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I don't know what to do anymore.
I think I'm going insane.
Today, laying in my bed at around 2am, I asked my sister where my new Nike headband was last seen. She has previously cleaned our shared bedroom, a few days prior, and I had not seen it since then. I'm going to a physical training at 9am, and I had suddenly remembered I needed it. I simply asked her where it was. She immediately became defensive, claimed she had not seen it, dealt with it, handled it, nothing of the nature. I knew she wasn't telling the truth because she cleaned and organized our shared bedroom, so I became highly irrational. I flipped the room upside down, so to speak, tearing things up, messing her things up, ruining her bookshelf, you get the idea? Anyway, she then started crying, and made our father wake up. When he assessed the situation, I could see his disappointment and shame he has for me. I guess to finish the tale, I ended up going to the garage and low and behold, after around 15 minutes of searching, I found it. Brand new, in it's packaging.
I guess the question I have for anyone out there is... Did I overreact?
Clearly, she lied. There is no misplacing here, or else she could've admitted it. It isn't trash day until Thursday, so she could've assumed it was still in the trash.
I'm so confused. Am I insane? I feel like my reaction to situations aren't normal. I tend to become wild. I don't know what's wrong with me. I have no genuine friendships. I am highly u likable. I have come to that conclusion. I hate being this way, it is as if I can never be a regular, average human being, I'm actually crazy or something.
I have many other flaws too. What's the point in going on this way. I'm so close to losing my shit and really doing something irrational.
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>She has previously cleaned our shared bedroom
>shared bedroom
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>>18390727
My sister and I are 18.
We share a bedroom. I'm a girl.
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>>18390705
Yes, you are overeacting. Even if you were right (I don't know), you could just use another hairband, or nothing, and discuss it later.
If you have a problem with your sister, consider speaking with her and with your parents, maybe change room.
>TL;DR act if you were a responsible adult.
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How feasible is it to cram for a math test 3 weeks ahead of it so I can get a decent score? I'm pretty decent at math but I'm nearly positive if I don't study I'll get fucked. Have you ever succeeded in math tests after cramming? This is a fairly big exam but has to do with placement instead of one specific class. I'm wanting to get at least up to speed so I can place well into Calculus and then study on my own over summer. Possible at all?
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Is this highschool pre calc?
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>>18390660
No it's for college placement testing for math class to take
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It sounds like it's as simple as: you'd better damn well have to try. What's the alternative, really?
If you have aptitude for math then with the right amount of time dedicated to each component to fill any holes in your understanding, it should be possible but I frankly don't think you should expect (or deserve) to land in the top tier or whatever.
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Last week, exactly two weeks after graduating from college, I found out I'm pregnant. 8 weeks to be exact. The father is a friend of mine whom I've had an on/off relationship with for some time. It honestly came as a shock, as I was on the pill and we used condoms. We're guessing a condom might've broke.
Anyway, we've been discussing our options ever since and for that reason haven't really told anyone. However, he's said that he'll support whatever decision I make. The thing is, he recently admitted that he would not mind keeping it.
We're both graduate students, but as a veteran, he has a much steadier income than I do, has his own place and car, and so forth. He's suggested having me move in or at least share custody. And it all sounds good in theory, but I know that's not reality. Our relationship is hardly one and I don't want to throw a kid into the mix. Plus, I don't want him to resent me for depending on him. I don't want to depend on him to begin with. So I'm strongly considering terminating the pregnancy.
I just feel weird that all of a sudden he wants to be a parent, when he's never really shown interest in being a boyfriend. I don't want to fool myself into thinking this'll magically make him stay. But it does feel nice to have him show responsibility and renewed affection towards me. I feel like this pregnancy, whether I keep it or not, is going to change things between us and I'm not sure how to handle that.
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He doesn't mind keeping it because it doesn't affect his future that much. But yours - you're going to have to put off starting your career for at least a few years, assuming you ever end up starting it. You also don't seem to be able to see a future with him, which means you're essentially going to have to raise this child on your own. Raising a child is hard enough with two parents, let alone one. It's also going to affect your future when it comes to dating and settling down when you're ready.
All in all, I would recommend a termination. It's easy for him to sit there and say he doesn't mind either way, but you need to secure YOUR future.
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>>18390619
I don't know it's a tough situation. On the positive side, the father has shown several green flags that he's not going to run from the responsibility. This really is a tough situation, you're gonna have to think hard about what you really want and what you think is right.
