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My dad died when I was three years old, I've only lived with my mom and little sister, only had female friends in primary school, friend have been 50/50 as far as gender, so I know a bit about the female mind. What do you wonder? Maybe I have the answers.
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how the fuck do i get a girl to admit shes into me
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>>18154091
Women are not hard to understand. You just have to learn vanity and irrationality
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>>18154091
Why does my ex try to hurt my feelings?

She ended the relationship. No argument, she just said the age gap was too much (she's older).

Since then she's told me she never loved me, she didn't enjoy the sex and when we were together she missed having something more macho. She's also really casually told me about a guy she was with after we finished even though she knew I still had feelings for her.

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>It's been one year since she broke up with me
>0 chance of getting back together
>We were only together for 7 months, although we were 'hanging out' for 2 months before that
>Been on dates and had a one night stand with different girls since

I'm still crying myself to sleep some nights. How fucking long is it going to take for me to get over this?
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>>18153988
For the most part you dont. Best bet is getting another long term partner.
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>>18154018
So I spend the rest of my life with these feelings, along with the same feelings for any other relationship I have in the future that doesn't work out?

Fuck, how do other people manage it?
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>be broken up for 9 months
> year long relationship
>still hurts like fuck too OP

red leader, standing by

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I'll cut to the chase.
I'm 18, and incredibly stressed about my future, basically my entirety of high school my parents have made my life hell. I'm a depressed virgin who hasn't been happy in a very long time, and the only thing keeping me going was the chance to move out after highschool and start a new. The plan was to go to community college with two friends and split rent. But as of this week my parents had a "dream for me" that I should join the air-force
I'm a pretty /fit/ guy and could handle it physically, the intimidating screaming would be nothing, and I did a ton of research on all the benefits. But I feel like I would hate my life and I just wanted my chance to finally go to college, go to stupid parties, and start my own projects I had in mind (podcasts or a comic). I don't know if I want to spend my youth joining a force I don't care for when I could possibly succeed at doing something i'm passionate about. And yeah I get that time flies fast and every adult says they wish they would've done it. But they didn't. I don't know, sorry for my kiddy whining /adv/.
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>>18153974
Do what you want to do. You're 18 and you want to go down your own path, nothing wrong with that.

Keep The Air Force in mind as a solid backup plan if you don't know what to do after community college. Explain to them that you're an adult and ready to move out and try something on your own, and that you'll keep in touch and consider The Air Force in a couple years.

If they're strict and unwilling to accept your choice, then fuck them. Move out once you're done with HS. Any parents who can't support that choice aren't worth being controlled by anyway
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>>18153974

The USAF would be a good choice, BUT.

Only do if you actually give a shit. If you really don't give a shit. Don't go into the military.

>>>/k/33376826
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>>18153974
I joined the Navy when i was 19. let me tell you, it was the best decision i ever made.

i spent 5 years traveling the world, drinking beer with bros, chasing pussy, and learning a trade. i even managed to knock out a couple semesters worth of college.

the military isn't what you think. for most its just another job, but in a bizarro world kind of way. its not like the movies unless you are like marine infantry or something. don't be afraid of the commitment. boot camp ain't shit.

i got out and used my GI bill to get a college degree. that fuckin' GI bill man... i was given 2k$ a month for living expenses + all tuition paid. i didn't have to work some shit job or stress about loans. i just sat around my dope little city apartment reading books and smokin' weed.

shitty pic related. we were pouring a concrete pad for an orphanage building in thailand. after we were finished we got drunk with the mayor and played soccer with the kids.

i say do it.

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I am about to leave university, finishing my honours and I'm done. I have no idea what i'm going to do with my life. Got a degree in Commercial Music and don't know what the fuck to do with it.
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>>18153973

How the fuck could you spend several years getting a degree and in that entire time never develop any idea of how you were going to use it?
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Fuck off. I wish I was in your position, instead I'm one bad day from suicide. Fuck.of
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Teach English in Asia and bang dat asian puss.

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Imagine
Person A and B are in a relationship and love each other.

Person B was broken up with in a horrible way by person C ages ago.

