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>abusive sister in past, still pestering me about useless things I don't care about ( ie forcing me to learn things and manipulative)
>Severely autistic brother who I think is also schizophrenic, and his self talking drives me insane everyday
>Brother in law is overcontrolling douchebag to sis
>Mom never proud of what I do, only cares about money and we live on welfare
>Dad died almost 4 years ago

Would it be wrong if I moved out and cut them out of my life completely?

Follow up question: if I do move out, could they sue me for theft of money that my mom has given me over the years? ( About $6000 total so far)

>>18157485

>bf used to be nice and cuddly
>really wanted hillary to win
>when trump won he got depressed
>then he got angry
>now he treats me like shit
>i suck him off at least 2x a week and its not enough
>he fucks me every night and its not enough
>really starting to hurt my vag
>dont know how much longer i can take it but i love him so much
>he gets mad when i dont cook for him & ive never done this before so i dont know how

what do?

>>18157544
Well it depends on what exactly your sister is doing maybe give me some details?

I understand that your brother probably annoys the hell out of you but depending on how much older or maybe even younger i feel like he might view you as a role model? id have to hear a little bit more about your relationship with him.

What kind of stuff does your bother in law do exactly?

With the mom situation. What exactly do you do? and what makes you say she only cares about money?

Ask them.

Republican and under the age of 40

>>18157459
You can't.

I mean there are flags but you'd never know.

get a new one

Haven't seen it before, but stay calm. One day of puking and diahrrea won't kill her if you bring her to the vet tomorrow morning.
Does she hava access to anything poisonous for cats that she might have eaten?

Try and calm her down, but you can only do that if you calm down yourself. If possible, try and get her to drink a bit.
Relax. It will be fine.

>>18157419
She's sleeping right now

But no not that I know of. She's not the type of cat that will just eat whatever she sees.

that was a really stupid thing to do

>>18157379
Ask you for help? :^)

>>18157370
You get the fucking faculty involved because mold spores can be poisonous, especially black mold that will hide behind walls and flooring and can lead to major health concerns, hair falling out, etc.

whore yourself out, mcdonalds, etc

>>18157349
Is this a real option? Apparently I suck a mean dick

>>18157345
Unless you want to work for companies dealing with Russia or former commie blocs, not much.

Kill yourself

aye carumba!!

What's there to worry about if you aren't doing anything wrong?

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>>18157288

The common denominator is you. You keep dating crazy girls because you're attracting them. Get some therapy or something. Find out what it is about you that is attracted to emotional instability.

Next time you fall super hard for a girl there's a good chance its because she's fucking crazy. Maybe try giving a girl a chance who you aren't supper attracted to. The part of your brain that selects a partner is broken, so, it would probably behoove you to do the opposite of what your instincts tell you seeing as its your instincts that have gotten you in this mess to begin with.

>>18157324
Interesting perspective. I did meet the last two online though. I'd consider myself a pretty calm regular person, though I have had therapy and am taking medication for depression.

>>18157338

>I did meet the last two online though. I'd consider myself a pretty calm regular person

You don't have to be crazy to attract crazy people. You're attracting them. It isn't a coincidence that the last 4 girls you've been with are emotionally distant and unstable.

There is no other logical explanation. Doesn't matter if you're meeting these girls through the pen pal program, dude. You fall for crazy girls, period. Find out why. Start paying attention to your patterns and start changing them.

>>18157235
Don't have to accept it.
Try to be confident and improve your social skills, you'll be surprised how this little can work.

>>18157235

How old are you?

>>18157265
It's not the socializing that's fucking me over, it's the face alone

>>18157128
Tell her what's going on. She's going to blame herself for this no matter what.

>>18157169
So I just tell her I'm planning on killing myself?

>>18157312
Can I have you gf OP I lost mine.

>>18157103
drugs

By just reflecting on what negative things will happen to your life if you keep using alcohol to cope with things. Eventually you'll find reasons so strong that they'll make you never want to drink alcohol again.

Drinking alcohol to cope with anything is considered a major alcohol problem so you should get to google to research what you can do about this asap. Make a plan to stop the alcohol problem from this research and stick to it.

>>18157120
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When you get older you'll wish you looked younger...

I'm 30 and I still get carded at bars. I look like I'm in my early 20's at most. So it's flattering. I'd imagine as a gay person you should embrace this feeling.

>>18157053
So basically I should be flattered that guys who can't put their dicks into a 15-year-old consider me a second-best choice?

I want to be taken seriously.

>>18157047

Genetics bruh. Not much you can do unless you have a t problem.

btw It takes several months to 3 years to put on any real muscle

>>18157024
Literally enter a club, sit by yourself, and a guy will show you.

>>18157041
I've been to a club before and no guys have not shown me

>>18157024
>>18157041
If you were a guy, you would be done for in this situation

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>>18157017

You do the opposite of frowning. Try not to breathe through your mouth too much.

>>18157017
It's difficult to look like a creep if you're not ugly.

Just give her a little smirk while keeping intense eye contact, and that should do it.

>>18157004
i wish i could....

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>>18156985
> I'd still love her even if she's married to someone else
Don't be a cuck OP. What are you trying to achive by obsessing over something you can't get. Get a hobby and move on.

>>18156985

you already know the answer. leave her.

>>18156903
I don't feel like you had any grounds to fire her. Her status as a mother notwithstanding. She didn't wrong you.

>>18156903
>>18156909
His feelings are irrelevant. You protected yourself against potential backlash by firing someone you had no attachment to. IF she had been there a long time, that would be one thing but as a new hire, there was no reason not to get rid of her just to be safe.

That's what I would have done especially if the faggot stealing from me just up and disappeared. Last thing you need is a mole reporting to a pissed off ex-employee.

>>18156903
First firing was perfectly justified, the second one was just being an asshole desu

IDK what the precedence in your office is for rehiring, but I'd at least reach out to her and apologize