "import/export" business
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>>17880882
tru thx
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change heroin to weed and ruin less peoples lives
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I'm trying to understand why I'm such and asocial depressive romantic failure and was wondering whether political extremism could be associated with some sort of personality disorder.
From the start of being politically aware I've been very polarized from normal political discourse and have adopted extreme ideologies after different ideological realignments.
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everyone thinks you are a sick fuck that is all lol
and nobody wants a sick fuck
do as i do and keep your ideas for yourself
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>>17880862
What ideologies? We talking fascism? or communism? Or something that begins with 'anarcho' and is therefore entirely moronic?
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>>17880987
Not going to do years since it's funny but it spans about 5 years.
Starts at 14 when I become politically conscious and up to now which is 2 months shy of 20.
Free software ideology
Mix of above/libertarianism
Libertarianism
Anarcho-capitalist libertarianism
More right wing leaning ancapism, rationalize certain roles for the state, ie restrict immigration
Lose the libertarianism become center left on economics and basically strongly right wing, fascistic, and more racist thinking today, but no coherent ideology.
When I was younger I had strong ideological consistency and enjoyed becoming more radical as a mental exercise. Now I still have radical views but from an amalgam of sources and mix ideas from conflict ideologies and am much more pragmatic.
And yeah I voted for Donald Trump, twice.