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>>18161639
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tl dr I have bad luck, what do I do

>>18161670
Dont go to the casino

>>18161673
I'm not even old enough for gambling, am I?

Go meet her, hug her tight, talk to her about tour worries in person

>>18161687
your*

>>18161596
Get some real problems.

Everybody is suffering from something.

You're 18, man. No shit you're depressed and anxious. You have to build yourself, nobody is born anybody.

Get out there and do shit. When things get tough, don't bitch, find solutions. The longer you sit there moaning and bitching, the longer you have to live with the problems that are plaguing you.

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>>18161578
I do know this to well but still I don t do shit about it and neither the ppl around me care if do shit or not

Hit the gym.

>>18161558
Don't dual major. Less time to relax. More stress. High chance of burnout like you did.

No, Physics is not a good degree. Check job sites. No one is really looking for physics graduates. Finance and software companies take great physics majors, but there are not that many positions and chances are you'll not be that good.

EE studies the same physics with much better employment opportunity.

>Physics and astronomy has always interested me.
That's just not enough. The degree is really really difficult. Half-assed motivation is not enough.

I work in finance and I think physics is good. But you need to learn to program as well.

I was a math grad myself.

>>18161558

Not OP. How good is a math/CS dual major? (Assuming I can handle the stress.)

>>18161554

I should add I still live with my dad for obvious reasons and thats why I would like to move.

>>18161554
The only decent jobs people who work from home have are ones that they had to get in the real world and transfer to work from home. I've heard of engineers, lawyers, and some computer programmers who work on projects from home then either send their projects to the office or go in from time to time to get new assignments, attend meetings, do presentations, etc. If you have no real skills then you will be very hard pressed to find any work from home jobs that pay anything remotely decent or steady.

>>18161981

damn. well I guess I'm stuck at home for now then. I hate living in this house. I can tell my dad wants me gone and he and I have had some bad back and fourths where stuff has broke. It all just feels so hopeless. I literally feel stuck.

>>18161544

Nope, i wouldve too. Criticism on your first day? What a douchebag

From a personal perspective?
Fuck naw.

From a employment record perspective?
Not so good.

It's whatever, man. I wouldn't sweat the details too much. It isn't worth your health to sit there getting stressed out by some dipshit with unrealistic expectations just for the sake of saving face. You wouldn't have been happy there, so you left. End of story.

Good on ya. Fuck him

>Strawberry milkshake

Get help. Professional help. Now.

The problem is that McDonalds fiod has no nutritional calue whatsoever, which is why you need to eat so much of it to feel satisfied.

>>18161521

Holy crap thats alot of food for one person. You definitely need to slow down for your health.
I advise never eating out again.
It's too easy to go overboard when its made quickly by someone else.
To put this in perspective, if the average daily diet consists of 2000cal daily, you just got HALF of your daily calories from just that milkshake. You are destroying your body with this food. Yet you will always feel hungry because you're not getting proper nutrition.

Healthy food is lower in calories.
A big steak and salad will cost you maybe 300cal while a small mc ds burger is in the realm of 600cal.

The first five words answered that question

I don't know op, romance can develop from friendship but you have to be a genuine friend and not just in it for the pussy, people can see through that.

If you just want to fuck around you should probably look somewhere else, but you can find more meaningful relationships like this...if she's not nuts.

>>18161493
Depends on type of girl and her background

>>18161451
That's a good way to trigger psychosis. I would stop.

>>18161451
Dont do psychedelic drugs if you have predisposition to have mental illness!

It can trigger it / make it worse! Dont be stupid!

>>18161451
A friend of mine smoked a lot of weed and eventually was diagnosed bipolar.
After a while of taking meds and continuing smokeweedeveryday he started to talk to me about hallucinations and he became really paranoid, he said that the doctors were evil and he never told them about his real problems, I don't he was simply bipolar, there was something else going on inside his head.
After not seeing him for a while I learned that he had had an argument with his girlfriend and jumped in front of a train. I'd suggest you stop, its not a good idea to do drugs if you're mentally unstable

it means that you look cute. Like shota cute. You should find someone that likes shota's

>>18161449
>5'7
>moody as fuck

You probably remind them of those irritating tiny gods that yap at everything and everyone. They're cute, but no one would actually want to keep one.

>>18161461

*dogs that would be. Goddamn phone. Gods works too, if you can pull that off.

I also want to add that she's one of the most awkward motherfuckers I know. Nerdy ass Mexican girl, never dated. I was her first kiss. She's 21.

>>18161429

How is she awkward?

>>18161443
She's very quiet in class. Always in the back. Only made 3 friends at school out of her almost 4 years attending.
It's high levels of social anxiety. However, around me she's completely fine. Totally lose and open, as we became comfortable with each other. Even then, rejection. What do?

I went out with her once for lunch but I never called it a date. She was doing so many subtle things to get me to call it so the next day but I didn't reciprocate and knew exactly what she was doing.

I've cancelled on her the next time we were supposed to get together. I know it made her feel bad. She still instantly responds to all of my messages and assures it's endless.

I think she really wants me to be her boyfriend. But I'm shying away. Help. I need this so bad and she obviously wants it bad too.

>>18161421
Don't let her know you're a virgin.

Ugh if you got to go on an imageboard to ask then give up. She doesn't deserve a loser like that fucking her brains out, unless she's really a loser herself.

>>18161405
Marriage is that point in relationship where romantics and dreams ends and hardship reality begins.

Stay cool and wait what will happen. They have 40~60% chance to divorce anyway.

Keep your mouth shut, choose no side, ride it out and let people live with the decisions they've come to made.

If fights break out, THEN, choose a side and do what you can for your side to come out on top. If there's no sides yet don't go around creating factions. First wave leaders always will get stabbed in the back.

>>18161411
>>18161413

I know I'm not in it, but this pattern of controlling/over-critical behavior to her and each other has been going on since before I was born.

My mom was a first born and in our culture it's expected that she take care of the whole family. In her case, she was providing financial support while (and even for a significant time after) they got established in the US. There was an incident before I was born where they noticed she made money on the stock market (somehow by trading her employer's stocks) so they asked her to set up a brokerage account for several of them. Predictably they lost money and blamed her, fighting with her for months and accusing her of misleading them. She gave them the first bonuses from her job (several 10 thousand) to them to get them to stop.

Relatives also pressured my mom into marrying my dad which resulted in me, which largely worked out fine but he was still not her first choice.

>>18161413
I don't know if I'm being paranoid or not. My mom and I don't have much of a close relationship with our relatives since neither of us enjoy going to family gatherings only to be endlessly criticized. However, she does have a much higher opinion of them than I do despite the things she's told me they've done; she seems to think it's normal for whatever reason.

I know for a fact any criticism I make will be met with how they were there when my dad was sick and when he died and therefore that absolves them of everything.

>>18161331
Possibly. Imagine 20 years of housekeeping and no job.
But you should at least try talking about it with him.

>>18161336
It also depends on her age, which may be proportional to the amount of alternative partners she might find.

>>18161336
From what I know from this other friend, he doesn't really change. I've only just heard about this, which is why I'm posting- I was kind of hoping it'd just go away.

OK I've been looking and it is not that easy

>>18161320
It is creepy only if you are not attractive

If you do manage to find her Facebook or something and sending her a message saying something like "it was nice meeting you and i'd like to do it again sometime" would not be weird.