[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y ] [Search | Free Show | Home]

Archived threads in /adv/ - Advice - 2073. page

This is a blue board which means that it's for everybody (Safe For Work content only). If you see any adult content, please report it.

File: 1490268702567.jpg (174KB, 1080x1080px) Image search: [Google]
1490268702567.jpg
174KB, 1080x1080px
What sort of science or health related bachelor degree should I do to be able to get a job at the end of a 3-4 years? I have been looking at various science majors but they seem to have poor rates of people actually getting jobs without doing a few years of postgrad.

In this country I can't fully support myself unless I work full time which would likely mean not enough study time unless I'm in a phd program or something. The phd programs I have been looking at might just pay enough to scrape by but I don't think I have very good chances of getting in given the high competition.

The thought of spending four years on a difficult degree and then making less than people who just got a job at Burger King terrifies me.
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
A job is never guaranteed at the end of a degree. However, nursing or midwifery or something of the like are always going to be in demand.
>>
Statistics.

I don't know too many unemployed statisticians.
>>
Radiography

File: 1475339310246.jpg (127KB, 800x595px) Image search: [Google]
1475339310246.jpg
127KB, 800x595px
>engaged to a 8/10 woman who owns her own ballet/dance recital school
>she's only 21 and her parents paid for her to start her own busniess
>her parents own one of the most popular plumbing company in the area
>they're all college educated
>be me supervisor at a construction company
>25 years old
>only have GED
>be 4/10 at best former fatty with saggy skin
>dead beat father and drug addict mother

I constantly feel like this is some big prank and the ruse will be over on our wedding day. How should I prepare for this?
9 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>I constantly feel like this is some big prank and the ruse will be over on our wedding day.
Why? I dont get how you managed to get engaged with a woman like that, but why do you think its a ruse? Why would anyone get trough the trouble of getting attached to a person like you(she obviously is way better off and has nothing to gain from you), just so that they can do what? Play you? You need to get over yourself my man.
>>
>>18161112
She's with you because of your personnality, not your body or education
Stop being a faggot
>>
File: 2014-07-31_22-51-05.png (698KB, 670x409px) Image search: [Google]
2014-07-31_22-51-05.png
698KB, 670x409px
>And then she told him "I'm with you because of your personality, I don't care about your body or education"

File: IMG_2073.jpg (78KB, 704x704px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_2073.jpg
78KB, 704x704px
Is it alright to expect girls to make the first move?

I'm terrible at taking hints. It helps if someone actually comes onto me "too" heavy, but I imagine girls can find that intimidating.
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18161109

>is it alright

its 'alright' in the sense that there is nothing morally wrong with it. but its a dumb expectation for a guy to have.
>>
>>18161120
Okay what do
Bcause I literally can't read minds u feel
>>
>>18161138
>like a girl
>approach girl
>make first move

>bu-but I'm afraid of rejection
No fucking shit, no one likes to be rejected. Grow some balls and get over it

File: scared.jpg (61KB, 540x511px) Image search: [Google]
scared.jpg
61KB, 540x511px
>Do a job interview
>"Thanks anon, we'll call you in a day or two"
>Been two days

Do they call you to say you don't get the job or am I done?
6 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>18161063

depends on the company and where you live
here in germany you usually get some sort of call or email

I think in the states you usually won't get any feedback if you don't get the jobo.
>>
>>18161063
Did you make sure to follow up with a thank you email or phone call?
>>
>>18161164
No, should I have?

File: The_insects.jpg (290KB, 1156x839px) Image search: [Google]
The_insects.jpg
290KB, 1156x839px
hi,

>be me, 28 yo virgin
>fat and heavily autistic throughout my teenage and most of my 20s
>recently decided to get my shit together
>improve look
>It's super effective!

