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Explain this shit to me normies

>person A needs services/product/etc
>person B provides whatever it is person A needs
>person A compensates person B for whatever the fuck it was he/she provided

Where exactly does either of these two people justify that they're entitled to other things from the other such as free time, conversation, etc if the other isn't have it?
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If Person B makes a profession of this service, it's in Person B's best interest to do whatever it takes to make sure Person A is satisfied. Word of mouth is a big deal, and people fucking love to complain.
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>>17883553
You're thinking about this wrong
>Person A has resource A and wants the best deal they can get
>Person B has resource B and wants the best deal they can get
>As long as the deal is favorable to person A and B, they should make it
In other words, if someone wants some conversation and you're still getting a good deal, go ahead and give it to them; who cares. If you're not, tell them you can't make that deal because it's ass, and they can either accept it or fuck off
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>>17883553
Because people enjoy being treated in a friendly manner, all things the same, people will choose the salesperson that they had the 2 minute small talk that asked about their kids to the guy who strictly talked about business

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My ex and I have been on and off for about a month because he repeatedly cheats on me, after I took him back he did it again about a week ago and I broke things off. I've always had a little crush on one of his friends, and asked a mutual friend of ours to talk to him and see if he's interested. The mutual friend later told me to go for it. Asked him to hang out today, he said yes, then never answered me. Did I misread the situation? >pic related
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>>17883445
He's saying "maybe, if i do i will tell you when"
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>>17883445
Question op why did he ask you if you want to hangout then you replied 3 days later igoring him
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>>17883657
Exactly. Op fucking ignored him.

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Whenever my girlfriend is upset me she'll either say "we're breaking up" or say "DONT EVER TALK TO ME AGAIN"

But she never actually means it. How do I respond whenever she does this should I stop taking it seriously. I don't want to beta and apologize especially because I never did anything wrong.
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'bye Felicia'
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Walk right out the door and don't answer your phone until she chills the fuck out. Give it a day or two.
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Play along. Stop being a pussy, if she meant it you should just go anyway, and if she didn't, it will be left for her to crawl to you apologizing

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I can't tell what this guy is saying, but I'm pretty sure he's just saying I'm a dumb child.
"Falacia de laguna de exposición, video muy mal realizado.
Este niño no brilla recisamente por su inteligencia"
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>>17883391
google translate faggot
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>>17883394
Sucked, that's why I'm here.
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Falacia de laguna de exposición, video muy mal realizado
I don't understand the first part, i'm taco, however
video muy mal realizado= Really bad done video
Este niño no brilla recisamente por su inteligencia= This child is not bright due to it's intellence exactly

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I've, against better judgement, have started to like this girl I know. My friend liked her, and she said "she doesnt want to date anyone right now" and left him hanging. She even has said the same thing to another person who she actually liked. Another monkey wrench is that she said she is purposely being cold and dickish to people to sell that she doesnt want to date. What do I do?
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>>17883377
Well, is she cold and dickish to you? If not, go for it and if she says no, you'll just get over her
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>>17883377
No means no. Faggot
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>>17883389
She used to be but now we have become friends it seems. I just don't want to become laughing stock like my friend, or get her ego any bigger, as she has had many people confess to her

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Are there any good locations in the US for short Indians trying to get dates?
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Southern California?
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>>17883345
I've heard that you have to have it all in California. Girls apparently have a mission to get a rich, tall, white, and attractive man. Makes me want to stay out of there.
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>>17883364
Any other ideas?

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I hate other women, how I fix this?
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>>17883273
victoria when she was a teen goth porn model
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>>17883273
>>17883273

By not saving Facebook posts of dumb people, women specifically?
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>>17883273
Welcome to being a woman. You will always hater other women for being prettier, smarter, having a better looking man, having bigger tits, nicer hair or just generally because you feel like being bitter and cunty.

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>get little to no action on dating sites
>get depressed because this means I am basically undesirable unless I drastically change my appearance and personality
>Don't bother to just quit and come back once I an less uggo and just continue making minor tweaks in the hopes of being noticed
>continue to get further into depression

How the fuck do I just stop paying attention to this kind of bullshit so that I can move on in live and learn to accept that I will probably die a virgin who never had a gf?
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>>17883122
Don't mind it senpai

The important thing is that you try. That you get yourself out there. That you let girls know you're available and your interested in doing stuff. No matter how little the effort as long as you get the message out it all adds up.
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>prefers to die a virgin instead of drastically changing appearence and personality
>applied darwinism
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>>17883122
>wanting a gf
trust me, in this day and age, you don't want it

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This lass complimented me saying;

"you're cute, you're friendly, you're charming, you're intelligent, you're gentlemanly, I love it!"

And then said;

"you're the type of guy I'd want to be with"

Does she want me to make a move?
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>>17883077
Yes she does you stupid cunt. FUCK!
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why does she ignore me some days and then talk fine on others tho?
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>>17883094
Because she is as shy as you. Or busy. Or didn't see you. FUCK!