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>>18390619
I just wanted to say that abortion is not an easy thing to live with. I had one because my life was unstable at the time and there is seldom a day that goes by where I do not feel bad about it. Any time a abortion debate comes up I think to myself " I can't believe I did that" and I'm going to think that the rest of my life. Look up pictures of abortions at different weeks of fetal life and see if you're ok with it. I am pregnant again currently around 7 months and honestly it's not that bad, I should of went for adoption the first time around. You might not regret an abortion like I do but I just wanted to tell you that abortions are not easy on your body physically and they can wreck you emotionally.
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I'm a 35 year old man with a good job and good chances of further career advancement.
I really want to settle down and start thinking about a family but all women around my age seem to fit one of the following
A) Career minded, strictly no kids women
B) "Oh shit my clock is coming up, gotta settle down NOW" women
I feel like I fucked up because now I'm too old to really get somebody I just connect with and want to grow old with.
Am I just doomed to be alone?
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If you don't want either of those women, what DO you want?
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>>18390470
Just fire up ok cupid and date 25 girls as anybody else.
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The only question is, how's the sex?
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I need advice on a high school sweetheart.
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I'm having an unbelievably hard time with a girl. Now before I start. I want to say that I'm 18 and a junior in high school. Throughout my entire high school experience I've been almost entirely drama free. I think teen drama is the most insignificant, retarded thing on the face of the planet. Yet I'm stuck in the middle of this drama with this girl and it means the world to me. Now to keep a long story short, around two years ago I met a girl in my Chorus class. She's a beautiful, funny, redhead who drives me crazy with love. Now one of my good friends of six years and her were close and had a quick romantic moment sophomore year. Nothing big, they almost kissed in a stairwell and that's it. Afterwards said friend hated her guts. Every time I'd mention her name, the words "Fat Ginger Cunt" would utter out of his lips. Now for the next two years, Chelsea and I hit it off. We were incredibly close, I'm a bit of a shut in, so this was the closest I've ever been with anyone. We would FaceTime until 5am, and talk about problems and laugh and cry. For almost a year straight. But the last year of our friendship. I wanted to take our relationship a step further. She told me she liked me, and all was good. But she never wanted to commit. And I would talk about it and she would shut down and say "I'm sorry" over and over again and then She would cry about My friend, and talk about missing him. And then we wouldn't talk for a while and we'd go back to normal. Soon after one episode, she told me she didn't like me anymore. Which crushed me.
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But things changed when we started to hang out more in person. We would hang out at my house, and watch movies, and cuddle. And laugh, and she'd lay across my legs or lay her head on my lap. Sometimes Afterwards she'd send me a cheeky sexy picture of her, which meant the world to me. Then We went to go see a play together, and she couldn't keep her hands off me. I had my arm around her in our chairs, and she would lean in and look up at me intently. And afterwards when we were talking to the cast, she was constantly grabbing my arm to put around her. Now I went home and my head was in the clouds. I was the happiest I think I've ever been. And then the next day she said she said she was sorry, and she was just nervous and clingy, and that it didn't mean anything. And that she doesnt like me, and she only sent me the sexy photos to "cheer me up". Now that made me crazy. Everything she would say to me would contradict each other. She would make excuses and lie, and be so bipolar with her statements that I never knew what was real and what was her trying to cover her ass. Nothing was set in stone. I'm in love with this woman and she's toying with me. Now this continued to happen for a couple months before I finally told her I couldn't handle it anymore. And we stopped talking. Recently I got in a fight with said friend from earlier, and we also stopped talking, for a completely different reason. And the girl went out and said it was her fault, which I yelled at her for.
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And then it escalated to her finally telling me we're never going to happen, that no more excuses, and that it's "Not in the cards". But continued to tell me she used to like me, and make even more excuses for he way she acted. Which again, is not set in stone because of her constant changing mind. Which she admitted later in the texts. Now I was sad at first for two days. Crying my eyes out. And then I got angry. Real angry. And told her that we're done talking, for good. And now I don't know what to do. Apparently her and my friend are talking again, which is bullshit, because for two years he didn't nothing but insult her but I digress. I love her, but I feel as if she is hung up on this stupid puppy love she had in sophomore year. And she's hung up on herself. I don't know whether to wait around for her to come to her senses or just completely abandon her. Which will be hard, because just thinking of her with anyone else makes me sick to my stomach. And she says she cares about me, yet does all of these awful things. I'm going to be uploading the texts between us, everything blacked out is personal information and names.
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Just realized I said her name in the post. Her name is Chelsea.
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Why does this board exist? What is there here that makes this any different from r/Relationships or other such cancer?
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>>18390464
it was interesting/better quality before le reddit immigrants to 4chan in general. you can blame /pol/ and /b/ for the redditors.
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>>18390464
Why do you exist ? Why don't you die of cancer ?
