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What ways can I be romantic and spontaneous? Got a great thing going with this girl, but I'm deathly afraid I'll bore her eventually. Preferably specific ideas or plans. Typical shit like "take her on an adventure" isn't all that helpful, even if it means well.
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suck her dick in the morning to wake her up
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Learn how to the dance salsa with her... or waltz...
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>>17882917
gay
this is the stuff that women say they want, but everyone knows that would actually be a huge turnoff.
>>17882897
does she have a dick? If so, suck it.
otherwise try and buy her nice stuff, a nice looking watch or jewlery when she doesnt expect it, try and get reservations at an expensive resturaunt every now and then.
if being 'spontaneous and romantic' isnt part of your personality then you're going to have to use money. It's not really something you can fake.

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i have this liberal friend i cant stand anymore
he is always bringing up politics even tho he has 0 idea of what he is talking about and if you disagree with him he gets really fucking mad and starts yelling and then complains about how im always talking about politics even tho i know how to keep my mouth shut and he doesnt and nobody else ever complains about me bringing it up
like we are hanging out and he brings up how its unfair for black women to be portrayed as ugly all the time becase nobody wants them and i tell him that people are attracted to what they are attracted because attraction is biological and has nothing to do with wath tv shows and he says that trends change and i tell him trends do change but human nature doesnt and he says fat women used to be seen as attractive and i tell him i heard that a lot but have never seen evidence and he says french women wore those big dresses and i tell him they wore them so it made them look less fat and also wore this shit that compresse their bodies and then he starts with there is a study where black kids got to choose the bad guy in pictures nd they always chose the black guy and i tell him that first of all it has shit to do with anything, those studies are bullshit and maybe they see other black people as bad because theylive nearblack criminals in poor areas and he looses his shit and i want to go away and next week we have the same fucking argument and he keps adding shit he reads in this ssinine magazine for "intelectuals"
honestly i cant take it anymore, the fact that i remember this shit perfectly by now is worrying. how do i make him stop?
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why are you friends with him? Sounds like he has some sort of autism.
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"blah blah yeah but Hillary.."

"bro listen, I'm not interested in talking to you about this"

"pff, alright, whatever"
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>>17882896
Just LOOK at the OP, it seems mutual.

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How do I POLITELY ask someone why she doesn't use facial expressions?

I know her face isn't paralysed or anything, she CAN smile, but it looks really fake, she just doesn't make faces. Happy, sad, scared, tired, it's always the same face.
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We've been dating for two months and she even does it during sex.
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>>17882838
If it's someone you know well just ask after you're doing something together and don't be overly serious about it.

If it's someone you barely know, asking it always can be interpreted as rude. She might be really self conscious about it.
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>>17882900
>doesn't use facial expressions during sex
Jesus, I am jelly.

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I broke a person down for no real reason other than because I could, not expecting any real result. I broke them down and felt a sort of rush, built them back up, broke them down again and felt the same rush. It was almost intoxicating, it felt like a drug, what is this phenomenon called (other than being an asshole)? This was something different that I've never felt before and I'm having trouble describing it.
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sadism

but the bad one, some people are okay hurting physically, you get it by hurting other psicologically, go to therapy or kill yourself and make the world a favor
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>>17882823
>>17882847
/thread
You're probably a sadistic sociopath. Go and seek therapy, and leave that person the fuck alone.
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>>17882847
>>17882854
Thank you, kind doctors. What would explain the fact that this is an isolated incident? I've "psciologically" hurt others before; it was petty and unpleasant. I'm already contacting psychiatrists, regardless, I'd love to hear your thoughts on the matter at hand.

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I like anime but I'm not a weeaboo.

How can I do this and get along with anitwitter/my other weeb friends?
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I think you are stuck between some middle ground because you know how pathetic weebs are but you want some normality in your life. Either go all out weeb and make other weeb friends or you could be normal and keep anime as a guilty pleasure.
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>>17882785
It's more like all the weebs nowadays are ironic/selfaware and are pretty shitty/obnoxious people overall

I like anime a lot but I have the people who watch it
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>>17882766
Anime is becoming more and more of like a semi norm thing I just got out if high school and a majority of everybody there has seen some anime and would occasionally talk about it (I'm in the United States) so anon just watch it like it and don't change anything as long as you don't go weeb with it nobody would care

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Guys I need some help and I need someone to tell this story to

Simply speaking, I'm in love with my best friend's girlfriend, she is like a perfect match for me, she is absolutely beautiful, she has an amazing voice and I love absolutely everything about her.

