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Where to meet girls that are potential waifu-material (besides travelling to east asia)?
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>>17932435
What's your idea of waifu material?
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Kill yourself. Maybe you'll find a waifu in Hell. Or keep looking, and you'll find a waifu and be in Hell on Earth.
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>>17932435
I'll let you in on a secret

If you were attractive, 'waifus' would be finding you. Most people do not find dating difficult at all.

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I have a very attractive friend.

My gf asked me if we can have a threesome with him. In turn she promises we'll have a threesome with a very hot close girlfriend she has.

I'm pondering if I want to do it.

Should I do?
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Be prepared to be swapped later, without the MFF threesome. Unless you were together for a longer time and you can trust that she won't dump you just for someone with better looks.
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No. You will regret it.
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>>17932454
we've been together for 2 years

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so i had a fight with a girl and i told her i was gonna block her(out of anger) but a few days later i felt bad for doing and i want to talk to her again,but when i unblocked her she had removed me(skype), what to do?
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>>17932390
Live with your actions.
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Seriously dude? Think twice before acting with rage. You gotta carry that weigth.
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>>17932390

you can try going back & begging for more

its usually worth doing this once or twice to see what happens, she will probably laugh at you but still you need the experience

so the next time you will remember and not repeat this idiot move

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>Tfw too smart to have emotions
I will myself and will myself but I can't come to give a single shit about anyone who isn't family.
Am I just autistic?
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>>17932373
It might be a good idea to get assessed by a specialist.
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>>17932380
Assessed for what? Being a genius?
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>>17932373
>I can't come to give a single shit about anyone who isn't family
This is how most people are. It's called being a dick.

I've been seeing. Colors around people ever since I was a kid. 2 weeks ago I figured out the colors are peoples auras. As my friend was telling me. I've been noticing more since I realized I havent been seeing just red and blue out lines around people. But other colors . my friend thinks I'm psychic I mention things that I've experienced also. Like when I lived in my apartment I used to see a shell on a man walk around the place he looked like he was made of noise along with a little girl . another thing was this might sound crazy yet my dog talked to me like he litteraly talked back telepathically I thought I was making dialogue up in my head but I wasn't it just came naturally some one please help me with all of this I mean my friend is guiding me some how but how do I make sense of all of this
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You seek psychiatric help that's how
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>>17932362
>>17932533
and while you're at it go get your eyes checked.
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Theres a lot (well kinda) of people that can see auras that youre describing
Idk about the dog thing, stoners feel that too though

My gf sees energy in the trees and certain people

I wouldnt go to say its for sure a super natrual thing or forsure a medical deficiancy. I would just take it for what it is

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I have a wonderful girlfriend who loves me so much, but I'm so insecure and afraid I will ruin everything.

I have always thought I was horribly ugly and no one could ever want me or be attracted to me, and I'd always be alone. She came into my life and told me she had always fancied me, she'd stare at me and tell me that I was the most handsome man she'd ever seen. She'd look at me when we were kissing and apologize and say it was because I was turning her on so much.

I always feel like it's a lie and have gone so far as to root through her messages on her phone and laptop to find things that contradict it but I can't, she's been telling me the truth the whole time, which is great, but now I'm even more worried than ever.

Sometimes I break down and cry over silly things, and I can't be the man she fell in love with a lot of the time because I'm on the verge of tears and feel like I'm being choked. I'm so scared she will get sick of me because of this and leave me.

Recently I have been so scared because she doesn't stare at me or compliment me like she used to or stare at me when we have sex or kiss and I can't understand why. My head fills up with so many bad thoughts and I'm scared she doesn't think those things anymore, we've only been going out for like 2 months. When I kiss her it turns her on and she still initiates sex but it takes me a long time to make her orgasm and she has her eyes shut when I finger her and I'm so scared she thinks of other men or is attracted to other people. She tells me whenever I'm in doubt that I should remember she feels about me the same way I feel about her, but I can't believe her, I stare at her constantly but she doesn't do that anymore and I'm scared and confused and don't know what to do.

I'd appreciate any advice, I can't keep being like this it's ruining something so perfect
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>>17932353

get some professional counseling STAT

your gf is not your personal nurse
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>>17932607
Thank you for the advice, do you think it'd really help?

I'm a student so I could get free counselling from the university, do you think it'd be better to do that or pay to speak to someone because I don't know if the free one would be bad
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>>17932625
>do you think it'd really help?

fuck yes i think it would help - why would i type it ?

otherwise say g'bye to that gf and likely future gf's until you meet some total fungi sap girl

please

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Is it even worth trying to get with a girl that has a male best friend that she has a lot of chemistry with?