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>>18390472
I've visited this place on and off for 3 years and it's never been any better than this. Just the same 3 problems being "solved" by the same 3 normies who are only here for the ego boost.
No one here has any interesting problems, no one here wants to solve things in the most roundabout ways, it's just the same fucking high schoolers every fucking day.
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GUIDELINES:
Before you post a question, check the FAQ to see if it's already been answered.
Keep questions short for more answers.
If you're not going to like honest answers, don't ask your question.
And please no derailing arguments.
FAQ:
>Do girls/guys like <insert specific look>?
>What do girls/guys think about <an insecurity including, but not limited to: looks, physical traits, personality traits, virginity or otherwise lack of dating experience>
There is no one answer. Preferences differ, but complexes are always a turn-off.
>I'm shy and afraid of people/rejection. What do I do?
Get over it by practising and exposing yourself to it, little by little, step by step. There is no single magical moment that will instantly change you forever.
>I like someone. What do I do?
>How can I tell if someone likes me?
Ask them out.
>Where do I meet girls/guys?
Anywhere outside. Or online.
>Someone did something insignificant. What does it mean?
Nothing significant. You're overthinking it.
>XYZ happened. Interpret this for me please
We're not in their head, we don't know.
>This person did something that hurt my feelings. Why do guys/girls do this?
Because shit people are shit people. It's not a gendered thing.
>Someone has made it super clear they're no longer interested in me. Do I still have a chance?
No.
>Where do I go on a first (or subsequent) date?
Pick one or more of the following: coffee, lunch, dinner, drinks, ice cream, movies, zoo, aquarium, museum, art gallery, <activity in your city>.
>Brandon, that guy who keeps asking about cuddling in platonic friendships, fart guy and the guy who stuffs his pants
Fuck off
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I've been dating a this girl for a while. She's a natural redhead, born in may, with a like for the color green and emeralds.
That said, think she'd like something like this? I have absolutely no sense for style.
http://www.ross-simons.com/products/881417.html
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>>18390195
We don't know her, and we don't know what she likes. Ask her friends is your best bet
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Do you girls actually find fapping hot? Girl send me lots of sexy stuff and wanted something back. I didn't want to but after the 4th pic and some vids I just felt bad about not sending anything back and went ahead. Asked her what she wanted to see too and things got going from there and now she has vids of me masturbating.
She just kept asking for more and send me even more shit and said she was wet after it, never really thought they would enjoy something like that. I mean I don't really see the appeal of my body or my dick.
Is she just weird? It depends?
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I met my perfect woman. Shes artistic, super into video games, can discuss any topic, loves old action and sci fi movies, is just awesome to talk with.
The only problem is I found out that she is SUPER anti trump. She doesn't cry about it, but often insults him, and talks about how moronic republicans and conservatives are for getting him in the white house, and compares him to George W Bush (who I didn't think was a bad president, but according to her, was one of the worst in history.) How do I red pill her?
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Ok it with her bull first.
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>I met my perfect woman she has all these superficial traits I think matter in a girl and shares none of the core values I hold
Not your perfect woman. You're doing the same thing a girl who wanted an architect 6'5 boyfriend who ran marathons and rescued puppies is. Looking for a fantasy you've built up in your head that translate to reality.
Find someone who shares your values and is awesome to talk to/can discuss any topic and has good chemistry with you. Those are the three parts of a relationship that matter and that won't easily change over the years, even though hobbies can and do easily change and you'll always be introducing one another to new ones.
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1/10
Very poor bait.
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my boyfriend is going to thailand next week and im afraid he's going to cheat on me
am i being reasonable
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>>18390130
but theres so many hookers
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>>18390118
What kind of guys is he going with? Peer pressure from the boys and alcohol can make even the best guys do something they regret.
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Anons in college, do you work? What are your jobs?
Do you think its hard to work part-time while being a full-time student?
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>>18390027
full time
get it otu of the way
if you are just starting take 1st year prerequisites in the summer.
don't work unless you have to (but don't slack off cause you're not working), unless you find a job where you can spend 50%+ of your time reading
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>>18390032
I dont have to work. My dad tells me not to because he doesnt want me to be so busy I drop out.
But I want to save up some money desu, and all the comfy jobs are taken. I was thinking of working Friday-Sunday as a dishwasher for $9 an hour.
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>>18390027
Unless you are pursuing a degree in the hard sciences GET A FUCKING JOB because your degree will not be worth shit. Welcome to Taco Bell I've been replaced by a kiosk.
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How many drier sheets am I supposed to put into a sploof?
I'm using a water bottle and I don't want to put in too many that it doesn't go through but not enough so that it doesn't work.
