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Why are you not pressing charges for the assault?

>>18396035
Because it was on school property and there's no evidence. I believe that would be a school issue.

>>18396037
it doesn't matter what property you're on, assault is assault. if someone got raped on the school property do you think it's a school issue?

>>18395815


Do the senses make sense?

>>18395815
We all love sluts but don't want to marry one.

Why doesn't it make sense to you?
It's like how you might enjoy punching someone, but you wouldn't enjoy being punched.

In what context did she give you her number? That's a pretty big detail.

>>18395740

We've had a few very in depth conversations about life and such. A few days ago we were talking and it turns out we often frequent the same park for jogging/walking/relaxing and she mentioned she would have to lookout for me the next time I'm there. Today she just slipped me her number right after her shift and smiled. Maybe she just wants to be friends/hangout? I don't really care either way honestly she is a very nice person I would be open to just being friends as well. Our age is difference is 11 years (I'm 23 she's 34).

>>18395763
Don't be a fucking dweeb, dude, lol. A woman like that isn't going to give you her number like that unless she wants you to romance her on some level at the least.

I should probably add that after the first time we tried and that happened, I'm even more scared and nervous and severely insecure and it makes it worse.

We're going to try again in a few days, and short of having to get a Viagra script or some bullshit, what can I do? Surely I'm not the only person going through this?

>>18395713
Hello old man. I find it hard you werent able to google the solution, but here you are:

>1. Chill out.
You have to destress yourself. Cuddle her, close eyes, think of nothing, lay in bed with her for a while while doing foreplay things like feeling up her boobs. In a while you will realize you are laying in bed with sexy female and should get hard.

>2. Backup plan
Even if you are flaccid, you can massage her, spank her, eat her out, finger her. Basically you have so many other options to make her cum besides your dick. This should allow you to relax more as in 1.

>3. Stop fapping and looking at porn.
Fapping lowers your want and libido. You want to be horny with her. It helps.

Porn desentizes your brain and asociates orgasm with your hand. It can make you unable to cum without your hand stimulation or without seeing degenerate porn.
https://yourbrainonporn.com/

>4. Boost your cardiovascular system
Do cardio. Swimming, running, walking. Dont be fat and you will have boners to your 60ties.

>5. Boost your testosterone
Basically hit gym, read /fit/ do some bodyweight excercises to keep some muscles on.

>6. Kegel excercises
It increases blood flow to your dick and works on people way older than you with cardio.
http://www.healthline.com/health/erectile-dysfunction/exercises

If you do all step at once, you should eventually solve your problems. Even if your dick fails, dont be embarrased and whip that pussy anyway. Dont leave lady unsatisfied.

Good luck!

>>18395843
Thanks m8, I appreciate that. And I am also googling articles, but there are so many angles to it, and I really want to solve this without drugs that I want to explore everyone's ideas on it. I've just been alone so long it's literally something that just came up so I didn't even know I would have trouble. I do blame porn a lot. Porn was my sex life for the past like 12 years. Daily masturbation, so I think, man I'll fuck like a stallion, and I can't even get my fucking dick inside her. It would have shattered all my self-esteem except she was super nice about it.

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>not trading crypto
I made $6 this month. With 4k initial investment.

>>18395669
fuck I meant $6k ree

Op I really recommend checking out a temp agency. They're usually really fast.

>>18395675
You didn't make anything until you cash out. Until then it's all play money.

Yeah I don't feel bad for you at all

>>18395548
>high-testosterone strong man

Haha ur a faget

>>18395548
Sell boy pussy. Post pic maybe I buy

>>18395516
How do you feel about casual sex?
Does she feel the same way you do?
What bothers you? What do you feel?

>>18395516
She needs to be fucked a little first so is giving you a blessing. After a while when she gets the hang of riding that d she will move along. It's totally cool hoes are good to have around and get my dick wet

>>18395516
grow some balls dude, so what they had sex once? be glad you're with the girl now.
He's just helping you out man, you guys are friends after all

>>18395491
Are you serious?
Yeah it's called breakup!!! Don't see or talk to her anymore!!!!!

stop the drinking, put the brakes on it hard. talk to your girlfriend about it. communication is key in the relationship, talk about whats making her mad and how it makes you feel.

Talk to her about needing some space or something.

Then never talk to her again.

Find new friends, hobbies and girls. Godspeed, anon!

>>18395475
euro women are tall, especially slavic girls, or some brits

>>18395475
Where can I find tall men . Quit asking stupid ass shit

>>18395475
They're pretty easy to spot, dude.

