I work at a hospital. I want to ask the number of this one attractive nurse that I see occasionally. However, she works at a different department than I. What would be the best way to do this when I see her which she is working?
I was thinking was that I would purposely drop my pen and she would pick it up for me and a conversation would start there.
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>>18157855
wrong, dumb, bad
find her on facebook/linkedin or find a mutual friend
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>>18157874
I don't know any mutual friends and she doesn't have facebook or linkedin (I checked)
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>>18157855
Can you talk to some nurse that works with her? The closest person possible to her. Then ask this person about the nurse. Just basic stuff. Who is she, etc. "Hey who's that girl/woman youre working with", "What who? You mean Stacy?". Shit like that
Now, what's the point, you ask? That person will surely tell the nurse about this exchange if possible. Next time you see the nurse she might look at you a certain way, and there would be your chance to go in for the kill.
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Women and Medication, What do we do? 2017-03-25 05:26:28 Post No.18157835
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What do we do about women and medication?
it is well known that the number one consumer
of medication, for mental problems specifically
are women within the United States and I assume the world. my irritation is that women depend on this, of course when it comes to depression medication and anti-psychotics some people do need it, but a lot of women
are put on it, recommended it, and believe they are better with it when they are more or less the same, or worse, just not in behavior against others. this belief that medication will solve many of women's problems is a myth and I discount it at all costs. feminists need to be debating real issues like this, or so I believe. I don't necessarily believe this is a big example of big pharma, I just wish women didn't rely on it as much as they did. when I see things like this, it irritates me. but I mean all women are crazy, just some more than others. you'll be hard pressed not to find a woman in her late 20s or 30s that is not on a depression medication. either this is absurd propaganda being pushed, or women are truly becoming depressed as all hell.
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The fuck are you on about? This is a life problem. Doctors are going to treat men and women the same way for these issues, the only difference is that men are less inclined to go and see a doctor in the first place, and more likely to drink and smoke themselves to death.
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>>18157835
feminism is depressing women. it takes them away from their natural state of raising & nurturing children. we are still animals after all. this is the price of your "liberation". are you willing to pay?
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>>18157861
are you saying we need fascism to destroy the goyim?
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Alright anons, I held off doing this, but I think I am at the end of my rope.
I want to get on track. Not back on track, since I never felt like I was on it before. I have been bullied my whole life and don't have much friends, maybe one at best. I have almost no job experience except for a single dead end job that requires no skill at all, so I never learned anything to use. Not only that, but I stupidly leave this job all the time only to come back. The reason why is school. Oh God, school...
I stupidly took a teaching course as an 18 year old, and went into third year and ended up dropping it anyway. I have tried other things, but keep dropping them. I wasted so much time and money in school doing nothing. I didn't even make any friends or acquaintances the entire time I was there. I have nothing to show for 5+ years of school. Now I'm in debt. Luckily, I stopped the bleeding with financial help from scholarships, but still wasted them.
Now I am on AD's. I couldn't take it anymore and suicide seemed like a good option. luckily I got some help, but they only keep me from ending it all. Nothing has improved.
Now, I don't want to be like those other people posting here who ask for advice but refuse it. I genuinely want to change my situation. All I ask is some form of serious advice that could at least start me off. I'm not asking for a solution to all my problems.
Just to put it in laundry basket form:
-Almost 30 years old
-Absolutely no social skills
-No relationships ever, not even a hug or a nice hello from a woman.
-No job skills at all, at best maybe some small labor work.
-Relatives I live with want me gone
-No savings, only debt
-No vehicle (don't even have drivers)
-Too much of a pussy to work on interacting with strangers.
-Not physically fit at all.
So that should be it. Once again, not looking for advice that will change everything over night, just want to be pointed in the right direction.
And, no, I won't kill myself. I'm past that phase.
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>>18157825
step 1 acquire valuable skills
step 2 good job
step 3 pay off debt
step 4 earn confidence
let me know if you even get there
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>>18157867
Ok, for step one, suppose that I was going to do a trade and didn't even know a hammer from a wrench (just saying, I know the difference, this is just for reference), who could I ask or where would I start? I am somewhat interested in carpentry, but don't know anybody who could help me with it.
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>>18157881
learn computers. its the future.
or learn healthcare. nursing, physical/occupational therapy, end-of-life care, its all going to be around forever
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Is working one job full time and another part time, while going to online school part time feasible without killing myself?
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Are you ever going to have free time during your shifts for either position? It might be doable if that's the case, bring a laptop and do your work, if not it's up for you to decide if you can handle that
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Working fulltime and studying fulltime is bad enough.
