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>>17879955

Oh, you mean to people in your life, right? Not to a potential partner?

Are we talking family? Coworkers? What?

>>17879963
Yeah, sorry it wasn't too clear. Friends and coworkers.
Family doesn't care too much and I don't see them too often anyway.

>>17879955

>for obvious reasons

if the reasons were obvious your friends and family wouldn't have to ask. whats the reason?

Dear gf
Long distance relationships don't work I'm leaving you
Love anon

>>17879948
Das stupid
she's coming to visit next week and we're gonna have lots of sex
sayin dat'd be stoopid

>>17879929
Reported

>>17879918
Eat these mushrooms

Woke me up inside, made me finish uni, got a gd, house, job.

Best thing i ever did. Try hallucinogens and stop being a child

>>17879918

>dont be afraid to call a nigger a nigger
-my boss

Never discuss your political stances or how much money you make with your friends or family.

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>>17879911

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>>17879922
thats it 4/4

any advice? i would like her back in my life but theres no chance im having any relationship with her when hes with him, that includes friendship. Should i play hardball and not respond frequently or what? thanks.

http://vocaroo.com/i/s0InTxXj97vs
tell her these exact words

>>17879901
If it happens then she wasn't the one.

What's happening is you're sensing things are going wrong, and what you have to do is dump her, before she dumps you.

If she's feeling on the fence about your relationship, YOU dumping HER will be a huge shock. She will be completely taken by surprise. It will reaffirm her love and need for you.

You're sensing you might get dumped soon, it's always better to be in the position of the dumper. If you dump her, it's super easy to get her back. Waaaaay easier than if she dumps you.

Trust me, it works. Play it cool, just say "I think we should take a break, focus on ourselves for a little while." or "I think we should just be friends."

Everything is going to be ok you're way over thinking this just go out and talk to women yes you'll be rejected by some but some will like you. You really just have to go out and try

>>17879900
Thank you man. I guess what I fear most is missing out on these great women because I'm too inexperienced, too shy... when really only I am to blame for my failure not her general disinterest, you know?

>>17879896

Listen, step one is going out of your comfort zone. Is it hard? Of course it is, but you gotta find a way to do it.

Your life is in your hands. Make it what you want it to be.

Why would you tell this girl to fuck off and claim no one likes her? From what I can tell she's done nothing wrong. Are you mad bc she shared nudes and didn't send to you?

>>17879842
Be excellent to each other

>>17879854
because everyone, both guys and girls that know her don't like her. because she's a legitimate cartoon character who thinks everything's a game. she tries to make everything loud, exciting and fun.


and i don't like people, like her, who claim to be little angels that are perfect. she has no self worth, so why should i want worthless pictures of her. i have a perfectly fine girlfriend, i just don't want to be around a cumstain, ya damn retard.

Jiu jitsu lessons hell get in one fight and never be bullied again

>>17879837

>>17879837
thx... is taking taekwondo. But as a parent I don't know what to do in short term. best would be a reaction, making the bullyie task less easy

>>17879827
Why bother, I doubt you will ever use the extra inches

If it was possible you'd have heard about it and everyone would have mandingos in their pants
Theres a million memes but their all just memes

The answer is yes, but people who know and have practiced them will say no because they don't want to go back to being average or below average, again, as a result of it becoming common, nor do they want to go through the effort of continuing it to maintain their size advantage in a cold arms race.

You work to have money to live you don't live to work. It's no big deal to take time off work

>>17879798
I just feel so guilty, especially since I'm quiet at work and tend to keep to myself rather than engage in gossip and so on. I feel like I'm being a punk kid or ungrateful for taking advantage of the holiday period to extend my holidays.

>>17879788
I met someone who was like this before. They had days off each year that they never ended up taking. I lost all respect for them due to this.

go for it, i'm sure there won't be any regrets :^)

>>17879785
Both of these are doable as for worth it that depends on how much you care about leg function. You won't be able to be an athlete after either of these surgeries if that's what you're asking

>>17879805
Yes but it doesn't limit normal walking or jogging right?

maybe you produce more hormones or something while he's with you.

I put oats in a food processor till they're dust and add some water and lemon there and mix everything evenly, it works wonders for me

>>17879736
I doubt that, didn't happen with my ex with oily skin
My current guy used to have acne like a year ago
I can erase the acne easily with magnesium milk, it just bothers me that I have to keep doing this after I see him

He stresses you out.
That you had something you believed to be acne stresses you out and gave you more acne.
Now that you're not on the hunt for someone, you're not taking as good care of your hygiene/appearance.
Now that you're trying to impress someone and hide your flaws you're caking your makeup on too much.
Something about your diet has changed because of him, maybe you're eating foods you weren't before.

Could be lots of factors. Figure out what's new with you and try to isolate the cause and remove it.

