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>>18225727
Sucks horrible ass. Wish i was dead pretty much daily. But it could be worse, like a starving african or some shit.

>>18226361
Those starving africans are probably happy though.

I'm going to die alone. I have nothing. I'm pretty sure I died already about 15 years ago (As best I can interpret time here, might actually be a minute?,) and now I'm in literal hell. No hope.

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>>18225726
I have made 3 days on my nofap. Why do you autistic fucks have to deal in such absolutes? 40 days? Why? Just make it 5 days and have a wank each 5 days. MODERATION is key. Have a wank once a week. It's healthy.

You fucktards...

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>>18225765
See, OP, that picture is autism. Just keep your wanking in check. Don't do it every day. That's it. Don't make it more complex than it needs to be.

Fishing for compliments, acceptance and likes + trying to be relatable.
Its even worse when they add a picture of themselves with some inspiring quote.

>>18225704
Ayyyyyy my ex did that bullshit to. She had these "do more of what makes you happy" posters, even though she worked six days a week and was always miserable and could never do anything aside from pick up food on the way home then crash immediately because she had to be up in 5 hours, and then wondered why we were distant.

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Because they want to believe it but cant and think that looking at these "inspirational" quotes will let them, or they just want attention.

>>18225669
Bump.

>>18225669
/gif/'s YGYL/Eurobeat threads. Only best of the best tunes there.

>>18225728

Is this real?

>>18225668
If you are unhappy and it's not changing despite the talks, just end it. You might miss opportunities for meeting a better girl, if you keep messing around with this one.

Talk. Seriously. You've been together two plus years. Your should be able to do that by now.

If neither of you are happy anymore and you don't have the will to fix that, bounce.

End things amicable while you can, and while you don't hate each others guts.

>Please excuse my brevity. This is sent from my iPad Air and I'm tired as duck, sleep deprived, and just typing random shit now because it makes me giggle

>she doesn't know why she's not attracted to me

Have some self respect and dump her. You know what road this is headed down, you're just refusing to acknowledge it.

She's telling you she wants to take things slowly bc she is using you. Everytime you talk to her at night, text her, like her photos on FB, send her any kind of attention, she is using you. She uses you to bolster her own ego and self worth. She keeps you in this thick sludge of friendzone and limerance because you are too much of a pussy to go out and meet someone else. Focus on your own life and forget her. Forget all this friend shit, focus on your self. Find that one that will actually kiss you and spoon you, maybe even fuck you, brah. If she was seriously interested in you, she would realize that you were slipping away because you opened the doors to the rest of the market (ie, other women) but don't squash all your plans about focusing on yourself if she turns up the communication. There needs to be action on her part. Texting and FB likes are immaterial. They mean nothing. You will know if she is sincere or not.

>>18225676
As a follow up to this, the fact that she has been using you in such a way is indicative of her overall character. At this point in time, just cut the cord and forget about her. Focus on yourself. She is a manipulative person and the future only looks from with a person like this.

>>18225676
I don't know how to focus on myself. I feel like doing so would only push me farther away from what I want which is companionship I guess.

I have a really hard time meeting other women too. I actually have not been out with a different girl than the girl I mentioned in the OP in like 5 years. Basically, she was my primary focus in the dating realm of things for a long while.

I also feel that forgetting her would do a number on my brain. She is like the only girl to have ever showed me this kind of attention.

>>18225606
'Perfect love' does not exist by the very virtue that 'perfect' as a concept does not exist. Stop now to avoid disappointment.

>>18225613
She doesn't have to be perfect.

>>18225606
What do you mean exactly ?

>>18225582
Even more odd, is that, my relative is a clean and hygienic person. She showers regularly, washes her clothes, and wears deodorant and perfume all the time. But, for whatever reason, her odour remains.

For the past year I’ve done my best to try and ignore the smell, but overtime it only seems to have grown worse. I haven’t made any attempt to mention the smell to her because she’s a very fragile and self-conscious person, and I don’t want to upset her.

I also haven’t made any attempt to talk about her smell to my brothers, however, I’m almost certain they are aware of the odour. I think they keep it to themselves, because they too try their best to ignoring and openly talking about it to one another won’t resolve the problem, since none of us will have the heart to tell her.

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>>18225582
>>18225583

I’m at the stage where I really can’t stand to be in the same room as her for more than a second. It’s starting to become blatantly obvious, and she seems to think that I’m ignoring her, which has not only made her really sad, but also led to her crying in her sleep.

I in rut, I don’t know what the fuck to do. I REALLY don’t want to just tell her to her face that she smells awful, because I know for a fact that it’s bound to cause more trouble.

So does anyone have any advice they can give me, however small it is? Have any of you dealt with something like this before? And does anyone know what some likely reasons for her ungodly odour might be?

>>18225582
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>>18225584
First of all, you didn't need to split your posts up that much.

But regarding your problem: I would have said something long before it got to the point where you're just avoiding this person at all times, given she lives in your house. As you might have noticed from your relative crying in her sleep, that's way more hurtful than telling her what the actual problem is.