Person A discovers that person B has started talking to person C again. In large paragraphs about their lives no less.

Person B is open about this.

Person A is clearly troubled by it.

Let's factor in:

!!Person B wouldn't actually do anything!!
Person A trusts person B
But person B is also still in love with person C
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>>18153955
So uh, what's your point retard? Forget it, this all sounds very tedious and I just can't be arsed to give a shit.
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>>18153955
>Letting a ex back into your life
Hope she fucks over your current relationship as well op!
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Alright so don't then??
What should person A's approach be

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So my CEO is pissed at me. I joined this small company in January, and put in my two weeks on Monday, after returning from a week's vacation. I get why she's mad. I made nearly $10,000 in about two months to go on two planned vacations, work from home, and barely do anything through training.

But she coerced me to join the team AFTER I DECLINED HER, and lied about what my job would end up being comprised of, dropping the bomb on us two weeks ago that we'd have to start cold calling partners and clients to drum up business. I came from a big company in a high scale position and I refuse to cold call.

But I am worried about my reputation. It's a small industry. How do I defend myself without making her seem deceitful in my explanation?
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>>18153946
>It's a small industry
But people don't know she's a cunt? Not so small perhaps.
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>>18153957

She's not really a "cunt," she just tried to pull one over on me a little bit and hope that I'd deal with it in exchange for a bunch of perks.
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>>18153946
It was shitty of you to go on vacation knowing you were leaving. Still, I would just say that the position did not match the job description you were given when you began.

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Where are good places to grow weed outside? Don't people see them in clearings?
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Grow them inbetween stinging nettles if you can
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>>18153936
I've always wanted to plant one in a public nature Park and water it but im to much of a puss I wonder if they would have to call the police to chop it down
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>>18154017
I looked down the railroad tracks and found a few places I can grow but the workers do down it sometimes but there's really dense woods on each side

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I can't beat my depression and I don't know what to do
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>>18153934
Get laid
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drink
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beat ur depression

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My walking motion and general movements in public are VERY awkward and borderline autistic. They're very robotic and stilted, and I'm very self-conscious about it. I used to get comments on it, and I know it's just as bad if not worse right now.

How can I move more naturally in public? I feel like I've forgotten how to walk normally, and it's gotten worse in the past year or so.
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Iktf OP. I tend to not pick my feet up much so I kind of drag my soles and trip or whatever. I also feel like I have a slight limp even though I don't have any medical problems that I know of.
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Bump please help me
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>>18154344
Bump again

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we have a weird history dating back a couple months, anyway we broke things off around 1.5 weeks ago, i see her everyday as we go to the same school. I've noticed some really weird patterns lately, we havent talked to eachother since we ended it and she changed her routes to class in school just to pass by me and im assuming see me.

its been escalating and she will do this about 5 times a day at this point when previously id only see her once or twice in a day, anyway out of nowhere today she blocked me on facebook when we havent said a word or anything, and shes the one pursueing me, im really confused and wonder what it means?

i always catch her staring at me and when i look at her she breaks eye contact extremely quick, im just confused as to whats going on here.

dont want her back at all, while the feelings are still there it doesnt constitute going back with her, anyway whats going on? why would she persue me than block me out of nowhere?
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>giving a shit what a ex does
Just fucking ignore her
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Maybe she's trying to make you jealous/bring back bad memories. Girls are petty as fuck like that.

Has she been dressing better/sluttier or putting on more makeup?
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>>18153954
yea thats what i intially thought because shes done this shit before where she tries to see me more in school and than she would eventually contact me like a day or 2 later,

the even weirder thing is when we made eye contact today she cracked a grin than i did too, we had this happen previously and than she hits me up, except this time she blocked me lol, its kind of weird.

i should mention she was cheating on her boyfriend with me the whole time so idk maybe shes trying to be loyal this time?" doubt it she doesnt have a loyal bone in her body.

its in school we have a uniform, has not been wearing more makeup, still goes out of her way in school to see me and kind of stalks me its a bit creepy. the only thing that doesnt add up is her blocking me, unless i totally misread every signal but i highly doubt it because i know all her tells and can read her like a book.