The problem is: I can't have sex
I think I have 2 problems:
1. it's difficult to get hard, I feel I jerked off too much to porn throughout my autistic years
2. I can't completely pull my foreskin. Even when I can miraculously get hard, it hurts when I try to put my dick in and it goes limp very fast

It's pretty cool to eat a girl out, feel her getting wet and all, but it always makes them insecure about themselves when they can't return the favor and get me hard or have normal sex with me.

Last friday, I turned down a qt who was hitting on me because i didn't want to waste her time or disappoint her with my pathetic sex life.
This is not the first time and it always destroys me because I can't tell them the real reason...

Anyone can relate to my experience?
What should I do? Who should I see?

Please help

picture unrelated because I can't post a picture of my dick here
8 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Yes, fucking stop masturbating. You can't get hard with her soft touch because you likely masturbate way rougher. So cool it with that. Also get circumcised if you don't want to worry about foreskin. Also it is cleaner since then you don't get smegma
>>
>>18161039

1. Stop masturbating.
2. More foreplay, much more foreplay.
3. Viagra.
4. Kegels.
>>
>>18161079
>>18161099
i also can't get hard because of anxiety

Anyone has experience dealing with that?
Does it just go away with time?

File: NO_FILE_GIVEN (0B, 0x0pxpx)
NO_FILE_GIVEN
0B, 0x0pxpx
I move to a new major city, so instead of being an autist an die playing video games i joined sports clubs, fitness clubs and meetups and socialize with my coworkers so I can build a social circle

Except everyone is 30+ with kids. I'm 24. What the fuck? Crossfit? 30+. Bjj? 30+. Rugby? 30+. even fucking normie globo gyms? 30+

Where do fit 20 year olds hang out? Or am I supposed to be drinking my physical prime away at happy hour?
7 posts and 0 images submitted.
>>
College

If you're trying to get laid Tinder is great too
>>
>>18161036

18-mid 20s have their own inclusive groups, so apart from clubs and parties, you're not going to see them in typical hobby areas. It's only when people start getting older do they feel more lonely, which is why all those places you listed are full of old cunts.
>>
>>18161088
Well fuck me

During sex my girlfriend gets off but I do not. I don't know why I can't get there, what could be the problem/ what are potential solutions?
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18161018

Have her lick your balls while you jerk off then cum in her mouth
>>
>>18161021
Ye
>>
Anybody? Any suggestions at all?

File: SHNGMAP2.gif (117KB, 1975x1529px) Image search: [Google]
SHNGMAP2.gif
117KB, 1975x1529px
I'm 28 years old and transitioning to a woman. My insurance will cover hormones, breast augmentation and, should I elect it, SRS, but not electrolysis/facial feminization surgery.

There are a fair number of electrolysis clinics in my area. I live in a big city with a strong LGBT population. My family won't offer support.

I'm considering entering the pornography/sex work world for quick cash. I'll play safe with condoms and check my STD/I status on the reg.

How do I go about doing this?
22 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>18160971
>MtF
>entering porn for quick cash
Professionally or amateurly?
Do you actually pass as a girl?

If amateur, and if you can pass as a girl. Go Findom. Quickest cash method if you're clever and can understand the creepy guys into that point-of-view. Just don't reveal you're a FtM.
>>
>>18161008
>Do you actually pass as a girl?
Not yet. With a wig, maybe. I'm not on HRT yet. Right now I'm crossdresser material. I figure I'd start as a sex worker then enter porn.

I'll check Findom once I'm more passable. Thank you.
>>
>>18160971
>>18160971
>>18160971
Bumping.

Transwomen who have acted in transexual porn, please. You're my only hope.

File: psychotherapy[1].png (7KB, 700x393px) Image search: [Google]
psychotherapy[1].png
7KB, 700x393px
Does the sex of my therapist matter?

I'm 22 male from a small town, so I only have two I can go to - one man, one woman

The female one is not one I'd fall in love with to hinder therapy I should mention
20 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
What ever you feel more comfortable with. They only ask in case you have like trauma associated with sexes. I've found that its a crapshoot, 90% of therapists are shit no matter their gender. Just try one and if you don't jive try the other.
>>
>>18160984
>90% of therapists are shit no matter their gender
Well shit
Best be exaggerating

Thanks anyway
>>
Not nearly as important as the other factors. Therapy is a person to person deal, it's pretty much solely based on how well they understand you and how well you connect with them.

