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>>18226470
Offer to pay rent to yout "mom" and keep looking for a job.

I dont believe your mom is so bad at being mom she will make you homeless even if you are trying to improve your situation.

>>18226496
You see, the thing is, she's alcoholic and wants to kick me out to be with her boyfriend (who also wants me out).

>>18226502
Friends? Other relatives?
Flipping burgers until you find better job?
Social help?
Dirt cheap motels and other shit accomodations where you can pay daily?

Jezus man dont be homeless.

What education you have? Didnt you see this situation coming before hand?

>>18226433

DO you like doing anything out of the house? Even playing Dungeons & Dragons qualifies.

Just do it.

You haven't stuck your piece of meat into another piece of meat? Big deal.

Do something that actually matters, something you can be proud of and sex/your virginity will be no biggie.

>>18226433

>how do i stop feeling terrible and unworthy for being a virgin?

by not associating value with the opportunities to have sex. im not gonna lie and say that being a virgin is some positive thing, you will likely always feel disappointed by being a virgin. however that doesn't mean it defines you. being fat is pretty gross and sad and bad. but fat people still manage to make friends and have happy lives. why? because while it is a flaw, we all have flaws, but those flaws do not define us in their entirety.

you don't need to compensate for being a virgin. you just have to be happy with whatever good you do have going on.

>how do i meet people when I can't force myself ot like sports, craft, fishing, dancing and other hobbies?

well if by 'other hobbies' you mean a select few things you simply need to find hobbies you DO enjoy. but if by 'other hobbies' you mean literally anything and everything, then you need to stop trying to victimize your self. you are not some special snowflake that hates literally everything.

>how do i feel the urge to take social initiative

you either have that urge or you dont. if you dont have that urge, or no extenuating circumstances pushing you to do it, then why do you WANT that urge? to want the urge is inherently contradictory.

Not at all really. If you want a quick and informative video on how it is actually a whole lot more shaky than you might think look up John Oliver's video on recreational marajuana. Personally I don't like alot of the stuff he does but that video was actually really informative.

But if you want a quick overview:

While state can't do anything, its still illegal in the federal level. So if the feds want, they can go in raw into your booty hole if they like.

It isn't, you piece of shit. Get a real job.

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>>18226434
Growing cannabis is more time consuming and education based then you think.

OP, I've been growing for 6 years, if you want a job doing it, it isnt what you know but who you know, so no, it's not viable. And it's like i said above it's harder then you may expect. I grow my own and i can't even get a job for any collective. If you want to grow and save money like i do then do it, just don't expect big paychecks and expect years of research on cannabis to better help your growing experience.
Some outdoor cookies and cream from exotic genetics.

You have two options:

1.) You contact her
2.) You don't

Let's say you decide not to contact her, then what? You spend the rest of your life wondering "what if". "What if I just went for it."

But let's say you go with option 1. You contact her and it goes great. You win, she wins.

But let's say you contact her, and it doesn't go well. Well guess what? You're at the same point you would be if you went with option 2.

So what do you have to lose?

If you want something in life, go in get it. You want to possibly get with this woman? Then go get her. But don't expect life to hand you things.

Also, when you contact her make your intentions obvious. Don't be creepy about it, but explicitly make it known that you're looking for a date

>>18226337
Bla bla bla bla.

Ask her on a date. To dinner, cinema, park whatever. Use the bumble or facebook. It doesnt matter, try both to be sure the message gets through.

DATE THE BITCH and stop overthinking problems. ASK HER ON DATE!

A better question is how do I deal with the pain? I did not enjoy being a cuckoo like some of you will say but there was also nothing I could do. It was like she forgot who I was. I don't know anything anymore except that I'm a faggot as a result of this. I hate myself so much.

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>>18226384
>I did not enjoy being a cuckoo

>>18226397
If I ever find you in the streets faggot I will slit your throat Mark my words

>>18226307

Get diagnosed by a proffesional.

>>18226307
You get them diagnosed, chucklehead.

I saw a therapist for a year and she said she thought I have Aspergers. But she told me not to focus on a diagnosis and instead focus on ways to accomplish my goals.

>>18226295

Partners don't make you worthy.

Now, how do you solve whatever it is that prevents you from getting a BF? Well, try to see things from the guy's perspective. See what you do that might turn them off.