I don't feel like getting played...

other facts
>She calls him husband
>when she saw him she ran up and gave him multiple hugs even though she saw him yesterday
>she doesn't really talk about other guys (im not advice zoned)
>he's her dance partner
>when I joke about my tinder she doesn't even try to make a comment about it
>when we hangout we always "go out"
>when we hangout we can go to a restaurant talk for 2+ hours before leaving and then leave and talk for 3+ more

I have NOT made a move and i've actually distanced myself for obvious reasons
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>>17932304
Yes

She's her best friend for a reason and not her boyfriend or even just an annoying guy who hangs around her. Do not see him as competition. Hell never see any other guy as competition,they're just there.
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>>17932313
>She's her best friend for a reason and not her boyfriend or even just an annoying guy who hangs around her.
The man's attractive and he's not annoying as she actually tries to hang out with him

shits confusing yo, makes you wonder "why arn't they going out"
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>>17932313
also adding onto this >>17932322
she posted him on her snap story a couple of times saying

"my love (heart face emoji)" and on this one he was holding her

another day
"husband making sure im being productive"

another day
"we can't stop dancing"

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I'll just ask. If I'm 21, and the girl is 18, is it okay to go out with her?
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>>17932278
hell yeah
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>>17932278
Legally, yes.
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>>17932284
Well, I know legally. I meant, will people think it's okay?

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Can you love someone who has different political and/or religious views than you?
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>>17932249
I mean, yes. So long as the spouses don't actually take political or religious views seriously. Otherwise, there has to be a compromise and acceptance of the other's views.

It all depends on the circumstances, OP
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A) Love is rare. Don't be fooled.
B)Yes. That's what love entails. You fall in love with them entirely and even in their different views and beliefs, you admire them and accept them for the person they are.
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>>17932249
Sure.
If you're mature enough to have a serious, committed relationship you should also be mature enough to have a constructive discussion about politics and religious.
As long as you don't think that everyone who disagrees with you is retarded, and your partner is like you, it should be cool.

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My girlfriend had a threesome with two of my friends about 2 years before we started dating. I'm deeply in love with her but everyone and then the idea of her doing it haunts me. I've discussed it with her, she regrets it and wish it didn't happen but it did. I can't break up with her because I love her. most of the time I realize that it was way in the past and nothing bad can come from it unless I ruin what we have, although i worry about it when im about to fall asleep sometimes and it makes me feel like she is a total whore. I start to feel resentment. Sometimes I'll message her saying it's making me sad. She always tells me, it was in her past and there's nothing she can do which I know is true. I think God hates me. All my life I wished for a girlfriend and finally I have one that I deeply love and would do anything for, but my two best friends have this thing they could hold over my head and it makes me feel all different emotions. I discussed with her having a threesome but with another girl. She said she would hate that because she feels possessive over me and she would get mad if the girl moaned from my penis. She also said if we ever do it the girl would not be able to give me head. I have a lot of things I'm worrying about in my life and I don't have the mind power to know what to do or how to act in this situation. I can't talk to my parents/siblings about it because I don't want them to know my gf has had a threesome.
One of the friends was starting to give me shit for dating her so I lied and told him that me and her had a threesome with another girl.
I can't kill myself and I'd never harm anyone, but l don't know how to get over this and it scares me when I think the solution is to shoot off my friends penis or something stupid and extreme like that.

I know the advice is going to be like "it's in her past, it will take time but you'll get over it"
Or
"Dump her"
Both are not an option. Please give me a third option that I haven't thought of
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YOU ARE BEING AN ASSHOLE

HER PAST DOES NOT DEFINE HER!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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>>17932216
>Please give me a third option that I haven't thought of

Have a foursome with her
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May be you're jealous and it only feels like you're repulsed?

Ask her if she'd be willing to do a threesome with you and her girl friend. That might do the trick, and it is a third option.

At this point, you can't get past this image of her. I get it. And may be you'll never get past it. Some things aren't supposed to be said -- this was one of them, at least for you personally.

Well, that's really all I can think of. It's like 'getting' even in a way, even though it's in her past.

If she rejects that, then dump her perhaps? It's your call OP

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>33 years old
>Living with mother
>No job/career
>No savings whatsoever

Do I:

a) Accept a lifetime of depressing wageslavery and live in shared accommodation as a pauper for the rest of my days

b) Self-study for as long as necessary and try and learn dev or some shit like that in order to give myself a small chance at a worthwhile career in the long run

c) Kill myself using an Exit Bag asap

I have totally and utterly ruined my life and I feel there is no chance at ever being happy the way things stand. I was totally naive as a young man and saved no money and made no plans for middle-age and beyond. I spend every hour of every day miserable and in a constant state of regret and misery.

I really, really need help
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Dont do c) bro
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>>17932206
1) on what did you waste your life on

2) tell me skills that you acquired during the dark ages
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>>17932206
also

3) what are you doing right now

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I feel like I can't provide what these women want. I am a guy and the prime things I want from a woman are:

Not stupid
In decent health
Able to have good conversation or activity with.

That's pretty much it.

Women want men to be great fathers, lovers, kissers, handyman, geniuses, comedians, the list goes on.

