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What is /adv/'s actual, honest to goodness attitude on suicide?
I know it's a meme around here to say "haha kys fag" but how many of you actually have such a casual/apathetic attitude toward it? Alternatively, if you're against suicide, what is your main argument against it?
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>>18393543
suicide is simply death its just the form is more obvious sometimes and sometimes its not
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imo people who are suicidial are not in their right mind. most people who survived their suicide attempts are glad they did.
but a lot of people on /adv/ who are suicidal are the worst type of people to deal with so I just make fun of 'em
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Anyone incapable of seeing the immense value and unlimited potential of one's own life is unworthy of it. We also have an overpopulation problem. So, apathy.
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Why the FUCK is it illegal to consent to euthanasia almost everywhere in the world, but it's legal and morally right to euthanize other animals? Why don't we have the right to choose, as human beings, to have a peaceful death? Why is it selfish to commit suicide, or be suicidal in any way? I want to fucking die but I don't want to traumatize whoever finds my body/my family and it'd be nice to have a relatively painful death, a happy end to a miserable road.
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>>18393533
The short answer is:
A mixture of religious culture and money. Government can't make money off of you if you're dead. And deeply-rooted religious beliefs cover any moral argument against it.
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>>18393539
Fuck this shitty planet
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>>18393533
cause you are going to die anyway why try something that's defined to happen its like plucking an unripened apple or something just live it out dude death is already defined don't worry if you feel suicidal or not you will die just be patient
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Guys,
How do you deal with your partner turning you down for sex?
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>>18393531
describe scenario
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>mfw I think I found another virgin girl
The problem is she doesn't feel lonely and might not want to date. Wat do?
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What's a good outlet for anger? I've had anger issues since my adolescence and into my teens. I never really figured out how to deal with it I just suppressed it. I'm 21 now and recently due to a family emergency and personal crap pilling up at them same time they've popped up again. Now I'm getting incredibly irritated at the slightest inconvenience to the point where I just want to break shit. All I do is suppress it and just watch youtube videos or something until I calm down a bit but that doesn't help.
tl;dr: What's a good outlet for anger issues
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>>18393511
first stop being a bitch and have guts to deal with who you are if you are an angry violent man live like one until your last day
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>>18393515
That's a quick way to end up in behind bars or in the grave
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get a trampoline and listen to limp bizkit
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How do you find purpose?
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help people
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>>18393459
you ain't find the purpose you a dumb sheep the purpose come says you are mine dawg and no one else's
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>>18393473
autistic as MLP version of JB
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I need a guy's perspective
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I'm currently in the very early stages of dating two guys who are both really confusing me.
The first guy I've been talking to for months now. We had a great first two dates with lots of chemistry and then all the sudden he seemed to have tons of excuses on why he couldn't see me. First he had to go see his family in another state, then his sister got in a car accident and he had to take care of her for a week. Then I was gone for a week with my family and when I came back we planned to spend the weekend together. Well then he had to go see his family again and was gone for another week. Then I was gone for a weekend in another state and when I came back he had suddenly flown out to the keys. Right after he came back from they keys he supposedly got in a car accident himself and now he says it'll be a month before his car is repaired. Tomorrow I'm planning on seeing what happens if I ask to pick him up.
I'm not an idiot and I know what you guys are thinking, but he swears up and down he really likes me and that he can't wait to see me again and that he felt something special with me...blah blah blah. I've ignored him multiple times thinking he was just messing around, but he always continues to text me.
The next guy I started seeing because I gave up on the previous guy. This guy I've also now gone out on two dates with and he says he wants to see me again, but he hasn't tried to kiss me or even hug me. He seems super bored on our dates and doesn't text me through the day. It seems like he struggles to even come up with things to say so I wind up having to lead the conversation. I really don't understand why he acts this way if he likes me.
I'm just feeling really confused and need a guy's opinion on what's going on here. I feel stupid because I have a few other guys who want to go out with me, but I'm holding off to see if either of these two go anywhere.
Should I just give up on them both?
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drop those losers and find yourself a real man, guuuurrrll!
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>like a guy
>he enters a turbulent time in his life and probably has a family emergency
>even gets in a life threatening accident
>continues to assure you that he likes you but he's just going through some hard times
>instead of waiting for literally just a couple of weeks go out and fuck another dude because the first one "bored you"
>the other dude isn't even into you
How about you stop being a whore and actually communicate with the first dude?