>>17879724
Yeah, dating a guy.

>>17879727
I wanna be straight. I'm currently dating a girl, but I still fap to homo stuff here and there. I'm more into women then men. But I want my urges to disappear for good

>>17879724
Bump are there any mental treatments to make me straight

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I've been dropped by a girl already for not owning a car lol so i guess it's right to not look for anyone the next 4 years.
Want to hear opinions

>>17879720

i think the issue is you're thinking of it as a 'search'. that leads to, at best, settling for the first reasonable person to say 'yes' to you. then two years later the relationship isn't working and you can't figure out where it all went wrong. it was wrong to begin wtih.

dating is something you should want to do because a particular person inspires those feelings for you. but you are wanting to just date, like its picking outa toaster and going out to see which ones you can afford.

you got 12 hours a day at uni. most girls in your position are perfectly understanding, they dont think 'WOW YOU'RE IN THE EXACT SAME POSITION AS ME WHAT A FUCKING LOSER TROLOLOL IM GONNA GO DATE CHAD'

if you find someone that strikes your fancy, then go ahead and hit on them. worst case scenario, nothing happens and you're still single.

but if you refuse to approach a girl cuz 'i dont have a car so she'll say no' then you might miss out on a girl you actually like who didn't even have a problem with your situation to be gin with.

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>>17879738
> most girls in your position are perfectly understanding
Wish they did bro.
I do not think of it as a search, i just meant that i may just drop my feelings at the very moment i get them, to not even think about the possiblity of it, just to think that noone would accept me. Which has happened to be true.
>then you might miss out
>might
I just don't want to lose more time already in girls that most probably will reject, but thanks anyway.
You made really good points

>>17879707

a few things

its not as bad as it seems. most people arent all that aware of what you're doing. most say they have a 'plan' but they dont really. what they have is a goal and no way to reach it.

you see people and THINK they have a good sense of self but you dont actually know that. you dont know whats going on in your head, and spoiler alert: its the same stuff going on in your head. I'm, the most well put together young adult i know and yet im still questioning everything and have no idea what im actually doing. you are human, just as much as anyone else. keep in mind that humans are not all on the same path. you didnt have your life on pause. you just had a different path. you might be miles ahead of someone else. or imles behind. but there is no way of knowing cuz there are no signs telling you where you're at.

>what can i do to enjoy the rest of my twenties

what do you WANT to do?

>do i need a role model or a mentor

not necessarily. copying someone wont get the same results. we have different personalities for a reason. one man is fulfilled by running businesses, others are fulfilled by being the assistant. i manage a business but get paid less than many assistants. ive been offered higher paying assistant gigs, but turn them down because my need above all else is to be in charge and in control, and to love what i do. and i love my job even if it pays pennies compared to just assisting somewhere else. that is my need.

and other people have different needs. they need less stress, more solid rules and boundaries that they can play with in, and a handsome paycheck to tell them its worth it.

one is not necessarilly better than the other. and you, like everyone, fall somewhere unique on that spectrum of needs, not just in work but everywhere in life.

tell us how old you are, what you do for work / study, things you enjoy, favorite forms of entertainment, something you're good at (Even if its stupid, tell us).

tell us about you.

>>17879729
Thank a lot man, just reading this made me think a lot actually. Can I ask you how you came your kind of mindset?

I'm going to be 25 soon and I work an office job, I really like comedy in general and drawing/writing dumb cartoons haha.

My life has been very stressful up until recently, but now I feel like I'm free for the first time but don't know what to do with the freedom.

>>17879902

glad i could help man.

>how you came your kind of mindset?

im not really sure to be honest. i feel like it was just the logical way to think about things. its probably a cohesive thought process, influenced by many many things in life. but its just me. i think a lot of it might have to be my boss, he has a lot of wisdom and i feel i learned and grew a lot because of him these last two years.

>25 in office job

i am 24 in an office job as well, twinsies.

>drawing/writing dumb cartoons

me too, though i cant draw myself so i have to work with artists, and i tend to focus more on dramatic stuff as opposed to striaght up comedy.

>freedom what do

whatever you want man. its hard to say what you're lacking cuz you don't really go into much detail. you sound like you're jsut where everyone else with. keep in mind that finding yourself is an ongoing process. i hae 'found myself' many many many many many many many times. anyone who makes an effort to find themselves will do it a lot. and there is no single graduation process.

its a lot like education itself. it never stops. you move up in the years, and then promote from grade to middle, then middle to high, then high to uni, and even when you graduate uni you still continue to learn by doing. self discovery is a lot like that. you can get a paper handed to you saying 'you found yourself' and thats great, but you're just going to do it again in a year or two.

and thats okay. were meant to constantly change and grow and evolve, so finding yourself is really more of defining yourself and setting up your life around yourself everytime the changes come along.

what do you do with these comics you draw?