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>>18157811
If I want to break up with my gf and afford my car and apartment, I will need a second job.
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So you know how friends have this secret loyalty to one another and we're not supposed to tell outsiders if two people are dating if they're not "out" yet?
How can you tell if they're dating? If I suspect one of my friends knows can I ask him without it being weird?
Everyone in this situation is like 30 btw.
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What?
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>>18157782
I am very drunk.
Basically, you have two friends, Fred and Wilma. Fred and Wilma like each other but you can't tell how close they are, maybe they're bros, maybe they're bros with benefits. You know how it is.
You have a third friend, Barney, who knows whether or not Fred and Wilma are bros or bros with benefits. Like he knows for certain. You've asked Barney before and he says they're just bros. Either he's being honest or his friendship with both of them prevents him from being honest with you. In this scenario Barney is your best friend, but you may not be his best friend.
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>>18157805
Basically, I want to date Wilma.
Is there a way to ask Barney what this situation entails without shooting myself in the foot?
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ITT: Ask the opposite gender anything
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practicing and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, fart guy, platonic cuddling guy
Fuck off
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Girls, lets say youve been dating this guy for quite a bit like 8-10 months but you haven't done anything sexual yet. He tells you that he really wants to start a family and if you ever started having sex it would be raw and that you should be open to getting pregnant. He tells you this before hand so there wont be any regrets and you can back off the relationship if you want or continue with your chaste relationship. What would you decide? Let's just assume he hasn't knocked up other girls before and he started dating you because he saw you as the potential mother of his children.
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>>18157900
>implying I'd still be dating him if we haven't done anything sexual for 8 fucking months
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>>18157906
Thats pretty normal in Asian countries/conservative countries.
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GF hangsout with best guy friend...all the time. 2017-03-25 04:51:57 Post No.18157743
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Long story short my girlfriend lives an hour away and is going to gradschool. Whenever I text or call she is hanging out at her best friend (who happens to be a guy) apartment.
She really "likes" hanging out with this guy because...according to her
>They have a lot in common...more than her and I (They are both soon to be lawyers)
>He is zero drama
>He is straight, but claims he doesn't have feelings for her
>Reminds her a lot of her dad (She is close with her father)
We just went on a week vacation together and it was great, but now since we are apart I feel insecure again. I feel like our relationship is just one fight away from her jumping ship. She claims she doesn't have feelings for him, but I dont know...
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>>18157743
Your Best friend is fucking your girlfriend.
I am sorry to say it so bluntly, but it is the cold hard truth.
Break up
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>>18157753
If she was fucking him why even say she is hanging out with him? Not ruling it out as a possibility though
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>>18157743
Cut things off with her shes a lost cause. Faithfull girls dont do shit like that.
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How do I stop feeling completely cynical and pessimistic about society?
I mean, considering Tinder, open drug use, selfishness, alcohol use, anti-intellectualism, etc. it just seems like people are shit. And I have no interest in participating in the shit.
But I feel like this is a really bad mentality to have. It is like that Elliot Rodger mentality, but while I don't feel violent, I just think society as a whole is filthy.
Am I wrong? Is there good in people?
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>>18157720
I mean I was at my relatives house last weekend and their 11 year old daughter was singing rae seummerd and the weeknd.
And it also freaks me out that like Miley Cyrus and Selena Gomez were both on Disney channel, but are so wild now. And these are the people our youth look up to.
It is like, if society is filthy, animalistic, hedonistic, etc. then why don't we just admit it and resort to Neanderthalic chaos? Why pretend like we're better than we are?
I used to think people who said "rock n' roll was the Devil's music" were crazy, but despite the hyperbole, they have a point.
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I think the key is not to expect perfection. There are people that are inherently just less shitty than others, but you can't hold them up to some intangible super standard. Any kind of relationship, even friendships, are about compromise and finding common ground.
Good people are out there. They're just buried in the vocal majority of the shitty society we live in. You just have to be willing to accept that humans are inherently flawed and fickle creatures.
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What's wrong with Tinder? Seems like an odd thing to throw in with the rest of your list.
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Is 5'9 a respectable height? I'm 18, and just gained 1.5 inches. Does this mean I may actually grow more?
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>>18157672
respect is earned at 6 feet
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>>18157677
>implying anything under 6'2 isn't manlet-tier
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>>18157672
No. Manlets are not respectable in the least
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A woman wants to take it slow? 2017-03-25 04:09:35 Post No.18157635
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A woman wants to take it slow?