Fucking roasties
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>>18393440
Okay, calm down. I'm not fucking either of them. I literally just said I haven't even gotten a hug from the second guy.
First guy, this has been going on for months as I stated...three months to be exact. I think when you've had two dates in three months and the person just always mysteriously vanishes when you're available to see him, that usually says something.
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Is there any point in trying to get help for mental health issues instead of putting all your focus on trying to hide your symptons when all mental health care does is put all their focus on trying to hide your symptons?
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I can't think of a sufficiently neat and painless method of suicide that my mom wouldn't find out about, so I'm currently trying to look up methods to give myself some terminal illness.
At the time AIDS seems easiest and the most likely, but that's going to mean sex with strangers which I do not want to do.
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>>18393428
I don't know why you would want to give yourself aids that's a terrible way to die. If you could elaborate what exact kind of mental illness are you being "treated" for?
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>>18393458
Well I was supposed to be treated for the depression but currently 100% of the focus is on keeping me from drinking.
So I'm visiting the clinic to take an antabuse twice per week.
I drink despite of the antabuse and vaguely hope that it's going to give me an organ shut down or something.
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Any advice on how to get my wife to do anal? She is really opposed to any anal play but I've whittled her down for the past few years.
I've gone from nothing to touching, rimming, and now light fingering.
FWIW my wife is "negotiable" - she likes to trade sex for things. Any ideas on what it would take for the final prize?
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>>18393355
I tried anal once and only once and it was awful, but if my boyfriend let me peg him I'd let him fuck my pooper in a heartbeat
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I don't understand why anal is so popular. I've never fucked a girl in her ass, don't really have a desire to do so. way I see it, there's a perfectly good vagina right there. it's warm, and soft, and wet, and made for my dick, we can make babies with it, and when we're done I don't have shit on my dick. also, during the whole process we don't have shit smell goin on. I've heard that's the worst part. like i really don't get it.
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>>18393377
>dem dubs
Can sort of confirm. My sister did anal, and she said when it was over a mixture of lube and shit oozed out of her butthole and it was pretty smelly. Also she did an enema beforehand
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Anyone else fear affection and intimacy?
I'm 27, successful, and loyal person. Lots of people come to me and ask for advice, im easy to talk to, and I get along with girls great (platonically). But... I fear intimacy. I really stress over the thought of a girl thinking of me sexually and wanting to be lewd with me. Even if a girl has me on her mind a lot it bothers me. I've had 1 ONS several years ago (my only sex experience) and it was fucking awful. I regret it a lot.
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To answer the main question no it is not weird at all. I don't want to hurt any feelings and I don't want my feelings hurt, so if we just stay friends that's cool.
However if one of my girl friends (see the space?) Comes up to me and says that she has me on her mind a lot I will inquire about it. If she says shit like "your lips kissing me etc etc" I would see if she has been drinking. Dont want my friend telling me this if she aint sober. If she is sober then I will make it very clear to her that it's going to be a one-night thing and that she can feel my lips all over her. Have to make that clear and we will still be friends and no "enhanced relationship experiences" comes from me putting my dick in her.
However if it a friend I'm interested in I could possibly see myself being a significant other to her, then I will be happy that she thinks the same way. Only then I will pursue more of a relationship (aka "enhance relationship experience").
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>>18393311
There has been a few girls that I've been interested in, that have shown interest in me as well which freaked me out and I've cut contact. As soon as they would start saying intimate things about me, it'd scare me and I told them it had to stop, even tho I liked them. That's happened several times.
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>>18393289
Sad
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tl;dr How to last longer in bed?
Me and gf finally lost our virginity to each other and I am not lasting as much as I would like to, wat do?
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>>18393262
Addendum: Tried masturbating before sex, doesn't help, I just feel more sore and come as fast as usual. I take breaks sometimes, like every 30 secs but that is just kinda meh.
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>>18393262
try edging
go as long as you can without cumming
pull out, make out
change positions
restart
repeat
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>>18393275
I take some pauses to regain my senses and then go again.
Idk, she's really much hotter than I ever expected to get, maybe it's that.
