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>>18160073
Does this thread really need to exist?

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>>18160083
yes

>>18160073

why wouldnt it be?

>>18160064
first buses are lit

>>18160100
>talking like a nigger
Stop.

>>18160064
Write down adjectives describing the person you want to be.

Figure out concrete goals that match those adjectives. Say you want to be well read...how many books would it take for you to consider yourself well read? What types of books? Write it down.

Figure out how to achieve those goals, break them down into smaller chunks. Monthly, weekly, daily goals. Work towards those adjectives daily.

Don't get discouraged if you have a bad day, recognize that even if you do a little bit, you are further along than the day before.

>>18160051
Well tinder is just for hookups so you obviously won't find them there

>>18160051
Basically church. Or perhaps some group that does some traditional activity.

It's hard. Good luck out there.

>>18160051
>girls
>pure
top kek

Join clubs

Asking you.
Is racism really something you experience?
If we were good friend and i was like aye my nigga, would you be offended?
How do you feel about your upbringing by black parents? What are black parents like?
Also do you like chicken, watermelon and grape soda like the meme says?

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>>18160161
>Is racism really something you experience?
Yeah. The whole "being pulled over for no reason" thing is real. More so than you realize.
>If we were good friend and i was like aye my nigga, would you be offended?
Depends on the context. I usually don't care, but it's very weird regardless. It's like hearing someone else call you a nickname only your family calls you. Awkward.
>How do you feel about your upbringing by black parents? What are black parents like?
Dad lives in another country (HA, who woulda guessed), mom is a good mom, but she has her own issues. I'm leaving this year and I can tell she's lonely. IDK about "black parents," I know about Jamaican parents, that's really it. Very physical and straight forward people, but my mother is very kind and understanding. My father gives me the occasional word of advice.

>Also do you like chicken, watermelon and grape soda like the meme says?

Chicken is inexpensive so it's what I mostly eat in terms of meat. Watermelon is fucking delicious and I don't care about what anyone says. Grape soda is meh, rootbeer is better though I don't drink pop that much anymore.
>Join clubs
But what if I'm shit at most things?

>How do you meet people in situations like these?
Meet new people, duh. Find guys who have been burned by similar things to you, and hate them together. Do not confuse this with 'pet causes' unless you want to be burned by those folks too.

>"Ask a black guy anything thread,"
What are early 20s women into these days? Preferably not ghetto ones, I'm trying to pretend to be non-ghetto and it's working out for me alright thus far.

>>18160018
>you're going to be okay
You don't know me and you don't know what's going on with me. Stop talking out of your ass.

>>18160021
What's wrong?

>>18160018
Thank you, reading that was nice after a hard day.

If you look after your body, then you can overcome a genetic disadvantage.

>>18159979

you'll be fine as long as you eat healthy. the best thing you can do for a faulty heart is to cut meat. entirely, but if you ate three days a week without meat you'd be a LOT healthier.

>>18160003
Exercise is important too. Also stop eating cheese and dairy, it's probably worse than some types of meat.

>>18159975
how long ago was this?

>>18159975
Tell her the truth

>>18159990
Almost three weeks or so. I've been sticking with it, but I came to realize that I don't feel the same way she does

>>18159970

Not enough info

>>18159970
Unless you lost a body part or are on your way to becoming homeless your brother is right.

Get the fuck over it

>>18159970

define that 'real, life threatening shit'

>>18159894
What are you going there to talk about?

Take the meds, bring a copy of a doctors order for the drug. If the cops ask if you're on drugs, pull out the doctors order. That was easy .

>>18160761
I'm going to report a crime

>>18160780
The thing is, when I take the drugs I seem like a complete pothead and even with a doctor's note it would look bad. I also don't want it to damage my character presentation if/when the whole thing goes to court.

Depends on how you broke up, and whether you were the one who broke up with her or if she broke up with you.

If the person meant something to you. I would say see if they would be just as committed to fixing the problems. Do therapy with person if you both are up for it. If you don't see an active effort in that person to change. Then at least you know you both tried your best.

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>>18159871
I broke up with her. She was simply too negative and too needy.

>>18159879
She meant to world to me, but the whole thing was making me depressed. She was kind of going to therapy and the only thing that came from that, was the therapist trying to convince her to break up with me, which she almost did.

The whole thing was a big mess and I admittedly have been trying to be as detached as I can.

It's literally called dry shampoo

>>18159831
Alright mang

What shampoo you using? Using any conditioner? Water temp should be lukewarm at most when washing hair.

do you know where he lives? this is why god invented murder.

>>18159793
That's why we have police. And DMCA.

>>18159793
Hang in there.. I mean, the situation sucks, but it's not the end of the world. Any decent people at work are going to think worse of the guy who spread this shit than you. Most likely they'll think you have some crazy nutbag after you and feel bad for you. Also, remember that if you quit, you're succumbing to your stalkers wishes. I do understand you feel like quitting, but consider it carefully first, because I'm sure you can get through this.

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>>18159771
Try to keep talking to her, if you can. Also just before the date you can send something like "im not nervous at all." and a stupid picture like pic related.

>>18159783
So should I say something like
>so did you go to x high school?
Or should I just save all the conversation for Monday?

>>18159799
Yea dont go into past stuff like that now. Save it. Just meaningless, but funny stuff for now.

p.s. captcha youre killing me again, you FUCK.

>>18159728
>Anyone /g/ here?
...why would you not just ask /g/?

Why do you want to upgrade your computer? Are you wanting to do VR? Are games lagging for you? Striving for 4K gaming?

I mean, I bought my computer's parts for ~$400 total. Not a god machine but hey it gets the job done well. Can run most modern games at 1080p 50 to 60FPS. If it's not broken, don't fix it hahaha

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>>18159734

You don't have to 'catch up' to someone to feel good about yourself, you just have to be confident and secure in yourself.

>>18159704
and how do i do that?
is there like a book or something you can recommend that can help?

>>18159700
anyone? anything?