Why some men act like they're really into someone and then when asked if they like/interested in that person they said no/denied.
What's the actual fuck?
>>18389676
Self preservation
>>18389676
perhaps you think friendliness is hitting on you?
>>18389676
Survivalism
Why does this guy start conversations and then die for hours?
Should I reply to this now or do I want to remain a petty bitch?
I have a guy friend that almost never responds to my texts until 1 am or days later. It's really knowing when they're active. But tell him to respond quicker.
>>18389591
idk I'm shit at responding to texts. if I'm working on my car no one is getting ahold of me. if i'm doing paperwork I'm in the zone, if I'm at the gym I'm busy, if I'm driving I have to shift. there's a lot of times I just won't get on my phone. that said, I try and make time for it with priority people.
>>18389591
Sometimes I leave my phone somewhere on purpose so I don't have to deal with people calling or texting me.
But considering he texted you first, fuck it, hell if I know?
Okay first off I'm not a /pol/tard by any means, and I have always been liberal/progressive.
So almost everyday someone I'm friends with on Facebook posts or shares something racist towards whites.
Usually its sort of hidden, like they will show richard spencer and say, "this is the white perspective".
Other times its blatant anti-white racism.
When I comment telling them "thats actually racist" or "Is it okay to generalize and degrade whites?" I get called a goddamn racist or a white supremacist.
I wouldn't be mad if this were just a select few but I get fucking dogpiled whenever I point out casual racism toward white people.
I am almost at the conclusion that richard spencer is actually right. I have been watching his videos (since my friends share them to show how "evil" he is) and I kinda resonate with him. Where have I gone wrong? Has /pol/ actually been right all along?
>>18389511
Perfect example of modern reactionary politics and how the left is fucking EVERYTHING UP. Unfriend then desu and keep standing up against racism.
>>18389511
Get racist back, explicitly at the people who've systematically encouraged this within the media, the education system and the law.
It's time to name to Jews.
Watch how the biggest proponents of identity politics recoil when their own identity is ever mentioned.
Take Jews down a peg, stop people listening to them, that is how we take back our culture,
>>18389518
this
>>18389528
not this
I have crippling anxiety, which has led to me being miserable and depressed.
Is there any way out? Therapy didn't work. Is my life predestined to be miserable and uneventful because I have anxiety disorder?
>>18389467
Take a fuckload of picamilon, mebicar, GABA, ashwagandha, gotu kola, zembrin, lithium orotate, or some combination of the preceding.
Avoid phenibut and benzos as they are all addictive and have horrible withdrawal symptoms. The stuff above is not and does not.
Look into sites like moodgym that help with anxiety and balance in general. Meditate. Take naps if it suits your schedule. Listen to some kind of relaxing music if it helps.
Rates of anxiety and depression in the population as a whole keep increasing, so it's partly just the economy and society being shittier on average with more isolation and less stability, but you can take action to compensate to some extent.
>>18390048
And don't take SSRIs they can cause permanent damage. But certain tricyclics like tianeptine are pretty safe -- you can buy tianeptine online like the other stuff I mentioned -- sulfate lasts longer, sodium kicks in faster, not much dependence risk either.
Once you're feeling stable or when you feel ready, reach out to old acquaintances and hang out or chat a bit more often. Social activity with trusted friends helps stabilize mood.
>>18390054
Also I really like the image you posted. Thanks-- saved.
what are some covert ways to find out if a guy is gay?
>>18389369
why do you want to find out?
Just ask him if he's gay desu
>>18389369
if someone was gay you'd know it.
>>18389396
this
Is masturbation unhealthy? I'm getting much better at social interactions, my awkwardness is fading away, and my confidence is increasing. So I feel like within the next few months I'll finally start having sex again. However in the mean time, I've been ridiculously horny. I don't beat myself up over masturbating, but I'm worried about how healthy it is. I don't want to be a limp dick. Also, I hear stories about how woman can sense weakness in men who jerk off and find it repulsive.
>>18389366
don't do it too much. Once every 2 weeks is fine
Physiologically speaking masturbation is 100% identical to sex to the male reproductive system. If masturbating too much was unhealthy then so would be having sex too much. It's not.
masturbation is completely healthy
certain methods are healthier than others. you can desensitize yourself by being rough or by being circumcised. you can also do some things with your mind by watching very specific porn or very extreme porn.
it's all pretty easy to undo. most of sexual gratification is mental, so even a person who masturbates roughly to videos of beheadings or something can recondition themselves to have proper sex in under a year
poster above seems to have the idea that sexual release is unhealthy, that or they have some misunderstanding of what masturbation is
Is there a chance for a girl that wanted to visit your hometown but also in order to see you to be interested in you or 0/10
>>18389343
yea gettinh some progessional help would be nice
I feel like I'm missing something here. a girl wanted to come see you from somewhere else, presumably far away, and you think that means there's a 0/10 chance she's interested in you?
How do I fit in with normies (USA)?
buy a fidget spinner and make some dank memes.. duh.. fucking noob
>>18389306
why would you want to
And if you already have a fidget spinner and vape put them together and make a fidget vape
Am I the only girl who finds guys disgusting, who watch a lot of porn and have a fucking shit ton of porn on their computer? My boyfriend is like this and besides feeling intimidated by all the girls he likes watching, i just think its disgusting. Am i wrong or is this normal?
i cannot tell him and make him change he is not the guy who really likes working on himself and also i would want to.
>>18389141
You are not are not the only one. That doesn't make you right, but you aren't alone.
>>18389141
>Am i wrong or is this normal?