Women have all these requirements for men that seem impossible. not saying all women are like this but even the ones I think I would be good for are like this. I just can't be all that shit and it feels horrible.
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It is pretty cool though because it means that there are so many potential avenues to succeed and strive to be good at. Women would like all the boxes ticked, but they'll accept a guy who has only ticked a few of them. It shows that you've got your shit together and you aren't completely worthless and maybe you've got some drive and passion to continue to develop as an individual instead of giving up on life and acting like an old fucking person who died inside already.

Imagine it another way. Imagine that you were irrelevant. Your skills and abilities without purpose and validation and completely separate from your drive to secure sex and to reproduce. We were ranked on things almost completely outside our control. As a man I can't imagine much worse than to be irrelevant and without impact or the ability to impact upon my world and my position within it. I'm glad women make us jump through hoops because to be without purpose is a terrible thing, just look at old people.

I don't think the grass is greener either. Just because you have low standards for a partner doesn't mean so should everybody else. Seek to rise up and seek to encourage and enable others to do the same, don't drag us all down to your pitiable level.
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>>17932188
I don't think I have "low standards". I have reachable standards. Standards that can actually be met by a woman.
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>>17932209
So you approach a woman and you are like "hey baby, I have failed to observe things about you, but you look like you've got good health, not too low intelligence and seem like the kind of girl who could have interesting conversations and who I could perform activities with!".

No you idiot, you think 'good health' and then you list a bunch of things which to you imply good health, like plays a sport, ideally a team one because it is competitive and sustains interest by being rewarding in other areas. Or has a half decent sense of fashion which implies a social awareness and desire to look good which indicates long term is less likely to get fat and unhealthy.

Then intellectual pursuits and interests which you share or you could find engaging and suddenly you've got a fucking list like a woman.

Did you just want to whine a little bit about how women control the access to the means to reproduction and you don't like the sensation of not having control and the loss of entitlement?

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Just courious if anyone decided college/university is not for them and dropped out or never enroled in it in the first place.

What did you do after? What kind of work you do and is it satsifying financially-wise?
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>>17932161
I had to quit university bc my mom had no money and I had bad grades.
I've spent two years tying to get into a free one. In my country some people go through that. I've been trying to learn some french and look for sources of money for the future so at least I'll get done some shit I wanted to do when I get in, (not native engrishhh)
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>>17932164
Peru?


I was the same as you until I caved in and decided to get into a particular one. Have been 8 years since that. I'm still an undergrad, due to both failing classes, not giving a shit aboit going to some others, and actual financial issues that forced me to drop out.

However, Im back and better than ever. I work full time and the paycheck goes enterely to my uni, and then go to classes at night, from Monday to Saturday. This will be for about two more years. I dont mind, really. I want to be an Engineer no matter the sacrifices.

Just keep trying bro. After a while a national's admittamce exam its not so bad.
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>>17932161
I got my associate's degree from a community college, got a job in a big city and started a semester at a big college there for my bachelor's. Dropped out after about a month. While getting my associate's I had the luxury of being able to work part time at an easy student worker job, but I couldn't handle working full time and taking 6 credit hours, which I had to in order to be eligible for financial aid. So I dropped out, quit my job that paid fairly well and got a job in my field.

Not the best job, but it pertains to my interests. I like it. Pay is shit but I'm way happier there than I was at my other job, which I hated. Financially we don't have a lot of money but its just my wife and I so we do just fine.

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I caught my dad masturbating with my dirty panties and it's been awkward between us. He's avoiding me and won't talk to me. I've noticed my dirty panties disappearing for awhile before popping up again for awhile now but I just assumed I misplaced it. How do I fix this situation? I'm not mad at him or anything, just a little weirded out but I don't want to lose our relationship over this. I still love him even if he is a dirty old man.
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not enough baka
3.5/10
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I think you need to be really worried. What he's doing is not okay, he'll rape you soon.
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Run away. Call the cops.

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99% sure I have strep throat and I'm fucking snowed in. Is there anything I can do to make it hurt less? Everywhere I look just says to get antibiotics but I FUCKING CANT BECAUSE OF FAGGOT SNOW
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Well idk what you got in your house but

Apple Cider Vinegar – Perhaps the most effective method for strep throat treatment and known to help the body recover from countless conditions, apple cider vinegar really is an amazing liquid that could rid you of throat problems. Adding on to the many benefits of apple cider vinegar, you can help treat strep simply by gargling with the liquid after it has been diluted in a glass of warm water.
The amount of ACV used may vary from person to person, but using 1-3 teaspoons in 8oz of water may be enough. You could always use a different amount, such as 1/4 cup of ACV in 16oz of water. This solution could work in as little as 30 minutes, but don’t be worried if it takes a bit longer. If you enjoy or can handle the taste, try mixing it with some water and sipping it throughout the day. Use raw organic apple cider vinegar with “the mother” for optimal results.

Also my mom use to give me a cayenne pepper lemon water honey mix to drink when I got strept
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>>17932130
Hot tea with honey. Honey is best, but lots of sugar will do. Just keep your throat wet.
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>>17932321
You can also add some lemon to it.

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