My friend has been in a relationship with her for a year and a half, but he's been out of the country for more than a year, the last time she saw him was in august.

I am very close with her, and I know that I hold a very special place in her heart, she is very conscious of my opinion about her, I am very jealous of her around other guys and a week ago I got very mad at her and told her that I was mad at her and very disappointed in her, she really took that to heart, she even told me she cried because of that.

When talking to her I very often tell her that I love her, like a direct "I love you" or "I love you so much" and so on and she always replies with I love you too, she calls me her brother, and that I'm as important to her as her boyfriend (my friend), when I'm alone with her, I'm in constant physical contact with her, most of the time I have my hand on her shoulder and sometimes I hug her very warmly, I have kissed her cheek a few times, it has become a more often occurence as of late, like even when sitting in a bus I'll tell her to let me kiss her, she brings her cheek forward and smiles when I do.

I have been having trouble getting her out of my head, soon I might get a girlfriend a girl from college, but my friend's gf always seems like a goal for me, a final destination, for lack of better words.

I compliment her very often, I tell her that she's beautiful, her voice is very pleasing to my ears and her laughter is the cutest, when I compliment her she gets shy and happy, starts denying what I say but still gets very happy when I say such things to her.

So what I need of you is to just ask me some questions, help me vent, just tal me through this all...

Sorry for the wall of text
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If that boyfriend was around I'm pretty sure he would already be fucking mad at you for kissing her on the cheek. It's quite clear you have no respect for the brocode so why don't you just go for it? From what it looks like you are headed in the right direction so keep it up.
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>>17882765
decide whos more valuable to you the girl or the boy. because either side will not be speaking to you after you choose one.
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Don't you have any respect for your friend?

Anyway, if she calls you her brother it's not a good sign. Girls say 'I love you' a lot more often than men, to family, friends, friendzoned men, boyfriends, pets etc. It doesn't have the same weight behind it as when a man says it.

Treating women like 'goals' will get you nowhere.

Also, what did she do to 'disappoint' her?

i have a month until school starts and i have no fucking idea what i want to do and i usually dont have anything to do except hang out with boys or eat mcdonalds so give me ideas. im tired of playing stupid video games with smurfs.
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>>17882745
Read. Watch films. Work out. Make yourself into a good person. Also, are you Australian? Because our school starts in a month too.
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>>17882745
Get fucking fit you lazy wanker.
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>>17882745
>hang out with boys
dont go to school. just get pregnant. what's the worst that can happen?

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Strange question but how do I last LESS time in bed? Women usually enjoy longer sessions, but I'm currently dating a man and by the time he cums twice I'm barely getting to my first but. He tries to help me finish, but it's not the same when you're not in the same horny mood. I've always taken 30+ minutes and I'd like to reduce that to half if possible. Uncut if it matters
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>>17882732
Women don't really enjoy it. If it gets past the 30 minute mark, it's getting boring. We just fake it. It starts to hurt and gets tedious.

Anyway, if you're a guy, why don't you ask /lgbt/?
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>>17882844
racist
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Why not just do heavy foreplay? Get him to edge you a bunch then have sex

>>17882844
You're retarded

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I met a girl online. We talked for a little bit, maybe a week or so, then we planned on meeting in person. Today was that day. We went to the movies and the mall and had lots of fun. By the end of the date we simply hugged and said goodbye. I guess it wasn't much of a date, more like just hanging out, but low-key date...
I might ask her if she wants to do something again soon. Like a second date, or a first, if you don't consider what we did a date (she doesn't)
We're both inexperienced when it comes to relationships and dating and anything related.
Any advice someone with more experience could give me for a second/first-ish date?
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Still no replies?
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>>17883090
No one here has dating experience
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>>17883100
Lmfao that makes sense

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Is it okay to break up a family? The woman I love is married with a kid, but she isn't happy and I am love with her as said, should I intervene?
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>>17882664

>Is it okay to break up a family? The woman I love is married with a kid, but she isn't happy and I am love with her as said, should I intervene?