Go watch female sport events.

>>18395436
TL;DR Is it possible to get back with her?
She kept watching me during the party after I broke it to her

I know that feel. Dated this amazing artist girl. Incredibly smitten. She seemed just as interested. Ghosted me in a prickish way that reveals she's an asshole (stood me up, went radio silent, but still used a picture of me for her artwork on Instagram afterward, using my face for likes while simultaneously not acknowledging my existence), and I now hate/love her and can't get over that. And I feel that I will never meet anybody as interesting as her.

Not much you can do. I would say "get over her and realize there are 3.5 billion women in the world," but doing that is not a matter of force of will. Me telling you to do that won't do shit for you. You've just got to wait it out and let shit happens and the pain you currently feel in your chest will very gradually subside. There is no cure but time, my friend.

>>18395436
How pretentious do you have to be to call a girl your muse? What works of art have you produced? Forget about her and produce more.

>>18395417
I'm sorry for your loss, anon.

What did you usually do with him? What were his hobbies?

We usuallywoumd smoke some cigars and watch a movie or work on some cars, and thank you

>>18395417
Take the man some flowers maybe clean his grave. Hit the highway for a while to clear your mind

>>18395354
They don't want to go to McDonald's to eat ok so quit inviting them to loser shit. Try doing baller shit and see all them bitches reply . Like a concert maybe a concert out of town where you gotta get a room at. Maybe boat party. Nobody likes a cheap jerk

>>18395354
Because they're waiting to see if they can get a better offer from somebody else.
Next time they pull that shit, text them and say, I just won a $1,000 dollars in the lottery, wanna go shopping? When they respond in 3 seconds tell them you just wanted to see if their phone worked and to fuck off.

>>18395359
I tend to take girls to thinks like shows, art galleries, wine tastings, etc. If I've been on a few dates with her already and we're jiving well, we might start doing things that are more comfy (like fro-yo or something; one girl had us go to a board-game cafe, and then we practiced street photography because we both expressed an interest in learning to to 35mm film).

This particular date is an "Adults-Only Night" at the Science Centre. Lots of cool shit there, and they serve drinks.

Only time I've ever taken a girl to fast food is when she specifically asked to go there. And it wasn't McDonald's, it was a local burger joint.

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>>18395319
>Like i'm legit at a loss here men, why do men do this?
>Like i'm legit at a loss here men, why does my tactless degenerate excuse of a boyfriend do this?
FTFY

>>18395319
When guys do this its more than likely hes trying to spark some jealousy, he wants to see you get possessive of him essentially. Its fucking stupid but I think that's it.

>>18395319
There are 2 kinds of people, the kind that talk about how attractive they find others in front of their SO and those that don't because they find it rude. Decide if your okay with or not and then talk to him about it

>>18395254
I usually tell people to get a hooker. Try secretly giving her some Molly pills in her food. If that doesn't work just leave her. Make up sex is some great sex.

I can kind of relate, anon.

Although it isn't as bad as your situation (we're at once a week now, plus he's amazing in bed), it's awful when you don't get the sexual gratification you desire. It makes you feel undesirable and creates resentment between you and your partner.

Since you brought it up, has she made any attempt to improve the situation? Has sex always been an issue?

I think if this has been ongoing for a while, you may just need to accept that she's just doesn't have a sex drive. If things have changed and your sex life has gotten worse, you need to work out what the problem is, and what is causing her to lose interest.

You sound like you're doing everything right. Perhaps you're TOO good? Maybe she feels like she doesn't have to make the effort anymore, because you're giving her the perfect experience and all the reassurance she needs. She essentially has validation in every single way, including you begging her for sex.

Maybe start backing down with the grand gestures and let her chase you for a while. I'm sure you wouldn't struggle to attract other women if you wanted to - perhaps she needs to be reminded of this so she appreciates you more?

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>>18395284She last told me she needs emotional security in order to feel comfortable. She lost that security somewhere along the way and will need time to build it back. Problem is I don't have that patience, I'm hitting the gym every day and fighting people and shooting once a week, my testosterone and aggression is way the fuck up, I actually 'cant' wait for her to feel comfortable again.

I'm either going to freeze her out and cut off all affection, or just drop her. I told her if things don't change this week I'm done, and it looks like we're not having sex this week.

>>18395204
Fuck him. You don't even have to enjoy it.

>>18395310
I'm with this guy. Try to bill cosby him

>>18395204
U good faggot, cum in his food and record it, then sent the clips to him when he goes back home