I haven't done this in a couple weeks but i'm on my second glass of rosé so hey, why not!
Ask me (a buzzed 23 y/o girl) about anything that is bugging you right now and you need an answer asap.
Whether you're a boy or girl, just get something off your chest, i'm here
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22m here, two questions
When encounter a new guy for the first time, what's the very first thing you notice? Is it facial aesthetics, height, other?
also
Texting a quick "thanks" after having sex - nice gesture or cheesy as fuck?
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What would you think of guy in his late 20s who doesn't drink or smoke, doesn't party, works full-time, goes to school full-time, and lives with his family?
Too boring to go out with?
I have a hard time connecting with people my age. They usually start out by asking me what I do for fun, and I don't really have a good answer. It's not that I don't want to try knew things, I just have a set schedule I keep to until something interesting comes up.
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18 year old girl. Do other girls actually get nicer after high school, or are they eternally mean?
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I've been trying really hard to lose weight over this year (I know we're just in April). Much of my effort has been spent towards removing shit from my diet--I've been drinking at least two Cokes daily for literally my entire 20 years on this earth, and have now cut it to one single Coke a month, if at all. I cut out all soda, basically. I didn't expect to slim down immediately and have that be a quick fix. I also have been trying to eat better, but I need to work more on it (I started by cutting out pizza, which I used to eat daily, and start eating more vegetables, like peas, carrots, broccoli) but since the beginning of the year I've only gained weight, not lost it.
I understand that I likely need to add exercise to this--it's difficult for me, because I've gained weight almost exclusively in my stomach, and so my big fat blob of a belly crushes my small feet whenever I try to work out. But still, why am I only gaining weight? I thought cutting out all that sugar and those calories would at least do SOMETHING, but nothing's happened.
I'm not really asking for advice on losing weight, as that shit's everywhere, it's more like, why hasn't the stuff I've been doing work at least a little bit?
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exercise is more important than diet (probably)
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>>18230288
Yeah, I don't doubt that, but all things being relatively the same I would think cutting out such a massive amount of sugar should show at least some benefits, as opposed to being significantly worse
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First of all, don't listen to this faggot >>18230288
While exercize helps a lot, what determines whether you lose or gain weight is whether you eat over or below your TDEE.
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How do I read guys who're around my age (18-22)? 2017-04-17 12:46:25 Post No.18230207
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So, how do I tell when a guy's into me, or at least appreciates me?
I am one hell of a thirsty girl. All I want from a potential relationship is fun and sex. A good time with a good man (not a nice guy or some random thirsty fuckboi)...heck, just a good fuck buddy is what I need.
And I'm also a virgin. Of course. The v-card's a damning mark, isn't it? I've been fat since I was a baby and have hilariously bad self-esteem to go with my hilariously high sex drive.
Times change, however. Well, outside of that last part.
I'm now almost in the "medium" rather than "large/plus-sized" category. Sometimes there's times where a guy undoubtedly looks at me. Two days ago, three scantily clad very think girls, a guy, and me (in a tight shirt and jeans but otherwise well-covered) were on an elevator. I smiled to myself, thinking that he'd look at them, but he stepped back and gave me this half-minute long boob-to-leg look.
It was ridiculous and I had no idea how to register it, being so used to being ignored (or attracting presumably negative/critical type of attention).
>Is he really checking me out? Or
>WOW, he must be judging me. Sorry, stranger dude for being an eldritch abomination. Wait. But I checked in the mirror. I really do look slim in this...No one has insulted my body ever since my 30~ pound weight loss, too...
I don't even know if each time a guy smiles brightly and does something nice for me is a good sign.
>"he took pity on me because I am an ugly girl, but I appreciate what he did"
>"he actually finds me cute"
And when he laughs alongside me, is he laughing with me, or at me? I usually assume that it's the worst case scenario.
Tl;dr: what I want to say is:
>SOS, I Have No Fuckin Idea How To Read Guys And Always Assume They Hate Me. Help!
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have sex with me desu
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>>18230207
Hm, should I just take this to the ask-the-opposite-gender thread?
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what kind of guy u want, someone who would call u "my queen", or someone who will call u "my bitch"?
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People have said, my hair looks terrible, To be honest, I don't give a shit what people think. But now my family are paying me to cut my hair for 30$. I've been growing my hair for almost a year and don't know what to do. HALP ME
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Tell 'em to shove it. If people are commenting about your hair in a negative way it means you need to care for it better and actually do something with it instead of letting it hang.
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Is that you in the pic? If so I like it.
Be yourself, OP. You'll attract the right people and the wrong people will leave your life without any struggle.
I have long hair too, growing it out longer. I like freaky girls and they don't usually go for guys with undercuts these days. You gotta stand out.
