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Am I in danger of becoming a pedo? 2017-03-24 04:05:28 Post No.18154732
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Am I in danger of becoming a pedo?
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2017-03-24 04:05:28
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I discovered lolicon when I was about 12 years old (same age I started fapping). When I started, I didn't really care if the characters looked or were too young. "These girls are supposed to be around my age", I used to think to myself. As time went, I just kept fapping to it, along with other (more normal/"acceptable") kinds of hentai and porn. However, especially after I turned 17, I started thinking to myself "are they too young?". Shortly after, I started seeing more people saying that all lolicon fans as pedophiles, although they would reply that "loli != CP", and I agreed. I never saw real children as something I'd desire to have sex with. Maybe the only time was when I was 12 years old, when I wanted to have sex with my 12 or 13 years old classmates, but logically that must've been because I was, well, a child too. But as I grew up, I would now wish to sex girls around my age.
I turned 20 years old this week, and for some days before my birthday, as I went on with my regular fapping, I started thinking: "Am I getting too old for this?", "Is it really normal for someone my age to like lolicon?", "Am I really a pedophile?". Those thoughts have been giving me a though time, and since then, I've been in doubt. The fact that I've never been in a relationship (and that by consequence, I'm still a virgin) don't really help me. I don't really have anyone to tell this about IRL. Most of my friends are super normies who wince in the sight of anything related to anime.
I don't ever want to be a real pedophile. I know I don't want to rape children and I don't feel comfortable about the existence of real CP; the whole deal behind that market is gross enough that I don't want anything to do with it. But I don't want lolicon to become a "gateway drug" to that stuff. I just like that, the same way I like MILFs, or big breasts (yes, it's possible to like loli and big breasts).
What should I do?
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some people have freaky shit they like to keep under the bedsheets. I think being a pedophile is more of a thing that people are predisposed to rather than caused by environmental changes and enjoying lolicon. I wouldn't worry too much about these things, but porn in general is not a healthy habit, maybe just try to cut down on it. Don't let anyone know you enjoy lolicon because you will get judged harshly in the real world for it. 4chan is generally more full of open-minded people. Good luck OP.
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>>18154732
There isn't much resemblence between anime and real people. So I see no real reason to worry. They are more like caricatures
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It isn't much an issue as long as you distinguish between drawings and real children. If you're really worried i recommend avoiding any kind of porn and stop fapping for a while, if you fap do it to normal vanilla stuff and don't do it too often.
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I need help /adv/ what jobs can a 19 year old punk who's willing to learn anything and work hard get without a degree? I need to be making about 2000 a month at least.
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>>18154618
You ever tried your hand at cooking/chefing?
It saved me, maybe it can do the same for you.
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>>18154618
Join a union. If you live near a big city they could pay higher than minimum
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>>18154618
Factory job payed about this, on site training, easy to pick up, no prerequisites. I worked in a health food factory, boxing products pretty much. Labour intensive but it'll get you fit and the money is well worth it.
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I want to ask this girl out the next time I see her (Saturday) but I'm having some doubts. Talk me into it.
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>>18154611
Do it, what do you have to lose?
More to the point, what is holding you back?
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I'll play devil's advocate and talk you out of it. If your doubts on asking out come from your gut rather than your mind then you are probably going to mess up. If you were any sort of comfortable with this girl you would have asked her out sooner or maybe she would have asked you out? Just wait some more- you build more confidence and have more time to come up with a plan to ask out or even a plan for possible date locations.
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>>18154621
I just feel like I'd she does say yes, she might flake and I think at this point it could crush me.
>>18154622
I'm not afraid of asking the wrong way or whatever. I'm comfortable around this girl. I've already asked her out before and found out she had a boyfriend.
This girl is damn fine though so I can't wait too long. She'll probably be with another guy in less than a month.
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I need a crash diet. I'm about to be on probation and I need to start shedding fat as fast as possible to work the THC out of my system.
I'm currently running 2 miles daily, elliptical and treadmill, throwing in some running in my neighborhood on occasion. I'm eating around 500 calories a day right now, which works, but I can feel it having a negative effect on my cognition and I need that to not be the case.
What is the best diet I can be on that will
A) Keep me from starving/retarding myself (enough vitamins and nutrients, etc)
B) Have low fat, but high protein. Low calories in general obviously.
I was thinking about a pure liquid diet, some kind of slurry that will give me a solid 800 calories a day w/ vitamin supplements, but apparently you can only get that shit from a nutritionist or a doctor and I don't want to pay the copay.
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Bumping this, need something similar for weighin
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Just eat a lot of good meat and vegetables. They are healthy and will satiate you better than almost any other food will.
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>>18154566
It will take about 30 days for thc to leave your system no matter what you do.
As far as rapid weight loss, it's very difficult to lose more than a couple pounds per week, and it will take rigorous exercise (weightlifting would be best) and calorie management (to the point that it's painful, but it will lessen as your body gets used to it). Good luck.
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So. For three days already I feel hungry. The hunger does not go away even after a good meal. I don't eat a lot, never did, though I mostly eat processed food, and by the calculation I was eating McDonald's once in 4 days for past 3 month.