It's not just about appearance, as you've identified.

Try to do things for other people, and enjoy the act. Don't expect anything in return, just be a nice person.

If you're rude to people that aren't being rude first, that's also a major turn off most of the time.

But it's all going to depend on the person. Also if you think a guy has to come up to you or initiate the whole interaction, that's another aspect of yourself you should work on.

>>18226295
Post:
Face pic, body pic, your online dating account
age
weigth
height
education level
job
extrovert / introvert
number of sex partners
any dating experience
what do you do at free time
any unussual characteristic like being vegan, tattoed pierced, not wanting kids etc anything you differ from norm
and what have you done so far to attract boys.

And we will tell you how shit you are and hopefully what to improve.

Dick "friend". My bro has passed up chances with 10's because another friend has mentioned their interest in that girl, even when they have NO chance at all to ever do anything with them. That's a friend. Plenty of fish out there. Bro's before ho's, always.

>>18226274
Mmhm, i feel like shit. Its like heart break and friend fucking me over. Tbh i think they were a better match than me and her could ever be but still, this feeling. Fuck

>>18226274
Like they fucked with me in the same room, it hurts so much. Would it be bad of me to cut all ties with both (both really close friends)

Happy Birthday OP. Leave these people behind you and find a new friend/friends. Easier said than done tho

>>18226216

you go make new / more friends.

Happy? Birthday. Lol

You can consider expanding your social circle but make it small enough tho to not allow undeserving people in it. Cringeworthy it is but that's just how people live. You will need to gather friends to survive. And, find a partner. He/she will make a huge difference.

Happy birthday, friend.

You can not.

you don't.

introvert means you recharge with alone time. extrovert means you recharge with people time.

most people aren't actually one or the other, but rather somewhere in the middle, which means both are actually required.

think of it like massage. feels great at first right? but if that massage lasts too long it stops feeling good. keep going and it will start to even hurt. that is how virtually everything works.

people go out and have fun but after being out too long they need alone time. and then after being alone too long they need to go out again.

some people lean more towards one than the other, someone who claims to be introverted seems to need more alone time than those who say they are extroverted.

one funny pattern however is a lot of people claiming they are introverted, but miserable. the irony is they aren't introverted. they are just extroverts who are living an introverted life style. the best way to fix this is to go out and talk to people, be out going, forge relationships, etc.

I KENNAT. U CANNOT. There's no way you can separate yourself from introversion when it has become part of you since you were just some sperm hopelessly swimming for dear life. It's not a lifestyle, it's an immutable state of being.

Break up immediately.

>>18226123

Maybe he is getting bored in bed. You say "simple, raw sex", I don't know if you mean "starfish position".

>>18226132
i'd need to know your reasoning behind this because i think it's a bit of an overreaction

Buy a cock sheath? Not as great for you, but it'd make him happier if he wants something big.

power play has very little to do with physical features.

he want's YOU to fuck his ass, not tyrone.

>>18226129
I'll look into this, thanks.
>>18226135
That makes sense but I don't think I can actually fuck his ass is the issue.

>>18226109
I use Google keep for uni. They have the option to add drawings in a note. Another feature is categorizing notes by using a #. Go paperless my dude.

>these are bad notes

I should probably just drop out.

>>18226109
that looks fine

>>18226108
>Would it be better to just get a normal GF and maybe have her cut her hair?

At first I thought you were just autistic. Now I can tell this is bait. Good job, really, you had me going for a while.

>>18226108
>college
Most people go to college to study, not to secure long life partner to marry. Normies advice here would be
>finish your degree no matter what
>fuck girls left and right until you find wife material
>start thinking about serious relationships after you have nice good paying job

And you want to be normie right?

And making girl to cut her hair sounds like big deal, but if she will really love you, she will even grow penis for you if neccesarry.

>>18226120
>And making girl to cut her hair sounds like big deal, but if she will really love you, she will even grow penis for you if neccesarry.

If you love her, you shouldn't need to ask, though. You should love her even if she doesn't wear the hair you want.

>>18226094
so your "buddy" is a fucking retard that manages to get scammend by a "druggie fuck" and now you are crying like a little bitch about it on 4chan ?

>>18226117

Precisely, do you have suggestions or are you just here to shitpost?