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Ugly as fuck, cringy voice, nerdy, never had gf, never kissed a girl and bad at everything

Any advice on how to get gf.
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Same boat here, I think we should give up on dating.
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I can't even bring myself to talk to girls whenever I try I just end up stuttering and mumbling

May as well
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I just wish I could stop caring. Like, there's no reason I need to ever be with anyone. I don't NEED to experience romance to live a fulfilling life.
But I really WANT it. If I could just turn that off and be comfortable as a solitary asexual nomad for the rest of my life, I'd be made in the shade.

>You have to put yourself out there
>You have to stop looking
>One day it'll just happen
This is starting to sound like immense bullshit. Like people really want to tell me "you're fucking unlovable, get used to being alone" but they don't have the heart to be straight with me.

I'm enough of a realist to assume that I'm never going to find anyone, but I'm also enough of an optimist to hold out hope. So my life is going nowhere and I'm just stuck in this unending cycle of loneliness and disappointment.

I wish I could get out, one way or another.

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I'm asking this just in case there is any sport medical docs lingering here and not /fit/. Im squatting 410 pounds for 2 reps and I notice I have bad pain in my right eye when I do so. Could heavy lifting cause glaucoma?
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It's a retina rep reaction, you need to do 3 reps if you want to leave humanity behind, c'mon
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>>17883001
stop lifting NOW

and see a doctor as soon as possible

else your eye will pop explode

seriously
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Dunno what OP's medical problem is, but ten years ago I had to be operated on to stop my retina from detaching. I check back with an eye specialist every year and he said I shouldn't lift heavy things or spend time upside down (yoga for example) because it will stress my eyes to the point of damage.

So STOP lifting weight, and I know doctors aren't free in America, but you need to see get your eye as check. Try an optometrist at an eye glasses shop first, they can do more than measure out glasses prescriptions.

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I'm house sitting and somehow the cat keeps getting out despite no doors being open. This time she's gone and she hasn't come in for a while. I've left the door open and she has food waiting but still hasn't come in... what's the best way to get a cat that's not yours to come back?
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Put litter tray near door, shake food packet
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>>17883011
I've shaken her food... why would a litter tray near the door help?
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>>17883056
The piss can be smelt from some way away, and is recognizable to the kitty, any luck?

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I'm interested in getting a job at bartending. I currently have a full-time job at a hardware store. I get paid $8/hr and have worked there for 2 1/2 years. A few pros about the job: it keeps constant non-changing hours, I get holidays off, and I learn as I work. The cons? No outlook to any raise anytime soon, boss wants to cut hours in the future, and just being disinterested in learning anything there now. The one I am interested in will be opening New Years Eve, offering $9/hr from 4 to 12 PM on weekdays and Saturday 4 to 2 AM. I'll be starting off as a barback but can work my way up to a bartender.

My problem with this is that I feel like I will regret making this decision. Maybe the hours and payment are a lie to get me to work with them. They don't know I work full-time and they don't know I get paid the amount I do, so they are not bribing me with that. I also feel like it will be a very shitty job in general and I will be treated badly. If it's important, I've had four jobs total and am 22 years old.

And yes, I have considered working both jobs and refuse to do so. Working 8 AM to midnight nonstop does not sound fun.

So, help me please. Am I being paranoid? Should I stop being worried? What would you do?
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Bumping before I get groceries.
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>>17882967
Bartender here, I never leave work without $300+ a night


Do it. It's worth a shot
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id say take it for the learning experience, you'll learn the ins and outs of that first then move on up if you show incentive
also you mentioned it was a new place,so im sure they will train you from the get go
starting as a barback isn't so bad and most likely you'll be making some extra tips along with the bartenders
if you're serious i would find a way to schedule both jobs without conflicting issues it can be done hope this helps

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How do you feel about dating someone you don't see yourself having a future with?
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So what's the point on continue seeing them? It doesn't make sense to me.
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>>17882958
What if you enjoy spending time with them but there's probably someone better for you out there?
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it depends on the definition of future.

I met a girl who was in town only til the end of summer, so we only had 4 months to date. but she was one of the better girls i had ever met so i went for it.

i personally don't see myself ever getting married, but even when i did, i didn't think about it too much. if i liked someone and we were having fun, why not just have fun. when its time to move on, you'll know.

i tend to date in 3 month cycles or less.

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I have set a goal myself this holiday season to meet at least one woman and get one phone number.

Where the fuck do I begin? I don't bar crawl or go clubbing. I don't really visit places where women could be found easily. Well I go places where women are but I am looking for a place where it wouldn't be weird to talk to women.

Also, I find it strange that I have a hard time picking out women my age. For example, I am 25 and I rarely see women my age just out doing stuff. Maybe I am bad at guessing a females age? I honestly seem to only ever see old people, people in their mid 30's with kids and shit OR girls still in high school who I don't want to mess with.

Where the fuck are all the 20 something year old females?

Also, what can I do to progress this goal?
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college
mall
thrift stores
beaches
bays
running
popular parks
library
book stores
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>>17882960
>a place where it wouldn't be weird to talk to women

>college
>library
cunt, those places are sanctuaries of education.

however, if you instead said
>college party
then you're be right
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>"You've got to put yourself out there!"
>"You've just got to stop looking and it'll happen!"

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