I don't cook much, cause I don't know how to, but I am learning, I mostly eat pasta, rice and nestle cornflakes. I am a bit underweight, 60/180, and cycle ~10km daily, always on my feet, never take elevators etc.
May it be related to that these three days a had a rather dense time at the Uni? How to cope with hunger? What are the best meals to eat?
Also, I am an Orthodox Christian, these days we are having the strictest lent, last year everything went smooth, but this year I've decided I am not doing it (so sorry). May it be a recall from undernutrition last year?
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You eat nothing but ''empty calories''. Even if you eat enough calories, you're not getting any of the nutrients that are supposed to come with them, so your body keeps telling you to eat to get the bare minimum. All your calorie sources are also sugar, so your insulin must be like a roller coaster. Once it comes down, hunger shoots back up like a rocket. Eat meat and vegetables instead.
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>>18154391
>this
And also do you feel more tired than usual ?
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>>18154437
A bit.
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I was pressured into sexual activity 2017-03-23 05:25:53 Post No.18152994
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I was pressured into sexual activity
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18 year old guy here. 2 weeks ago, me and my girlfriend met at a (then) friends house. we hung out and talked, but then he started trying to play and grab my girlfriend flirtatiously. because me and her did that in his room, he said he could lend us his room for sex, since we can't do it at my house or hers (we only fucked in a park). he then took her in the kitchen while I played his For Honor Game
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so after she and him came back, he eventually mentioned that we really should fuvk in his room. she liked the idea too . however I was very afraid to do that. I would've maybe done that if he wasn't in the room, but he stayed in the room. the bathroom was apparently a bad idea since his mom frequently uses it. so it got to the point that where both if then were pressuring and begging me to do that (she was horny, and really wanted to be close with me again). I was a little aroused too, but I was scared and didn't want to do it. I felt trapped, and I gave in. however I just stuck to eating her out and fingering her, which she really loved. what bothered me and kept me from enjoying myself, was that our former friend was on the computer, yet he kept turning and glancing at us. I was annoyed that he saw my girlfriend with only her bra on, and I was afraid to fuck her since he could see my dick. halfway through I lost arousal because of these factors. thankfully her parents called her and we left. but it turns out our former friend called her in the kitchen earlier because he wanted us to fuck, as long as he was on it too.she thankfully declined his offer to join in. he wanted us to do it, hoping that it can potentially turn into a three some. when I told her I felt trapped and pressured today, she felt bad. she was ashamed. I don't want her to feel that way. what do I do?
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>>18152994
bump
tl; dr I told my girlfriend I felt pressured to fuck her and do sexual stuff with her in front of that guy, and now she feels bad. I don't know what to do
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>>18153053
She didn't have much to do with your feeling trapped and pressured, really. I wouldn't hang out with that friend very much, though. He seems pretty shitty.
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I'm a virgin, but I'm fairly confident about who my first will be. Being a virgin I'll probably be awful when it does happen, but I'd obviously like to lesden that as much as possible since I want to absolutely fuck the shit out of this girl when I get the opportunity.
Any tips to accomplish this? I'm open to any suggestions. If you want more info just ask I guess
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>>18152633
It literally just comes naturally. It's genetically programmed into you how to fuck. To get better just requires practice.
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take your time
don't yell in her ear
stop and breathe if you feel like you're gonna come too soon
when a woman says "yes/more," it usually means "keep doing what you're doing," not "do more and more bullshit until you run out of ideas"
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>>18152739
Makes sense, but how can I take my time if she likes it rough?
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Are people serious when they say they find cartoon/anime characters attractive?
I initially thought that calling anime girls hot was just a meme but after spending 4 months on this shit site I'm not sure anymore.
Please enlighten me on this matter. I personally don't find animated characters attractive.
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>>18152256
Yes
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I don't find white women attractive, only 2d and asians
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I don't get it either.
I remember when I discovered rule 34 I thought it was just a thing for trolling and humour.
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Depression adventures 2017-03-21 03:05:07 Post No.18145878
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Rather than make a big long post, I'll keep this short.
There's a girl who's interested in me, but I don't feel anything towards her. In fact, I don't feel anything towards anyone, so it's not her fault. I've never had a GF in my 27 years, and I never really wanted one because the whole affair sounds like it would just be annoying. This girl and I kinda went on a date last night. I think. We saw a movie together and just sort of hung out for a bit after in my car.
Frankly, I just wanted to leave. Like, it sounds terrible of me and it probably is, but that is just me. Normally, I'd probably just ghost out of the whole thing, but she's a friend of a friend.
I'm sure I sound crazy. Maybe I am, but I don't know what to do.
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>>18145878
youre too sensitive.
think about why you went out with the girl in the first place.
sounds like you are anxious because youre a virgin and you feel a pressure to act in a certain way on a "date"
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>>18145910
She asked. That's literally why.
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>>18145931
so you only do things because other people ask you to? do you not have your own desires or interests?
do you have any desire to fuck? to release your seed inside a womans hot wet snatch as god intended?
