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Alright anons, I held off doing this, but I think I am at the end of my rope.
I want to get on track. Not back on track, since I never felt like I was on it before. I have been bullied my whole life and don't have much friends, maybe one at best. I have almost no job experience except for a single dead end job that requires no skill at all, so I never learned anything to use. Not only that, but I stupidly leave this job all the time only to come back. The reason why is school. Oh God, school...
I stupidly took a teaching course as an 18 year old, and went into third year and ended up dropping it anyway. I have tried other things, but keep dropping them. I wasted so much time and money in school doing nothing. I didn't even make any friends or acquaintances the entire time I was there. I have nothing to show for 5+ years of school. Now I'm in debt. Luckily, I stopped the bleeding with financial help from scholarships, but still wasted them.
Now I am on AD's. I couldn't take it anymore and suicide seemed like a good option. luckily I got some help, but they only keep me from ending it all. Nothing has improved.
Now, I don't want to be like those other people posting here who ask for advice but refuse it. I genuinely want to change my situation. All I ask is some form of serious advice that could at least start me off. I'm not asking for a solution to all my problems.
Just to put it in laundry basket form:
-Almost 30 years old
-Absolutely no social skills
-No relationships ever, not even a hug or a nice hello from a woman.
-No job skills at all, at best maybe some small labor work.
-Relatives I live with want me gone
-No savings, only debt
-No vehicle (don't even have drivers)
-Too much of a pussy to work on interacting with strangers.
-Not physically fit at all.
So that should be it. Once again, not looking for advice that will change everything over night, just want to be pointed in the right direction.
And, no, I won't kill myself. I'm past that phase.
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>>18157825
step 1 acquire valuable skills
step 2 good job
step 3 pay off debt
step 4 earn confidence
let me know if you even get there
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>>18157867
Ok, for step one, suppose that I was going to do a trade and didn't even know a hammer from a wrench (just saying, I know the difference, this is just for reference), who could I ask or where would I start? I am somewhat interested in carpentry, but don't know anybody who could help me with it.
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>>18157881
learn computers. its the future.
or learn healthcare. nursing, physical/occupational therapy, end-of-life care, its all going to be around forever
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>>18157915
hmm, nursing. There is actually some courses on nursing in a local college. A lot of people seem to get hired when they finish. I never actually thought about it.
Quick question though; what do you think are the advantages and disadvantages of being a male nurse? It's a weird one, but still, it's nice to know.
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>>18157922
My parent is a nurse and is fucking broke
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>>18157934
your parent is shit with money.
>>18157922
disadvantages? you have to deal with a lot of literal shit.
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>>18157934
damn that sucks bro. That being said, I just looked up some nursing jobs here. I have quite a bit in my area. Maybe what >>18157915 said was true. It does seem like a nice starting point for a new life. If not, then maybe something with computers.
Like I said, just looking for a bit of a start.
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>>18157939
Yeah, but I don;t mind dealing with stuff like that anyway. I'm not squeamish. That being said, I know there are social aspects to nursing, so it might be a good place where I can learn some new things.
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>>18157946
thats a great attitude
you will go far if you keep this up
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>>18157966
Yeah, like I said, I have had it with my life up to this point. I'll take anything.
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