Pic related is a good style, the E Ronnenfelt. Pretty evenly cut, bangs that go in your face, slight coconut oil treatment after washing to maintain a grungy look. Girls dig it.
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>>18230198
well sending us a filtered distant shot isn't oging to help us help you make a decision.
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Anybody here knowledgeable or have experience regarding opiate withdrawal and detox?
I have kind of an odd question. If a dog is addicted to heroin, IV use of about 5 units from an insulin syringe, could he detox the same way a human could?
Opiate withdrawal technically can't kill a human, but can it kill a dog? What are advisable ways to detox a dog if cold turkey won't work?
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>>18230177
>>>/doctor/ for animals aka vet
Also what kind of idiot gives his lovable pet heroin?
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>>18230200
it sucks doing heroin on your own, and your dog is already there so it's not exactly insane to share some with the dog
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Why is your dog on fucking heroin?
Anyways. For opioid dependence, buprenorphine+naloxone is used in humans. Buprenorphine is a partial mu-opioid agonist and naloxone is an antagonist- basically mild stimulation so you don't go into withdrawal symptoms. I don't think it's something that's readily available for animals but then again, I don't have much experience with pet drugs.
Sincerely,
a pharmfag
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>Don't have a job
>Can't help but feel life is a wonderful, incredible gift
>Have a job
>Think about suicide everyday
What's the deal here?
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>>18230141
this might be a long shot but maybe you dun like your job?
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You have mental illness like everyone else on here. Go get treatment and don't become like tumblrites and cry and whine about how this makes you disabled and LITERALLY unable to work and everyone should just give me free money because I'm lazy and don't like to work.
Nobody likes their job 100% of the time. Find something you tolerate, and then enrich your freetime with hobbies you enjoy to balance it out
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>>18230240
>You have a mental illness because you don't like wasting your life
>You value your time and the way it's spent more than you value money
>You're one sick puppy
Mental illness is a bit extreme
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My husband was in a bad mood this morning and he told me "black guys will fuck anything with a heartbeat. They would even fuck you."
I got really upset and cried and had a panic attack basically in front of our kids.
I feel really depressed and suicidal. I don't know what to do.
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That's pretty funny, I'm gonna use that. Also that doesn't make sense, is he black?
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>>18230113
No he's white.
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Get a divorce
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Advice for hooking up with an escort?
Websites to go to? I live in the United States and not in a state with legal brothels.
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ask someone trash and degenerate for a link to a good listing site or legit company's website
not even joking
also, above average wealth aside, getting a girlfriend is the same amount of effort as paying for an escort once
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>>18230110
>getting a girlfriend is the same amount of effort as paying for an escort?
How? You can fuck an escort for like $500.
To get a girlfriend you have to be Chad.
Guess which is easier to do?
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>>18230118
I'm not looking for a girlfriend, I'm just looking to fuck somebody rn in exchange for money then never see them again.
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How do you talk yourself out of suicide when it feels like the most sensible and logical option?
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>>18229918
You can try to post your reasons, your life situation and what have you tried so far to get rid of suicide thoughts and hopefully some anon will counter argument you or even give you new ideas as to why not suicide.
But i bet you are one of thouse suicide posters who ghosts the thread after it becomes "too personal" for him.
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If you kill yourself you will not feel relief from the situation you are in. You will completely cease to exist which means there won't be any you to feel the relief.
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>>18229930
I'm an LGBT alphabet soup in a small town where I don't have the energy and resources to get out of, and even if I did manage to find a real job in a real city, I'd still only have a fraction of a fraction of a chance to find someone who'd tolerate me, much to speak of loving.
>>18229941
It'd still make it stop.
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>tfw you spent your youth playing vidya and doing hobbies because everyone hates you
>Now you are 18 and have no social or life skills, just worthless talents
>Go to College, shitty part time job, sleep, rinse and repeat
Everyone around me lost their virginity at like 12, already went through their fuck-and-party phase, and are working towards life goals and living independently
Is it already too late for me?
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>>18229861
You're still a tiny baby with years of college ahead of you, so no of course not.
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>>18229861
Start improving your life by never posting pepe meme again. And by deciding what you truly want. Disregards what others are doing.
What do YOU want anon?
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>>18229861
you're 18, have a job and are in uni. you have your whole life ahead of you nigga, so what if you haven't had sex yet?
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How to get over looking old? 2017-04-16 10:47:58 Post No.18229807
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How to get over looking old?
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So, I look almost exactly like Lorde, just a bit chubbier, with slightly more defined cheekbones, darker skin, lighter hair, and almond-shaped hazel eyes.