If you had thousands of therapists to choose from then yes it would make sense to opt either for a man or a woman. With just two, not whatsoever, have an intake with both if you can then decide.

File: 1461926677499.png (1MB, 1696x1200px) Image search: [Google]
1461926677499.png
1MB, 1696x1200px
What is wrong with me?
Story time
My cat got into my basement and wont come out I try to grab her and bring her out but she scratched me. Now I'm scared to try again or to even be around her. This is because I feel like bashing her head into the cement over and over again. I dont know why I mean i like the cat and all but I just have this "urge"? to do it.
So do I have an anger problem or something else?
6 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
*I don't know how I feel, let's ask /adv/*
>>
Cats as other animals are extremely sensitive beasts, they can detect mood swings in the people around them, they can smell hormonal changes, or when someone is sick. They even know when death is coming (if it's their turn, they go in hiding). I have had this cat for 17 years, never attacked me or growled at me, save for one time: I was absolutely livid after an argument with my mother, and I was sitting on a desk at home. Cat came near me, I merely stared at her on the floor and she growled, then backed off.

Either the cat is distancing herself because it knows you're pissed in general, or something's not right with the cat itself. How old is her?
>>
Consider letting a friend or family member take care of your cat until you feel better. Make up a reason if you don't want them to know you ugre to kill it.

File: 1443702044608.jpg (350KB, 1920x1280px) Image search: [Google]
1443702044608.jpg
350KB, 1920x1280px
i overthink reality and people and how my mind works and myself. i think about how i should feel/ do other people sense the world the same way and i overthink social structures. my perceptions of reality shifts during the day a lot. and i can't find a core sense of self to rely on. it feels like life just happens and I'm watching a movie most of the time unable to live my life just observing the events in it. its freaking me out and has been on going for about a year after i stopped smoking weed. i remember i may have had similar thoughts / experiences before i started using drugs but I'm not sure of anything anymore. my memories are like snapshots of other people and i don't feel like i was present in them and over all my memory is dogshit. i just want it to end and be grounded in reality and spend time with my family and be present again because i know they want the "old me" back as well.
9 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
>>18160872

your mind has expanded but your soul hasnt grown enough to fill it out
>>
>>18160917
please explain
>>
>>18160917
im 19 btw so any advice/ info is appreciated I'm learning to cope but its still freaking me out

File: IMG_3251.jpg (57KB, 600x459px) Image search: [Google]
IMG_3251.jpg
57KB, 600x459px
Got $1200, what buy?
12 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
Well, what kinda things do you enjoy?
>>
>>18160873
Was thinking about getting a switch and and a small vacation. Or throwing in some extra money and going on a cruise. I enjoy traveling, and video games
>>
>>18160870
put it in a roth IRA you stupid fuck

Was home this weekend and my parents invited over family friends. Before they were leaving his wife handed me her business card (because they live close to where I go to university) and she said like jokingly i guess to call the direct number, not her husband, if i'm ever hungry or something. is she asking me to cuck her husband?
8 posts and 2 images submitted.
>>
>>18160848
Only one way to find out. Hope you've got the guts because this could pay off big if you go for it.
>>
>>18160860
she's kinda old though, probably in late 40s or maybe even 50s. can she even fuck?
>>
>>18160867
YES she can fuck
The question is if you want to

File: blade_runner_2049.png (1022KB, 1024x630px) Image search: [Google]
blade_runner_2049.png
1022KB, 1024x630px
I said I wouldn't waste another vacation from work and what do I do? I wasted it.

All I did for the entire week was play mass effect andromeda and jerk off and lay in bed.

I need help. I feel so fucking aimless. Some people would have taken the opportunity to do something major like travel or experience something new? I spent all week playing a video game and jacking off to porno.