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>be me
>19 y/o shutin w no friends besides on the internet
>meet girl at uni
>have a few conversations and now cant stop thinking about her
>want to ask her out but i have no clue how to do relationships and i feel like she wont like me once she finds out i pretty much have no friends
doushio? ?!!!?!?!?
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>>18157304
Let her go. Try to have some low effort relationships IRL, like frinedships, before trying to have an exclusive, dating relationship.
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>>18157307
dunno how its so normal for people to have irl friendships! i only get along with schizo spectrum weirdos i meet on the net
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>>18157304
get a job before you get a gf
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Where to start engineering? 2017-03-25 12:39:12 Post No.18157166
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Where to start engineering?
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I'm nine months out of undergrad and I still haven't landed an entry level job in engineering. I got my BSME back in June and I passed the FE exam earlier this month, so from what I can tell I am effectively qualified to apply for EIT certification in just about any state in the union except California. I submitted an application for EIT certification in my home state of Washington, but entry level work seems hard to find in the Seattle area where I'm living right now.
Anyone know of any good places to look for engineering work in the United States? I have family and friends in Washington, Illinois, Texas, and Missouri, which might make the move easier, but otherwise I'm willing to relocate. Otherwise if you know of work or types of jobs to get in the meantime, I'm down for recommendations.
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Tell us about your work experience, research experience, and extracurriculars.
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>>18157171
>No prior internship experience
>No research experience
>Extracurriculars were mostly band related
When I went to the office of career development a year ago to talk about my lack of experience, I was told to emphasize my engineering project experience from my coursework. I obviously haven't done a large scale project before, but I have done an injection mold design project, a gear train design project, a motor control project using programmable microcontrollers, and some stress analysis work. The CAD I used was Siemens NX, which it seems like everyone's asking for AutoCAD or Solidworks, but unfortunately I don't have much experience in either of those.
I'd like to get into design engineering, though I don't really have an idea of what I'd like to design.
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>>18157192
Do you have ANY work experience? If not, what in the world were you doing while you were at school? And are you working now? You're not going to get a job anywhere if you don't have anything to offer except a degree.
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im completely obsessed with a boy. he's the first guy i ever reciprocated romantic feelings for.
i play it cool and maybe a little too distant when im with him but when im not... all i can think about is him. And I've been obsessed for almost a year now. The only time i didnt think about him was when I went through army bct. Because I was too busy to think about him. But now that im out and have nothing to do, he fills my mind again.
He hasn't contacted me since friday. I thought he would hit me up since he usually does on the weekends but he hasn't yet. My happiness is directly related to his messages so now im pretty down.
He's not even that nice to me. He's actually pretty scummy. I don't know why I'm so obsessed. Yes I realize this isn't healthy and yes I realize im creepy.
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Plz halp
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call him up.
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>>18157082
I have nothing in common with him and we both end up saying one word replies ending the convo pretty quick.
I wanna be trap so advice on stuff I need and what I need to do.
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Just stop it. You know perfectly well this isn't healthy.
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>>18156962
This.
Plus you're an idiot.
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>>18156958
http://lmgtfy.com/?q=trap+aesthetics
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I need help identifying this godforsaken larvae bug. As of a couple weeks ago, this breed has been invading my bathroom, which sits in a corner end of the house. Seems every 6-8 hours i go in there, i see about 3-5 new visitors, which i kill every time. At this point I've probably killed over a hundred of them by hand. They seem harmless, but are pretty repulsive to look at.
The area around the toilet seems to be a hotspot. I've caulked some gaps around the cupboard & baseboards, sprayed the outside perimeter w/pesticide, and have sprayed the bathroom twice. The good news is that they seem to be getting less and less frequent, but somehow a few stragglers are still managing to get by.
They seem to stick to the walls and ceiling (and corners), because i don't think they can traverse well on carpet. I've seen this bug before in past years, but they were a rare sighting. The bathroom is kept relatively clean; the bugs do not appear in any other part of the house except here.
Will these things ever go away? In 2 days, I leave on a 5-day vacation and am concerned about leaving this bathroom behind. I do not want it to be conquered while I'm gone, and have even considered staying home.
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I was bamboozled wasn't I? 2017-03-24 10:49:30 Post No.18156854
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I was bamboozled wasn't I?
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To keep it brief a girl at work started talking to me. I thought she liked me and I like her. We've hung out a few times but today she sends me a bunch of pics of some girl I've never met and said it was her friend who needed a date for prom and that I should take her. Is it my cynicism talking or was this the only reason she started talking to me in the first place?
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You've been speckledorfed.
Also if the other girl is cute, fuck it, go to prom with her. Why not?
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>>18156854
>Is it my cynicism talking or was this the only reason she started talking to me in the first place?
If you befriend girls and they're not attracted you, but still recognize that you're a decent guy, they'll set you up with friends. It may not have been her intention, but the result is still the same.
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>>18156869
Because I hate high school, dancing, and people I don't know
>>18156875
Fucks sake