And people tend to say Lorde looks like an old hag. I read into that, thinking that I myself must look irrevocably unattractive although no one has really called me ugly.
I think Lorde looks alright. Not like a doll. Distinctive--she looks like no one but herself. That's cool.
People think conventional attractiveness is everything. And, well, that's ridiculous to me...but, hey, since it's more about me we're talking about, it does get to me. I don't even have the "pop artiste" card to play. I'm a regular 18 year old with almost no make-up. Oh, and people always refer to me as "Ma'am" instead of "Miss" except for one butler dude I meant that seemed kinda into me. :(
This isn't a "critique/compliment" me thread. I'm asking:
how the fuck do you get over the fact that, in a society that emphasizes neotany as being the only way to be beauty, you just have a mature look despite being young? Just feel bad? Get the fuck over it? Or is it probably because of my extra 25 pounds (which otherwise are very well distributed) fucking up my face?
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People who are slightly chubby (keyword is slightly) tend to look younger than people who are skinny, since the fat fills out their face a bit more. If people are saying you look old, it's probably more an issue with your skin than anything, especially if you're only 18. What's your skincare routine?
Also fuck those people who are making you feel bad about yourself.
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>>18229807
Post pic.
That way somebody can maybe point out how to improve your looks.
Post your hygiene / skin care routine.
Post your life style. Chugging alcohol, not sleeping, drugs and no sleep can do more harm than any teen is comfortable to admit.
What do you eat is alao important.
Do you do sport?
Otherwisem you just have to accept the way you are. Otherwise you have sone sort of mental ilness like trans people and you will be never happy in your life.
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lorde is hot lol the fuck
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I've been off the pill for quite some time now due to hormone imbalance and just the side effects.
Wondering if there are any ladies out there who have sexual intercourse (with a safe and long-term partner of course) without any contraception? Using 'natural' birth control? Does it really work?
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Been doing it for 3 years and it has worked for me.
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>>18229651
that's image is of a shemale
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https://www.plannedparenthood.org/learn/birth-control/birth-control-implant-implanon
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What is prison really like? I'm about to be sent there for a 20 year sentence and I'm scared shitless
Can anyone here help me?
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Shitty. Don't gamble, don't join gangs, don't get high. Stick with your own race and you should be fine. Prison rape does happen but keep your nose down and you should be fine. There are so many gays and trannys in the corrections system at this point in time peoples needs are met mutually without rape. Buy a tv and headphones on your commissary and try to become a trustee to make your time go by faster. How did you get 20 years and what state will you be serving time in, OP?
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>>18229650
What'd you do? I just got out last year, was in for assault and battery.
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>>18229680
Attempted murder but I didn't do anything. It's mostly a misunderstanding
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I dont know what to do. Please help me 2017-04-16 09:51:25 Post No.18229585
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I dont know what to do. Please help me
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Holy shit /adv/ I REALLY need your help please.
The thing is I have this ex gf. We ended up the relationship months ago but we still had sex and send pictures to each other. She wasnt my girlfriend anymore but she became one of my best friends.
Now for whatever reason she got her cellphone taken away by their parents and they found out everything we used to do. They are gonna talk to my parents about it and I will never be able to talk to her again or see her.
I really dont know what to do. I'm really sad about all this. We both are over 18 btw
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Bump
Sorry for the english. The truth is I'm really nervous and I need help
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>>18229585
You'll be able to see her man. Your 18 and they can controll her for long. Its not like your in middleschool. I doubt your parents will care you had sex. They just want you to be safe
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dude wtf lol
you're both over 18 lol
who cares what your parents tell you lol
this shouldn't be an issue
Hi
I'm dating this guy who is great when everything is going well for us except for when it comes to emotions. He hates any 'negative' emotion. When I'm upset he tells me I'm making it up, I should snap out of it, and that I am a miserable person for also getting him down.
What kind of behaviour is this? Am I expecting too much from a man? Are all men like this? Will men ever be comfortable when a woman is not feeling happy around them? Should I learn how to act happy in front of him? I'm worried I'm overthinking this and also maybe that none of it matters.
What experiences do you have with emotions in your relationship? Am I overreacting? I tend to withdraw when I feel attacked, as a protective method. Is this expectation wrong?
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Sounds like he's in his early 20s
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>emotionless alpha
That's what the kids these days call "fuckboys"
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>>18229582
Well first, understand that emotions are a part of the human condition. Positive or negative.
Second, your partner shouldn't make you feel bad for feeling something. It's not like you're faking an emotion to get a rise out of him.
Lastly, as a male, I could say that he's most likely uncomfortable with "negative" emotions in his own life. Like I said earlier, your partner should help you resolve not guilt trip.