Is this all life has to offer? I am 27 and just don't feel good. I feel like drained of happiness. I am not suicidal, I just feel fucking drained and just... sad? I can't describe the feeling.

Its a feeling like "I could go do all that stuff, but it would just be a facade. I hate all of that stuff and I would rather just lay in bed and jerk off."

Where the fuck do people get this thirst for life? I personally feel almost bitter towards people who are able to get up in the morning and not feel like total shit. I get 8 hours of sleep and still feel like shit.

Is it the masturbation? Please help me you guys? I am truly at my wits end in feeling this way. It all feels like too much trouble and I have no desire to do anything.

My friends invited me to a concert and I basically told them that I would never go in a million years. I just fucking hate so many things and so many things look like shit to me.

Why does everything look like shit?
8 posts and 1 images submitted.
>>
I typed a bunch of shit but honestly, I think you just need to set some goals. Some things to work toward. What are some things that you want/have wanted to do?
>>
>>18160918
That's the thing... I honestly cannot answer that question. Honestly. It's fucked.

I don't know what I would want to do. My mind is preoccupied with wanting to lay down. Like sleeping is my favorite past time. Which sounds stupid. I just don't know man. Is there something wrong with me?
>>
Why are you asking us what we think you should do? Chance are you know what you should do already, you just haven't done them. Waiting for one of us to pat you on the back and tell you it's going to be okay?

You're 27, so it's not like you're too late for anything. You still have on average another 50 years to figure this out.

So stop thinking that it has to be done today. It can't all be done today, you don't have enough time to sort out all of your problems today. Work on it day by day, realizing that you are not at the end of your life and you can sort this out.

Just take it easy, I dunno. Things have a way of working into your life, so if you stop looking so hard for all the answers before doing anything, things will happen as you go, and something that you do today could lead you down a path someday that you never knew existed today.

So if there's so much uncertainty, what's the point of trying to figure it all out anyways? Doesn't it seem like a wasted effort to search for something you know you won't find like that?

32 posts and 3 images submitted.
>>
>>18160834
are you and her even friends
>>
>>18160834
Either you're going into the friendzone or she's the female equivalent of a fedora.
>>
>>18160834
Yeah seems like a no anon but this is great news, believe me
now you can move on to other women and not have to stress out if she likes you

I'm proud of you for taking a chance man

Pages: [First page] [Previous page] [2063] [2064] [2065] [2066] [2067] [2068] [2069] [2070] [2071] [2072] [2073] [2074] [2075] [2076] [2077] [2078] [2079] [2080] [2081] [2082] [2083] [Next page] [Last page]

[Boards: 3 / a / aco / adv / an / asp / b / bant / biz / c / can / cgl / ck / cm / co / cock / d / diy / e / fa / fap / fit / fitlit / g / gd / gif / h / hc / his / hm / hr / i / ic / int / jp / k / lgbt / lit / m / mlp / mlpol / mo / mtv / mu / n / news / o / out / outsoc / p / po / pol / qa / qst / r / r9k / s / s4s / sci / soc / sp / spa / t / tg / toy / trash / trv / tv / u / v / vg / vint / vip / vp / vr / w / wg / wsg / wsr / x / y] [Search | Top | Home]

I'm aware that Imgur.com will stop allowing adult images since 15th of May. I'm taking actions to backup as much data as possible.
Read more on this topic here - https://archived.moe/talk/thread/1694/


If you need a post removed click on it's [Report] button and follow the instruction.
DMCA Content Takedown via dmca.com
All images are hosted on imgur.com.
If you like this website please support us by donating with Bitcoins at 16mKtbZiwW52BLkibtCr8jUg2KVUMTxVQ5
All trademarks and copyrights on this page are owned by their respective parties.
Images uploaded are the responsibility of the Poster. Comments are owned by the Poster.
This is a 4chan archive - all of the content originated from that site.
This means that RandomArchive shows their content, archived.
If you need information for a Poster - contact them.