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What exactly does this mean? A woman I am "dating" says she wants to take things slow? I really don't mind but I just don't know how to proceed?
This is probably the farthest I have ever made it with a woman and I am 25. I was able to give her a hug last week before we departed from the coffee shop. Felt good. Now what though? She said she had a previous boyfriend who she was serious with but he broke up with her.
I like her a lot and have known her for awhile but what do I do now? I don't understand "making moves" like trying to kiss or hold her hand. What are my options?
Or does anyone have any insight?
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>>18157635
It means you need to find someone else.
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>>18157635
She's probably still hurting or at least adjusting from the breakup and isn't sure if she's ready for commitment yet.
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>>18157635
date other women, she could be slowplaying your or just trying to let you down easy, no way for us to know based on what you said
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I was at a tea party today and one girl said that feminists are "fucking stupid." I didn't want to correct her in font of everyone... How do I show her that she's wrong?
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>>18157631
She's not wrong. Literal perfect 10/10 wife material right there.
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>asking for help defending feminism
>on 4chan
>fucking 4chan
either this is a troll thread, or you're mentally deficient.
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Hey / adv/
So I realised i need to learn another language if i want to achieve my goals. I'm currently an economic student looking at consultancy after graduation, but most top consultants are bi-lingual at the least. What would be the best language for me to learn, given that English is my native language and i live in Europe. And i don't wanna spend 6 years+ to become fluent (i.e Chinese).
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>>18157616
Top 5 languages in order of # of speakers are
>English
>Chinese
>Spanish
>French
>Arabic
Your choice
>want to do business in Africa
English and French
>want to do business in the americas
English and Spanish
>want to do business in Asia
English and (a good argument can be made for either) Chinese or Japanese
>want to do business in Europe
English and German
Want to do business with former Warsaw Pact nations?
Russian and whatever
>meme tier choice
Farsi
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Sorry killer, chinaman speak is the way to go especially being in the field you're in.
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>>18157647
Chinese is still real regional, if he never touches Asia he would better be served by Spanish or French as there are still lots of opportunities in Africa and South America.
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tl;dr: I have 1 more month left before I become homeless. Currently jobless. How should I best prepare for this?
Longer story:
I graduated with a STEM degree a couple of years ago but because of various mistakes, I have been unable to find a job in the field. Since graduating, I self-studied as a programmer to make it up. I had a random job as a sales guy before I quit a year ago because I hated it. I also got two nonpaid internship roles which are closer to my background which I am hoping to leverage and use for my job search.
Since the start of the month, I've been applying to every junior role open but have not received any interview chances. I'm currently at over 60 places applied.
My funds have dwindled to a point where I have to leave the place I am staying at. By the end of next month, I will be homeless. What can I do now to prepare before this day comes?
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>>18157557
get a fucking job, idiot. try harder. instead of posting on fucking 4chan, go to bed and get a headstart tomorrow
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Instead of being on 4chan you should be looking for a job.
Are people really this fucking stupid?
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Finding a job "in my field" is a fucking meme. Just go get a burger flipping job you moron
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What opportunities do I have as a britbong with a 2:1 degree in international relations and that speaks fluent Spanish and Welsh?
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>>18157546
you can learn to suck EU cock you useless 3rd world fuck
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>>18157546
Becoming a importer/exporter in central/South America
No joke you could make some decent money
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>>18157558
Voted leave, no regrets
>>18157564
How do I go about getting that kind of work? I don't wanna come back to the UK unless I have a solid job offer. I have a cushy life in Spain and I might end up topping myself if I ended up working in tesco again.
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I played contact sports for 10 years.
I read on the red pill that you're a bitch if you don't know how to fight. That the confidence that comes knowing you can fuck someone up if they test you is invaluable.
So I took up BJJ for a year and boxing for another- but I'm fucking bored with them and have much more fun just hitting the gym and playing my other sports.
I'm thinking of quitting combat sports al together but I feel like I need it to be alpha and a man, plus bjj is expensive as tits
what should i do
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>>18157492
buy a pistol? think for yourself? i dunno man
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>>18157492
You don't need to be always ready to throw down to be a man. I'm personally very interested in combat sports, but I have 0 interest in other sorts of sport. Does me not enjoying football or basketball make me less of a man? Am I more of a man if I don't like these things but can kick your ass?
Part of being a man is being your own person; allowing others to dictate your interest is one of the least masculine things you can do.
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>>18157492
>I read on the red pill
That was your first mistake.