Besides that, if it's not a hygienic issue to the best of your knowledge, a strong putrid body odor like that could be a sign of a serious health problem. First check with your brothers to make sure that you're not just crazy, but if everyone smells it, you all need to tell her about it so that she can start working towards sourcing and fixing it.

Depends on a target group.

>>18225580
>What makes a girl "hot"?
Depends on who's looking.

>Can an above average looking girl who is not at model level be "hot" or "cute" as well?
Yes.

>Also, what makes a girl a "catch"?
That tends to have more to do with factors other than appearance. If a girl happens to have the same hobbies as you, have a compatible personality, and be out of your league, that kind of thing, then she'd typically be referred to as a catch.

>>18225580
>What makes a girl "hot"?

The perfect amount of makeup (Kek)
DD breasts
That ass
A perfect hourglass figure
A size 0 figure
No makeup
Red lipstick
Heels
A bunch of arbitrary bullshit that changes from individual to individual because this shit is all subjective

>Can an above average looking girl who is not at model level be "hot" or "cute" as well?
Sure. Depending on the person who is looking

>Also, what makes a girl a "catch"?
She's a complete person who has her own grounded sense of values and isn't wish washy and overly caught up in what other people think, and is instead focused on what it is she wants and how she feels about herself, while also alowing others that same basic right.

On one hand, there's no harm in trying again.

On the other, this is done dude. She already lost interest.

In my experience with online dating: people who have long text sessions about random topics, don't tend to ever want to actually meet anyway, and are more there to lurk/talk than meet real life people. So this was probably not going to go anywhere

And even if you do meet, your online impressions almost never translate to real life.

>>18225548
>In my experience with online dating: people who have long text sessions about random topics, don't tend to ever want to actually meet

Huh, now that I think about it, that's how it's been for me too. Most girls I've hooked up with from tinder were ones I kind of half assed talking to and didn't have much in common with. The ones I do have a lot in common with all end up ending abruptly pretty quickly

>>18225548
>In my experience with online dating: people who have long text sessions about random topics, don't tend to ever want to actually meet anyway, and are more there to lurk/talk than meet real life people. So this was probably not going to go anywhere
This 1000 times.

>>18225522
>What should I do? Should I just accept defeat?
What defeat? Stop being gay, OP! Just move on for fucks sake. The attitude you have is fucking wrong. What a bad outlook to have. No. You should not accept defeat, because there was no defeat. Maybe you learn from this how to talk to girls on Tinder, if you wanna meet them. Maybe you will learn that Tinder is not a good way for you to meet women. Maybe you will stop thinking in a self harming "win or lose" way.

I don't think shes giving you any signs. From the sounds of it you just blurted out that you like her and nothing came of it which is a sign she's not into you like that.

Yeah man its ok, women mature faster
Tell me how you started to hangout outside the class

>>18225504
Half your age plus seven

20 / 2 = 10

10 + 7 = 17

Yep, she's too young. Wait until she's 18, then you'll be good

Anything but yes is a firm and final no. She will never fuck you. If you're just orbiting her, you're not her friend.

>>18225492
I'm not talking about me being friendzoned f.a.m.

>>18225499
If he wants you and you don't want him cut contact.

>>18225460

Anyone can tell from their experience if stopping masturbation and getting in a healthy relationship can change that?

Uhhhh.... what the exactly so you think relationships are?

Pro tip: relationships make absolutely NOTHING in life easier. Only more complex Do not seek one for solutions

I'm not saying this as someone who hates relationships (Quite the contrary) I'm saying this as someone who is pointing out you are being wildly naive

>>18225664
I am sorry but I didn't express and opinion that relationships will make it easier. I asked if that could be the case since I haven't been in a healthy one. Emphasis on 'healthy'.

>>18225460
put tits on whatever you are working on

>>18225454
lmao

>>18225454
So ima be real with here for a sec, and it's going to be harsh because your about to make a fucking MAJOR life decision here, and I think you should understand the gravity of that.

This is someone you are choosing to do it to spend the rest of your ENTIRE life with.

Instead of sneaking around, freaking out in the background and posting here asking random internet memesters what the fuck you should do, you should be an adult and have an adult moment and talk to HER.

Ask her wants up. Tell her what's on your mind. Don't accuse, don't flip out. Just walk

This is a basic skill you SHOULD have and SHOULD develop if you plan to live any kind of happy life with her.

Communicate with one another and trust in that foundation of communication.


Hopefully this has all been just been a reminder for you ina moment where you're just flipping out--because that's perfectly understandable when you've just made a major,life decision--otherwise, youshould get on setting that foundation down ASAP.

Good luck anon.

>>18225454
I have friends who are friends with their exes.
She's allowed to have private conversations.

If it bugs you ,explain to her why. Have a real conversation. If you are ready to marry her, you should be able to talk about this.

You're attracted to what you are attracted to. You may limit the growth of your character and new experiences if you straight up ignore other types though.

I'm sort of like this. While I am attracted to other types of women, I tend to have stronger feelings for white/pale blonde women. At the same time, I fucking suck at socializing so I tend to drive them away.

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Ye whatever works best to you bro