No. The innocent child caught in the middle of this is more important than you being in love.
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>>17882668
Fair enough. But I can easily afford to take care of her rug rat and even be a good role model/father figure to it.
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The father works retail for minimum wage for fucks sake

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this guy i'm really close with always says how he cares about me and likes me but he has a girlfriend. he tells everyone how much he loves her and would never hurt her but he says he has feelings for me. i really like him, what should i do?
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>>17882650
Consider that if they break up and he gets with you:
Would he do the same to you?
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>>17882650
>>17882650

Don't hang around with a dude who publicly declares one thing, but then says things like that in private to you?

You may not be the first, or the only, one that he says that stuff to.

Generally people who are shopping around for booty while they're already in a relationship are selfish enough as it is. Don't need to add to the amount of hearts they've broken.
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How are you really close with him if his gf is around? Does she know about you?

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http://www.npr.org/sections/thetwo-way/2016/12/22/506629695/trump-team-asks-state-dept-to-name-those-working-on-gender-equality

is there anything a concerned citizen can do? like wtf is this shit. looks like he's planning to gut the EPA and fire every member of the state department who's pushed for women's rights and LGBT equality. or something bad. he could fire them all under the guise of cutting federal spending.

all speculation, some of it wild. but it doesn't take a genius to see the way things are headed. do his cabinet picks not scare the fuck out of anyone else? does no one care that women's reproductive rights, civil rights, and the fucking environment are being threatened?

what can i do.
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>>17882579
if you are not albert Einstein, nothing. Aka be smart as fuck.
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>>17882579
I'm not American, but it seems all overblown. Relax.
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>stop freaking out
>The Gays(tm), muslims, and PoC will not be rounded up like the MSM claims
>your life will not drastically change during the next 4 years
at the end of the day you will still be able to work, go to school, and put food on your table

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How attached should brothers and sisters be? Me and my brother are very close to each other, often go to take dinner together, go shopping, do book readings, art projects, play vidya, all the jazz, we're really close. Hell we're acting more like a couple than actual real couples.
We're also cursed social fuckups both of us, forever single and we moved together in rent. We only really have one another and nobody else in this world. If you wouldn't know, you'd say were a married couple or something.
Does my brother think the same way as I do? He never once hinted at anything uncomfortable.

I never meant incest, but actually how close should we be, normally speaking?
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It's fine. The only issue you will have is other people. People will always like to assume the worst.
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>>17882577
Don't think about what you should, think about how you feel. It's your life and your only one on top of that, so do you want to make the best of it, or let others' potential prejudice tell you how to spend your limited time?
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>>17882577
Do it. Fuck him. No harm can come from consanguinity.

I have no friends and it fucking sucks. I literally dont even need a phone and havent received a text message in 6 months. My family hasnt talked to me in years. Im pretty sure nobody would even find out if i killed myself. What do?
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Meditate
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>>17882580
Yeah thats a good option forsure. And im certainly in touch with my spiritual side a bit. Its just when im not meditating and i realize how fucking alone i am and how nobody likes my company or my interests i just feel so fucking isolated. like im in solitary confinement. I have gone weeks without talking before because thats how little interaction i really get.
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Get some friends my dude. Be social and go out. Hell, I'll he your friend

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What happens if you wear braces for over a year and dont visit an orthodontist? I have an appointment on the 12. and i am fucking scared.

A bracket is missing, some rubbers too and my teeth are worse than they have ever been.

Can it still be fixed or am i fucked?
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Should be fine they'll know what to do about it.

It's what they do all day after all.

Why havent you had any checkups? Mine are for an upcoming surgery I've had them adjusted every month for a year now.
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>>17882578
Because my mother stopped paying and lied to me for over a year. She even went as far to fake papers and phonecalls. I always had appointments that had been canceled last minute. Shit was fucking suspicious for a while now but i didn't had the courage to find out if it was true. I finally did.

Now i am doing everything myself, but i really dont know if its not too late.

I have heard someone say that if the teeth move to far away from their original place its not possible anymore to bring them back.

I am so fucking scared how am i supposed to wait 3 weeks for the fucking appointment
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>>17882600
At worst youll need surgery but thats really really unlikely because braces are meant to keep stuff in place. They are more effective at stopping movement than retainers that's why they're so effective.

I pay for all my own orthodontics just tell them you want to take over the treatment yourself.

They'll probably fix them and tell you what kind of adjustments they're going to do over a few weeks or months to bring them back into place.

You seem really worried. Unless it's infected and your teeth are falling out there's not really any reason to worry. I just tell myself someone always has a worse jaw in my orthodontic place.

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