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What.
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>>18389898
lightly ball them up and shove them in. I recommend a toilet paper tube instead of a water bottle as a water bottle is big.
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>>18389905
but how many??
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So I was raised Christian by my parents and never gave a second thought about it.. except I thought about it(god) almost constantly from age 4-21(now). Transitioning from terror to mild/constant stress; I had come to accept this god I feared and learned to love him, after all if there is a god I better make friends with him. It became real and I REALLY loved him. He was real to me. He was the only one I could trust and that could truly love me for me. Recently after spending months weeping in prayer for help to no avail, I did some research on the origins of Christianity and..well idk wtf to believe yet(have a shit-ton of more reading to do) but I'm no longer a Christian. I've been crying everyday for over a month now and I cried for a straight day (morning to night, at work, taking a shit, all day.) after initial discovery. I feel as though the one I loved more than anyone else has died, but not only that, he was a figment of my imagination. Imagine waking up and your closest loved one was only a very deep, complex dream. How tf do I get over this/find what I really believe for myself/move forward?
Tl;dr
Found out my god doesn't exist. Can't stop crying. What do.
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>>18389857
Your God may not exist, but that doesn't mean a God doesn't exist. Personally, I don't believe so but being alone and unloved in this universe is overrated so I can see the appeal of God.
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>>18389857
Get into deism or panentheism. Learn modern cosmology. Understand the word "eternal". And spend time developing relationships with actual people instead of imaginary friends.
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>>18389857
organized religion is wrong
god might be real or even gods
but man made god is wrong
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Going to a barber tomorrow. What is a casual haircut I can ask for? I always ever just shave my own head with a 1 guard
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look at some magazines or youtube celebrities and see if you like any of the hairstyles they've got. you can bring a picture or show it to the barber on your smartphone and they'll recreate it.
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>>18389813
get an undercut and style it to the side that you prefer
your hairline would match it pretty well
also, always use wax, never use hair gel
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>>18389952
this
>always use wax, never use hair gel
tea tree styling wax by paul mitchell. good shit. doesn't make your hair like, completely gross to touch if you use it right.
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I can't figure out what to do, fucking help please.
>Date bf LDR for 9 months
>We have our issues but meh
>Move in with him
>9 months pass
>We got along quite well
>He is a little too sensitive, has had abuse in his past, takes shit too hard
>Thinks I am the enemy
>I am not perfect, I fuck things up sometimes too
>Any fight we get into turns pretty nasty quick
>A huge shit was caused over me wanting some space
>Lost a lot of feelings for him
>Break up
>He coaxes me into giving him another chance
>Not sure what to do
This is going to be somewhat long
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cont.
>I think whatever, I don't hate him
>It's not easy for me to give up on people
>I slowly get used to being in a relationship with him again
>Initially put off, kiss him more, but no sex drive
>I do not feel sexual towards him
>He treats me VERY NICELY when we're not fighting
>When we are, he has a victim complex, to an extent
>He blames me for some shit, but when he calms down, he says it's not my fault
>Contradicts himself a good bit
>I really care about him and his well being and do love him to an extent
>Just not as much as I did before
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>>18389735
cont.
>Meanwhile, on the job front
>I semi-land job as dealer at local casino (I need to improve on some stuff)
>Can't drive yet (no license), but I have before so getting it wouldn't be an issue
>He is a caretaker for his disabled mom and stepdad
>He can't drive, his joints are fucked, the only work he does is taking care of some stuff at home
>I don't blame him for it
>Casino job would make me lots of money
>Still don't know if I really want to stay with him
>It would hurt if I left, fear of the unknown
>I am pretty indecisive by nature
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>>18389739
cont.
>Fortunately, my dad is willing to help me out financially
>I could technically move if I wanted to
>Friend few states away is an internet friend I've had for 3 years
>He shares many common interests with me
>No, this is not what you think it is
>I would not date him, he has a gf
>He offered to let me move in with him
>I wouldn't make as much money there, but his flat is cheap as fuck and I could definitely survive just fine
>Really like the idea of a friend who shares all my common interests
>Still not sure what to do about bf
>Extremely conflicting feelings
There's more to this, but I'm not sure what else to provide.
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I have the chance to lose my virginity tomorrow with a girl I've known for a few weeks and who i like. Should I go through with it or should I wait until its someone really special?
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Go for it, then when it's someone special you'll be less nervous and it'll be better
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id go through with it.
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Do you want to have sex with her? If so then do it, if not then don't.
There is no point in waiting for some arbitrarily 'special' person. Either you want to do it with her or you don't. And if you want to do it with her and if she wants to do it with you, she's special enough.