No, this is normal. In truth, any interest in sexual things outside of your relationship is considered a betrayal of sorts as this external entity becomes a part of the relationship.
>i cannot tell him and make him change he is not the guy who really likes working on himself
This relationship is not going to end well if he is not open to compromise and growing with you.
I am one of these guys (or used to be).
I think that you gotta understand it's out of habit/boredom more than anything else.
Anyone who stoped smoking weed?
Just turned 22 y/o, started smoking 2 years earlier, generaly good life with nice job and even better friends.
Everything started with one bong a week. Now im hiting it 2-3 times a day. I need to slow down before i become a pothead. Any advice? How much can i smoke yet not turn my brain into mashed potatoes.
>>18388581
As soon as you feel yourself becoming slow, it's over. DO NOT GET TO THAT POINT, QUIT NOW!
>>18388581
You smoke less. You don't sit down and smoke it all up. You take a hit and go to work
>>18388585
>As soon as you feel yourself becoming slow, it's over
Weed isnt like meth or something dude. If you completely stop smoking your brain will be back to normal in weeks.
So I don't have a receding hairline but I constantly shed a shit ton amount of hair all around and the thickness of my hair has gradually gone a bit down.
I also have a case of extreme dandruff and I constantly scratch it off due to the itching that takes place. I read an article that stated regular and aggressive scratching of scalp to take of dandruff can indirectly lead to hairfall.
>My question is IF I TREAT MY DANDRUFF SOMEHOW, CAN I GROW ALL MY HAIR BACK?
Please answer!
How about quit fucking with your dandruff?
What helps me with dandruff is avoid eating refined sugar and white flour as much as possible and exercising regularly.
Where is it thinning the most?
How do I organize all this bullshit?
>>18388446
Fire.
>>18388446
get some garbage bags to put all the trash in, then get yourself some boxes from the ikea to sort everything in.
pic related, these kind of boxes. Any memebrand will do the job desu.
take it off the shelves
throw out the garbage
put it back on the shelves in some sort of logical order using categories
you know what the deal is and what to do with this thread.
Any time I try talking to anyone I have this crippling fear in the back of my mind like "What if they hate me? What if I'm creeping them out?"
I feel like I want or need that constant validation or reassurance that I'm not a horrible person but wanting this makes me feel like a horrible person especially because I can't expect anyone to do this for me. I whole heartedly acknowledge what I HAVE to do and I have to be able to stand on my own but... I'm weak. I can't.
It's hard for me to just try and talk to people and then expect nothing. I'm always going to be wanting "maybe we'll be friends! maybe they'll like me or want to talk to me!" then thinking "or maybe they'll hate me, maybe i'm expecting too much". I have such a horrid self image, my self-hatred is incredibly high, and my confidence is being shot lower and lower each day. Part of me wants to give up on socializing and become a recluse, then another part of me doesn't want that and will be bitter at seeing people around me actually maintain and strengthen their friendships or even get into relationships.
I don't know. I guess I just want people to like me even if I don't like myself in the slightest, but I can't expect anything from anyone. If people don't like me then... I acknowledge that this is just a fact of life. But I want people to like me. But... and then I get stuck in this terribly vicious cycle.
okay you know what the deal is say it it and say it here on my thread
I'm getting blackmailed from Omegle. Person claims they'll send some stuff to family/friends on Facebook so i Acted like I paid out but immediately stopped the charge and deactivated all social media/told people that my accounts are hacked and are sending phishing links
Am I fucked? Ride out the storm? Anyone else had this happen? Ill probably do something awrful to myself if anything' happebs
Roommate thinks he's getting back at me by rubbing my toothbrush on his balls.
What chemical can I buy at a Home Depot/Wal-Mart that would make his balls itch.
and if you're wondering how it started, he overheard me talking about safe space kids playing call of duty and got pretty pissed because he's one of them.
Your saliva. That'll teach him.
>>18388002
A couple years back when I was staying at my uni's dorms, this dumb ass roommate I had would do the same shit. So, you wanna know what I did?
I went to one of this spy shops and bought a small camera and recorded him. Posted pics of it all over campus, put the video online on fb for everyone to see, sent it to his parents fb, and I even left pictures of it in the classrooms and in random books at the library. You could clearly tell in the pic who it was, as well as what he was doing.
Dude would get so much attention everywhere he would go. "Hey toothbrush!" Or my favorite, "You brush your balls today Mitch? Do you brush them with colgate or crest?"
He eventually left the very next semester, but man did I enjoy every bit of it.
Instead of buying something that'll fuck with his balls, why not try and go for a home run OP? Try and fuck with his life instead.
>fap to gay stuff
>get infatuated and spend hours looking for material
>cum
>get disgusted with self, delete, purge and reembrace masculinity
>see gay trap pic few days later and it begins again
HOW DO I END IT? I DONT LIKE PENISES!
>>18387111
>I DONT LIKE PENISES!
Obviously you do.
>>18387111
Just accept your cock cravings.
This may sound really retarded, but what I'm gonna say is 100% true.
I discovered my gay tendencies through porn. I thought that I'm a bottom and I jerked off to gay/trap porn everyday.
At one point I decided to finally do something about it and downloaded Grindr.
I met up with some guy, drank a little bit of wine, smoked weed and had sex. Sucking a dick isn't as pleasant as it seems. It's not pleasant at all. And when he sucked my dick I didn't know if I even have a boner. He enjoyed it throughout the whole experience and came while I wasn't even close to it.
It wasn't pleasant, but I don't regret it.
Don't feel a need to jerk off to traps/gay shit since then.