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So I figured out that I always act like a fucking princess. My desire to be above everyone else is so strong that sometimes it's gotten in the way of my relationships, but most of the time I can control it.For example if there's an exclusive event with limited entrance I will go and fight for a seat even if it doesn't interest me, and I'll get angry when I can't get in. Or, if there is a person that is better than me in some way, I am jealous and get angry easily with them. How do I fucking fix my fucking faggot sassy bitch ass? I'm trying to improve as a person.
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also, I'm super competitive to the point when it's not even healthy. I always have to beat or belittle someone to improve myself, I have no self-fulfillment other than being better than someone else.
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>>18153866
First if all, you disgrace the name of princess, what you are is a brat.
Secondly, you're behaving like a bitch because you were either neglected as a child or weren't loved enough.
Lastly, improve yourself by reading self help books, going to therapy, and if all else fails kys.

Princesses are sweet, kind hearted, gentle to others and take good care of themselves.

t. A special princess girl
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Just don't do any of that bitch shit. T. Mobile poster

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Got an Amazon interview tomorrow.

Warehouse position. Shipping and stocking mostly.

Just wanted to see if anyone had previous experience there, and could give me a realistic interpretation of what goes on there and what questions I could be expecting.
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>>18153858
This is why kids, go to school. Don't be an idiot.
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>>18153887
sorry i'm a college freshman

just wanted to see if anyones worked in amazon m8.
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>>18153858
Memorize these, and you're pretty much guaranteed to get the job.

https://www.amazon.jobs/principles

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How tow to fight premature ejaculation?
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>>18153854
nofap, healthy lifestyle.
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>>18153854

The opposite of this >>18154015
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>>18153854
By being a real man.

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So I was thinking of what I would love to do for work for the sake of keeping my sanity as I wait to go to college in the future and I decided a movie theater was a good idea to try.

What kind of stories can you tell me from experience working in one? what are the pros? the cons? I know free movies is one and that's sick but what are the things that turn you off about it?

Share with me your wisdom.

Some extra info about me is that I got an interview with a new supervisor for a security guard position but I'm not too thrilled about my chances getting it and I already sent my resume to cineplex.

Just waiting for the email back telling me if they're willing to give me a shot but other than that yeah.
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>>18153850

I worked in a movie theater for a long time, what do you want to know? I have worked in both an arthouse and a multiplex, but have much, much more experience working in an arthouse.
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>>18153850
Dealing with costumers
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>>18153910

Was your overall experience enjoyable? what's an arthouse? what's a multiplex? What are some essentials to doing your job? anything you gotta know beforehand? did your training go far or was it easy to pick up?

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What is the 'healthy' way of dealing with anger?

I blew up at my friends and now I'm too angry to apologize because I don't want their making fun of me to be justified.
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How did you "blow up"? Plus, tell me more about your anger, do you have problems in dealing with it in general? Or you just want to "redirect" justified anger?
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If you actually humble yourself and ask them not to judge you for it or mock you, and genuinely apologize, they'll take you seriously and hopefully do so.

If they continue to deride you, get new friends.
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>>18153836
My friends and I were starting to talk about who's the best at League and they made a Google Doc that rated everyone from highest to lowest on different aspects of the game.

I got rated lowest along with one other guy, which I expected, but still peeved me off. After getting mad earlier about someone talking shit at me in the game they decided I was the "maddest and the angriest" (even though I've had plenty of episodes where they got angry at me for fucking up) so then whenever I got made they'd just make fun of me more, which pissed me off even more. THEN the guy who was also lowly rated with me decided to start acting like he was so much better and that pissed me off more. Finally we were in-between games and they started berating me for my politics (which I will not go into detail because it isn't the point of the thread) and when I finally just started getting sick of their shit they told me I was mad over nothing and needed to get over myself.

I don't want to show up to the Discord again because I'm extremely angry at them, and it seems my whole life I try to put up with being made fun of, and when I finally lash out I'm the bad guy. At this point I'm pretty sure I am because obviously I don't have a good enough personality to play the game without complaining or deal with anger correctly.

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