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I suspect that my girlfriend is cheating on me with someone at work.
It's always been in the back of mind since we started dating and she got this new job. Maybe I am paranoid, but until recently, it's actually been bothering and I got into a fight with her about it recently.
The reason I think she's doing something is the fact that:
She works very late, and is usually the only one there in the store.
There aren't any cameras in the backroom of her workplace. I know because she took me to her work once when I dropped off. It's small boutique in the mall.
She works with two guys, one is gay and the other is straight.
The other day I picked her up and noticed a little detail about her lipstick, and it started a fight. I asked her why the bottom part of her lip was without any lipstick and she told me she was biting her lip all day. I thought it was a bullshit answer and asked her why it doesn't look like that when we are out together. It basically caused a big fight and I don't know what to think.
The only reason I think she would do something to me behind my back is because she's accused me of cheating before as well, which I have not, so it makes me think she's hiding something.
Anyone have experience with this?
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>>18393094
Try to talk her about but don't get emotional, let her get angry and talk keep it cool and you probally will hear some trues.
When she's accused you from cheating she was too picky? How that go?
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>>18393113
No. She just outright told me she knows i slept with another girl while she was at work and it was my day off. Usually, when it's my day off, I'm at home waiting for her to get off work. But she went through my phone, computer and everything trying to find evidence of me cheating. There's nothing I have to hide. I told her I never did anything to her but she doesn't even care, she just says "she knows".
I'd say when we aren't fighting, we are a normal couple, we compliment each other, go out and talk about things with great interest. It's just little, but seemingly major things like this that drive both of us mad.
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>>18393094
Not sure what your financial situation is but you can hire a private investigator.
Another thing to do is if you have access to her phone bill, look at the usage details and see who's she is calling and texting. When people have affairs, they just don't talk at work.
However, it does sound like you are somewhat paranoid. With both of you accusing the other of affairs, it sounds like trust is a big issue. This is not a good thing and something you two need to get worked out.
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>Be me 23/F
I've known this guy for three years, long distance. We met on some group on facebook and became best friends messaging stupid jokes and memes to each other. We text daily and sometimes do video chats and have a lot in common. I got a crush on him about two years ago. I told him how I felt and that I wanted to move our relationship to a bf/gf stage and he flat out said no.
Every six months we have the same conversation, eventually I had a nervous breakdown because I felt so rejected. I have bipolar disorder so I tend to blow things out of proportion. He knows I had a nervous breakdown and tried to kill myself (other things were going on) but doesn't know I was upset over him telling me to go join a dating site.
>Fast Forward to now
He's moving close to where I live and I have a great job now. We want to meet to go see a concert but my biggest fear is being rejected. He likes women, just not me.
>If I don't meet him I'll regret it and go crazy.
>If I meet him and he rejects me I'll probably kill myself.
What should I do.
>TL;DR Femanon gets friendzoned and wants to know if she should kill herself.
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>>18393089
have some drunks
get alone, cup his balls, make out with him...
either he goes for it you is balls deep in your mouth... don't make a big deal about it or he might freak out the next day...
do it again, then you go from friends to FWB, if you want a relationship after that... not a big step
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If he's not into you then you need to accept that. There is no "I'll just be his friend and eventually he'll come around and we'll be lovers." That way lies madness.
I agree with his advice that you should check out a dating site. It's almost disrespectful of you to hang on your crush when he's willing to have a productive friendship with you.
Everyone needs love, and your need is not being satisfied. There are plenty of wonderful guys out there, so get looking. I'm willing to bet that if you go out and get a boyfriend and get some love and affection, your friendship with this guy will be much closer and happier.
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>>18393133
Do not do this. It is rapey, or at the very best it's manipulative and scummy. The decisions a person makes while drunk are not the decisions they will make while sober. If you don't like being rejected, imagine how you will feel when he wakes up, freaks out because he doesn't want this, and blocks you from all aspects of his life indefinitely.
Even if it "succeeds" and you end up FWB, you will go mad waiting on him to invest in you as emotionally as he has sexually.
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Hello, as the title reads I've got 2 sexual problems, 2nd one worse than the first by a landslide:
1. I feel like I have erectile dysfunction (for a few years now, never cared until a few days ago) as I get no reaction from pictures of hot women or vanilla porn videos or *anything* that doesn't include my terrible fetish in it.
