This is going to sound retarded but I'm going to ask anyway

On one hand, there's no harm in trying again.

On the other, this is done dude. She already lost interest.

In my experience with online dating: people who have long text sessions about random topics, don't tend to ever want to actually meet anyway, and are more there to lurk/talk than meet real life people. So this was probably not going to go anywhere

And even if you do meet, your online impressions almost never translate to real life.

>>18225548
>In my experience with online dating: people who have long text sessions about random topics, don't tend to ever want to actually meet

Huh, now that I think about it, that's how it's been for me too. Most girls I've hooked up with from tinder were ones I kind of half assed talking to and didn't have much in common with. The ones I do have a lot in common with all end up ending abruptly pretty quickly

>>18225548
>In my experience with online dating: people who have long text sessions about random topics, don't tend to ever want to actually meet anyway, and are more there to lurk/talk than meet real life people. So this was probably not going to go anywhere
This 1000 times.

>>18225522
>What should I do? Should I just accept defeat?
What defeat? Stop being gay, OP! Just move on for fucks sake. The attitude you have is fucking wrong. What a bad outlook to have. No. You should not accept defeat, because there was no defeat. Maybe you learn from this how to talk to girls on Tinder, if you wanna meet them. Maybe you will learn that Tinder is not a good way for you to meet women. Maybe you will stop thinking in a self harming "win or lose" way.

>>18225522
The mistake I think you made OP is that you didn't try to meet when it became evident you had so much in common. If I were you I'd just shoot out a single message along the lines of: "Hey I really enjoyed talking to you on tinder. Let's get coffee. (Date) and (time)?"

Reschedule as needed. If she doesn't respond or makes up an excuse without offering another time move on.

>>18225658
This is good advice.

Whether or not it works, you have literally nothing to lose.

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>>18225663
>you have literally nothing to lose.
OP may lose his virginity.

>>18225631
I think you took "defeat" a little too seriously. I meant it is an there's nowhere left to go with this one

I've met a bunch of girls on tinder and have banged a few of them, but this is the first one I thought I might actually give a shit about (which probably will turn out badly because it's tinder) but I just wanted to know if anyone had any idea on how I could give this one last push

>>18225522
I had the same thing happen to me, picked it up again, we met twice at her place but my autism was too strong and ruined my chance

try, if it works you made it, if it fails you are back where you started no biggie