2. I have a cucking/interracial/etc (that whole mess) fetish and I hate it so much. As early as I remember having this fetish, I hated it back then and tried a bit to stop it, and even asked a friend for help and tried porn blockers but gave up slowly and started not caring at all later on, until recently in late March with the whole Erica Moen Cuck comic (http://knowyourmeme.com/memes/oh-joy-sex-toys-cuck-comic) and reading the reactions and comments I felt severely depressed (as in daily anxiety from the second I regain consciousness to the moment I fall asleep) along with eating far less to the point my parents noticed my weight loss, and I just felt like this fetish is abysmal and that I can't possibly live with it and want it out of my life.
I've turned 18 recently and have been masturbating for as far as 12-13 years old, frequency I'm not sure of but recently it's been 1 a day, 1 every 2 days, rarely more. I've also had like a fuckton of other fetishes that grew and left me, including but not at all limited to: furries, ponies, bestiality, incest, corruption, public groping, clothed girls, feminine dudes, hijabis and arab women, incest... Now all those fetishes are "gone", as in they don't work for me anymore unless the cucking theme is present in the video/picture/artwork. I can't remember either when this thing just took over my brain, but I think in the beginning of 2017, and now it's almost exclusively the only thing I get off to anymore. And I hate it. Bad.
I've heard people say that fetishes are either ways for you to cope with your past trauma as a kid OR that it's just my overexposure to porn.
Any help? thank you in advance.
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>>18393077
Why is it so bad? Why do you judge yourself so negatively? Everybody's got their weird thing. I've got a thing for bestiality porn. I don't beat myself up about it because I can't help it, it's just what gets me going.
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>>18393077
Obviously you need to quit watching porn
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You are desensitized anon. You don't have to stop masturbating just try to cut it down your consumption of porn.
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How do I date a vegan?
The girl I'm interested in is strictly organic and vegan only. She's even rather straightedge and won't have a single drink.
I like meat and I have having a beer or whisky every so often. I cooked her some vegan curry which ended up actually pretty tasty.
How can I show her and convince her that I respect and support her lifestyle when I don't want to share it? I don't want to have to hide my meat-eating and social drinking. Are relationships like this doomed to fail?
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>>18393067
>how do I date a vegan?
by putting your cars on the table and making reasonable compromises.
date night might mean going to HER restaurant and never yours for instance, however its unreasonable for you to NEVER eat meat at home.
it might be wise to start sharing SOME vegan meals at home, not just like vegan curry, but perhaps some meat substitutes so you can still enjoy meals together at home, but again it shouldnt mean losing ALL of your meats and other assorted foods.
put your cards on the table and say what you said here, and if she can't handle that, then there is no magical loophole that'll fix it.
good luck
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>>18393067
Just be respectful about your diet and drinking and don't rub it in her face. If she's not one of the cultist vegans she won't care. I'm a vegan and I've dated a lot of omni girls and it's never been an issue.
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>>18393075
Thanks for the advice. I don't mind going to some trouble for her because I think she's really special.
>>18393086
Do you find it disrespectful when someone who knows you're vegan eats meat in front of you? Would you accept a hypothetical girlfriend who has a carnivore night every week, with or without you?
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I'm terrified of people hating me, and because of this I allow people to treat me badly and make my opinions for me and I'm just very over trying to chameleon my way in to approval just to avoid arguing about whos opinion/way of thinking is better. i keep changing myself so that when i talk to someone they will "like me better" or at least hate me less. for example if someone hates the type of music I like, I'll convince mtself that I like their favorite type of music too. it's not even on purpose or manipulative, I just fear rejection so hard. i wanna be happy and not fear judgement like it's my ultimate death. what do?
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>>18393050
You need to take a step back and learn that nobody is perfect, there's always going to be people that hate you. don't change yourself just to make someone 'like' you better, in the end its fake and not genuine.
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>>18393050
stop caring. just state your own opinions and do what you want (without directly hurting others) and see how you enjoy that.
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>>18393050
Rejection is a part of life, I say be authentic and fuck it if someone doesn't like you. At the end of the day, do you want to just be a relection of other people's desires?